Gemini getting bored or need space ?
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Winters12 on Monday, March 16, 2020 and has 20 replies.
Do Gemini’s need a lot of space when in a relationship? I am a Sagittarius and when in a relationship I to do need a night off sometimes however I see my gemini GF quite a lot if I’m honest and she was very quiet yesterday as I suggested maybe she needs some space seeing as we both have our own children too look after as well and she thought about it and said she may need some space just a thought for you Gemini’s would it be wrong of me to think she’s getting a little bored or do you think she genuinely needs space I know we all do from time to time .
Posted by Winters12
Do Gemini’s need a lot of space when in a relationship? I am a Sagittarius and when in a relationship I to do need a night off sometimes however I see my gemini GF quite a lot if I’m honest and she was very quiet yesterday as I suggested maybe she needs some space seeing as we both have our own children too look after as well and she thought about it and said she may need some space just a thought for you Gemini’s would it be wrong of me to think she’s getting a little bored or do you think she genuinely needs space I know we all do from time to time .
"...would it be wrong of me to think she’s getting a little bored..."
Why would it be wrong for you to think something? The real question is... do you think she's bored or do you feel she's bored because those aren't the same things.
In either case I don't think you necessarily handled the situation very well. It likely would have been a better approach to ask as opposed to suggest. Whenever you suggest that someone feels a certain way, or that they think a certain thing, instead of asking them how they feel or what they think you are eliminating the opportunity for them to express themselves by forcing them to consider something that may or may not have ever even existed in the first place.
Posted by TheApparitionPosted by Winters12
Do Gemini’s need a lot of space when in a relationship? I am a Sagittarius and when in a relationship I to do need a night off sometimes however I see my gemini GF quite a lot if I’m honest and she was very quiet yesterday as I suggested maybe she needs some space seeing as we both have our own children too look after as well and she thought about it and said she may need some space just a thought for you Gemini’s would it be wrong of me to think she’s getting a little bored or do you think she genuinely needs space I know we all do from time to time .
"...would it be wrong of me to think she’s getting a little bored..."
Why would it be wrong for you to think something? The real question is... do you think she's bored or do you feel she's bored because those aren't the same things.
In either case I don't think you necessarily handled the situation very well. It likely would have been a better approach to ask as opposed to suggest. Whenever you suggest that someone feels a certain way, or that they think a certain thing, instead of asking them how they feel or what they think you are eliminating the opportunity for them to express themselves by forcing them to consider something that may or may not have ever even existed in the first place.click to expand
I do not really think she is bored as I have seen her today and she seemed like nothing has happened like her normal happy having laugh self and yes you are right but in the moment it was the only thing I could think of to begin with.
I am pretty sure I did ask fist of all I said do you need a break or something and her reply was i don’t know . And I said it could be that you need a night off or something.
Posted by Winters12No, no. What I mean is to give her the opportunity to tell you what is on her mind as for the reason why she was so quiet.
I am pretty sure I did ask fist of all I said do you need a break or something and her reply was i don’t know . And I said it could be that you need a night off or something.
Start by saying how you feel and what you think without placing any kind of situational blame on either side.
E.g. I feel as though we have been less conversive today than we usually are. I wanted to mention it to alleviate my thoughts if I'm wrong, or to get a better understanding of why if I'm right.
Gems are loyal in committed relationships but I find that they do need lots of space and freedom to do their own thing. Just give her sometime.
Thanks guys 👍🏻
Yea Gemini’s do need their space. But make sure to message her within 3-4 days wishing her a great day etc. It works wonders...
Posted by PhantumPosted by Evilhunter
Yea Gemini’s do need their space. But make sure to message her within 3-4 days wishing her a great day etc. It works wonders...
From seeing her everyday to telling her he needs space, when she didn't say she needed space, and then not texting her for 3-4 days?
Y'all know how to get rid of Geminis.click to expand
I suggested that she may need some space reason being that we both have our own kids to look after and when we are together on the weekend we have the kids together and it can be stressful however we are always going out etc as you would of thought.
She seemed very down yesterday just not her self I knew what the reason was it was because my younger daughter was having a laugh with her during the day however she took it over the top with my partner and my partner did not see me discipline my daughter however I did twice hence why she was feeling down however it almost felt like she needed to relax and have a little bit of space hence why I suggested it I shouldn’t of done that being as I put words into her mouth since then we have spoken and she wants me to see her tonight lol so really it’s all just silly things .
Posted by Winters12Posted by PhantumPosted by Evilhunter
Yea Gemini’s do need their space. But make sure to message her within 3-4 days wishing her a great day etc. It works wonders...
From seeing her everyday to telling her he needs space, when she didn't say she needed space, and then not texting her for 3-4 days?
