High School Sweetheart and 22 years later...

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by MilaniKisses on Wednesday, March 15, 2017 and has 17 replies.
Hi all,

Recently I had been talking to someone I was highly interested in and had gone on several dates with. Well one day he went cold... Never heard back from him until today... I thought him going cold was because he was a Libra and that's a common trait. But he came clean that he had been contacted by his high school sweetheart.

My question is... Because you had a high school fling (22 years ago), will it workout? Are they even the same people as they were when they were teens? Could it just be excitement about running into each other?

Yeah it upsets me, but we've been chatting back and fourth all day today since he text me back. I'm happy for him and do hope the best in which I've conveyed to him.
Libras and their high school sweethearts ?

(Worked out for me though)



Was it really a fling or his first love ??
Posted by MilaniKisses
Hi all,

Recently I had been talking to someone I was highly interested in and had gone on several dates with. Well one day he went cold... Never heard back from him until today... I thought him going cold was because he was a Libra and that's a common trait. But he came clean that he had been contacted by his high school sweetheart.

My question is... Because you had a high school fling (22 years ago), will it workout? Are they even the same people as they were when they were teens? Could it just be excitement about running into each other?

Yeah it upsets me, but we've been chatting back and fourth all day today since he text me back. I'm happy for him and do hope the best in which I've conveyed to him.
They have history together, you don't. Up to you if you want to compete with that.
Yeah I'm not competing with this situation and moving on. He was with her for 3 year in high school and they were forced to breakup by her dad because he walked in on them having sex.

Blah, on to the next guy!
Anything is possible ... maybe he's just blowing you off and came up with this excuse. who knows.


If it doesn't really matter to you, then why make this thread?


There are some people in this forum that have hanging on to ex's and making pining threads about them, and in where they monitor their every move (stalking) for years. And there's no rhyme or reason for it in any logical sense .... except people (for the most part) cannot get over that they aren't the center of the universe.
UPDATE:

So I noticed he started to text me a few weeks ago. He knew I was involved with someone (no longer with), so we just chatted regularly as friends.

Recently I told him how I ended things with my 'Aqua' guy and then thats when I began receiving more flirty texts from him. Today he called me "cutie" when he was checking how my day was.

I finally asked... "How are things with you and your high school sweetheart?"

He said they ended it - and would rather not talk about it...


As for us, we decided to be friends now since we both got out of relationships. But the thought of us revisiting where we last left off had both crossed our minds.
Yeah, "Sloppy seconds" NOT me! Even if you post back, "We're just gonna be friends"....uh huh! I am NO man's second choice!!!!!

Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: How does it feel coming in second?
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by P-Angel
Anything is possible ... maybe he's just blowing you off and came up with this excuse. who knows.


If it doesn't really matter to you, then why make this thread?


There are some people in this forum that have hanging on to ex's and making pining threads about them, and in where they monitor their every move (stalking) for years. And there's no rhyme or reason for it in any logical sense .... except people (for the most part) cannot get over that they aren't the center of the universe.
Fact...
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P-Angel always has something to say... And I do find it therapeutic to write about it... Its an outlet for me. Its YOUR choice if you want to read it and chime in.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by EvatheDiva
Yeah, "Sloppy seconds" NOT me! Even if you post back, "We're just gonna be friends"....uh huh! I am NO man's second choice!!!!!

Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: How does it feel coming in second?
Are you kidding! You'd be surprised at how many people like sloppy seconds... But I'm with you on that one...

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Yes I agree too and as a Virgo, would not normally do... but the dating pool for me is way smaller than comparison to everyone else as I am transgender. Its not easy to find straight men who would openly date a transgender woman... This guy is open to it.
Posted by MilaniKisses
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by P-Angel
Anything is possible ... maybe he's just blowing you off and came up with this excuse. who knows.


If it doesn't really matter to you, then why make this thread?


There are some people in this forum that have hanging on to ex's and making pining threads about them, and in where they monitor their every move (stalking) for years. And there's no rhyme or reason for it in any logical sense .... except people (for the most part) cannot get over that they aren't the center of the universe.
Fact...
P-Angel always has something to say... And I do find it therapeutic to write about it... Its an outlet for me. Its YOUR choice if you want to read it and chime in.
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who gave you permission to speak?

Lillypetal isn't here to speak for you, and answer all questions for you ... so until she comes to ride on your (testicles) your voice is irrelevant.

In fact, there's questions for you right now on the other thread from honest and sincere people and you just snuff your nose up and ignore them like the common bitch you are.

You're not going to make it here .....




Posted by P-Angel
Posted by MilaniKisses
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by P-Angel
Anything is possible ... maybe he's just blowing you off and came up with this excuse. who knows.


If it doesn't really matter to you, then why make this thread?


