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Oct 08, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2906 · Topics: 93
What do we really mean by that expression?
Passion, intensity, enthusiasm?
Number, frequency, consistency of orgasms?
Novelty, kinkiness, experimentation?
Or, is it so subjective that it defies analysis??
Y'all have a great weekend!
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Sep 20, 2008Comments: 1470 · Posts: 13777 · Topics: 204
I always say if you like sex with all what it means (giving and taking), it's hard to fail. Kinkiness and experimentation is a matter of taste as has nothing to do with how good you are. Same goes for frequency. If you want it a lot and you hook up with someone who's settled with once a week, that doesen't make that person a bad lover (if he's present when it matters), it only means you have a different sex drive. That same person would probably be a great lover to someone who has a similiar sex drive. Why am I even saying this, I think it's pretty obvious.
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Aug 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1660 · Topics: 107
i say if you are packing...greatbull that is cute
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Oct 11, 2006Comments: 2454 · Posts: 30581 · Topics: 372
*yawn*
Is anyone going to admit they're bad in bed?
I think it's pretty much all about passion and attentiveness.
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Oct 08, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2906 · Topics: 93
WinterBorn: I think it should be called grateful in bed.
Touch?!!
However, I was first single in my 20s, then married for about 20 years, and then single again in my 40s. The dating rules changed during that time, and I was surprised at how quickly women would sleep with a guy they really didn't know that well... It was easier to get laid at middle age than when I was at college. Not complaining, just making an observation...
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Mar 24, 2006Comments: 163 · Posts: 6615 · Topics: 326
I think it's all about the 2 people and how they satisfy each other. I've been with someone who satisfied me in every posible way and as frequently as I and he wanted. We were on a par with each other sexually and it was explosive!
The last guy and (I have to say he was a Scorp)...as all the Scorps here seem to think they are the best lovers...
he was fantastic with the foreplay but fizzled somewhat when I was hoping for an explosive ending... but I think we weren't completely in sync.
"not hard(he he) unless they're stubborn and/or you're timid."
It's always the young ones thinking they can really put it down.Boy, u still have milk on ya breath.lol
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Jan 08, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 104 · Topics: 14
I think being in love and both people knowing what they are doing equates to good sex.
Or the person you once slept with won't sleep with you again.