Have I been Dosed by a Capricorn??

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Pisces_Dream on Wednesday, August 11, 2010 and has 15 replies.
Okay so I posted some time ago that I have this cap friend whom I recently become lovers with. We have been friends since 2006. Well we continue to talk as we do, and he told me today....."PD you are my best friend, I can tell you anything, and the sex well that is just the added bonus". So here he is pulling on my heart strings. I was not feeling him on every level, however today he struck a cord with me. What has happened? We are spending time together all Thursday afternoon. We seem so different, yet I feel like I can tell him anything as he can with me. I just might take a look at this connection on Thursday once again to see if anything changes for me. It is hard to say. He has the patience of a saint to deal with my lovely firey energy. I just have this "idea" of whom I see myself with and he does not meet all those things. Maybe I just need to scratch these ideas and really see what fits with me??? Am I settling is another question? So confused ....as a Pisces I know it gets tricky because I can be lead by emotion. Emotionally it feels good. *sigh* oooo and sexually as well. lol
So I am rambling.....just wondering if anyone had the experience of not really feeling the person you are hanging with and than one day the light bulb just comes on? Just realized maybe I should post this on the relationship forum.
So my song for this. Lving some RHCP tonight!!
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I just have this "idea" of whom I see myself with and he does not meet all those things. Maybe I just need to scratch these ideas and really see what fits with me???

What "idea" is he not fulfilling? Kinda hard to say you're settling if we have no clue what you're scratching at.
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It was the same way with my Libra. He kind of just snuck up on me.
At first I wanted nothing to do with him, I found him rude and obnoxious, but he was very persistent so I gave him a chance. We ended up becoming good friends - I was VERY comfortable around him, like I knew him forever. He did always have sex appeal, but I was resisting. Until one day we were sitting there I just realized I was insanely attracted to him.
It literally happened while I was blinking I think.
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I think it happens like this when you're really comfortable with that person, you don't over-analyze so you don't really see it coming.
Also, a lot of it does have to do with you resisting because he doesn't fit your mental list of what you want.
But you're right, you're probably figuring out you might have been a little wrong about what you really want.
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Posted by pigeonpie



Lol that is so cute
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It's all about expectations really. When you expect nothing, you're surprised when something sneaks up on you. Winking
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Posted by tubbyscubby
I just have this "idea" of whom I see myself with and he does not meet all those things. Maybe I just need to scratch these ideas and really see what fits with me???

What "idea" is he not fulfilling? Kinda hard to say you're settling if we have no clue what you're scratching at.


100% right.
What are we talking about here?

Were you hoping for blue eyes and his are brown?
Is it a, he is perfect except for the excessive cocaine usage?
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Posted by brianafay
Posted by pigeonpie



Lol that is so cute
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I concur ....LOL That made me smile. smile
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Posted by LibraSid
Posted by tubbyscubby
I just have this "idea" of whom I see myself with and he does not meet all those things. Maybe I just need to scratch these ideas and really see what fits with me???

What "idea" is he not fulfilling? Kinda hard to say you're settling if we have no clue what you're scratching at.


100% right.
What are we talking about here?

Were you hoping for blue eyes and his are brown?
Is it a, he is perfect except for the excessive cocaine usage?

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This post made me chuckle....Right?!?!? It is like can I mail order a boyfriend? LOL
He does have blue eyes, but blonde hair. Another blonde one. *sigh* My ex husband was blonde. He does not do drugs and rarely drinks which I really like. One of the guys (Gemini) I last dated had severe substance issues and this really was a major deal breaker for me. The other boyfriend (Pisces) liked to smoke pot occasionally. That was not such a deal breaker, because I can handle occasional use, but I don't use at all. The major deal breaker with pisces was he lack of sex drive. *sigh* I am 39!!! I am supposed to be having lots of sex. LOL
Briana - you have brought up some very good points. Thanks for your post. Winking
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So what's wrong with him? I haven't read (perhaps don't recognize) the previous post about the guy.
The things you have said about him here leave me scratching my head about why you are scratching yours...
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You're just casually fucking a Capricorn man on the side .... now!

Since I've been on this site .. you've casually fucked at least 10 men, probably more ... and that's not even counting the ones you tried to have a relationship with but it didn't work because he found out about the fucks on the side .. like the Sag, for example.

Damn .... your pussy must be loose as shit, for reals.
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Posted by LibraSid
So what's wrong with him? I haven't read (perhaps don't recognize) the previous post about the guy.
The things you have said about him here leave me scratching my head about why you are scratching yours...


As I posted on the other board .....I pretty much suck at relationships .....I have the idea in my head that it should be butterflies and intense emotion .....but I am starting to question should it feel like having a comfy sweater on? That is what cap feels like to me? I will say this much I have learned when all the passionate affairs with butterflies in tummy never pan out to be much of anything.
We don't have alot in common but we get along great. He is really kind, caring, loving, trustworthy, and he is really comfortable to me. We don't have some things in common.
I concluded maybe I am just way over thinking this. We are having a great time together and maybe I am just forgeting to live in the moment. *sigh*
PD
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Posted by LibraSid
So what's wrong with him? I haven't read (perhaps don't recognize) the previous post about the guy.
The things you have said about him here leave me scratching my head about why you are scratching yours...



Perhaps, I can clarify something for you LibraSid, so you can stop scratching your head.
Notice that everything is fine until she gets the inkling that he might have feelings for her. He says something to her that makes her think how he regards her has changed, and this change being on the good side in terms making an actual relationship with her.
At this point ... she swims away.
I've been posting here for quite some time, now ... as has she .. and she likes to fuck with no strings attached because that's what sluts do.
Now, I know that people get angry with me when I say things like that ... but, it's bank. Everytime she is sleeping with a man (and she sleeps with many) and the guy starts to like her, she bails on the relationship .. she only wants to sleep with him.
I've seen it time and again.
Now we have this here happening again .. and this is why you are scratching your head, trying to fathom why she sees that there is a problem here when her description of the guy is a total sweetheart.
I don't like promiscious women, and will call her out everytime ... if you don't like it, tough-titty ... I don't like it that she's a ho.
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Lol...so redicccc
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Posted by LovelyScorp
Your question "Have I been Dosed by a Capricorn??"
My answer "Yes"
smile


My answer is yes as well. PD, you can do better...
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