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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
"Love doesn't defy logic, it actually makes perfect sense when you think about it. If someone makes you feel like no one else can, logically, the response should be that you act different towards them than everyone else. Because it's out of your norm, people may perceive it as crazy when in reality the crazy thing would be to treat them exactly the same as you treat everyone else."
I agree in the cases that the love b/w 2 people is healthy :-)
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Feb 11, 2010Comments: 252 · Posts: 38715 · Topics: 473
I act the same way with close friends and with my partner. If I'm going by a specific part in that quote..then I love all of them. Time to apply for an Aqua Venus I guess.
You can't spot the difference between a close friend and the person I'm with when we're out..maybe you can pick up on the vibe/chemistry between us but even then it's hard. I am warm and friendly with everyone so if someone needs the extra oompf to feel special when we're in a group..they probably won't get it. It's not because I don't lavish affection/attention but it's all in the setting/environment.
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Feb 11, 2010Comments: 252 · Posts: 38715 · Topics: 473
It's funny because I have different groups of friends who barely cross each other's path. So if I come with a guy, they assume it's a friend from another social circle.
One year down the line..
Me: "I went to the amusement park with my boyfriend"
Friends: "What boyfriend?"
Me: "The one I keep bringing with us?"
Friends: "You're together?"
lol