Posted by ClairDeLune😂😂. Maybe I should add a disclaimer?!Posted by LostinmyMind11Lmfao girl!!!!! Damn
Nah cause I'm taking him with me 🔪🔪🔪🤪🤪😂click to expand
Posted by kaseke9Best answer
Don't ever never ever never make other person your top 1 priority. I can't emphasize it enough.
If you find someone that fits in your life and adds value, that's great! Enjoy your time.
But don't ever see other human as God or Godess, they gonna walk you over to give the most painful lesson you ever have.
Coming from someone who had this experience. It took years of recovery, digging into myself, reading relatable books, crying in solitude to find myself and my strenght again.
And this is the advice I send out right now. People change, fickle and die but you are always with you. Make your life meaningful without building the core to be someone else.
Posted by ClairDeLuneHi ya x
Awwww love, what happened?
Posted by pooface222and I thought its seriousPosted by ClairDeLuneHi ya x
Awwww love, what happened?
I've talked about this guy on other forums so I'll keep it short. Or will try lol!
He has stayed away from me since I hurt him in December. We're kind of talking again but sadly after not talking to me for 4 momths, hes changed towards me and its killing me.
He's a very sensitive Pisces yet I forgot how sensitive he is because of the stress of my divorce!
By Decmember last year, we had spent most of the summer together, and things were going beautifully. Until I f**ked them up.
The short version is he trained to become a fitness instructor like me. He had always come to my classes and loved the way I teach.
Our relationship is perfect. He's my soul Mate and from the first time we met, it felt Meant to Be. It was like I'd known him my whole life.
Anyway he came to my class in the Tuesday after spending the weekend training on his course. He texted me the night before to ask me if he can teach with me up at the front of my class with me.
I texted back "Not until you can behave yourself." I said this because in my classes (fir the years before he qualified), he knows the routine so well that he knows when I have gone slightly wrong and gives me a look. I didn't mind to start with. Then it began to piss me off having him always point out when I've gone wrong. Especially when he was not an instructor himself.
So by behaving himself I meant I didn't want him correcting ever again. It's f**king annoying! And disrespectful I feel.
So after me texting him to Behave himself he turned up in my class 6.30am Tues morning and asked AGAIN if he can teach with me. I was already annoyed to see him.due to his disrespect so u replied "Nope."
He stood there and stood there. I had to look him in the eyes this time and say "No you're not!"
So he looked upset and joined the members to do the class instead.
Halfway through the class he CORRECTED ME!!! FFS! So I GLARED at him.HARD and mouthed "Fuck Off" at him because it finally had enough of his corrections.
But sadly he looked like he was going to cry. Packed his things and slowly walked out of my class!
I couldn't chase or follow him because I didn't want my members to know anything is going on between us.
I felt AWFUL! I HATED myself!
I realise now the poor guy was actually just trying to help. He had just done his training only 2 days before. He was excited about coming to my class and he even asked me if he could teach with me the night before.
So when I made a mistake and he corrected me, he did so as a fellow instructor. He was just trying to help.
But I got defensive and horrible!
I'm going through a painful divorce so my head isn't right at the moment.
He never came back. He ignored my texts and he blocked me too.
Now we're talking again, he treats me differently. It's like we are aquaintances! We met 5yrs ago ffs!
I'm sorry this is so long!click to expand
Posted by Pandora101Posted by pooface222and I thought its seriousPosted by ClairDeLuneHi ya x
Awwww love, what happened?
I've talked about this guy on other forums so I'll keep it short. Or will try lol!
He has stayed away from me since I hurt him in December. We're kind of talking again but sadly after not talking to me for 4 momths, hes changed towards me and its killing me.
He's a very sensitive Pisces yet I forgot how sensitive he is because of the stress of my divorce!
By Decmember last year, we had spent most of the summer together, and things were going beautifully. Until I f**ked them up.
The short version is he trained to become a fitness instructor like me. He had always come to my classes and loved the way I teach.
Our relationship is perfect. He's my soul Mate and from the first time we met, it felt Meant to Be. It was like I'd known him my whole life.
Anyway he came to my class in the Tuesday after spending the weekend training on his course. He texted me the night before to ask me if he can teach with me up at the front of my class with me.
