Fear of Committment or Not committed?
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by pathfinder on Friday, February 10, 2006 and has 2 replies.
Posted on 2/9/2006
Who do you feel may have more of a committment issue?
People (thirty-somethings and older) who have never been married or people who have been married and divorced? The unmarrieds could be folks who have been involved in serious long-term relationships that did not end in marriage, and the divorced folks could be people who have been married and divorced more than once.
In a nutshell, do you feel that people who have never been married and are over 35 are afraid of committment and do you feel that people who have been married and divorced are not really committed?
Who do you feel may have more of a committment issue?
People (thirty-somethings and older) who have never been married or people who have been married and divorced? The unmarrieds could be folks who have been involved in serious long-term relationships that did not end in marriage, and the divorced folks could be people who have been married and divorced more than once.
In a nutshell, do you feel that people who have never been married and are over 35 are afraid of committment and do you feel that people who have been married and divorced are not really committed?
"do you feel that people who have never been married and are over 35 are afraid of committment "
Not always,some people are solitary types that just haven't found anyone that made them want to fall in love or anything,I don't blame them alot of the time looking around at people(nothing special with alot of people).Its actually a good idea to not get married and such anymore unless you seriously want a family and the other traditional stuff.
" do you feel that people who have been married and divorced are not really committed?"
Yeah most of the time,people get married when they're just in lust(they confuse it with love) and get divorced when its over.However I don't think divorced people are a sign that they aren't marriage,relationships types due to the fact that some people get divorced for real reasons and learn from the experiance.Its good to not take old baggae to new relationships but there still are things to learn from them as well.
Not always,some people are solitary types that just haven't found anyone that made them want to fall in love or anything,I don't blame them alot of the time looking around at people(nothing special with alot of people).Its actually a good idea to not get married and such anymore unless you seriously want a family and the other traditional stuff.
" do you feel that people who have been married and divorced are not really committed?"
Yeah most of the time,people get married when they're just in lust(they confuse it with love) and get divorced when its over.However I don't think divorced people are a sign that they aren't marriage,relationships types due to the fact that some people get divorced for real reasons and learn from the experiance.Its good to not take old baggae to new relationships but there still are things to learn from them as well.
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