Have you seen a pattern in the people you're attracted to?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Whorpio on Saturday, September 16, 2017 and has 42 replies.
If you could line the sexual partners I chose and enjoyed myself, or people I've had crushes on, you would see common characteristics.


I can't put my finger on why I choose people who look like this. They don't even look like my dad, so it's not a daddy issue thing or sumthin.

Anyone else notice this among your mate selection? Why does this happen??


Physical characteristics only, people.
i believe it's called TASTE.
Yup! They are all emotionally unavailable and have walls up until I bust through that shit like super woman!!!


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The only commonality seems to be physiological issues. If he is sad, depressed, needy or downright psycho I will flock to him.
Posted by Capz
no diss, but is your dad still hot after all this years ?
Capz going hard for whorpio's dad.


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Posted by Dreamyboy
I've noticed they are all similar. Very feminine face, small cute lips, big eyes, not cakey makeup but subtle, I really like the dark mascara and darkened eyebrows girls do these days, they have very light frames and bone structure like narrow shoulders, a slender neck, large hips with average leg size, and very feminine jawline with a sharp chin. There heights are usually 5'3"-5'6" and weighing less than 125 lbs on average. They usually have C cups. Their personalities all vary, but my preference is someone calm and classy with a resting bitch face.


I guess you can say that the women I go for are very very feminine. The one that needs you to kill a bug basically and you could probably pick her up without even trying.
You just like to helicopter her with your dick. I see you ?
They have to be mental, my first boyfriend was a sociopath, I know it gets thrown around a lot but he works in advertising and he is seriously sick in the head, he's also a cancer, case closed.


Second boyfriend was depressed and had anger issues whenever he was drunk - Pisces


And my last boyfriend is Libra and he's got skizophrenia....
Posted by saggurl88
Yup! They are all emotionally unavailable and have walls up until I bust through that shit like super woman!!!

??

Physically tho...
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dick. I see you ?
you can say dick and its not censored?


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I'm special ?
Posted by Dreamyboy
I've noticed they are all similar. Very feminine face, small cute lips, big eyes, not cakey makeup but subtle, I really like the dark mascara and darkened eyebrows girls do these days, they have very light frames and bone structure like narrow shoulders, a slender neck, large hips with average leg size, and very feminine jawline with a sharp chin. There heights are usually 5'3"-5'6" and weighing less than 125 lbs on average. They usually have C cups. Their personalities all vary, but my preference is someone calm and classy with a resting bitch face.


I guess you can say that the women I go for are very very feminine. The one that needs you to kill a bug basically and you could probably pick her up without even trying.

I know just the girl for you...

@littlefairy
Men with brutality written all over but soft heart. And penetrating eyes.
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dick. I see you ?
you can say dick and its not censored?


I'm special ?
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Says your mother.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
They have to be mental, my first boyfriend was a sociopath, I know it gets thrown around a lot but he works in advertising and he is seriously sick in the head, he's also a cancer, case closed.


Second boyfriend was depressed and had anger issues whenever he was drunk - Pisces


And my last boyfriend is Libra and he's got skizophrenia....

Physically, gurl. P-h-y-s-i-c-a-l-l-y!!!
Posted by Whorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Yup! They are all emotionally unavailable and have walls up until I bust through that shit like super woman!!!

??

Physically tho...
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OH!!! Well then in that case, no. I don't really have a type. If I feel it in my jeans, (which I rarely do) Then I'm hunting you down. lol
Posted by Shadowcat
In my case, they are all very different from each other. Height, body type, race, face structure, etc etc. Intelligence or kindness seems like the common factors tbh.

Race varies among the men I choose, but bulky body type and snake eyes seem to be a common denominator, as well as soft facial features and chubby cheeks.
Posted by Impulsv
I'm attracted to cold analytical non emotive men

Cap moons

Duuuuude cap moons also seem to be a common denominator in my FWB selection ???
They all share the same sun sign.
Posted by lionspark
Attracted to: Childish, rough, witty, boyish, flirty, friendly, communicative(the one i thought we would end up as friends until dickmatized and we are dating)



The ones i attract are the opposite: emotional, sensitive, obssesive ( about things)

PHYSICAL CHARACTERISTICS ONLY
Posted by lavaliquid1
I like quiet men and squinty eyes.

Like Asians?
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by saggurl88

Yup! They are all emotionally unavailable and have walls up until I bust through that shit like super woman!!!


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And then they do a runner when your back is turned... Laughing

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Who Sag or the other person?? Lol
Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by LadyNeptune


dick. I see you ?
you can say dick and its not censored?


I'm special ?
Says your mother.
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Says me
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by LadyNeptune


dick. I see you ?
you can say dick and its not censored?


I'm special ?
Says your mother.
Says me
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Even worse...not even your mother thinks that!
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by saggurl88

Yup! They are all emotionally unavailable and have walls up until I bust through that shit like super woman!!!


