krysrenee7
@krysrenee7
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How can men not see this?!
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You can't use shallow things as your trump card for appealing to others, but then get upset or seem confused when you attract "shallow" folks in return.
Men have been telling women this from the beginning of time.
Just curious though...has it ever occurred to men that the same advice applies to them too?
I notice that rich guys aren't too bothered that gold diggers flock to them 24-7. They know what they're doing. They're not naive or stupid. They know that they can't get upset when women validate their worth by what they have if they themselves validate their own worth as men in the same way.
Men have been telling women this from the beginning of time.
Just curious though...has it ever occurred to men that the same advice applies to them too?
I notice that rich guys aren't too bothered that gold diggers flock to them 24-7. They know what they're doing. They're not naive or stupid. They know that they can't get upset when women validate their worth by what they have if they themselves validate their own worth as men in the same way.
But the small fish/average Joe's can't seem to figure this one out. Interesting.
It's not rocket science fellas
It's not rocket science fellas
Great points!!! I love you for this.
Posted by krysrenee7
A woman dresses provocatively. She lets all her goods hang out. She leaves nothing to the imagination. And in doing all of these things gives men the impression that she WANTS them to seek an interest in her based on her physical/sexual attributes primarily. She's doing this b/c she wants to appeal to the sexual nature of a man. What happens next? She gets exactly what she asked for
Except money after she spreads the legs...that's how a lot of dense, stupid women fail in life. No sympathy. One day...they'll get it. Or not. Again..no sympathy at all.
Posted by krysrenee7
Quick question guys: If you validate your OWN worth by how big your slinger is, how much money you have, how trendy you dress, how muscular you are & anything else that technically sits on the outside of the body/heart, why are you so confused or upset that women may base your worth as a man on the very things YOU put out?!
Is it really that surprising that you keep attracting gold diggers if YOU're the one who knowingly or unknowingly is doing everything that would most likely to appeal to THAT specific kind of woman?!
-You want to showboat how much money you have, but Lord forbid someone see you for your money.
-You want women to notice your nice car, clothes & great job, but yet you don't want women to consider that to be the base of their attraction to you?
-You want women to see you for what's on the inside, but yet in your game to appeal to women, you're actually/technically showing women everything BUT what you have to offer on the inside.
How is a man who's hoping to appeal to women through his materials any different or any less silly than a woman doing so with her body?!
The man who wants others to notice him for his money is going to attract what he puts out, no different than the women who want to appeal to others via her body, would.
I can't believe that men seriously don't understand how gold diggers came about to be gold diggers LOL
Not saying gold digging is right or fair. Just that men can't handle the same advice about being careful what trump cards they show + what they put out, like they're constantly giving lectures to women about
That is all :-)
...and I had to separate where you sailed right off into the group of dense women with the above.
If a man wants to get laid, he's going to get laid and enjoy it with NO regrets. Women like you fail to realize this and get that through your thick non-logical skulls. If she's a good lay..and he has money..WHO CARES? End result..again, he's gonna get laid. Most men KNOW by experience who the gold diggers are. If they don't by now and can't spot the fake, drama queens too lazy to fend for herself but spreads when she smells money, so what??... He's still getting laid. No matter how hard you try krys, and any woman who thinks they can be a man...it's never going to happen. One day it will be realized. In the mean time it's quite entertainin
*In the mean time it's quite entertaining... lol
Posted by krysrenee7
But the small fish/average Joe's can't seem to figure this one out. Interesting.
It's not rocket science fellas
Again...even the "small fish/average Joe is getting a Joe Blow Job and laid.
lol
Posted by LetltB
*In the mean time it's quite entertaining... lol
Indeed it is. And I'm so glad you typed all of that so I didn't have to.
I think I love you..........
I'd say it's a humanity issue rather than a men issue. Though I always have a good laugh about the supposed successful rich nice boy turning gnarly because he didn't get a screw.
Posted by tizianiPosted by aquasnoz
I'd say it's a humanity issue rather than a men issue. Though I always have a good laugh about the supposed successful rich nice boy turning gnarly because he didn't get a screw.
Not quite how it happens in the Harlequin novels is it?click to expand
Nope but it makes for quite good comedy if you ask me :p or the nerd turned buff to test out a theory which is the secrets of the vag.
