How do you get in a mans heart VS how do you get in a mans pants ?
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You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Food
Food.
Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
This.
WAP
Food.
Do his laundry then you can get all up in those pantaloons
Posted by IxiI secretly can't stand that Virgo men need this in order to be real and open. It seems like they need it in extra doses. I hate that I can't provide it, cause you guys are really great.
The women who were successful with doing so came by it honestly.
They all made honest effort to communicate and be vulnerable. They didn't try to hide their heart or give into paranoia and fear too much. They didn't resort to pretense or game playing. They didn't try to be anything else other than what they were, and because they sat comfortably in themselves (for the most part) what they often tried to be always seemed authentic, by any indication they were who they said they were.
Most were emotionally present, tended to not overthink too much because they were too busy trying to be a good friend and have a good time with me. They let the relationship develop naturally and they made space for me in their lives, hearts and minds.
Ok serious response
There’s nothing you can ‘do’ to get in a mans heart. He’s gotta let you in.
There’s nothing you can ‘do’ to get in a mans heart. He’s gotta let you in.
Posted by jeaneTryna helpful and stuff ya know?Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
This.click to expand
You can’t make it happen. It just happens. Let go & enjoy the process 😁
Not about food, cleaning or sex. It’s a heart thing.
Not about food, cleaning or sex. It’s a heart thing.
Posted by IxiI get it now. I actually had to apologize to the last Virgo I was dating, cause I really didn't know what he was hinting at, the non direct approach didn't work for me. But I learned a long the way. After I moved on. Better late then never, Right?Posted by saggurl88Posted by Ixi
The women who were successful with doing so came by it honestly.
They all made honest effort to communicate and be vulnerable. They didn't try to hide their heart or give into paranoia and fear too much. They didn't resort to pretense or game playing. They didn't try to be anything else other than what they were, and because they sat comfortably in themselves (for the most part) what they often tried to be always seemed authentic, by any indication they were who they said they were.
Most were emotionally present, tended to not overthink too much because they were too busy trying to be a good friend and have a good time with me. They let the relationship develop naturally and they made space for me in their lives, hearts and minds.
I secretly can't stand that Virgo men need this in order to be real and open. It seems like they need it in extra doses. I hate that I can't provide it, cause you guys are really great.
Not so sure that it's a Virgo specific (or majority thing). Most of what I mentioned just kinda point to healthy and emotionally mature relating. I think most folks want these things to be present in any enduring romantic commitment to another.click to expand
Now I'm getting the hang of vulnerability and I have someone who tells me I'm perfect, instead of telling me he was right and I should've listened.
So it worked out.Posted by CoffeeAndCreamBuyers remorsePosted by LadyNeptune
Ok serious response
There’s nothing you can ‘do’ to get in a mans heart. He’s gotta let you in.
and once you're in you might not even want it.
leo moon tears.click to expand
Posted by PuzzlePieces
You can’t make it happen. It just happens. Let go & enjoy the process 😁
Not about food, cleaning or sex. It’s a heart thing.
People say this and I never understand what it means. I had to watch videos on vulnerability and read examples on what it meant in order to learn. Evn opening up my heart. I had no clue men wanted to hear how a women felt, seemed like nagging to me.
Vulnerability doesn't come natural for me. I even google how to text in a feminine way, because I'm dry as hell with it, like a dude.
Posted by IxiHe used to do things to trigger me to ask for a relationship, we were both dating others, and I was confused and thought he was playing games. He said the games he played usually triggered a women to ask for exclusivity. All it did for me was push me away. After we ended we talked about it and he told me that.Posted by saggurl88Posted by IxiPosted by saggurl88Posted by Ixi
The women who were successful with doing so came by it honestly.
They all made honest effort to communicate and be vulnerable. They didn't try to hide their heart or give into paranoia and fear too much. They didn't resort to pretense or game playing. They didn't try to be anything else other than what they were, and because they sat comfortably in themselves (for the most part) what they often tried to be always seemed authentic, by any indication they were who they said they were.
