fuq men

Posted by whatthecrab
Well yeah, of course. What else are they good for?

Posted by cherishedlibra
When I get in a funk like this... I jus mirror their behavior.
All of a sudden I'm the one being questioned about my attitude. ...tf! Lol lol lol

Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by cherishedlibra
When I get in a funk like this... I jus mirror their behavior.
All of a sudden I'm the one being questioned about my attitude. ...tf! Lol lol lol

I don't think this one will care..he has a new girl he's interested in while liking my photos on social media still. I don't get it..but I'm not giving him any reaction.

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Posted by starwars
omg the op is a gemini too! 😂

Posted by cherishedlibra

Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by cherishedlibra
When I get in a funk like this... I jus mirror their behavior.
All of a sudden I'm the one being questioned about my attitude. ...tf! Lol lol lol

I don't think this one will care..he has a new girl he's interested in while liking my photos on social media still. I don't get it..but I'm not giving
him any reaction.

Don't take it personal, love. It's jus a like on photo. What about real life,

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Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by cherishedlibra
When I get in a funk like this... I jus mirror their behavior.
All of a sudden I'm the one being questioned about my attitude. ...tf! Lol lol lol

I don't think this one will care..he has a new girl he's interested in while liking my photos on social media still. I don't get it..but I'm not giving him any reaction.

how old are you?

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Posted by thesculptor
How can you BE a virgin at 29?

And a GEMINI?!

Posted by Shashka
Don't worry about it so much. It's not the be all and end all.


Relationships don't make you more happy or less happy etc.

I wish you happiness.

Posted by Ryoko

Posted by victoriagemini
Oh and no I just can't have sex with anybody.... I don't date randoms

I feel ya, seriously. Don't have sex randomly. I take sex seriously. I can't understand how some ppl can have sex like it's no big deal.
Also, you won't die alone. I feel that way all the time--it's a theme in my life as well. I'm working on meeting more people and getting involved in the world.
If you're not already doing that, then you should try.

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Posted by BullShit

Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by Shashka
Don't worry about it so much. It's not the be all and end all.


Relationships don't make you more happy or less happy etc.

I wish you happiness.

I feel like yeah...I mean I was close to having sex with the crab dude I was hot for but that's why I stopped! Because my mind said No Victoria! You fuqing can't! Its only second date ...I'm so serious and I don't think my mindset will change
.. I regret it because even of he wasn't looking for anything serious with me at least I would have sex with someone hot and that majorly turned me on..but no....I regret it.

You would have hated yourself for making that decision if the situation turned out the way it is now. Your body is sacred, and you should protect that for someone that truly cares for you. Not someone that you're attracted to who's going to end
up breaking your heart and your hymen.

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Posted by BullShit

Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by BullShit

Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by Shashka
Don't worry about it so much. It's not the be all and end all.


Relationships don't make you more happy or less happy etc.

I wish you happiness
.

I feel like yeah...I mean I was close to having sex with the crab dude I was hot for but that's why I stopped! Because my mind said No Victoria! You fuqing can't! Its only second date ...I'm so serious and I don't think my mindset will change
.. I regret it because even of he wasn't looking for anything serious with me at least I would have sex with someone hot and that majorly turned me on..but no....I regret it.

You would have hated yourself for making that decision if the situation turned out the way it is now. Your body is sacred, and you should protect that for someone that truly cares for you. Not someone that you're attracted to who's going to end
up breaking your heart and your hymen.

OK well guess what...a million virgins had sex with someone that their not together
with now so what would make my situation different if it had happened! It doesn't have to be someone special.. I wasn't looking for marriage. Not a psycho. Ugh

Ok do what you want have fun good luck.

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Posted by AriesLove

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Posted by Ryoko

Posted by victoriagemini
Oh and no I just can't have sex with anybody.... I don't date randoms

I feel ya, seriously. Don't have sex randomly. I take sex seriously. I can't understand how some ppl can have sex like it's no big deal.
Also, you won't die alone. I feel
that way all the time--it's a theme in my life as well. I'm working on meeting more people and getting involved in the world.
If you're not already doing that, then you should try.

