awesomeblossom
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Encouraging Boyfriend to See Other Women
I'm sure all the ladies here would agree with you ?
Posted by GetMistedYeah, I've opened the conversation. He seems tentative but not resistant to the idea.
Have you asked him if he even wants to be with other women?
Not every man is okay with that.
Posted by RedbullLol, nah, I'm actually not interested in seeing other guys. It's just hard for me to take his commitment so seriously when he hasn't really been in a relationship with other women. Getting that experience is a turn-on for me, and that's what I will "get out of it."
So I would take it you are out "doing your thing" and he is lame to the game?
Posted by DreamyboyLol, you know me. I'm an Aries sun and Pisces moon. I don't know the other deets. 😛
Dang. What's your Sun Moon Mars Venus? I need someone like you
Posted by ItsMeRomanMeh, it's less about the fucking other people and more about experiencing variety. Talking with other women. Engaging in other women's thought processes. Seeing the other types of personalities and style s out there...That DOES encourage growth.
Being with multiple people doesn't make you more wise in relationships.
Wisdom doesn't come from fucking multiple people. Your idea that he'd benefit from sleeping with other women in order to solidify his choice in you is really sad. I can't understand that mentality.
It's like claiming mangoes are your favorite fruit when you haven't even seriously tried a few other fruits. That decision that mangoes are all you'll ever need isn't based on much actual insight. It's hard to believe he's so into mangoes when he hasn't tried peaches, for example. Bleah! Lame metaphor, but I'm going with it.
Posted by tizianiNoted.
I think if you cut out all the stuff about what's best for him, and just be upfront about the turn-on part that's your best shot at it working.
He doesn't have to know my entire motivation. I'll try just focusing on it making me hot.
As a fellow Pisces mooner I'm disgusted by your idea of having an open relationship to begin with.
Like what everyone else says, your bf should run.
Like what everyone else says, your bf should run.
Posted by AerialViewThese days...
I'm sure all the ladies here would agree with you ?
I just tune in to see which avi you're using.
Posted by RindarooIt can be both, can't it? It's cool that you're feeling uptight about it. I can't teach him everything. I can only teach him what I know. I'm not every woman. It's not even about teaching him anything. It's about him going out and seeing what more life has to offer...and then him coming home and telling me the fun he had. Heh.Posted by awesomeblossomIs it hot for him to be with others or you want him to have experience? Those are two different things. You know teach him what you want. Research it.. jeez if you love him, you're putting the relationship at risk. If you just want a different type of relationship, you should pursue that. But, not with someone who is hesitant.Posted by RedbullLol, nah, I'm actually not interested in seeing other guys. It's just hard for me to take his commitment so seriously when he hasn't really been in a relationship with other women. Getting that experience is a turn-on for me, and that's what I will "get out of it."
So I would take it you are out "doing your thing" and he is lame to the game?click to expand
I can't force him to do anything. I'm opening the conversation and I am encouraging him, but it's still HIS decision. I will definitely try.
Posted by EtherealTravelerHe will if he chooses to. Luckily, he doesn't seem as scared as some of you are. ?
As a fellow Pisces mooner I'm disgusted by your idea of having an open relationship to begin with.
Like what everyone else says, your bf should run.
Posted by 8434EThat's why I don't mess with cancers; we wouldn't be dating in the first place. 😆
I would tell you to go fuck yourself and slam the door shut behind me making sure your fucking door handle is ripped off and the door is hanging from it's frame.
That's what happens when you don't commit to me leading me on and i hear that shit from you, means you doubt yourself too.
But in all seriousness, you sound insecure. I would know you were too fragile to handle such a suggestion, and I wouldn't bother.
Posted by MontgomeryLOL I promise I'll keep this one for a week Monty ?Posted by AerialViewThese days...
I'm sure all the ladies here would agree with you ?
I just tune in to see which avi you're using.
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I think is a bad idea to try to convince someone of something pretending is for his well being when is a fetish of yours. Better be upfront about it, not everyone needs to try everything to settle and there's a first time for everything.
