Posted by dolluxeBecause I want everything he has to offer. He's a good person but I would like some clarity on where this is going. I don't think I'm delusional.Posted by AnklebiterYes. They're cold and slow to commit. Listen to your Cap. He was straightforward and told you he didn't want commitment so why keep on fighting for it? You deserve better.
So, I've been dating my Capricorn for almost a year. We get along great together and always have fun. I can't get him to commit. He says he doesn't want anyone else but says he doesn't want a commitment. I feel like we are committed but he just won't make it clear. Are Capricorn men normally like this? Sometimes he's so cold to me.click to expand
Posted by dolluxeDid I get the rare snowflake of a cap?! Mine was exclusive from the first time he met me.Posted by AnklebiterYes. They're cold and slow to commit. Listen to your Cap. He was straightforward and told you he didn't want commitment so why keep on fighting for it? You deserve better.
So, I've been dating my Capricorn for almost a year. We get along great together and always have fun. I can't get him to commit. He says he doesn't want anyone else but says he doesn't want a commitment. I feel like we are committed but he just won't make it clear. Are Capricorn men normally like this? Sometimes he's so cold to me.click to expand
Posted by AnklebiterHe's not offering it to you though.Posted by dolluxeBecause I want everything he has to offer. He's a good person but I would like some clarity on where this is going. I don't think I'm delusional.Posted by AnklebiterYes. They're cold and slow to commit. Listen to your Cap. He was straightforward and told you he didn't want commitment so why keep on fighting for it? You deserve better.
So, I've been dating my Capricorn for almost a year. We get along great together and always have fun. I can't get him to commit. He says he doesn't want anyone else but says he doesn't want a commitment. I feel like we are committed but he just won't make it clear. Are Capricorn men normally like this? Sometimes he's so cold to me.click to expand
Posted by confusedlibra78
I've dated two. One was 17 years ago, then 6 years ago and then we reconnected this year. He basically told me I was always the one and if I had moved to where he lived, we would have gotten married and had kids. However, he just told me this.
2nd guy was 3 years ago and we only dated for 3 months. He wouldn't commit (admittedly it was too soon) but he had also been seriously hurt by his ex wife. His friends all told me that I was the only woman he had ever brought around them in 8 years and that he must really like me, but he would never tell me that, so I broke up with him. We're actually still friends and he would get back with me but I'm not interested.
So, yes. They are slow to commit and are very cautious. Not all, I'm sure, but at least the ones I was with.
Posted by Anklebiter
So, I've been dating my Capricorn for almost a year. We get along great together and always have fun. I can't get him to commit. He says he doesn't want anyone else but says he doesn't want a commitment. I feel like we are committed but he just won't make it clear. Are Capricorn men normally like this? Sometimes he's so cold to me.
Posted by LillyPetalNah thats not true ladies! Earth signs might be slower to commit but on the other hand they would never(!) leave anything to chance if they decided that he/she is the one!Posted by dolluxeDid I get the rare snowflake of a cap?! Mine was exclusive from the first time he met me.Posted by AnklebiterYes. They're cold and slow to commit. Listen to your Cap. He was straightforward and told you he didn't want commitment so why keep on fighting for it? You deserve better.
So, I've been dating my Capricorn for almost a year. We get along great together and always have fun. I can't get him to commit. He says he doesn't want anyone else but says he doesn't want a commitment. I feel like we are committed but he just won't make it clear. Are Capricorn men normally like this? Sometimes he's so cold to me.click to expand
Posted by MontgomerySorry, I didn't make it clear. I was planning to move there on my own. When we reconnected, I said to him, so if I had ended up moving there where would our relationship have gone and he said we would have gotten married and had kids. I broke it off with him all 3 times we were together.Posted by confusedlibra78
I've dated two. One was 17 years ago, then 6 years ago and then we reconnected this year. He basically told me I was always the one and if I had moved to where he lived, we would have gotten married and had kids. However, he just told me this.
2nd guy was 3 years ago and we only dated for 3 months. He wouldn't commit (admittedly it was too soon) but he had also been seriously hurt by his ex wife. His friends all told me that I was the only woman he had ever brought around them in 8 years and that he must really like me, but he would never tell me that, so I broke up with him. We're actually still friends and he would get back with me but I'm not interested.
So, yes. They are slow to commit and are very cautious. Not all, I'm sure, but at least the ones I was with.
' I was always the one and if I had moved to where
he lived, we would have gotten married and had kids.
However, he just told me this.'
That's bullshit.
You didn't get married because he didn't propose.
Not because you didn't bend to his will (nor should you).
Sorry to be coarse, but that's on him-- not you.click to expand
Posted by Anklebiter
So, I've been dating my Capricorn for almost a year....
Posted by DMVLmao!! I can't tell you how true this is!! On point
If a man says he doesnt want a relationship but still does relationship things, hes bout to f..u..ck up 2 years of your life.
Posted by Capri-sunAnd to reference the movie again, the exception and the rule. It's a rule for a reason because it is most certainly the case in most scenarios like this. Who cares about the exception? That's who women deluxe themselves. if she was the exception she wouldn't be here. She would be sure.Posted by bkbella86Depends on the situation. In most cases, you are right. However there are exceptions to this.
"I'm not ready for commitment" really means I'm just not that into you. I bet if his dream girl appeared he would have no issues committing. Don't hurt yourself fighting for nothing. This isn't a cap man thing it's a person thing. People go after exactly what they want in life, remember that sis.click to expand
Posted by AnklebiterPosted by dolluxeBecause I want everything he has to offer. He's a good person but I would like some clarity on where this is going. I don't think I'm delusional.Posted by AnklebiterYes. They're cold and slow to commit. Listen to your Cap. He was straightforward and told you he didn't want commitment so why keep on fighting for it? You deserve better.
So, I've been dating my Capricorn for almost a year. We get along great together and always have fun. I can't get him to commit. He says he doesn't want anyone else but says he doesn't want a commitment. I feel like we are committed but he just won't make it clear. Are Capricorn men normally like this? Sometimes he's so cold to me.click to expand
Posted by Capri-sunDuh nothing is certain in life. We can say "that's not always the case" for anything in life. What's your point?Posted by bkbella86Posted by Capri-sunAnd to reference the movie again, the exception and the rule. It's a rule for a reason because it is most certainly the case in most scenarios like this. Who cares about the exception? That's who women deluxe themselves. if she was the exception she wouldn't be here. She would be sure.Posted by bkbella86Depends on the situation. In most cases, you are right. However there are exceptions to this.
"I'm not ready for commitment" really means I'm just not that into you. I bet if his dream girl appeared he would have no issues committing. Don't hurt yourself fighting for nothing. This isn't a cap man thing it's a person thing. People go after exactly what they want in life, remember that sis.
Those who base relationships off of more than just words.
Again, not always the case.click to expand
Posted by DMV
If a man says he doesnt want a relationship but still does relationship things, hes bout to f..u..ck up 2 years of your life.