Most were emotionally present, tended to not overthink too much because they were too busy trying to be a good friend and have a good time with me. They let the relationship develop naturally and they made space for me in their lives, hearts and minds.
I secretly can't stand that Virgo men need this in order to be real and open. It seems like they need it in extra doses. I hate that I can't provide it, cause you guys are really great.
Not so sure that it's a Virgo specific (or majority thing). Most of what I mentioned just kinda point to healthy and emotionally mature relating. I think most folks want these things to be present in any enduring romantic commitment to another.
I get it now. I actually had to apologize to the last Virgo I was dating, cause I really didn't know what he was hinting at, the non direct approach didn't work for me. But I learned a long the way. After I moved on. Better late then never, Right?
Now I'm getting the hang of vulnerability and I have someone who tells me I'm perfect, instead of telling me he was right and I should've listened.
If it works for ya, it works.
What do you mean non-direct though?click to expand
I told him I had only been in 1 long ass relationship and that's not the way he got me, so there is no way I'd know that what he was doing was supposed to make me ask to be his girlfriend. He should've just been direct with me.
Posted by saggurl88what's so hard with being real?Posted by Ixi
The women who were successful with doing so came by it honestly.
They all made honest effort to communicate and be vulnerable. They didn't try to hide their heart or give into paranoia and fear too much. They didn't resort to pretense or game playing. They didn't try to be anything else other than what they were, and because they sat comfortably in themselves (for the most part) what they often tried to be always seemed authentic, by any indication they were who they said they were.
Most were emotionally present, tended to not overthink too much because they were too busy trying to be a good friend and have a good time with me. They let the relationship develop naturally and they made space for me in their lives, hearts and minds.
I secretly can't stand that Virgo men need this in order to be real and open. It seems like they need it in extra doses. I hate that I can't provide it, cause you guys are really great.click to expand
Posted by IxiPosted by saggurl88Posted by PuzzlePieces
You can’t make it happen. It just happens. Let go & enjoy the process 😁
Not about food, cleaning or sex. It’s a heart thing.
People say this and I never understand what it means. I had to watch videos on vulnerability and read examples on what it meant in order to learn. Evn opening up my heart. I had no clue men wanted to hear how a women felt, seemed like nagging to me.
Vulnerability doesn't come natural for me. I even google how to text in a feminine way, because I'm dry as hell with it, like a dude.
What is most admirable about your effort is that you actually moved to 1.) learn then 2.) actually put it into practice...and if there is one thing that is BIG "Love" bait its the willingness to do those things in service of safeguarding and nurturing the relationship. The willingness to get out of your own way.
You would be surprised how many people will resort to passive aggressiveness and other toxic behaviors instead ofclick to expand
Thanks. I don't mind learning and fixing anything, if it will benefit me as a person. I'm all about ways to be better.
Posted by stillstillwaterI don't understand what you're asking.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Ixi
The women who were successful with doing so came by it honestly.
They all made honest effort to communicate and be vulnerable. They didn't try to hide their heart or give into paranoia and fear too much. They didn't resort to pretense or game playing. They didn't try to be anything else other than what they were, and because they sat comfortably in themselves (for the most part) what they often tried to be always seemed authentic, by any indication they were who they said they were.
Most were emotionally present, tended to not overthink too much because they were too busy trying to be a good friend and have a good time with me. They let the relationship develop naturally and they made space for me in their lives, hearts and minds.
I secretly can't stand that Virgo men need this in order to be real and open. It seems like they need it in extra doses. I hate that I can't provide it, cause you guys are really great.
what's so hard with being real?click to expand
Posted by IxiBelieve me it wasn't and thank god I trusted my instincts.Posted by saggurl88Posted by IxiPosted by saggurl88Posted by IxiPosted by saggurl88Posted by Ixi
The women who were successful with doing so came by it honestly.
