Do u have the guts to show yourself?
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by formersalomeea on Friday, December 3, 2010 and has 2 replies.
Why aren??t you by my side when I need u? Who needs men?
The woman is demanding the man hits the road.
She says: he never stands by me when I need him??_he is short of feelings??_all that matters to him is to be sexually, food wise and job wise satisfied. How could I choose such a man? ??_and why can??t I let go? ??_we were supposed to be a nice couple ??_I need to show him that he is unmannered and rude ??_I??m running around the tail in my desire-waiting-frustration quest. I had enough! I asked him in my life, now I feel tortured by the man who was supposed to save me from my solitude. I don??t know anymore how to live with him??_I don??t know how to live without him ??_
This is the common picture??_
What u should do? ??_well ??_don??t forget about yourself while trying to heal/pamper your SO ??_u should dance with him, not step on each other foot.
If u r acting against your free will, sooner or later u will make your SO pay for your choices.
It happened already? Well ??_this is bad??_
What??s your mission in a relationship?
In the beginning u imagine a lot of stuff about love??_but in time??_u realize he is not the ONE??_what to do? ??_ u stay or move on?
Both of u see life in your own way??_u come with a personal history which influenced your personality and your way of thinking??_ u almost don??t know who u are compared to who u suppose to be for your SO.
R u the slave of your own past? ??_ u see your past in your present? ??_your love stories starts and ends the same? ??_how does your love story sounds like?
Does it sounds like this: I??m mad about men??_not trustworthy??_they dump u when u don??t expect??_they r superficial, over criticizing and denying love??_where and how can I find a real man?
Have u ever asked yourself why r these men attracted to you? In a relationship u get what u give. What do u thing about u?
What will happen if u will change perspective? Your partner is helping u to see things u r not willing to admit about yourself. U r short of self esteem? Shallow? Superficial? Critical? Scared to be abandoned? ??_again, what u get from your relationship is what u give ??_u r what u think but ppl. In your life see only what u show.
R u ready to see inside u?
???Maybe the dragon in our life is the Prince waiting for us to act in beauty and brave at least once. Maybe any dreadful think/human in his deepest essence, is helpless and needs our love?? ??_(Rilke??_from my memory??_maybe not accurate bu
The woman is demanding the man hits the road.
She says: he never stands by me when I need him??_he is short of feelings??_all that matters to him is to be sexually, food wise and job wise satisfied. How could I choose such a man? ??_and why can??t I let go? ??_we were supposed to be a nice couple ??_I need to show him that he is unmannered and rude ??_I??m running around the tail in my desire-waiting-frustration quest. I had enough! I asked him in my life, now I feel tortured by the man who was supposed to save me from my solitude. I don??t know anymore how to live with him??_I don??t know how to live without him ??_
This is the common picture??_
What u should do? ??_well ??_don??t forget about yourself while trying to heal/pamper your SO ??_u should dance with him, not step on each other foot.
If u r acting against your free will, sooner or later u will make your SO pay for your choices.
It happened already? Well ??_this is bad??_
What??s your mission in a relationship?
In the beginning u imagine a lot of stuff about love??_but in time??_u realize he is not the ONE??_what to do? ??_ u stay or move on?
Both of u see life in your own way??_u come with a personal history which influenced your personality and your way of thinking??_ u almost don??t know who u are compared to who u suppose to be for your SO.
R u the slave of your own past? ??_ u see your past in your present? ??_your love stories starts and ends the same? ??_how does your love story sounds like?
Does it sounds like this: I??m mad about men??_not trustworthy??_they dump u when u don??t expect??_they r superficial, over criticizing and denying love??_where and how can I find a real man?
Have u ever asked yourself why r these men attracted to you? In a relationship u get what u give. What do u thing about u?
What will happen if u will change perspective? Your partner is helping u to see things u r not willing to admit about yourself. U r short of self esteem? Shallow? Superficial? Critical? Scared to be abandoned? ??_again, what u get from your relationship is what u give ??_u r what u think but ppl. In your life see only what u show.
R u ready to see inside u?
???Maybe the dragon in our life is the Prince waiting for us to act in beauty and brave at least once. Maybe any dreadful think/human in his deepest essence, is helpless and needs our love?? ??_(Rilke??_from my memory??_maybe not accurate bu
TY PB!
I just quoted from my memories...yeah...now sounds better...but the issue is still there... do you women show yourself? ...why r we always protecting them by giving up on us? ...why r we always Mother Mary? ...maybe bcoz we r mothers ...genetically...it's in our blood to pamper, spoil and take care of men...but who's gonna take care of us, of our souls?
I just quoted from my memories...yeah...now sounds better...but the issue is still there... do you women show yourself? ...why r we always protecting them by giving up on us? ...why r we always Mother Mary? ...maybe bcoz we r mothers ...genetically...it's in our blood to pamper, spoil and take care of men...but who's gonna take care of us, of our souls?
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