Wow, I sound like a total arse.
Posted by CapTennPosted by LetltB
*In the mean time it's quite entertaining... lol
Indeed it is. And I'm so glad you typed all of that so I didn't have to.
I think I love you..........
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I'd high five and place several gold stars.
SMART men can smell a gold digger/user from away. They're not stupid. They know exactly what they're doing to gold diggers and if they're HOT, with a hot body, they're going to use her back as much as they want. If they're that "type" of guy too, that is. None of this takes rocket science either.
@LetItBe: Well 1st, I'm married. Happily. And just b/c I see/understand things from all angles of a topic doesn't mean that I personally identify with or can relate to any of the examples of women I spoke on. I've had no issues getting or keeping a man with the mind/opinions/mentality that I have or that you think I have. So let's get that straight.
2. If I had a dollar for every man who complained about the women in society (especially the gold diggers), whether they're getting laid a lot or not, I'd have trillions of dollars.
Men may not care as much about how they're perceived when they're young & only care about getting laid. But when a man matures & starts thinking of a lifelong companion, his "search" for women can be very discouraging, especially if he keeps running into the kinds of women who are only good for sex & not for a marriage, like he truly wants at that point.
There are just as many men who complain about the unfair/shallow standards/needs women have as there are women who do.
Oh & thanks for confirming a lot of women's preconceived notions that men are a bunch of horny creatures who's only care in life is to find a good lay. F the fact that there's more to life than p****sy & bad girls, as long as a man is getting ridden every night, who cares if people judge him or see him in a shallow light, right?! Riiiiiiiiiight
3. Men keep trying to convince themselves that women can't share the same views as men when it comes to sex. Wake up. A specific mentality isn't just limited to one gender, buddy. It's not 1 of those things when men can only own a way of thinking/behavior.
There are plenty of women who will see you, just wanna bang you & that's it. Women have 1 nighters all the time, with no shame, guilt or regrets about it. Just like there are men who don't have to follow the trend of defining his manhood by how much cooch he gets, there are women who could care less about babies, marriages & love, and instead only want the D!
I personally know a woman who's more of a "man" than most of you :-p
Accept it already! Sheeeesh
2. If I had a dollar for every man who complained about the women in society (especially the gold diggers), whether they're getting laid a lot or not, I'd have trillions of dollars.
Men may not care as much about how they're perceived when they're young & only care about getting laid. But when a man matures & starts thinking of a lifelong companion, his "search" for women can be very discouraging, especially if he keeps running into the kinds of women who are only good for sex & not for a marriage, like he truly wants at that point.
There are just as many men who complain about the unfair/shallow standards/needs women have as there are women who do.
Oh & thanks for confirming a lot of women's preconceived notions that men are a bunch of horny creatures who's only care in life is to find a good lay. F the fact that there's more to life than p****sy & bad girls, as long as a man is getting ridden every night, who cares if people judge him or see him in a shallow light, right?! Riiiiiiiiiight
3. Men keep trying to convince themselves that women can't share the same views as men when it comes to sex. Wake up. A specific mentality isn't just limited to one gender, buddy. It's not 1 of those things when men can only own a way of thinking/behavior.
There are plenty of women who will see you, just wanna bang you & that's it. Women have 1 nighters all the time, with no shame, guilt or regrets about it. Just like there are men who don't have to follow the trend of defining his manhood by how much cooch he gets, there are women who could care less about babies, marriages & love, and instead only want the D!
I personally know a woman who's more of a "man" than most of you :-p
Accept it already! Sheeeesh
lol Some guys/men who have MONEY can and WILL bang whoever they damn well please.
And the golddiggers/users will use it to full advantage. Like attracts like. lol
soooo....hang on to your husband's, girls.....
And the golddiggers/users will use it to full advantage. Like attracts like. lol
soooo....hang on to your husband's, girls.....
And why not stick to the subject?! lol
The topic wasn't about the men who could care less. The topic was about the men who DO care. And plenty do.
Anywho, carry on....
The topic wasn't about the men who could care less. The topic was about the men who DO care. And plenty do.
Anywho, carry on....