Posted by EnochtheWiseNIIIICE! I like those!Posted by awesomeblossomtotally understand the fantasy of it; could never play either part in this scenario in reality though....give it a shot if he's into it; it may feel entirely different than what you're imagining....this doesn't even sound like voyeurism for you....you plan on watching?
The other reason is that the thought of an open-relationship is a turn on for me. I like the thought of other women being into him, of him hanging out with other women, of him possibly making out with other women. I'll be honest, I don't know how I TRULY will feel because I have never done this before, but the idea of him being with other women is just...HOTT to me.
If you get off on seeing other women attracted to your partner (totally understandable), just hang out with him in public, watch lowkey and allow him to flirt and work his charms, watch him dance with other women, etc. Should create a similar effect without having to potentially sacrifice the entire relationship by fully pimping the dude out....should be an ego boost when he turns them down after a while, and comes back over to you each time....click to expand
I have done the dancing idea - I've asked him to dance with other women when we'd go out, but he always keeps it G-rated. I tried just seeing if he'd flirt back on his own when women approach him, but he doesn't go through with it. I'm thinking he might do better if I'm not there to see.
Posted by 8434ENah, your hissy fit would be both insecure and unattractive to me. But nevermind with this unrealistic hypothetical.Posted by awesomeblossomInsecure?Posted by 8434EThat's why I don't mess with cancers; we wouldn't be dating in the first place. 😆
I would tell you to go fuck yourself and slam the door shut behind me making sure your fucking door handle is ripped off and the door is hanging from it's frame.
That's what happens when you don't commit to me leading me on and i hear that shit from you, means you doubt yourself too.
But in all seriousness, you sound insecure. I would know you were too fragile to handle such a suggestion, and I wouldn't bother.
Is it insecurity to pour real feelings into you and be devoted to you for you to say that?
Get real, yes a Cancer would destroy you.
To each their own.
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Posted by awesomeblossomYeah for some people with little morals it could mean him being able to fuck multiple girls and have love affairs without feeling guilty.Posted by EtherealTravelerHe will if he chooses to. Luckily, he doesn't seem as scared as some of you are. ?
As a fellow Pisces mooner I'm disgusted by your idea of having an open relationship to begin with.
Like what everyone else says, your bf should run.click to expand
Regardless, still disgusting.
Posted by Scorpio84IkrPosted by EtherealTraveler
As a fellow Pisces mooner I'm disgusted by your idea of having an open relationship to begin with.
Like what everyone else says, your bf should run.
Was about to say "what did i just read...?" xDclick to expand
Posted by BlackburnNope, I let him know I think it's hot. But, from now on, I will try downplaying the part of my wanting him to have more experience.
I think is a bad idea to try to convince someone of something pretending is for his well being when is a fetish of yours. Better be upfront about it, not everyone needs to try everything to settle and there's a first time for everything.
There are too many amazing women out there for him to be so focused on just one. He needs to live a little. I'll be here when he gets back.
Posted by 8434EThe ASSumption of an insecure man. I'm not interested in other men. That's irrelevant. Who hurt you?Posted by awesomeblossom"Encouraging Boyfriend to See Other Women"Posted by 8434ENah, your hissy fit would be both insecure and unattractive to me. But nevermind with this unrealistic hypothetical.Posted by awesomeblossomInsecure?Posted by 8434EThat's why I don't mess with cancers; we wouldn't be dating in the first place. 😆
I would tell you to go fuck yourself and slam the door shut behind me making sure your fucking door handle is ripped off and the door is hanging from it's frame.
That's what happens when you don't commit to me leading me on and i hear that shit from you, means you doubt yourself too.
But in all seriousness, you sound insecure. I would know you were too fragile to handle such a suggestion, and I wouldn't bother.
Is it insecurity to pour real feelings into you and be devoted to you for you to say that?
Get real, yes a Cancer would destroy you.
To each their own.
Which means you would want me to allow you to do the same, hence the reaction.. are you this ignorant?