I texted back "Not until you can behave yourself." I said this because in my classes (fir the years before he qualified), he knows the routine so well that he knows when I have gone slightly wrong and gives me a look. I didn't mind to start with. Then it began to piss me off having him always point out when I've gone wrong. Especially when he was not an instructor himself.
So by behaving himself I meant I didn't want him correcting ever again. It's f**king annoying! And disrespectful I feel.
So after me texting him to Behave himself he turned up in my class 6.30am Tues morning and asked AGAIN if he can teach with me. I was already annoyed to see him.due to his disrespect so u replied "Nope."
He stood there and stood there. I had to look him in the eyes this time and say "No you're not!"
So he looked upset and joined the members to do the class instead.
Halfway through the class he CORRECTED ME!!! FFS! So I GLARED at him.HARD and mouthed "Fuck Off" at him because it finally had enough of his corrections.
But sadly he looked like he was going to cry. Packed his things and slowly walked out of my class!
I couldn't chase or follow him because I didn't want my members to know anything is going on between us.
I felt AWFUL! I HATED myself!
I realise now the poor guy was actually just trying to help. He had just done his training only 2 days before. He was excited about coming to my class and he even asked me if he could teach with me the night before.
So when I made a mistake and he corrected me, he did so as a fellow instructor. He was just trying to help.
But I got defensive and horrible!
I'm going through a painful divorce so my head isn't right at the moment.
He never came back. He ignored my texts and he blocked me too.
Now we're talking again, he treats me differently. It's like we are aquaintances! We met 5yrs ago ffs!
I'm sorry this is so long!
do you use "big words" in your everyday life as well?
I dont see anything in that story what warrants to "die for" mutual big loveclick to expand
Posted by pooface222"There's so much more I haven't said about our relationship.Posted by Pandora101Posted by pooface222and I thought its seriousPosted by ClairDeLuneHi ya x
Awwww love, what happened?
I've talked about this guy on other forums so I'll keep it short. Or will try lol!
He has stayed away from me since I hurt him in December. We're kind of talking again but sadly after not talking to me for 4 momths, hes changed towards me and its killing me.
He's a very sensitive Pisces yet I forgot how sensitive he is because of the stress of my divorce!
By Decmember last year, we had spent most of the summer together, and things were going beautifully. Until I f**ked them up.
The short version is he trained to become a fitness instructor like me. He had always come to my classes and loved the way I teach.
Our relationship is perfect. He's my soul Mate and from the first time we met, it felt Meant to Be. It was like I'd known him my whole life.
Anyway he came to my class in the Tuesday after spending the weekend training on his course. He texted me the night before to ask me if he can teach with me up at the front of my class with me.
I texted back "Not until you can behave yourself." I said this because in my classes (fir the years before he qualified), he knows the routine so well that he knows when I have gone slightly wrong and gives me a look. I didn't mind to start with. Then it began to piss me off having him always point out when I've gone wrong. Especially when he was not an instructor himself.
So by behaving himself I meant I didn't want him correcting ever again. It's f**king annoying! And disrespectful I feel.
So after me texting him to Behave himself he turned up in my class 6.30am Tues morning and asked AGAIN if he can teach with me. I was already annoyed to see him.due to his disrespect so u replied "Nope."
He stood there and stood there. I had to look him in the eyes this time and say "No you're not!"
So he looked upset and joined the members to do the class instead.
Halfway through the class he CORRECTED ME!!! FFS! So I GLARED at him.HARD and mouthed "Fuck Off" at him because it finally had enough of his corrections.
But sadly he looked like he was going to cry. Packed his things and slowly walked out of my class!
I couldn't chase or follow him because I didn't want my members to know anything is going on between us.
I felt AWFUL! I HATED myself!
I realise now the poor guy was actually just trying to help. He had just done his training only 2 days before. He was excited about coming to my class and he even asked me if he could teach with me the night before.
So when I made a mistake and he corrected me, he did so as a fellow instructor. He was just trying to help.
But I got defensive and horrible!
I'm going through a painful divorce so my head isn't right at the moment.
He never came back. He ignored my texts and he blocked me too.
Now we're talking again, he treats me differently. It's like we are aquaintances! We met 5yrs ago ffs!
