How can I stop comparing myself to my husband's ex-girlfriend?

Posted by wagtail
...may I ask, why are you married...?

What led to that decision

Posted by Turquoise
Me and my husband are newlyweds and have been married a month and have been with each other four months all together. Lately my husband has brought up his ex-girlfriend a few times and have made a few comparisons between us. He's been comparing our appearances, our breasts, the size of our vagi... and our personalities. He talks to me about their sex life and the things that they did. He tells me about all the nice necklaces he got her and all the money he spent on her. He doesn't talk about her much but when he does he shares with me a lot of things about their relationship. The only reason I get insecure when he talks about this particular ex is because when we first got together his relationship with her was not fully over he still had feelings for her and was very emotionally attached to her even though he said they were bestfriends. I asked him to cut off contact with her which he did three months ago but he recently has admitted to recently contacting her when I was not around. I always thought he loved her more just by the way he talked about her. Even though he broke up with her and chose me I still wonder and get curious as to what he's comparing me with. Yesterday I was on Facebook and I don't know why but I just randomly looked on his ex-girlfriend's page. I just wanted to look and see her character and what she was about. My husband looked over at my phone and saw me looking on her page and he immediately snatched my phone and got upset. He told me he was fully over her and that he moved on and said he chose me so I shouldn't be comparing myself to her. He then said, "What are you comparing your breasts?" "Oh yeah, her breasts are two cup sizes bigger than yours she wears a 40D." By the sound of his comment it seemed like he was putting her on a pedestal. He tells me he's the one I chose and that he wants to be with me and that he has fully moved on from her that I was a better match for him and hates that I keep bringing up his past. I question if my husband really loves me enough. My husband can be critical my weight or appearance sometimes.

Posted by wagtail
...may I ask, why are you married...?

What led to that decision