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it will not work in the long run, maybe you should just keep it as a fantasy in your head
Posted by EtherealTravelerThen it's a good thing I wasn't offering it to you, now isn't it? 😉Posted by awesomeblossomYeah for some people with little morals it could mean him being able to fuck multiple girls and have love affairs without feeling guilty.Posted by EtherealTravelerHe will if he chooses to. Luckily, he doesn't seem as scared as some of you are. ?
As a fellow Pisces mooner I'm disgusted by your idea of having an open relationship to begin with.
Like what everyone else says, your bf should run.
Regardless, still disgusting.click to expand
Posted by awesomeblossomWhat makes you think other women are into him? I mean if he's that inexperienced he's probably quite awkward around women. I think you'd have a better chance living out that fantasy with a poon artist. You are putting unrealistic expectations on him.
The other reason is that the thought of an open-relationship is a turn on for me. I like the thought of other women being into him, of him hanging out with other women, of him possibly making out with other women. I'll be honest, I don't know how I TRULY will feel because I have never done this before, but the idea of him being with other women is just...HOTT to me.
Posted by hydorahYeah, I'm definitely aware that it might not work out, but we won't know until we try. The option to abandon the whole thing is always there, so we need to be flexible about it.
it will not work in the long run, maybe you should just keep it as a fantasy in your head
Posted by DreamyboyYou GET it!Posted by EnochtheWiseI wouldn't mind a girl like this. Let me play around a little, because I enjoy flirting. I find it fun. I wouldn't even mind turning them down if that was part of the rules because I enjoy flirting THAT much.Posted by awesomeblossomtotally understand the fantasy of it; could never play either part in this scenario in reality though....give it a shot if he's into it; it may feel entirely different than what you're imagining....this doesn't even sound like voyeurism for you....you plan on watching?
The other reason is that the thought of an open-relationship is a turn on for me. I like the thought of other women being into him, of him hanging out with other women, of him possibly making out with other women. I'll be honest, I don't know how I TRULY will feel because I have never done this before, but the idea of him being with other women is just...HOTT to me.
If you get off on seeing other women attracted to your partner (totally understandable), just hang out with him in public, watch lowkey and allow him to flirt and work his charms, watch him dance with other women, etc. Should create a similar effect without having to potentially sacrifice the entire relationship by fully pimping the dude out....should be an ego boost when he turns them down after a while, and comes back over to you each time....click to expand
Posted by RedbullYeah, it'll be interesting to see if other women will be into the idea altogether.
This is part of the reason I stay out of people's relationships. I let em be. I leave women who have someone alone. Its simply out of my pay grade to even...thats you twos business.
Posted by awesomeblossomPosted by BlackburnNope, I let him know I think it's hot. But, from now on, I will try downplaying the part of my wanting him to have more experience.
I think is a bad idea to try to convince someone of something pretending is for his well being when is a fetish of yours. Better be upfront about it, not everyone needs to try everything to settle and there's a first time for everything.
There are too many amazing women out there for him to be so focused on just one. He needs to live a little. I'll be here when he gets back.click to expand
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If you are honest there's no problem, I still think everyone is different - some people just don't like to be with many people -, but your lack of possessiveness is great.
Posted by EnochtheWiseGreat advice!!!Posted by awesomeblossomhe may not know how cool you are with it, just how much it turns you on, may just not be in his character even when single to do, etc....is he naturally flirtatious/assertive with women?Posted by EnochtheWiseNIIIICE! I like those!Posted by awesomeblossomtotally understand the fantasy of it; could never play either part in this scenario in reality though....give it a shot if he's into it; it may feel entirely different than what you're imagining....this doesn't even sound like voyeurism for you....you plan on watching?
The other reason is that the thought of an open-relationship is a turn on for me. I like the thought of other women being into him, of him hanging out with other women, of him possibly making out with other women. I'll be honest, I don't know how I TRULY will feel because I have never done this before, but the idea of him being with other women is just...HOTT to me.
