How often do you fight with your significant other?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Rainbow87 on Wednesday, June 3, 2020 and has 18 replies.
Just wondering... do you believe that couples can get along 100% of the time? Do you fight or argue with your partner? If so, how often? And what are your zodiac signs?

I fight with my boyfriend A LOT, and I think I already got used to it. At first I didn’t had patience but se still love each other even if we’re not the greatest match. He’s a Libra and I’m a Cancer. My mom and my dad hate each other and they’re incompatibile. He’s a Gemini and she’s a Taurus but they’re still together after almost 30 years.
Couples that NEVER fight or bring up something that needs to be discussed got SERIOUS resentment issues.

We're not much of anything now - his fault, but when we disagreed, we just talked calmly and laid things out on the table. No name-calling and definitely no yelling or making a scene. Most of the time. When he didn't sulk and pin me to the wall and practically rape me the next day lol.

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Me: Virgo mooner Fish

Him: Cap mooner Leo

but now I got a lil sumthin sumthin going with a Gem mooner Scorp.
pisces moon men are so overly sensitive

he gets mad over me changing my profile pic or not replying immediately to his texts

so easily upset but whatever i'm just as moody anyway
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We rarely fight. Everything is usually peaceful +90% of the time. I don’t have many nuisances that bother her and there’s almost nothing of her that bothers me. I’m a Pisces, she’s a Cancer. I don’t think couples can get along 100% of the time. That sounds impossible to me. If anything, it sounds like someone is just hiding resentment.


Wow I need that type of relationship.. well I want it, but unfortunately the stars say I can't. Having a mars in the 7th house(aggressive spouse) and venus square Pluto(Abusive jealous dark relationships) ... life sucks


Venus square Pluto indicates that the native invites unnecessary drama into relatively stable relationships, in addition to getting involved in dysfunctional or abusive relationships.

No natal chart is set in stone, so it's something you have to work on and remain extremely aware of.

Oh, also try not to be too clingy...


That's what really scares me too. Im scared to get into a relationship because that aspect I read up on makes it seem like some sort of demon comes out in the chart owner in relationships. I for sure don't want to be the inflictor 🙁 Id rather be single lol. It sounds like a complicated aspect like I will have to really overcome it why whyyy must I have been cursed with this 😩 I try to stay positive with this aspect but it always scares me. Plus I have Chiron in Scorpio in the 8th house so I really don't like Scorpio themes. Well wish me luck😬
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I have Venus square Pluto too and no it's not always a good one in relationships. Just give it a try. If you don't like it you can always get out the relationship. Like gobby said don't be too clingy.

And don't be like me. I rushed into relationships. Sometimes I regret it and rather and wished to stay single. With Venus being my chart ruler and loads of Venus aspects, it's hard not to draw woman's attention with my presence.
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Couples that NEVER fight or bring up something that needs to be discussed got SERIOUS resentment issues.

We're not much of anything now - his fault, but when we disagreed, we just talked calmly and laid things out on the table. No name-calling and definitely no yelling or making a scene. Most of the time. When he didn't sulk and pin me to the wall and practically rape me the next day lol.

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Me: Virgo mooner Fish

Him: Cap mooner Leo

but now I got a lil sumthin sumthin going with a Gem mooner Scorp.
Wait... Wut!!!!!!!.

P.s. Told you so. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤤😏
My dad is a Virgo, mom a Gemini like someone else’s parents in this thread. They fight a lot and it put me off relationships for a long time. My dad likes to instigate by intentionally doing things to upset her, it’s sad; she likes to nitpick, which is weird for a Gemini I feel. I figured if that’s what love is I don’t want it 😬

Then I met my own gemini man who “loved” me before even meeting me. I’m used to people thinking they love me when they haven’t met me; but they give off different vibes than he gave off before we met.

We’ve been dating almost 3 years. At first I’d fight him over stupid things; I think it was me re-enacting my parents’ behaviors because it’s all I knew about love. My bf would just be silent; he hates confrontation and he thought the things I got upset over were stupid so he wasn’t going to address it until the end of the day.

By now we’ve found a balance: I stop fighting him over stupid shit, and he talks things through with me as I get upset in the moment so we can move past it and I don’t have to think about it all day.

I’d say we get at odds about two days out of the month now. It used to be about 8-10 days a month until I recently started getting medicated for PMDD.
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Posted by Dreamy88

We rarely fight. Everything is usually peaceful +90% of the time. I don’t have many nuisances that bother her and there’s almost nothing of her that bothers me. I’m a Pisces, she’s a Cancer. I don’t think couples can get along 100% of the time. That sounds impossible to me. If anything, it sounds like someone is just hiding resentment.