There are some people in this forum that have hanging on to ex's and making pining threads about them, and in where they monitor their every move (stalking) for years. And there's no rhyme or reason for it in any logical sense .... except people (for the most part) cannot get over that they aren't the center of the universe.
Fact...
P-Angel always has something to say... And I do find it therapeutic to write about it... Its an outlet for me. Its YOUR choice if you want to read it and chime in.



who gave you permission to speak?

Lillypetal isn't here to speak for you, and answer all questions for you ... so until she comes to ride on your (testicles) your voice is irrelevant.

In fact, there's questions for you right now on the other thread from honest and sincere people and you just snuff your nose up and ignore them like the common bitch you are.

You're not going to make it here .....




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Wow P-Angel - I didnt say anything bad or good. The way you lashed out at me was wrong. And for you to throw around my genitals or rather who I am like that was not very nice. I'm sure this will be on your review before the 'Gates'... If you even make it there.
Posted by MilaniKisses
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by MilaniKisses
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by P-Angel
Anything is possible ... maybe he's just blowing you off and came up with this excuse. who knows.


If it doesn't really matter to you, then why make this thread?


There are some people in this forum that have hanging on to ex's and making pining threads about them, and in where they monitor their every move (stalking) for years. And there's no rhyme or reason for it in any logical sense .... except people (for the most part) cannot get over that they aren't the center of the universe.
Fact...
P-Angel always has something to say... And I do find it therapeutic to write about it... Its an outlet for me. Its YOUR choice if you want to read it and chime in.



who gave you permission to speak?

Lillypetal isn't here to speak for you, and answer all questions for you ... so until she comes to ride on your (testicles) your voice is irrelevant.

In fact, there's questions for you right now on the other thread from honest and sincere people and you just snuff your nose up and ignore them like the common bitch you are.

You're not going to make it here .....




Wow P-Angel - I didnt say anything bad or good. The way you lashed out at me was wrong. And for you to throw around my genitals or rather who I am like that was not very nice. I'm sure this will be on your review before the 'Gates'... If you even make it there.
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You don't have permission to speak.

You designated a spokesperson for you, and you did this by ignoring the nice, kind people who were talking to you on your thread .... by letting a Lilly bully them.

then you have the audacity to pretend like you're a moral upstanding human being who is god enough to threaten a person's soul?

You're fucking rude, and should be called out for being so. You want to be a nice person .. then answer and talk to those people, instead of sitting on your high horse.


Until then ... you're just a common bitch with a dick a testicles.

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Posted by MilaniKisses
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by MilaniKisses
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by P-Angel
Anything is possible ... maybe he's just blowing you off and came up with this excuse. who knows.


If it doesn't really matter to you, then why make this thread?


There are some people in this forum that have hanging on to ex's and making pining threads about them, and in where they monitor their every move (stalking) for years. And there's no rhyme or reason for it in any logical sense .... except people (for the most part) cannot get over that they aren't the center of the universe.
Fact...
P-Angel always has something to say... And I do find it therapeutic to write about it... Its an outlet for me. Its YOUR choice if you want to read it and chime in.



who gave you permission to speak?

Lillypetal isn't here to speak for you, and answer all questions for you ... so until she comes to ride on your (testicles) your voice is irrelevant.

In fact, there's questions for you right now on the other thread from honest and sincere people and you just snuff your nose up and ignore them like the common bitch you are.

You're not going to make it here .....




Wow P-Angel - I didnt say anything bad or good. The way you lashed out at me was wrong. And for you to throw around my genitals or rather who I am like that was not very nice. I'm sure this will be on your review before the 'Gates'... If you even make it there.


You don't have permission to speak.

You designated a spokesperson for you, and you did this by ignoring the nice, kind people who were talking to you on your thread .... by letting a Lilly bully them.

then you have the audacity to pretend like you're a moral upstanding human being who is god enough to threaten a person's soul?

You're fucking rude, and should be called out for being so. You want to be a nice person .. then answer and talk to those people, instead of sitting on your high horse.


Until then ... you're just a common bitch with a dick a testicles.

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Thats mean.
And P-Angel - I never threatened you and never let anyone speak on my behalf. Those who understood what I was trying to say and backed me up on what I was say I am grateful for and of course let them speak. But not listening to others that were 'good' is also false.... What I didn't ask for was peoples opinions. It was supposed to have been a simple Q&A thread - but people wanted to be hateful and chime in with their own opinions... Those people that were hateful (yourself included) went against everything I was saying...
Also I am sure you are going to reply with some mean thing and also calling me a 'man' and such... Dont even bother if its going to be hateful. I would like to have an adult conversation with you for once.


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Haha! OMG that made me laugh ? ThaT was great! Bahaha