Do you think I still have a chance?

Me and my ex just broke up few days ago after 7 months of being together after a small arguement. He needed space but I thought he just didn’t want me anymore after not hearing him for nearly a week. So I contacted him and call it quits and he agreed. After I mentioned I think it’s best to not continue because I want serious and he’s not ready, he agreed and said he treasure our time together and it was a great relationship. He told me he still want to be friends. We just met up today, he met me during his lunch break and I talked to him that I’m regretting the choice I made and told him I thought about wanting to start over but make it slow. He told me it’s too quick and I am too pushy and quick that we needed time apart and see how it goes. He told me we can continue to be friends now and see how it goes in the future. He mentioned “maybe we’re just not meant to be because we’re so different. I can’t give you the need you want but we can see how it goes” so I cried then we have lunch. Talked normally and when we part, he walked so close to me like he wanted to grab me but didn’t then when we are parting, because he needed to go back to work and I needed to go somewhere else. He took me by surprised because he hugged me like never before, so much emotions filled me afterwards. While hugging he told me not to cry because we will still see each other and it is not over yet then we smiled and he went for his bus.

Do you think I will have the chance to be with him again ?

Try sleeping with him to test the waters.

Posted by tiziani
What was the need he couldn't give you? Don't say sex.

Not sex. He meant attention because he’s always busy. due to work, he’s a lawyer and professor for a university and we don’t have enough time together

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Posted by tiziani
What was the need he couldn't give you? Don't say sex.

Not sex. He meant attention because he’s always busy. due to work, he’s a lawyer and professor for a university and we don’t have enough time together

The whole thing sounds cold and without passion.

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That’s what my Friend said... I feel like throughout the whole relationship, it’s just me putting in all the effort and feeling. I was told he probably was just with me because I gave him the attention he needed... until when I try to get close to his friends and family. That’s when we fought and he didn’t talk to me for many days after that and that’s when things got really awful. My Friend said he probably never has loved me. Just someone who he can spend time with because he was alone and someone he can sleep with and i’m Always there. I am feeling very lost......

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Posted by tiziani
What was the need he couldn't give you? Don't say sex.

Not sex. He meant attention because he’s always busy. due to work, he’s a lawyer and professor for a university and we don’t have enough time together

The whole thing sounds cold and without passion.

That’s what my Friend said... I feel like throughout the whole relationship, it’s just me putting in all the effort and feeling. I was told he probably was just with me because I gave him the attention he needed... until when I try to get close to his friends and family. That’s when we fought and he didn’t talk to me for many days after that and that’s when things got really awful. My Friend said he probably never has loved me. Just someone who he can spend time with because he was alone and someone he can sleep with and i’m Always there. I am feeling very lost......

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He’s running game.

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Posted by tiziani
What was the need he couldn't give you? Don't say sex.

Not sex. He meant attention because he’s always busy. due to work, he’s a lawyer and professor for a university and we don’t have enough time together

The whole thing sounds cold and without passion.

That’s what my Friend said... I feel like throughout the whole relationship, it’s just me putting in all the effort and feeling. I was told he probably was just with me because I gave him the attention he needed... until when I try to get close to his friends and family. That’s when we fought and he didn’t talk to me for many days after that and that’s when things got really awful. My Friend said he probably never has loved me. Just someone who he can spend time with because he was alone and someone he can sleep with and i’m Always there. I am feeling very lost......

I would ask what you're attracted to in that. Figuring out how he feels/thinks is a dead end.

He's made it clear he's not willing to give you what you need, yet you regret losing something.

confront what that is and you have your answers.

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I guess it’s just I couldn’t accept the fact that this is happening. Because just weeks ago we were very happy. Everything was romantic. We even went to Indonesia for Christmas and during New Years, he told me things that were good. Lovely texts from him and just a snap, things were different. But you’re Right

Posted by Harukka
He is an aries and you're cancer? If I'm not wrong?

Yes. You are correct