If you get off on seeing other women attracted to your partner (totally understandable), just hang out with him in public, watch lowkey and allow him to flirt and work his charms, watch him dance with other women, etc. Should create a similar effect without having to potentially sacrifice the entire relationship by fully pimping the dude out....should be an ego boost when he turns them down after a while, and comes back over to you each time....
I have done the dancing idea - I've asked him to dance with other women when we'd go out, but he always keeps it G-rated. I tried just seeing if he'd flirt back on his own when women approach him, but he doesn't go through with it. I'm thinking he might do better if I'm not there to see.
key is communication....what turns you on, may be at cross purposes with what does it for him so there could be deep incompatibility there, but still there are ways to augment it.....some men really prefer and are turned on by jealous/possessive women for instance; it translates as strong desire/passion for them....if you are too laid back about it, it may seem like you don't even care.....you can strike a balance though by playing that role for him a bit when he comes back to you, if that's what he needs....questioning him about how he feels about the girl, getting a little angry/rough with him over it, maybe frisking him discreetly for evidence of arousal....lol.....I can see it being pretty fun, but the way you framed it originally, it just seems you're willing to risk losing him and, I don't know your background but, you could be crossing over into the territory of self-sabotage....click to expand
Damn, I'll admit I've been more focused on what it will do for me than for him. He's more of a "play it by ear" type of person, so I know it'll take the fun out of it for him if I try to plan the whole thing out.
When he finds a girl, it'll be interesting to see how things go. He may come home, tell me things, and then we make eye contact and burst out laughing that we even tried it. Who knows? I am willing to find out, though. I know for sure that a few encounters will definitely not be enough to end our relationship, hahaha. But your concerns are valid and I'll keep them in mind. I definitely want to keep it fun.
AND Y'ALL CALL PISCEANS SELFISH....NOT! 😡
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Eva
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by xghyI hear you. Mangoes are fantastic, but they aren't the only fruit. I no longer have to convince him that mangoes are awesome, but I want to know he's trying strawberries and watermelon, too. Then, if he's still adamant that mangoes are all he wants, then fair enough.
What if he likes other fruits?
If you're selling mangoes, you sell it like it's the best fruit that he's ever tasted.
You should let him decide on his own unless it turns you on then you have to address it differently.
Mangoes are good.
The other side is that kissing his lips and tasting oranges would be so hot.
Posted by ChrisxKodakI don't think this is a deal breaker, so I wouldn't break up with him if he wasn't into it - that would be unfair. Maybe we COULD find a compromise and he could just flirt with the waitress for me or something. We'll see how this goes.Posted by awesomeblossomHe is not our spokesmen.Posted by 8434EThat's why I don't mess with cancers; we wouldn't be dating in the first place. 😆
I would tell you to go fuck yourself and slam the door shut behind me making sure your fucking door handle is ripped off and the door is hanging from it's frame.
That's what happens when you don't commit to me leading me on and i hear that shit from you, means you doubt yourself too.
But in all seriousness, you sound insecure. I would know you were too fragile to handle such a suggestion, and I wouldn't bother.
If he's down go for it, if he's not feeling it, you might have to trade him in for a libra or piscesclick to expand
Posted by 8434EThat's coo'.
I'm being very forceful with my opinion i noticed, i am sorry i will back off, i'm tired.
But you know my opinion.
I am being an asshole here...
Posted by awesomeblossom?Posted by EtherealTravelerThen it's a good thing I wasn't offering it to you, now isn't it? 😉Posted by awesomeblossomYeah for some people with little morals it could mean him being able to fuck multiple girls and have love affairs without feeling guilty.Posted by EtherealTravelerHe will if he chooses to. Luckily, he doesn't seem as scared as some of you are. ?
As a fellow Pisces mooner I'm disgusted by your idea of having an open relationship to begin with.
Like what everyone else says, your bf should run.
Regardless, still disgusting.click to expand
Is this Lily ?
Posted by AerialViewNoo.. I'm actually enjoying the rotation.Posted by MontgomeryLOL I promise I'll keep this one for a week Monty ?Posted by AerialViewThese days...