They all made honest effort to communicate and be vulnerable. They didn't try to hide their heart or give into paranoia and fear too much. They didn't resort to pretense or game playing. They didn't try to be anything else other than what they were, and because they sat comfortably in themselves (for the most part) what they often tried to be always seemed authentic, by any indication they were who they said they were.
Most were emotionally present, tended to not overthink too much because they were too busy trying to be a good friend and have a good time with me. They let the relationship develop naturally and they made space for me in their lives, hearts and minds.
I secretly can't stand that Virgo men need this in order to be real and open. It seems like they need it in extra doses. I hate that I can't provide it, cause you guys are really great.
Not so sure that it's a Virgo specific (or majority thing). Most of what I mentioned just kinda point to healthy and emotionally mature relating. I think most folks want these things to be present in any enduring romantic commitment to another.
I get it now. I actually had to apologize to the last Virgo I was dating, cause I really didn't know what he was hinting at, the non direct approach didn't work for me. But I learned a long the way. After I moved on. Better late then never, Right?
Now I'm getting the hang of vulnerability and I have someone who tells me I'm perfect, instead of telling me he was right and I should've listened.
If it works for ya, it works.
What do you mean non-direct though?
He used to do things to trigger me to ask for a relationship, we were both dating others, and I was confused and thought he was playing games. He said the games he played usually triggered a women to ask for exclusivity. All it did for me was push me away. After we ended we talked about it and he told me that.
I told him I had only been in 1 long ass relationship and that's not the way he got me, so there is no way I'd know that what he was doing was supposed to make me ask to be his girlfriend. He should've just been direct with me.
That doesn't sound like a healthy start at all...click to expand
I dated a Virgo who was amazing and played no games at all and one who played tons. So I know they aren't all like this.
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by jeanePosted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
This.
Tryna be helpful and stuff ya know?click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Usually for me, I have to be convinced they love me first before I will allow myself to feel those feelings ( if they are there)... cap venus 🤷♀️Posted by PuzzlePieces
You can’t make it happen. It just happens. Let go & enjoy the process 😁
Not about food, cleaning or sex. It’s a heart thing.
People say this and I never understand what it means. I had to watch videos on vulnerability and read examples on what it meant in order to learn. Evn opening up my heart. I had no clue men wanted to hear how a women felt, seemed like nagging to me.
Vulnerability doesn't come natural for me. I even google how to text in a feminine way, because I'm dry as hell with it, like a dude.click to expand
Well some men don’t want to hear feelings, others do in my experience. But even the ones that don’t get a little mushy when they fall in love. 😂
I had to learn about vulnerability too but there are times in my life where it just happened. For me, cap dominant girl it’s about safety first. I sure as hell am not getting all in my feels if I can’t trust you.
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamThat’s a decision I suppose. If my heart isn’t there it’s not happening. Sometimes I give it some time to see if it gets there, but that never seems to work for me.Posted by PuzzlePieces
You can’t make it happen. It just happens. Let go & enjoy the process 😁
Not about food, cleaning or sex. It’s a heart thing.
and if your heart isn't there? what thenclick to expand
It’s just such a huge difference in a relationship..
Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by saggurl88Posted by PuzzlePieces
You can’t make it happen. It just happens. Let go & enjoy the process 😁
Not about food, cleaning or sex. It’s a heart thing.
People say this and I never understand what it means. I had to watch videos on vulnerability and read examples on what it meant in order to learn. Evn opening up my heart. I had no clue men wanted to hear how a women felt, seemed like nagging to me.
Vulnerability doesn't come natural for me. I even google how to text in a feminine way, because I'm dry as hell with it, like a dude.