I'm sorry this is so long!
do you use "big words" in your everyday life as well?
I dont see anything in that story what warrants to "die for" mutual big love
There's so much more I haven't said about our relationship.
I could sit here and type out everything that's ever happened but it will be a book on here!
So instead I have simply focussed in the screw up I made to ask people what they think.click to expand
Posted by Pandora101Maybe...read again? 🤷♀️🤦♀️🙈lolPosted by pooface222and I thought its seriousPosted by ClairDeLuneHi ya x
Awwww love, what happened?
I've talked about this guy on other forums so I'll keep it short. Or will try lol!
He has stayed away from me since I hurt him in December. We're kind of talking again but sadly after not talking to me for 4 momths, hes changed towards me and its killing me.
He's a very sensitive Pisces yet I forgot how sensitive he is because of the stress of my divorce!
By Decmember last year, we had spent most of the summer together, and things were going beautifully. Until I f**ked them up.
The short version is he trained to become a fitness instructor like me. He had always come to my classes and loved the way I teach.
Our relationship is perfect. He's my soul Mate and from the first time we met, it felt Meant to Be. It was like I'd known him my whole life.
Anyway he came to my class in the Tuesday after spending the weekend training on his course. He texted me the night before to ask me if he can teach with me up at the front of my class with me.
I texted back "Not until you can behave yourself." I said this because in my classes (fir the years before he qualified), he knows the routine so well that he knows when I have gone slightly wrong and gives me a look. I didn't mind to start with. Then it began to piss me off having him always point out when I've gone wrong. Especially when he was not an instructor himself.
So by behaving himself I meant I didn't want him correcting ever again. It's f**king annoying! And disrespectful I feel.
So after me texting him to Behave himself he turned up in my class 6.30am Tues morning and asked AGAIN if he can teach with me. I was already annoyed to see him.due to his disrespect so u replied "Nope."
He stood there and stood there. I had to look him in the eyes this time and say "No you're not!"
So he looked upset and joined the members to do the class instead.
Halfway through the class he CORRECTED ME!!! FFS! So I GLARED at him.HARD and mouthed "Fuck Off" at him because it finally had enough of his corrections.
But sadly he looked like he was going to cry. Packed his things and slowly walked out of my class!
I couldn't chase or follow him because I didn't want my members to know anything is going on between us.
I felt AWFUL! I HATED myself!
I realise now the poor guy was actually just trying to help. He had just done his training only 2 days before. He was excited about coming to my class and he even asked me if he could teach with me the night before.
So when I made a mistake and he corrected me, he did so as a fellow instructor. He was just trying to help.
But I got defensive and horrible!
I'm going through a painful divorce so my head isn't right at the moment.
He never came back. He ignored my texts and he blocked me too.
Now we're talking again, he treats me differently. It's like we are aquaintances! We met 5yrs ago ffs!
I'm sorry this is so long!
do you use "big words" in your everyday life as well?
I dont see anything in that story what warrants to "die for" mutual big loveclick to expand
Posted by Pandora101He's loved me and wanted me for a long time. We met 5yrs ago when I was still married. And he was with his partner. He's a Pisces too so over time because I wasn't leaving my husband despite telling him I love him, he began doing his Disappearing Act.Posted by pooface222"There's so much more I haven't said about our relationship.Posted by Pandora101Posted by pooface222and I thought its seriousPosted by ClairDeLuneHi ya x
Awwww love, what happened?
I've talked about this guy on other forums so I'll keep it short. Or will try lol!
He has stayed away from me since I hurt him in December. We're kind of talking again but sadly after not talking to me for 4 momths, hes changed towards me and its killing me.
He's a very sensitive Pisces yet I forgot how sensitive he is because of the stress of my divorce!
By Decmember last year, we had spent most of the summer together, and things were going beautifully. Until I f**ked them up.
The short version is he trained to become a fitness instructor like me. He had always come to my classes and loved the way I teach.
Our relationship is perfect. He's my soul Mate and from the first time we met, it felt Meant to Be. It was like I'd known him my whole life.
Anyway he came to my class in the Tuesday after spending the weekend training on his course. He texted me the night before to ask me if he can teach with me up at the front of my class with me.