I'm sure all the ladies here would agree with you ?
I just tune in to see which avi you're using.
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Start off with fantasies while you have sex, pretending to be someone else, or watching him watch porn while taking care of himself, or even letting him play with a webcam girl before you dive right into letting him be with a real live woman.
Often the fantasy is terrifying once it becomes a reality and you have emotions about it you didn't expect or prepare for. My ex husband thought it would be hot if he saw me making out with a girl, until he had a dream that made it feel so real and he changed his mind.
Often the fantasy is terrifying once it becomes a reality and you have emotions about it you didn't expect or prepare for. My ex husband thought it would be hot if he saw me making out with a girl, until he had a dream that made it feel so real and he changed his mind.
Posted by SmidgeSame.
The thought of that whole situation gives me anxiety.
Op you should do it.
Just don't cry wolf if fantasy doesn't stack up to reality and you end up feeling jealous and mad.
Don't be shocked either if he decides he wants to continue fucking other girls. And you DEFINATELY can't get angry at yourself for suggesting this whole thing when he falls in love with one of these other women and becomes exclusive with her. Cause you'll have thought through all these possibilities, right?
Just don't cry wolf if fantasy doesn't stack up to reality and you end up feeling jealous and mad.
Don't be shocked either if he decides he wants to continue fucking other girls. And you DEFINATELY can't get angry at yourself for suggesting this whole thing when he falls in love with one of these other women and becomes exclusive with her. Cause you'll have thought through all these possibilities, right?
Posted by seraphIndeed... I regret that I have but one point
Your reasoning's a bit off, @ItsMeRoman nailed that part, but an open relationship is an open relationship: you're doing other people. The reasoning you season it with doesn't make much difference.
Whether you can handle it, is an entirely different matter.
He might just get used to that situation and balk at the notion of exclusivity with you post-self-discovery – provided you eventually want exclusivity with him.
Will we find you back on here posting about your man troubles? You talk a big game now, but as you know the road to hell is paved with good intentions, which are often covered in a creamy layer of delusion.
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Posted by awesomeblossom
I'm thinking of encouraging my boyfriend to see other girls.
One reason is because I feel he is inexperienced in the sense that he hasn't had many relationships with other women. Sure, it's great that he wants to settle comfortably into a relationship with me, but how can he be so sure when he hasn't really BEEN in a relationship with other women?
Dating other women will help him truly figure that out whether he really does want our relationship to be "It" or whether he actually IS interested in experiencing other women.
The other reason is that the thought of an open-relationship is a turn on for me. I like the thought of other women being into him, of him hanging out with other women, of him possibly making out with other women. I'll be honest, I don't know how I TRULY will feel because I have never done this before, but the idea of him being with other women is just...HOTT to me.
How many of you have done this? What was your motivation? What did he think? Did he ever go through with it? If he did go through with it, how did things work out for the both of you and the "other woman"?
Hmmm... your Venus is... Aqua, maybe Pisces.
What's his sign?
You've been given really good advice and perspective... especially by enochthewise. As a person who enjoys the idea of my partner being desired, I will stress that people may get the impression you don't care. So, be careful of that.
Luckily for me, I've had a nice variety of experiences. Pretty damned satisfied all around.
So, you may want to consider whether you have had enough experiences.
Posted by 38383And what are your placements... sun, venus, mars?Posted by awesomeblossom
I'm thinking of encouraging my boyfriend to see other girls.
One reason is because I feel he is inexperienced in the sense that he hasn't had many relationships with other women. Sure, it's great that he wants to settle comfortably into a relationship with me, but how can he be so sure when he hasn't really BEEN in a relationship with other women?
Dating other women will help him truly figure that out whether he really does want our relationship to be "It" or whether he actually IS interested in experiencing other women.
The other reason is that the thought of an open-relationship is a turn on for me. I like the thought of other women being into him, of him hanging out with other women, of him possibly making out with other women. I'll be honest, I don't know how I TRULY will feel because I have never done this before, but the idea of him being with other women is just...HOTT to me.