Posted by krysrenee7
And why not stick to the subject?! lol
The topic wasn't about the men who could care less. The topic was about the men who DO care. And plenty do.
Anywho, carry on....
lol ok
just be careful, krys. make sure your husband is home every night. and you know where he is.
I am not concerned about men running into gold diggers or women acting slutty and running into players.
Once you know what you want, the whole social landscape around you will change. You will run into the people that are a fit for your life.
The others who'll encounter, your gaze won't linger on them for one second so it will be like they're invisible.
Once you know what you want, the whole social landscape around you will change. You will run into the people that are a fit for your life.
The others who'll encounter, your gaze won't linger on them for one second so it will be like they're invisible.
Posted by Damnata
I am not concerned about men running into gold diggers or women acting slutty and running into players.
Once you know what you want, the whole social landscape around you will change. You will run into the people that are a fit for your life.
The others who'll encounter, your gaze won't linger on them for one second so it will be like they're invisible.
I think there is a lot of wisdom in your statement.
Posted by CapTennPosted by Damnata
I am not concerned about men running into gold diggers or women acting slutty and running into players.
Once you know what you want, the whole social landscape around you will change. You will run into the people that are a fit for your life.
The others who'll encounter, your gaze won't linger on them for one second so it will be like they're invisible.
I think there is a lot of wisdom in your statement.click to expand
Life is simple like that. Of course the drama will suffer and a lot of people who get hooked on that like cocaine will also see it as boring.
Meh.
Posted by krysrenee7
If I had a dollar for every man who complained about the women in society (especially the gold diggers), whether they're getting laid a lot or not, I'd have trillions of dollars.
So, statistically, when considering all of the variables, in order for you to have a trillion dollars for this super hero feat you have .... you would have had to meet like a septillion amount of people.
wait ... you can't count people more than once and the population is what? around 7.5 billion?
And you can't backtrack and try to state that you meant if you had $ 10,000.00 for every time you heard a guy complain about that .... because we all can read and then you might make yourself look stupid. So, you have to keep face and stay with a dollar for each.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by krysrenee7
And why not stick to the subject?! lol
The topic wasn't about the men who could care less. The topic was about the men who DO care. And plenty do.
Anywho, carry on....
lol ok
just be careful, krys. make sure your husband is home every night. and you know where he is.click to expand
My husband is home every night. And I'm not the type of wife that feels the need to keep all eyes on him, never letting him out of my sight. I know better. That's not real trust. That's insecurity in disguise. And if you know anything about marriage, you know that it'll fail quickly if you're always making your insecurities or trust issues their problem.
He's done/said nothing to give me a reason not to trust him, therefore there's no reason for me to go about my marriage as if I don't trust him lol
Leave it to P-Angel to make this post about dollar amounts vs. sticking to the subject lmao
Is that all you've got P?! Damn, you're really reaching this time. Maybe next time your comeback will be more witty with more substance to it. Need tips?! Until then, have several seats, k?! Thanks :-)
Is that all you've got P?! Damn, you're really reaching this time. Maybe next time your comeback will be more witty with more substance to it. Need tips?! Until then, have several seats, k?! Thanks :-)
Posted by krysrenee7Posted by lisabethur8Posted by krysrenee7
And why not stick to the subject?! lol
The topic wasn't about the men who could care less. The topic was about the men who DO care. And plenty do.
Anywho, carry on....
lol ok
just be careful, krys. make sure your husband is home every night. and you know where he is.
My husband is home every night. And I'm not the type of wife that feels the need to keep all eyes on him, never letting him out of my sight. I know better. That's not real trust. That's insecurity in disguise. And if you know anything about marriage, you know that it'll fail quickly if you're always making your insecurities or trust issues their problem.
He's done/said nothing to give me a reason not to trust him, therefore there's no reason for me to go about my marriage as if I don't trust him lolclick to expand
it was more of a snarky response. I don't know if you're married or not, and honestly what goes on between you and your husband is between you and him. Also, that's an interesting little spiel you went on about, which has alot of truth into it.
Posted by DamnataPosted by CapTennPosted by Damnata
I am not concerned about men running into gold diggers or women acting slutty and running into players.
Once you know what you want, the whole social landscape around you will change. You will run into the people that are a fit for your life.