Yeah it's hard not to think that thou..my parents got married at 27..fuq I never had a boyfriend yet and I'm 29. Of course I feel like I'm not normal because I want it. I'm not trying to run away from it. Its the men I don't want that constantly bother
me. Really frustrating. Im not going to be desperate either and I can't date 5 men at a time. With my mentality its not possible hun. My Saturn in 7th house really fuqed me. I'm serious too blosdy serious

"Its the men I don't want that constantly bother me"

That's your problem...you need to treat the ones you want like the ones you don't want.

I believe you are acting very needy, aggressive and direct
towards the ones you want. They sense this, they realize they have the upper hand and just skip the courting and head right to sex. Why court, when they already have your interest.

That's why I always say let the man lead to the very end. Keep your emotions under control. I hate to say it but the guys who loved me the most were the ones I hardly ever showed emotions and act like I could do without them.

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Posted by AriesLove
@victoriagemini

But you don't know her. You don't know her personality, her composure, her attitude or their history.

This could be some girl he's been trying to get at.

Posted by P3n3lop3
@victoriagemini I'm no virgin but ur not alone I'm in the exact same place right now but I have been abstaining from sex and I just feel that maybe if we stop expecting it it will find us...different approach for different results. Reminding us we have no control over loves timing and most guys want it easy these days I mean if u look at instagram it's just half naked women everyone trying to belittle themselves and show off there assets only to get a guy who only wanted what they were advertising. Because it's so many guys with no values and may come from broken homes and it's so many woman readily available to do what we won't that suffer from low self esteem and no charter or values either just going with the wind

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by victoriagemini
Vomit seriously...

I'm a good woman with a good heart..why can't one guy see that? I feel like god is hiding me...he's closing doors on every mam I liked

I can tell you one thing you don't have is confidence. And all the guys pick up on your insecurity.

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by AriesLove
@victoriagemini

But you don't know her. You don't know her personality, her composure, her attitude or their history.

This could be some girl he's been trying to get at.

So I was just on standby? He knew I lived 5 hrs away and still asked me when will I be back..love to see you blah blah.
I'm just a stupid ditzy woman?

Well there's your answer
. What did you think was going to come about of your relationship with him??

Look at the big picture next time. Not the fact that you want a man so bad.

He probably been dating this girl and many others. Oh well

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Posted by Ryoko

Posted by victoriagemini
Oh and no I just can't have sex with anybody.... I don't date randoms

I feel ya, seriously. Don't have sex randomly. I take sex seriously. I can't understand how some ppl can have sex like it's no big deal.

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Posted by AriesLove

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Posted by AriesLove
@victoriagemini

But you don't know her. You don't know her personality, her composure, her attitude or their history.

This could be some girl he's been trying to get at.

So I was just on standby? He knew I lived 5 hrs away and still asked me when will I be back..love to see you blah blah.
I'm just a stupid ditzy woman?

Well there's your answer
. What did you think was going to come about of your relationship with him??

Look at the big picture next time. Not the fact that you want a man so bad.

He probably been dating this girl and many others. Oh well

True... One last question..why is he still following me and liking my photos on Instagram? I known it doesn't mean shite but why?

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by AriesLove
@victoriagemini

But you don't know her. You don't know her personality, her composure, her attitude or their history.

This could be some girl he's been trying to get at.

So I was just on standby? He knew I lived 5 hrs away and still asked me when will I be back..love to see you blah blah.
I'm just a stupid ditzy woman?

Well there's your answer
. What did you think was going to come about of your relationship with him??

Look at the big picture next time. Not the fact that you want a man so bad.

He probably been dating this girl and many others. Oh well

True... One last question..why is he still following me and liking my photos on Instagram? I known it doesn't mean shite but why?

