dudes and biatches

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by wheelhomies on Friday, April 10, 2009 and has 22 replies.
in your experience, will a guy stay with a girl even though she treats him like crap if she's pretty enough?
Yes...I have been told this by several guy friends.
They said, "a guy will go through a lot of shit as long as they have something pretty to wake up to".
Just goes to show you how shallow they really are!
Posted by wheelhomies
in your experience, will a guy stay with a girl even though she treats him like crap if she's pretty enough?



YES! That really gets on my nerves!
A few years ago, I really liked this guy (pisces guy I think) but he was really liked this virgo woman. She treated him so bad. I was like, "Dude, what gives?"
I thought he was so sweet and such an idoit at the same time.
Treat them mean keep them keen!
Works both ways, normally seen with men to women but it does happen the other way around.
Not if he is secure.
I don't drive the car treehuggers tell me I should, the government wants me to buy, my peers expect me to own, or women think I look good in.
I drive the car I want, period.
In the same tone, I'm not with a female for someone else to judge me by.
If I am with you it is because, I am mentally, emotionally, mystically, mysteriously,and sexually drawn to you.
wtf??? looks like i'm having a lot of trouble using the quote feature for some reason................
Posted by cappysweetie

YES! That really gets on my nerves!
A few years ago, I really liked this guy (pisces guy I think) but he was really liked this virgo woman. She treated him so bad. I was like, "Dude, what gives?"
I thought he was so sweet and such an idoit at the same time.


it was actually something a pisces guy said that prompted me to start this thread.
sweethearts, it seems to me that a big chunk of women will stay with someone who is a d-bag even if they're not cute. i think that comes down to a fear of being alone, rather than appearance being the primary factor.
Pisces guy sounds about right.

Most guys come back for more if you treat them like shit I've found.
I have seen this before w/ some guys and girl and I cant do anything but shake my head. Treat me bad, disrespectful, etc, that girl is gonna find her a $ $ single again.
People who generally play the "treat them mean keep them keen" game are usually insecure in my opinion anyway. Straightforward, honest individuals do not need to play any games to keep a person. Intellect and honesty usually does that for them.
I have seen that you can only play "treat them mean keep them keen" if you are actually really good looking and some some status and the person you are treating mean won't mind being treated that way by you because their life has such little meaning, you have their shallow friend's approval and you look good on the arm.
Anyone seeking outside approval of their girlfriend/boyfriend = insecure
I can totally believe a Pisces man would make that comment..if there is anyone obsessed with beauty it's Pisces..I think Stillwaters actually said it in one of his posts..."we will only date you if you are DROP DEAD PRETTY" or something to that effect..It's actually very true for most piscean men..they go through girlfriends more often than wind changes direction..
and some some status = and have some status
No, I have seen evidence of this with many a piscean men..they will look at outer beauty first and foremost..they don't actually care about your "inner workings" cos they won't stick around long enough to find out...they will love you for whoever you are and whatever you represent. Along with the thousand others that they love....No doesn't exist in their vocab..
And no I am not bitter about Pisces..lol..before anyone chimes in. I am speaking from all the pisces men I know..and my brother is one.
And you are right, I think majority of the men are like that..however in my opinion its more prominent in:
Libra
Pisces
I think it also depends on the maturity level as well..
Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder..
LMAO ^^^ Soooooo true!!!
But apparantly it's ok cos they aren't out there to harm anyone...WHAT THE **bleep** ever man!
@MM, its bad to generalize there sweetpea.
wheelihomies..
yes, yes,and yes are my final answers.
they think, but she's so HOT and ignore the *fucked up* part about her, because she's so HOT....(beauty/beast)
Posted by Dreamweaver23
@MM, its bad to generalize there sweetpea.


My generalisations are always based on the numerous people I know of that sign and by no means a true representation of the population of that particular zodiac sign on planet earth
smile
lol..
Definitely ..... I've talk to some of my son's friends, all in 23-28 age group and they told me that thier perfect woman is pretty and stupid ... like a dumb blonde.

Pretty because he gets to have this lovely woman to fuck ...... stupid because she would be too dumb to know she was being used for her looks to fuck.
sweethearts, it seems to me that a big chunk of women will stay with someone who is a d-bag even if they're not cute. i think that comes down to a fear of being alone, rather than appearance being the primary factor.

I think it comes down to being attracted to the other person (remembering beauty is in the eye of the beholder) and wanting what you cant have! (forbiddon fruit)
I also think that when people are "mean" it's because the other person isn't their exception so they aren't thinking to settle down with this one!
Posted by sweethearts

I also think that when people are "mean" it's because the other person isn't their exception so they aren't thinking to settle down with this one!



Sooo true. They are just a time pass so will be contacted when the time allows..i.e. at his/her convenience.
A guy who is interested in you, will:
a) never ignore you
b) never disrespect you
So simple really.
Posted by LibScorp2210




It just shows how stupid and shallow our societies are. This is why I don't feel bad about having a complex of superiority, neither do you missmorals Big Grin
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Also very true. Everyone nowadays is obsessed with self-image..so honesty and integrity have gone out of the window..but as long as you are true to yourself..i am sure one day you will meet someone on equal par..
Lol..no I have no issues about being an egotistical, arrogant cow if it assists in putting the stupid people in their rightful places.
smile

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