HELP!!! Virgo man really confusin me?
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by aries123 on Wednesday, April 17, 2013 and has 3 replies.
Hi im new here but i really wud like some input and help if possible lol.
Ive met this virgo guy and we been texin and talkin on phone for a while and eventually met up last sunday had a lovely afternoon and really got on and he gave me all the signs and said all the things that he def wanted to see me again and "give it a go". We both been single for over a year and were very open in what we wanted and as it happened we want the same thing, to the point where we both said there was absolutely no reason for us to see how things went and hpefully buld a relationship.
BUT, lol. Eventhough hes been in touch everyday since (by text) and keeps sayin he cant wait to see me and cant wait to start buildin a possible relationship I still havent seen him!! \he's made no effort or plans to see me either, eventho ive usggested things. \he says hes sick of goin pub with is mates and sick of bein on his own, then he goes to hte pub anyway!! If he was that bothered about me why int he makin an effort?? I am so confused? Ive told him how I feel about the situation this morning and said maybe its not to be and he just seems to be playin mind games and his reply was "what ave i done wrong"!! He just cant see it. Then he said "is it over then?" Is what over??!! lol. I wish hed given it a chance to even begin which i said to him.
What goes on in a Virgo's head?? Is everything he said the truth? Coz from where im standing i homestly dont know what to think. The worse thing about it is we get on so well its like we known each other years, so comfortable and open with each other and both want a relationship. But im still gettin mixed messages. what does it all mean?
Ive met this virgo guy and we been texin and talkin on phone for a while and eventually met up last sunday had a lovely afternoon and really got on and he gave me all the signs and said all the things that he def wanted to see me again and "give it a go". We both been single for over a year and were very open in what we wanted and as it happened we want the same thing, to the point where we both said there was absolutely no reason for us to see how things went and hpefully buld a relationship.
BUT, lol. Eventhough hes been in touch everyday since (by text) and keeps sayin he cant wait to see me and cant wait to start buildin a possible relationship I still havent seen him!! \he's made no effort or plans to see me either, eventho ive usggested things. \he says hes sick of goin pub with is mates and sick of bein on his own, then he goes to hte pub anyway!! If he was that bothered about me why int he makin an effort?? I am so confused? Ive told him how I feel about the situation this morning and said maybe its not to be and he just seems to be playin mind games and his reply was "what ave i done wrong"!! He just cant see it. Then he said "is it over then?" Is what over??!! lol. I wish hed given it a chance to even begin which i said to him.
What goes on in a Virgo's head?? Is everything he said the truth? Coz from where im standing i homestly dont know what to think. The worse thing about it is we get on so well its like we known each other years, so comfortable and open with each other and both want a relationship. But im still gettin mixed messages. what does it all mean?
Aww thank you for that and now I feel in hindsight you are probably right. It was just the mixed messages I was getting him saying how he couldnt wait to see me etc. and then just hasnt made any effort. If he was really that bothered wouldnt he have seen me by now instead of goin pub with his mates every night. He even says hes sick of just goin pub all time. Then dont go then!!!
Ive blown it now anyway coz ive said there's no use in us stayin in touch coz hes not really that bothered. He also told me this mornin hes bookin a holiday to tenerife tomorrow.
Ive blown it now anyway coz ive said there's no use in us stayin in touch coz hes not really that bothered. He also told me this mornin hes bookin a holiday to tenerife tomorrow.
The time between recognizing that one is sick of doing a certain activity, and the time that they actually stop doing that activity, can be long indeed.
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