Y'all know how to get rid of Geminis.
I suggested that she may need some space reason being that we both have our own kids to look after and when we are together on the weekend we have the kids together and it can be stressful however we are always going out etc as you would of thought.
She seemed very down yesterday just not her self I knew what the reason was it was because my younger daughter was having a laugh with her during the day however she took it over the top with my partner and my partner did not see me discipline my daughter however I did twice hence why she was feeling down however it almost felt like she needed to relax and have a little bit of space hence why I suggested it I shouldn’t of done that being as I put words into her mouth since then we have spoken and she wants me to see her tonight lol so really it’s all just silly things .click to expand
However I have suggested that she take this time to relax with her children as it will be nice for her but I know she wants to see me tonight what do I do ?
Posted by PhantumPosted by Evilhunter
Yea Gemini’s do need their space. But make sure to message her within 3-4 days wishing her a great day etc. It works wonders...
From seeing her everyday to telling her he needs space, when she didn't say she needed space, and then not texting her for 3-4 days?
Y'all know how to get rid of Geminis.click to expand
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What’s your zodiac sign?
I don’t need space I know what I want ☺️
Posted by PhantumShe seemed pretty fed up maybe I read her wrong but that was just the first thing that came to mind maybe I should give her some space to relax as after all it had been very hectic etc.Posted by Winters12
I don’t need space I know what I want ☺️
Why do you think she needs space? Because she acted sad? I'm confused.click to expand
Posted by PhantumMoon sign?Posted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumWhat’s your zodiac sign?Posted by Evilhunter
Yea Gemini’s do need their space. But make sure to message her within 3-4 days wishing her a great day etc. It works wonders...
From seeing her everyday to telling her he needs space, when she didn't say she needed space, and then not texting her for 3-4 days?
Y'all know how to get rid of Geminis.
Geminiclick to expand
Posted by PhantumWell, there you go. Pisces don’t like space at all.Posted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumPosted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumPosted by Evilhunter
Yea Gemini’s do need their space. But make sure to message her within 3-4 days wishing her a great day etc. It works wonders...
From seeing her everyday to telling her he needs space, when she didn't say she needed space, and then not texting her for 3-4 days?
Y'all know how to get rid of Geminis.
What’s your zodiac sign?
Gemini
Moon sign?
Piscesclick to expand
Posted by PhantumWell, there you go. Pisces don’t like space at all.Posted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumPosted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumPosted by Evilhunter
Yea Gemini’s do need their space. But make sure to message her within 3-4 days wishing her a great day etc. It works wonders...
From seeing her everyday to telling her he needs space, when she didn't say she needed space, and then not texting her for 3-4 days?
Y'all know how to get rid of Geminis.
What’s your zodiac sign?
Gemini
Moon sign?
Piscesclick to expand
Posted by PhantumAgreed. So how’s do you know she’s sad? 🤔Posted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumPosted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumPosted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumPosted by Evilhunter
Yea Gemini’s do need their space. But make sure to message her within 3-4 days wishing her a great day etc. It works wonders...
From seeing her everyday to telling her he needs space, when she didn't say she needed space, and then not texting her for 3-4 days?
Y'all know how to get rid of Geminis.
What’s your zodiac sign?
Gemini
Moon sign?
Pisces
Well, there you go. Pisces don’t like space at all.
False. Everyone needs space. No one wants to be given space because they're sad and their boyfriend doesn't know what to say.click to expand
Posted by PhantumPosted by Winters12Posted by PhantumPosted by Winters12
I don’t need space I know what I want ☺️
Why do you think she needs space? Because she acted sad? I'm confused.
She seemed pretty fed up maybe I read her wrong but that was just the first thing that came to mind maybe I should give her some space to relax as after all it had been very hectic etc.
Fed up with what?click to expand
No idea
I am a pieces moon she has Virgo moon
Posted by PhantumLmao. You’re funny!Posted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumPosted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumPosted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumPosted by EvilhunterPosted by PhantumPosted by Evilhunter
Yea Gemini’s do need their space. But make sure to message her within 3-4 days wishing her a great day etc. It works wonders...
From seeing her everyday to telling her he needs space, when she didn't say she needed space, and then not texting her for 3-4 days?
Y'all know how to get rid of Geminis.
What’s your zodiac sign?
Gemini
Moon sign?
Pisces
Well, there you go. Pisces don’t like space at all.
False. Everyone needs space. No one wants to be given space because they're sad and their boyfriend doesn't know what to say.
Agreed. So how’s do you know she’s sad? 🤔
I'm a little confused on exactly what problem he was trying to fix with space. I just saw "sad" in there and seized upon it.click to expand
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