The others who'll encounter, your gaze won't linger on them for one second so it will be like they're invisible.
I think there is a lot of wisdom in your statement.
Life is simple like that. Of course the drama will suffer and a lot of people who get hooked on that like cocaine will also see it as boring.
Meh.click to expand
like attract like.
@lisa: I figured that, but just in case you were being serious, I felt the need to point that out lol
It's hard to tell the tone of someone's words in writing sometimes. You never know with DXPers sometimes. 1 minute they're giving you a thumbs up & the next minute they're suddenly trying to sneakily verbally assassinate you with passive-aggressive jabs :-p
Anywho, yeah I agree that like attracts like. Just wondering if people really understand how authentic that philosophy really is, hence the reason for creating this thread.
Some men want to appeal to women through money & materials, but God forbid they attract a woman who bites the bait & gives them exactly what they asked for ---> Initially measures their worth as a man based on what he's got or owns.
It's hard to tell the tone of someone's words in writing sometimes. You never know with DXPers sometimes. 1 minute they're giving you a thumbs up & the next minute they're suddenly trying to sneakily verbally assassinate you with passive-aggressive jabs :-p
Anywho, yeah I agree that like attracts like. Just wondering if people really understand how authentic that philosophy really is, hence the reason for creating this thread.
Some men want to appeal to women through money & materials, but God forbid they attract a woman who bites the bait & gives them exactly what they asked for ---> Initially measures their worth as a man based on what he's got or owns.
I know men who complain that the only women they meet are sluts, party girls, drama queens, etc. Well, that guy is always drunk in the bar and that's he meets them.
And this is the type of guy only approaches the girls that look like they will put out. He will take them seriously and date them, then get pissed when she screws around and cheats on him.
I just tell them to stop looking for love in a bar and find a different type of place to meet women.
And this is the type of guy only approaches the girls that look like they will put out. He will take them seriously and date them, then get pissed when she screws around and cheats on him.
I just tell them to stop looking for love in a bar and find a different type of place to meet women.
Posted by Rabbit
More to the point of the OP...
I don't think I've ever really heard any man complain about this...except those supposed "nice guys".
Most men know precisely what they are getting into. Believe it or not.
Well fortunately for you, there's a big world out there that goes beyond whatever you've seen or heard of. You may not have heard of men complaining about women in this arena, but I and many others have.
Hell a lot of women subconsciously know what they're getting into when they dress like sl***ts but that still doesn't make it any less annoying when they complain about the results they keep getting.
Women aren't the only species who complain, have insecurities about the opposite sex, have a slanted view of the opposite sex, or wonder where they're going wrong. Look around. Plenty of men are just as much walking contradictions/hypocrites as women are.
Posted by krysrenee7Posted by Rabbit
More to the point of the OP...
I don't think I've ever really heard any man complain about this...except those supposed "nice guys".
Most men know precisely what they are getting into. Believe it or not.
Well fortunately for you, there's a big world out there that goes beyond whatever you've seen or heard of. You may not have heard of men complaining about women in this arena, but I and many others have.
Hell a lot of women subconsciously know what they're getting into when they dress like sl***ts but that still doesn't make it any less annoying when they complain about the results they keep getting.
Women aren't the only species who complain, have insecurities about the opposite sex, have a slanted view of the opposite sex, or wonder where they're going wrong. Look around. Plenty of men are just as much walking contradictions/hypocrites as women are.click to expand
yeah but...who cares if they dress like sluts. it's only something if you're threathened by it. let them be what they want to be, boobs hanging out and butt hanging out.
Posted by krysrenee7
If I had a dollar for every man who complained about the women in society (especially the gold diggers), whether they're getting laid a lot or not, I'd have trillions of dollars.
Well, I don't know what's up with Rabbit .... afterall, there have a been a trillion dudes stating this.
pardon me ... that's plural, so at least 2 trillion dudes
Yeeeah, I'm equally as baffled by guys who do that shit.
RAWR GOLD DIGGERS ARE BAD, ALL WOMEN ARE GOLD DIGGERS, BLAH BLAH.
*flashes cash and cars*
*attracts gold diggers/users*
YOU'RE AN IDIOT. Omg.
An ex turned into this, apparently. It's even more amusing because his current girlfriend is a barely recovering addict and is very likely only with him because he's all about flashing how much money he makes.