I texted back "Not until you can behave yourself." I said this because in my classes (fir the years before he qualified), he knows the routine so well that he knows when I have gone slightly wrong and gives me a look. I didn't mind to start with. Then it began to piss me off having him always point out when I've gone wrong. Especially when he was not an instructor himself.
So by behaving himself I meant I didn't want him correcting ever again. It's f**king annoying! And disrespectful I feel.
So after me texting him to Behave himself he turned up in my class 6.30am Tues morning and asked AGAIN if he can teach with me. I was already annoyed to see him.due to his disrespect so u replied "Nope."
He stood there and stood there. I had to look him in the eyes this time and say "No you're not!"
So he looked upset and joined the members to do the class instead.
Halfway through the class he CORRECTED ME!!! FFS! So I GLARED at him.HARD and mouthed "Fuck Off" at him because it finally had enough of his corrections.
But sadly he looked like he was going to cry. Packed his things and slowly walked out of my class!
I couldn't chase or follow him because I didn't want my members to know anything is going on between us.
I felt AWFUL! I HATED myself!
I realise now the poor guy was actually just trying to help. He had just done his training only 2 days before. He was excited about coming to my class and he even asked me if he could teach with me the night before.
So when I made a mistake and he corrected me, he did so as a fellow instructor. He was just trying to help.
But I got defensive and horrible!
I'm going through a painful divorce so my head isn't right at the moment.
He never came back. He ignored my texts and he blocked me too.
Now we're talking again, he treats me differently. It's like we are aquaintances! We met 5yrs ago ffs!
I'm sorry this is so long!
do you use "big words" in your everyday life as well?
I dont see anything in that story what warrants to "die for" mutual big love
There's so much more I haven't said about our relationship.
I could sit here and type out everything that's ever happened but it will be a book on here!
So instead I have simply focussed in the screw up I made to ask people what they think.
I could sit here and type out everything that's ever happened but it will be a book on here!
So instead I have simply focussed in the screw up I made to ask people what they think. "
ok
I dont think you screwed up with what you described
if he loves you
Edit: fitness loves are not to be taken seriously (just from observations, how people think someone loves them in the gym, and its all a fantasy in their head) so be cautious, before you die for himclick to expand
Posted by generation_xyLove is hell of a drug. The best of em all.
I'm not addicted to alcohol or drugs. I wish I was instead of feeling like that for a person.
It's not exactly addiction because I don't get the high but the difficulty to overcome is somewhat the same. Although, I rather it's a bottle or pack of cigarette because at least I don't have to feel embarass for pouring my heart out and it's one way. It's going nowhere. I can have physical control over a bottle or pack, lock it up but with with a person you can't do that. You get a response one way or another.
I think i'm just tired. I'm definitely ranting here.
Posted by kaseke9Good Dx advice *claps*
Don't ever never ever never make other person your top 1 priority. I can't emphasize it enough.
If you find someone that fits in your life and adds value, that's great! Enjoy your time.
But don't ever see other human as God or Godess, they gonna walk you over to give the most painful lesson you ever have.
Coming from someone who had this experience. It took years of recovery, digging into myself, reading relatable books, crying in solitude to find myself and my strenght again.
And this is the advice I send out right now. People change, fickle and die but you are always with you. Make your life meaningful without building the core to be someone else.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowReally? Do you not love him so much it hurts?
Maybe during the 6 months before we got together when we had become more than best friends & the first year post-hookup when it was at its most intense.
Been together for a little over 2 years now, he still devastates me but I reckon I could handle it if we broke up today.
Posted by pooface222That would be my son as a child. I always feared losing him in some fashion. Now, he's soon to be 24... he's alive... and, has enough flaws that I'm grounded.
...then messed things up and lost him anyway?
😢
And now you want to die!
Posted by pooface222No, he's a Leo. And I was semi-joking because I know he lurks......and then......I'll just copy/paste my reply to Stillstillwater's question of:Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowReally? Do you not love him so much it hurts?
Maybe during the 6 months before we got together when we had become more than best friends & the first year post-hookup when it was at its most intense.
Been together for a little over 2 years now, he still devastates me but I reckon I could handle it if we broke up today.
You're a Pisces right? And he's a,Virgo?click to expand