How many of you have done this? What was your motivation? What did he think? Did he ever go through with it? If he did go through with it, how did things work out for the both of you and the "other woman"?
this is exactly what im feeling
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Posted by 38383Hi fellow Gemini Mars. I'm Gemini dominant. I hope your fantasies come true gently and naturally.Posted by VenusAquariusgemini sun and mars in the third house venus in taurus in the 2 housePosted by 38383And what are your placements... sun, venus, mars?Posted by awesomeblossom
I'm thinking of encouraging my boyfriend to see other girls.
One reason is because I feel he is inexperienced in the sense that he hasn't had many relationships with other women. Sure, it's great that he wants to settle comfortably into a relationship with me, but how can he be so sure when he hasn't really BEEN in a relationship with other women?
Dating other women will help him truly figure that out whether he really does want our relationship to be "It" or whether he actually IS interested in experiencing other women.
The other reason is that the thought of an open-relationship is a turn on for me. I like the thought of other women being into him, of him hanging out with other women, of him possibly making out with other women. I'll be honest, I don't know how I TRULY will feel because I have never done this before, but the idea of him being with other women is just...HOTT to me.
How many of you have done this? What was your motivation? What did he think? Did he ever go through with it? If he did go through with it, how did things work out for the both of you and the "other woman"?
this is exactly what im feeling
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Blossom, be aware what you wish for, you know 🙂
anyway, my opinion: you are just trolling with this, you knew how people will react surely..
but if not, then asnwer this:
if this is a turn on for you, I dont understand this sentence of yours: "Then, if he's still adamant that mangoes are all he wants, then fair enough. "
what does it mean: ..then fair enough..? Does it mean you will live with him and will have an unfulfilled fantasy, (because if this is what he turns you on, and he finds out he wants to be with you only, then you will dump him or you will dump your fantasy?
Do you really think this fantasy will pan out how do you plan it? be very aware, it will go awry
PS. btw. are you into girls? or bisexual? do you want to sleep with girls throu him? 🙂
PS2. If you ask him to do this, just lose the crap "I want you to experience other girls" bullsh**t, because its really just a showing off, how liberal and free spirited are you 🙂 Make it about your own sexual wishes, not about him
PS3. Tbh., I pity him a bit, to be with a such controlling woman, if all this thread is true (which I doubt) 🙂
anyway, my opinion: you are just trolling with this, you knew how people will react surely..
but if not, then asnwer this:
if this is a turn on for you, I dont understand this sentence of yours: "Then, if he's still adamant that mangoes are all he wants, then fair enough. "
what does it mean: ..then fair enough..? Does it mean you will live with him and will have an unfulfilled fantasy, (because if this is what he turns you on, and he finds out he wants to be with you only, then you will dump him or you will dump your fantasy?
Do you really think this fantasy will pan out how do you plan it? be very aware, it will go awry
PS. btw. are you into girls? or bisexual? do you want to sleep with girls throu him? 🙂
PS2. If you ask him to do this, just lose the crap "I want you to experience other girls" bullsh**t, because its really just a showing off, how liberal and free spirited are you 🙂 Make it about your own sexual wishes, not about him
PS3. Tbh., I pity him a bit, to be with a such controlling woman, if all this thread is true (which I doubt) 🙂
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One reason is because I feel he is inexperienced in the sense that he hasn't had many relationships with other women. Sure, it's great that he wants to settle comfortably into a relationship with me, but how can he be so sure when he hasn't really BEEN in a relationship with other women?
Dating other women will help him truly figure that out whether he really does want our relationship to be "It" or whether he actually IS interested in experiencing other women.
The other reason is that the thought of an open-relationship is a turn on for me. I like the thought of other women being into him, of him hanging out with other women, of him possibly making out with other women. I'll be honest, I don't know how I TRULY will feel because I have never done this before, but the idea of him being with other women is just...HOTT to me.
How many of you have done this? What was your motivation? What did he think? Did he ever go through with it? If he did go through with it, how did things work out for the both of you and the "other woman"?