friends relationship....two girls

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by fishworry on Friday, January 19, 2007 and has 6 replies.

Is it just me or Gemini women are self centered????
I have a friend or maybe i should say had.....
she keep patronizing....and my other friend say she is jealous coz I have it better than her...
then she would always come up and say that i'll end up alone...pisses me off.
I have a boyfriend yes i admit its a bit rocky but we are making it work and its getting better....
I am a pilot and will graduate as an aerospace engineer with masters in 5 months. I have a well off family back ground but yes i get to meet top people coz of my dad.
She belongs to a normal British asian family...her father owns a post office...but he bought her a flat.
and now coz i didnt call her to ask her how she was when she was ill she says to me that i should apologise.....when i have final 2 exams next friday...which will make or break my degree.
then the big one....in december she asking me if i wanted to go to parag on holiday...i said yeah why not....and 2 days later she just booked it....so now i owed her and her friend money for flight and hotel....I hardly saw her since in 12 december....as my bf was in town who i had not seen for 2 months....i ask her to join us for dinner but she didnt come...
then on 22nd i ask her friend to meet up as i was in london and she said he would call me but she never did....then on 24th i went away till 2nd jan to see my bf for xmas n ny. I spoke to my friend and said hey i owe u money for holiday....she said pay me when u get back....so i didnt sweat.
i called my friend on 2nd but she did reply....sent a text saying i am out on dinner whats up? i just said nothing just want to catch up.
I got busy with university as exmas and essays were due...so didnt call her or saw her much. she made plans then changed them...but i could not be flexiable as i have work to do....then she came to see me randomly on last thurday and i had a xmas present for her but didnt get a chance to give to her before her. She asked me for the money and if i could transfer the money over....i told her that i dont have tele or internet banking so i cant do it. so i said that i will write you a cheque if you like but she didnt say anything and left in 10 min.
then today she texted me saying can u please transfer the money over....i said to her that i cant and i have told u this before. i then said to her i can give you a cheque and you can transfer it to ur mate....she said okay...then she calls n says that if i can write a cheque
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to her friend....i said np....and if i can come to her now outsid her office to pay it....i said okay....even tho i was in a rush to get home to parentsn leaving town so i can study....when i get to her office she say can u pay her cash instead as it will take long time.....it just pissed me off.....so i said no....if u want i can give u a cheque....so she just went on saying and it just pissed me off more....so i told her that i have 101 thing to do and ur crying for ?144...plus i need a visa...and if i dont get it i cant go. she was like its not my problem....well i got the cash out n gave it to her.....she then yelled at me in the parking lot saying...we dont have 1000 of pounds like you in our account....so i said to her just cancle this trip....its a bad idea. I dont want to go. she just walked away....with an attitude.
Then her friend called me....and had a go at me when i has already paid her the money.....just too much crap....so i told her to cancle the hotel and pay me my money back.
Aaaaaa.....then my friend send me an email saying i have a problem and i was getting away with delaying to pay as long as i can....when rest paid up....well i havent even seen a booking for anything....she said i was unconsiderate for not asking how she was and should apologies....that with my behaviour i will end up alone.
you can tell how much this bothers me......Is she worth a friend?
says she is broke but keeps going on holidays and gigs here....plus goes out every weekend....how am i suppose to know she will die if i didnt pay her ?144 !!!!!
just too much.......
Tell me if i am wrong! sorry i am VENTING!!!!!!! but had to get it out...


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Cancel the check and the friendship, it is not worth it. If friends are like that, who needs enemies? She is not there for you, so just say hasta la vista, baby and find yourself better friends...
By the way the gems I know, both males and females, are too much into themselves!
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Thank you....I agree with what u said n its good bye to her.....
very selfish...self-centred....no empathy....no concederation......thats not a friend.
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To say so far.
You have given her a choice for the first time and she has ignored it. Then all this trallla la la la...
I say, this woman is up for something. Watch out...
And yes, she's not only does not worth as a friend, but even as a person.
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Thanks everyone...
I have no intentions to speaking to this girl ever. Its not about money its about the way she has acted with me. By letting her other friend tell me things like she doesnt trust me...and giving me BS for nothing. I think there is something seriously wrong with both of them.
I dont believe that she had such big financial problem for ?150 that she couldnt take a cheque...which would be through in 4 days. Then she was going out drinking every weekend and then on ski holiday weekend so how in the world would i know that she is suffering financial problem over ?150. Its just so unreal.
I am so disappointed at my own judgement....I have never met anyone like this in my life.
I am shocked at how she is acting and things that she is saying.
If it was me in her shoes i would have trusted her for ?15000 let alone ?150 its really sad. But i am happy i know now rather than later.
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