Uhm.. because he likes them?

Men are simple and do nto put stock into social media like females do.. It does not mean SQUAT to them if they like a picture, a comment. etc.

Damn, we're good. We got this one boiz!

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Posted by AriesLove

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Posted by Ryoko

Posted by victoriagemini
Oh and no I just can't have sex with anybody.... I don't date randoms

I feel ya, seriously. Don't have sex randomly. I take sex seriously. I can't understand how some ppl can have sex like it's no big deal.
Also, you won't die alone. I feel that way all the time--it's a theme in my life as well. I'm working on meeting more people and getting involved in the world.
If you're not already doing that, then you should try.

Yeah it's hard not to think that thou..my parents got married at 27..fuq I never had a boyfriend yet and I'm 29. Of course I feel like I'm not normal because I want it. I'm not trying to run away from it. Its the men I don't want that constantly bother me. Really frustrating. Im not going to be desperate either and I can't date 5 men at a time. With my mentality its not possible hun. My Saturn in 7th house really fuqed me. I'm serious too blosdy serious

"Its the men I don't want that constantly bother me"

That's your problem...you need to treat the ones you want like the ones you don't want.

I believe you are acting very needy, aggressive and direct towards the ones you want. They sense this, they realize they have the upper hand and just skip the courting and head right to sex. Why court, when they already have your interest.

That's why I always say let the man lead to the very end. Keep your emotions under control. I hate to say it but the guys who loved me the most were the ones I hardly ever showed emotions and act like I could do without them.

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Posted by AriesLove
You are back up. Men have back up...women need to start having back up then they won't be so hung up over a guy when "dating" does not work.

You guys aren't married nor in a committed relationship. You are shorting yourself. You can have male friends.

This guy probably likes you but it's not the like that you want. Don't confuse yourself. If a man wants you like that he will do a whole lot more than "like" your pics. Do you honestly think you are the only girl he is following and liking pics??

Please expect more than the minimal.

Posted by P3n3lop3
@victoriagemini if he knows you are a virgin that's 1.....never know when he may need a back up when his feelings are hurt and try to play on ur vulnerability and emotions....doesn't want to burn a bridge or may be afraid of rejection....casting his net in many ponds...gets bored...STRING U ALONG for entertainment or just cuz...doesn't want things to be awkward or trying to confuse u so I would say move forward that's what I'm trying to do he could be a distraction on what God has better for us...let's push

Posted by P3n3lop3
Me to and now I have just stopped responding bcuz we are getting too old to be telling someone what they are doing wrong @victoriagemini but the bright side is u didn't have sex with him bcuz if u did u would have just been another notch on his belt and bcuz ur still a virgin and that's rare u have a lot to offer and if it's meant to be it will be and trust won't be forgotten but at the same time won't get taken advantage of. U just dodge a bullet and it's was only God. It could have gotten worst and u still have ur dignity and standards.

Posted by P3n3lop3
@victoriagemini if he knows you are a virgin that's 1.....never know when he may need a back up when his feelings are hurt and try to play on ur vulnerability and emotions....doesn't want to burn a bridge or may be afraid of rejection....casting his net in many ponds...gets bored...STRING U ALONG for entertainment or just cuz...doesn't want things to be awkward or trying to confuse u so I would say move forward that's what I'm trying to do he could be a distraction on what God has better for us...let's push

Posted by dominoes
Our plan works. Muahahahah! Confuse the enemy. Take no survivors!

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by victoriagemini
@shahska

I appreciate it BUT I'm 29!! Not 19. If no man see's I'm worthy to persue then it ain't happening. I'm tired of people asking wow Victoria you're a beautiful girl, how can u not have a b/f? I'm not materialistic, I don't care for money, just funny and a humble man...plus I'm going to be 30 this.month.

Stop worrying about what other people think.

People get with fuqued up people and stay with fuqued up people because they are so worried about outsiders.

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