Usually for me, I have to be convinced they love me first before I will allow myself to feel those feelings ( if they are there)... cap venus 🤷♀️
Well some men don’t want to hear feelings, others do in my experience. But even the ones that don’t get a little mushy when they fall in love. 😂
I had to learn about vulnerability too but there are times in my life where it just happened. For me, cap dominant girl it’s about safety first. I sure as hell am not getting all in my feels if I can’t trust you.click to expand
I had to learn key phrases in what to say to get my point across and have a guy know that I'm serious about them. Stuff normal girls say or do, was not in my vocabulary or how I usually act.
I have no clue how I ever got in a relationship
But things are finally coming along since I have access to some good internet content. I am comfortable inside of a relationship, but found out I don't know how to get into one. So weird.🥴
Posted by saggurl88Lol! Well internet/online dating world is so different. I’m not sure I get it. But I was always in relationships pre-internet world. Typically someone interested in me finds me and convinces me they are crazy about me. 😂 I completely am oblivious. And I’ve had a couple since my divorce and a few very short term ones because just no. I guess the thing is at this point in my life I just can’t be with someone because I want a relationship. It just has to be right. I have a lot of trouble finding that these days. Not sure if it’s the area, or everyone has so much baggage. But, there have been only two real possibilities in the last 8 years. One is the Capricorn and his baggage stopped him from dealing with real things. It was a 1 1/2 year relationship though. We fell in love but it wasn’t quite right. Which created another couple of years to figure that out, back & forth. Another one is married so obvious that can’t work. He is probably the one I should’ve married 30 years ago but oh well.. such is life. Nothing else works.. you know.. you just can’t force it. So I’m not looking anymore, maybe it will just find me like what happened in my late teens & 20’s. Who the hell knows 😂 A journey in life? I suppose.Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by saggurl88Posted by PuzzlePieces
You can’t make it happen. It just happens. Let go & enjoy the process 😁
Not about food, cleaning or sex. It’s a heart thing.
People say this and I never understand what it means. I had to watch videos on vulnerability and read examples on what it meant in order to learn. Evn opening up my heart. I had no clue men wanted to hear how a women felt, seemed like nagging to me.
Vulnerability doesn't come natural for me. I even google how to text in a feminine way, because I'm dry as hell with it, like a dude.
Usually for me, I have to be convinced they love me first before I will allow myself to feel those feelings ( if they are there)... cap venus 🤷♀️
Well some men don’t want to hear feelings, others do in my experience. But even the ones that don’t get a little mushy when they fall in love. 😂
I had to learn about vulnerability too but there are times in my life where it just happened. For me, cap dominant girl it’s about safety first. I sure as hell am not getting all in my feels if I can’t trust you.
I had to learn key phrases in what to say to get my point across and have a guy know that I'm serious about them. Stuff normal girls say or do, was not in my vocabulary or how I usually act.
I have no clue how I ever got in a relationship
I am comfortable inside of a relationship, but found out I don't know how to get into one. So weird.🥴click to expand
Posted by Ixi
The women who were successful with doing so came by it honestly.
They all made honest effort to communicate and be vulnerable. They didn't try to hide their heart or give into paranoia and fear too much. They didn't resort to pretense or game playing. They didn't try to be anything else other than what they were, and because they sat comfortably in themselves (for the most part) what they often tried to be always seemed authentic, by any indication they were who they said they were.
Most were emotionally present, tended to not overthink too much because they were too busy trying to be a good friend and have a good time with me. They let the relationship develop naturally and they made space for me in their lives, hearts and minds.
^^This right here is the most educational answer so far. It's how mature people relate to each other.
It's also is what works for me as well.
I can ignore or supress any physical attraction but doing the above, I can't help but to open up myself and return the favor.
The only thing I would like to add to that is being genuine. There are some things I've noticed about this with people. I'm not talking about people with their walls up being guard here either. It's being really fake to the point of lieing, "fronting". Huge turn off and a giant red flag to me.
It's normal to have to learn new ways of expression or behavior to get along with or relate to another person. That's fine.