BUT OMG WOMEN ARE TEH GOLD DIGGERS!! (according to him)
But I've seen a lot of guys do that shit. Hell, my own brother does it, inadvertently ,and now he's stuck with some dependent chick (who also has parents trying to pawn her off on him because he could "provide"), and does not understand why his big sister does not approve of his relationship.
In regard to the women who dress like that retarded ass shit, it's embarrassing. I see it a lot- going out on errands, to doc's appts, etc in clubbing attire, looking like some dumb skank. I'm all for dressing "cute," or whatever they'd defend that stupid shit as, but too many women just do not know how to dress any more and somewhere along the line, clubbing attire became a commonplace in every day wear.
...just no.
Quit being a dumb bitch. kthx.
RAWR GOLD DIGGERS ARE BAD, ALL WOMEN ARE GOLD DIGGERS, BLAH BLAH.
*flashes cash and cars*
*attracts gold diggers/users*
YOU'RE AN IDIOT. Omg.
An ex turned into this, apparently. It's even more amusing because his current girlfriend is a barely recovering addict and is very likely only with him because he's all about flashing how much money he makes.
BUT OMG WOMEN ARE TEH GOLD DIGGERS!! (according to him)
But I've seen a lot of guys do that shit. Hell, my own brother does it, inadvertently ,and now he's stuck with some dependent chick (who also has parents trying to pawn her off on him because he could "provide"), and does not understand why his big sister does not approve of his relationship.
In regard to the women who dress like that retarded ass shit, it's embarrassing. I see it a lot- going out on errands, to doc's appts, etc in clubbing attire, looking like some dumb skank. I'm all for dressing "cute," or whatever they'd defend that stupid shit as, but too many women just do not know how to dress any more and somewhere along the line, clubbing attire became a commonplace in every day wear.
...just no.
Quit being a dumb bitch. kthx.
Posted by Rabbit
More to the point of the OP...
I don't think I've ever really heard any man complain about this...except those supposed "nice guys".
+1
Whining like bitches because their conniving ways won't get them good women and neither will trying to buy them like some whore.
I had a coworker post some shit on New Year's Eve about how he ended up spending the entire night with some chick who was replacing a chick who bailed on him, and he spent all this money and time with her, but didn't get laid.
....
I told him to buy a prostitute if he was that desperate to get laid.
Several of his friends "liked" the comment, haha.
It's quite disturbing how often I see some guys, usually younger, equate time and money to guaranteed sex. It's like you DO realize you're embracing the concept of prostitution in the females you're seeking, right?
Posted by RabbitPosted by krysrenee7Posted by Rabbit
More to the point of the OP...
I don't think I've ever really heard any man complain about this...except those supposed "nice guys".
Most men know precisely what they are getting into. Believe it or not.
Well fortunately for you, there's a big world out there that goes beyond whatever you've seen or heard of. You may not have heard of men complaining about women in this arena, but I and many others have.
Hell a lot of women subconsciously know what they're getting into when they dress like sl***ts but that still doesn't make it any less annoying when they complain about the results they keep getting.
Women aren't the only species who complain, have insecurities about the opposite sex, have a slanted view of the opposite sex, or wonder where they're going wrong. Look around. Plenty of men are just as much walking contradictions/hypocrites as women are.
You ask a question from men...a man gives you his experience...and you reply with a snarky passive agressive little pissy rant...
SMH
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If you create a thread about being a mother and experiencing certain things & you get responses from people saying, "I really don't think mothers care," you would respond the same way. Not everyone is going to be able to relate to each thread. But if a person is stating that they've seen a common scenario or not, why argue with the OP claiming that it never happens?! If it never happened we wouldn't be having this conversation lol
Trust me, I'm not imagining things. What may have been my experiences & what I've seen may not have been your experiences or what you've seen. Cool. But just b/c you haven't seen it doesn't mean it's not out there. Doesn't mean it's not happening. Doesn't mean certain mentalities aren't a reality for some folks. That's all I was saying. *Shrugs*
Posted by krysrenee7
Trust me, I'm not imagining things.
Yeah Rabbit, you should trust her ..... she's knows of at least a trillion dudes who have complained about this.