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And then they do a runner when your back is turned... Laughing

Who Sag or the other person?? Lol


*tuts*

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What does that mean?
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by LadyNeptune


dick. I see you ?
you can say dick and its not censored?


I'm special ?
Says your mother.
Says me
Even worse...not even your mother thinks that!
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You've already lost if your resorting to 'your momma' ?
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by saggurl88

Yup! They are all emotionally unavailable and have walls up until I bust through that shit like super woman!!!


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And then they do a runner when your back is turned... Laughing

Who Sag or the other person?? Lol


*tuts*

What does that mean?


Eh?

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Wut??
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by saggurl88

Yup! They are all emotionally unavailable and have walls up until I bust through that shit like super woman!!!


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And then they do a runner when your back is turned... Laughing

Who Sag or the other person?? Lol


*tuts*

What does that mean?


Eh?

Wut??


Sorry, you're breaking up...

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Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by LadyNeptune


dick. I see you ?
you can say dick and its not censored?


I'm special ?
Says your mother.
Says me
Even worse...not even your mother thinks that!
You've already lost if your resorting to 'your momma' ?
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It's your momma. And who said I lost it? You? ???

Are you a hydrocephalus?
Posted by Whorpio
If you could line the sexual partners I chose and enjoyed myself, or people I've had crushes on, you would see common characteristics.


I can't put my finger on why I choose people who look like this. They don't even look like my dad, so it's not a daddy issue thing or sumthin.

Anyone else notice this among your mate selection? Why does this happen??


Physical characteristics only, people.
Yes. Strong. Protective. And we feel intimate soon...a bit different. Non conformist. Thinks for themselves.
Oh physical??? Tallish medium built darkish hair ...looks different...good looking a little bit of the familiar mixed with something diff...


Em ...strong but kind expression. Eyes good for looking into .....a pokeable nomable.. nose is very important I like to ambush kiss the nose then run...
Darker eyes ..don't think i have ever been serious about blue eyes.....( I have blue eyes ..I have all the blue i need)
..healthy...
I only date women who worship me
Posted by SpreadLies
I only date women who worship me

Here to inflate your ego 1 lie at a time ??
I like universally pretty women.... anybody would want to have her... and she can't be normal personality wise... i hate normal... either a party girl, insecure, depressing to be around.... but she needs to have some drama but not be crazy. I can't deal with sleeping with one eye open.


My ex scorpio is very intelligent 143 IQ, naturally pretty 8 ish, with makeup wow no question 9 - 9.5 looks wise, did magazine spreads, but can't work a job to save her life, scared to be alone and be an old cat lady, afraid of being broke, and slightly whorish because of it, she was really promiscuous before me, and now apparently after me... grrrrr.


she was too into me when we were together to have done anything cheating wise- She's pretty honest about stuff she does so I'll take her at her word. She and I get along great even with her depressive bouts when she's not a sourpuss she's great to be around and she's fun. I don't know many people that could deal with that depressive shit.... its friggin annoying how people are always scared of something all the damn time.


I'M in love with her! lol
The funny thing, me being a black guy. My personality tends to attract people first, and my athletic body.... then they don't even realize I'm black after talking to me for awhile... I actually find the "I've never been with a black guy before" a funny thing.... I have known more black guys I wouldn't want to associate with than I would though. So I get the stigma... But there are some out there that are really cool as shit... and you can show us off to your friends... like I found a good one! lol


My personality actually repels black women for some reason... they THINK I'm not interested, but I really don't have a type, except not being ghetto minded.... I've dated/or FWB ... pretty much every demographic out there. I don't have a favorite.


My only 3 real relationships:

My last ex-scorpio is from eastern europe

My ex -fiance who I was crazy enough to propose to is black/french/Venezuelan and from Trinidad

My first girlfriend was black . she now is a doctor for a major hospital in Atlanta


I'm all over the place. But you just have to be a good person, a couple steps about average looking, and keep yourself in shape. race doesn't matter to me.
The women I dated all stuck out like sore thumbs. Not conventionally attractive at first glance but it will show itself eventually. They were all somewhat Venusian in their habits, come to think of it.


The quirky beauty.
State your signs! Cancer I like commitment.
Yes. I tend to fall for the type with deep dark eyes, petite or a little curvy, dark hair, and somewhat off from the average human. I'm extremely attracted to people like that, and instantly feel connecyed. I hate them all eventually too.
Tall, intelligent men on the slimmer end. Signwise, it's all over the shop. I'm definitely a sucker for tall guys.
Posted by Gemitati
Men with brutality written all over but soft heart. And penetrating eyes.
Drax!!!



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& this guy. lol



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i like my own man. lol


similar like these guys. heehee.


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Posted by Dead_Kermit
I dated women from different countries having different looks, age and profession ranging from waitress to doctor. The only thing they had in common was their fascinating mind.
what are your placements?


cause i dont know any man that dates all types of women from all professions and cultures...


it sounds very sagittarius 9th/3rd.



also libra cause you need to partner.



usually i only know men who want one thing. or a certain way,not all over....

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