I've done it and it's frustrating like the early stages of learning a new skill but it's still you being you. Be genuine.
i'm starting to think men will respect you more if you're a gold-digger
know-it-all dudes always practice negging and bragging about material possessions
stuff can be nice but when it's your nature to be self-sufficient, it feels like a put-on
i kinda feel like some women have to really force themselves into the role of 'that kind of woman'
someone has to take the role
stuff can be nice but when it's your nature to be self-sufficient, it feels like a put-on
i kinda feel like some women have to really force themselves into the role of 'that kind of woman'
someone has to take the role
Posted by Libra4rmTXNot true.
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Posted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.click to expand
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
good thread
Posted by Libra4rmTXThere’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.Posted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.click to expand
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Getting into a man pants = easy
Getting into a mans heart = not so easy
Getting into a mans heart = not so easy
Man's pants: show slight interest into getting in em and BOOM you are in
Men's heart: Emotional connection and authenticity
Men's heart: Emotional connection and authenticity
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.click to expand
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Posted by virgoOPPP
know-it-all dudes always practice negging and bragging about material possessions
stuff can be nice but when it's your nature to be self-sufficient, it feels like a put-on
i kinda feel like some women have to really force themselves into the role of 'that kind of woman'
someone has to take the role
I definitely see it the other way around. Men are now the ones who feel compelled to be up to standard or risk harsh treatment by a woman who never wanted em from jump.
Posted by Libra4rmTXYes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotionsclick to expand
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
Posted by saggurl88but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.click to expand
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.click to expand
YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD!!! So often we view sex as purely phyiscal and its not. A phone conversation, a date where the vibe just hits every note, even simple eye contact. Those all can br consideted sex. Its not just phyiscal. Damn damn damn lol you just dont know thw chord you struck for ya boy with that one. Ive been saying this for a while now.
And I guess it comes down to paying attention to who youre dealing with because you may be catching feelings for someone who is a text from ghosting you. Ive had it happen to me lol and im guilty of it. With datinf everything is so fluid that its best to remain detached until you can make sure ish is truly mutual on every level. You said some impressive shit!
Posted by jeaneWe are talking about why some guys leave after having sex.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.click to expand
I need sex like I need food and a shower. I agree and think sex can be a factor in a man falling in love.
Posted by saggurl88i'm talking about the response that libra4rmtx's was wrong and the blanket rule that men will leave you after sex because he's had you.Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.
We are talking about why some guys leave after having sex.
I need sex like I need food and a shower. I agree and think sex can be a factor in a man falling in love.click to expand
Posted by Libra4rmTXSometimes being too cautious can bite you in the ass too. There are a lot of men and women who are too scared to keep trying for a connection. And most people fall for people that they can't have. It's human nature to want what's not there.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD!!! So often we view sex as purely phyiscal and its not. A phone conversation, a date where the vibe just hits every note, even simple eye contact. Those all can br consideted sex. Its not just phyiscal. Damn damn damn lol you just dont know thw chord you struck for ya boy with that one. Ive been saying this for a while now.
And I guess it comes down to paying attention to who youre dealing with because you may be catching feelings for someone who is a text from ghosting you. Ive had it happen to me lol and im guilty of it. With datinf everything is so fluid that its best to remain detached until you can make sure ish is truly mutual on every level. You said some impressive shit!click to expand
It's part of the reason why I will give a man a second chance if he comes back, with no issues or past salty behavior, because most don't realize what they have till it's gone.
I think women need to realize that men have the same feelings as women, we hear how tough men can be, but in the end we are all the same when it comes to feelings.
You just have to navigate and find the person who works with yours well.
But now we aren't talking about sex anymore, are we?
Posted by TheFalangeReturnreally? would you fall in love with a woman who was unsatisfying in bed?Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
Idk guys are less demanding about women bed skills
Unless he watch porn all day or somethingclick to expand
Posted by jeaneSo did you mean to quote him? Cause I'm confused.Posted by saggurl88Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.