Posted by krysrenee7
If you create a thread about being a mother and experiencing certain things & you get responses from people saying, "I really don't think mothers care," you would respond the same way. Not everyone is going to be able to relate to each thread. But if a person is stating that they've seen a common scenario or not, why argue with the OP claiming that it never happens?! If it never happened we wouldn't be having this conversation lol
Trust me, I'm not imagining things. What may have been my experiences & what I've seen may not have been your experiences or what you've seen. Cool. But just b/c you haven't seen it doesn't mean it's not out there. Doesn't mean it's not happening. Doesn't mean certain mentalities aren't a reality for some folks. That's all I was saying. *Shrugs*
Seriously. What the hell is with this ignorant, head in the sand response of "dur I never see it, so it must not be very common or true!"
Probability, sweetcheeks. Not everyone will be exposed to as much fuckery as others. All depends on where you live, who you're around, etc.
^^^ My point exactly. It's 1 thing to admit that you've never experienced something for yourself. Fine. But to say that it must not be happening in the world b/c you haven't ever seen it is annoying & minimizes the experiences that others are literally telling you have happened!
Me: "I hate that some pit bulls are aggressive."
Dxper's: "I've never heard of them being aggressive."
Me: Well I have. And many others have too. There's plenty out there that are."
Dxper's: Doubt it. I've never seen any like that so I don't believe they're aggressive."
Me: "Oh ok. Well yep, still doesn't change the fact that I've seen plenty that are."
...*User then proceeds to argue with me that a certain issue must not exist b/c the almighty 'they' have never heard of it.
See how pointless this argument is?! If you can't relate, that's fine!!! But don't pinpoint those who have seen it & can relate and tell us that we're imagining things. There's a lot that I haven't experienced, but I'm not crazy enough to go tell someone that it's not out there just b/c the almighty 'me' hasn't heard/seen it yet.
Nuff' said.
Me: "I hate that some pit bulls are aggressive."
Dxper's: "I've never heard of them being aggressive."
Me: Well I have. And many others have too. There's plenty out there that are."
Dxper's: Doubt it. I've never seen any like that so I don't believe they're aggressive."
Me: "Oh ok. Well yep, still doesn't change the fact that I've seen plenty that are."
...*User then proceeds to argue with me that a certain issue must not exist b/c the almighty 'they' have never heard of it.
See how pointless this argument is?! If you can't relate, that's fine!!! But don't pinpoint those who have seen it & can relate and tell us that we're imagining things. There's a lot that I haven't experienced, but I'm not crazy enough to go tell someone that it's not out there just b/c the almighty 'me' hasn't heard/seen it yet.
Nuff' said.
Posted by krysrenee7
See how pointless this argument is?!
You're the only one arguing. In fact, you're the only who argues in all of your threads.
Posted by krysrenee7
... and tell us that we're imagining things.
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And nobody told you that.
You have your panties wadded so far up your butt, that you literally cannot stand for people to have an opinion different from yours.
You should probably check that.
^^^^"You have your panties wadded so far up your butt, that you literally cannot stand for people to have an opinion different from yours.
You should probably check that."
Oh really b/c I'm sure you only come to my threads to argue & try your infamous verbal assassination attempts
When you can't relate to a topic, you criticize the OP for their post, instead of walking away, leaving the threads to people who can relate
When you disagree with the OP's opinion (the one they're allowed to have, ya know!), you expect for everyone to hear you out without criticism for having a differing opinion. But Lord forbid someone else do the same.
If I create a topic, I have just as much right to debate, argue or give my opinion as the people responding. After all, I created the topic. Maybe in your world people create a topic, then put tape over their mouths & refuse to say anything b/c it'll make you feel smarter or better. But in my world, I give my opinion whether I created a topic or not. And yes I still do this even if people disagree with me.
Don't like it? Well once again, exercise some of that self-control I'm sure you have & keep scrolling...something you can't seem to master....You should probably check that.
You should probably check that."
Oh really b/c I'm sure you only come to my threads to argue & try your infamous verbal assassination attempts
When you can't relate to a topic, you criticize the OP for their post, instead of walking away, leaving the threads to people who can relate
When you disagree with the OP's opinion (the one they're allowed to have, ya know!), you expect for everyone to hear you out without criticism for having a differing opinion. But Lord forbid someone else do the same.