We are talking about why some guys leave after having sex.
I need sex like I need food and a shower. I agree and think sex can be a factor in a man falling in love.
i'm talking about the response that libra4rmtx's was wrong and the blanket rule that men will leave you after sex because he's had you.click to expand
Posted by TheFalangeReturnI believe this too. Most men want a well rounded relationship, sex isn't going to hold a guy.Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
Idk guys are less demanding about women bed skills
Unless he watch porn all day or somethingclick to expand
Posted by TheFalangeReturnI agree, bad sex to one guy doesn't equal bad sex to another. It all boils down to chemistry.Posted by saggurl88Posted by TheFalangeReturnPosted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
Idk guys are less demanding about women bed skills
Unless he watch porn all day or something
I believe this too. Most men want a well rounded relationship, sex isn't going to hold a guy.
The common guys problems in bed are like ed, porn, low self steem or something about him
1% is about the woman
Women just need to take care of their looks and stay attractive for be satisfying for a guy in bed imoclick to expand
But good sex for all men equals good skills and good kitty.
Posted by saggurl88i guess i was trying to bring it back on topic since the conversation went like:Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.
We are talking about why some guys leave after having sex.
I need sex like I need food and a shower. I agree and think sex can be a factor in a man falling in love.
i'm talking about the response that libra4rmtx's was wrong and the blanket rule that men will leave you after sex because he's had you.
So did you mean to quote him? Cause I'm confused.click to expand
heart through pants > wrong> i have a theory> what's the theory> some people are hypersexualised > casual sex without substance is fruitless > (me) casual sex with a woman who is good in bed, can lead to a man falling in love
Posted by TomboyyyyYes, which is why I said sex isn't a big factor in why some men leave after it. Even if touch is their love language, they still have to like the person.Posted by saggurl88Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.
We are talking about why some guys leave after having sex.
I need sex like I need food and a shower. I agree and think sex can be a factor in a man falling in love.
Depends on who you are.
Some people have physical touch as a love language and some don’t.click to expand
Posted by TheFalangeReturni'm not talking about being a pornstar or having incompatible fetishes but likewise if she lays there like a starfish, i find it hard to believe men are going to say but "she has an amazing sense of humour" and "we like the same movies".Posted by jeanePosted by TheFalangeReturnPosted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
Idk guys are less demanding about women bed skills
Unless he watch porn all day or something
really? would you fall in love with a woman who was unsatisfying in bed?
If she likes the thing is fine
The only turn off is denying too much
Only friends i ever saw complaining about a woman in bed was a leo and a scorpio
The leo wanted to his gf act like a pornstar without him doing nothing
The scorpio wanted to do weirdo things and was also butthurt since she break up with him
So ime the guys who complaint were either seeing too much porn or butthurtclick to expand
sex is important. sexual satisfaction is important. if the sex is unfulfilling from the start, i can't see any relationship progressing beyond the early stages.
Posted by jeaneHe made a clear distinction between hyper sexualized and high sex drive, so I thought nothing of that part.Posted by saggurl88Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.
We are talking about why some guys leave after having sex.
I need sex like I need food and a shower. I agree and think sex can be a factor in a man falling in love.
i'm talking about the response that libra4rmtx's was wrong and the blanket rule that men will leave you after sex because he's had you.
So did you mean to quote him? Cause I'm confused.
i guess i was trying to bring it back on topic since the conversation went like:
heart through pants > wrong> i have a theory> what's the theory> some people are hypersexualised > casual sex without substance is fruitless > (me) casual sex with a woman who is good in bed, can lead to a man falling in loveclick to expand
But I guess I knew where he was going with it, since he said I nailed it.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I do agree with good sex keeping a man, but they don't leave right after the encounter. They usually try to keep you as a side option even when you don't fit all of their "qualifications"
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