If I create a topic, I have just as much right to debate, argue or give my opinion as the people responding. After all, I created the topic. Maybe in your world people create a topic, then put tape over their mouths & refuse to say anything b/c it'll make you feel smarter or better. But in my world, I give my opinion whether I created a topic or not. And yes I still do this even if people disagree with me.
Don't like it? Well once again, exercise some of that self-control I'm sure you have & keep scrolling...something you can't seem to master....You should probably check that.
krys, you are hardheaded for sure. it's your way or the highway. you can't even see other people's perspectives even if you don't agree.
maybe your husband has to BEND to you alot. cause dayummmmm your way or else!!!
Posted by lisabethur8
krys, you are hardheaded for sure. it's your way or the highway. you can't even see other people's perspectives even if you don't agree.
Actually this applies to the Scorp, in this case, who thinks his points are end all be all because he's old so he immediately knows more than anyone.
That whole "it mustn't be true since I've never seen it" bit is worse than Krys not agreeing due to differences in opinion.
... you agreed with him, and so do I, because I can see his pov PLUS it makes alot of common sense, while in my opinion, krys doesn't make alot of sense. It sounds as if she lacks understanding of MEN in general. just my opinion, of course. AND plus, she doesn't see the difference of "nice guys" and other types.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by Rabbit
More to the point of the OP...
I don't think I've ever really heard any man complain about this...except those supposed "nice guys".
+1
Whining like bitches because their conniving ways won't get them good women and neither will trying to buy them like some whore.
I had a coworker post some shit on New Year's Eve about how he ended up spending the entire night with some chick who was replacing a chick who bailed on him, and he spent all this money and time with her, but didn't get laid.
....
I told him to buy a prostitute if he was that desperate to get laid.
Several of his friends "liked" the comment, haha.
It's quite disturbing how often I see some guys, usually younger, equate time and money to guaranteed sex. It's like you DO realize you're embracing the concept of prostitution in the females you're seeking, right?click to expand
she's easily influenced by those "NICE GUY" types. Whatever. She likes what she likes.
Posted by krysrenee7
But to say that it must not be happening in the world b/c you haven't ever seen it is annoying & minimizes the experiences that others are literally telling you have happened!
But don't pinpoint those who have seen it & can relate and tell us that we're imagining things. There's a lot that I haven't experienced, but I'm not crazy enough to go tell someone that it's not out there just b/c the almighty 'me' hasn't heard/seen it yet.
I think Krys is crazy, actually. That ^^^^^ is her response to the below ...
Posted by Rabbit
I don't think I've ever really heard any man complain about this...except those supposed "nice guys".
Most men know precisely what they are getting into. Believe it or not.
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And it's not just this thread. She pretty much misunderstands everything everyone says, except for those who agree with her.
What she said as a response to rabbit wasn't even remotely close to what he said.
She's extremely close-minded
I remember when she first got here and she was gloating about how she's a published writer. When asked about her works, suddenly she went on a rant.
Finally, after much prodding from various people, to include me and Bling ... she tells us a made up publisher. Nowhere, can this company be found.
Very bizarre.
It's been...close to 10 days.
Men, are you seeing it yet? Yes/No? Can we get a definite answer on this?
Men, are you seeing it yet? Yes/No? Can we get a definite answer on this?
Posted by Damnata
It's been...close to 10 days.
Men, are you seeing it yet? Yes/No? Can we get a definite answer on this?
I see rainbows and unicorn.
As for the question? Can't answer because I can't relate to anything posted so I just joke around. I'm sure the gold diggers would want what's at the end of my rainbow!
(That almost sounded dirty)
(That almost sounded dirty)
Posted by Arielle83
The only thing I can't stand about sluts is their need for validation by a man through what they reveal physically. I find it pathetic.
Don't be crying you can't find a good man or your a skaank ass single mom clubbing on a wednesday in order to fill your gaping hole.
Right? I mean, if they want to do that stuff, more power to them. But they need to realize the lame shit that comes with approaching it like that. You will not get quality guys or much respect with that approach.
If they think that approach will find them decent guys, they're sorely misinformed.
wow
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