Wow I need that type of relationship.. well I want it, but unfortunately the stars say I can't. Having a mars in the 7th house(aggressive spouse) and venus square Pluto(Abusive jealous dark relationships) ... life sucks


Venus square Pluto indicates that the native invites unnecessary drama into relatively stable relationships, in addition to getting involved in dysfunctional or abusive relationships.

No natal chart is set in stone, so it's something you have to work on and remain extremely aware of.

Oh, also try not to be too clingy...


That's what really scares me too. Im scared to get into a relationship because that aspect I read up on makes it seem like some sort of demon comes out in the chart owner in relationships. I for sure don't want to be the inflictor 🙁 Id rather be single lol. It sounds like a complicated aspect like I will have to really overcome it why whyyy must I have been cursed with this 😩 I try to stay positive with this aspect but it always scares me. Plus I have Chiron in Scorpio in the 8th house so I really don't like Scorpio themes. Well wish me luck😬


I have Venus square Pluto too and no it's not always a good one in relationships. Just give it a try. If you don't like it you can always get out the relationship. Like gobby said don't be too clingy.

And don't be like me. I rushed into relationships. Sometimes I regret it and rather and wished to stay single. With Venus being my chart ruler and loads of Venus aspects, it's hard not to draw woman's attention with my presence.


Oh I can imagine ! I liked this one guy who also had venus as his chart ruler in Scorpio and conjunct pluto! Lots of aspects to his venus. He definitely is magnetic and attractive. So many girls fall for him.

But our synastry was intense. I almost pursued him but I was chicken, too afraid of the aspects. Tons of hard aspects to eachothers Pluto and tons of hard saturn aspects. I was like no I don’t have a death wish 😂 and also us both having venus-pluto? Yikes

Thanks for the advice! Luckily I don’t like to rush into relationships. Id rather them be meaningful so Im a bit picky. Im not ready for a relationship right now Im trying to give myself room to heal and grow and hopefully when the time comes I’ll be mature enough to handle it!
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Yeah I too can imagine lots of girls falling for the dude you liked with Venus as his chart ruler in scorpio and conjunct Pluto. Those placements ooze sexiness and attractiveness. I don't like to sound like I'm boasting because there are too many on here who already thinks I be boasting when I say I'm magnetic and attractive but I truly am and I too have the same placements as that guy you said you liked with the exception I don't have any scorpio. And you welcome. Only too glad to be of help.
i might seem cold and bratty in handling stuff

but i'm always secretly crying about it tbh
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Not that often.

Our tropical signs are...

Mine:

Cap sun, moon, and merc 12th House

Aqua Venus and Mars 1st house

Merc and Venus conjunct Ascendant

His:

Libra sun 5th house

Cancer moon 1st house

Libra merc 5th house

Sag Venus 7th house

Leo mars 3rd house

We both have North Nodes in Cancer.


cool didn't know you're an aqua venus

his cancer moon to your capricorn sun ❤️
I hate hate hate fighting so I do everything I can to avoid it, which oddly causes it sometimes. He is very volatile and impatient so i walk on egg shells bc I never know what will pop him off next. I mostly don’t bring up anything I know will cause a fight until I reach my boiling point and I finally have to, then it’s ugly bc he never apologizes for anything ever. He just matches my anger and tries to outdo it. So I mostly just don’t bother lol. I want to live in peace so I just leave him to his own devices. This is why we are basically roommates. He just won’t move out for some reason lol. He may feel like he loves me or something but he sure doesn’t treat me lovingly. We have a history and he doesn’t have anyone else really so it’s whatever. We’ll go our separate ways soon.

Him: Virgo sun, Aqua moon

Me: Taurus sun, Gemini moon

Relationship just as turbulent or even more so with a double Pisces. My relationship that was most harmonious/least amount of fighting was with the double Scorp. God I miss him....
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Couples that NEVER fight or bring up something that needs to be discussed got SERIOUS resentment issues.

We're not much of anything now - his fault, but when we disagreed, we just talked calmly and laid things out on the table. No name-calling and definitely no yelling or making a scene. Most of the time. When he didn't sulk and pin me to the wall and practically rape me the next day lol.

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Me: Virgo mooner Fish

Him: Cap mooner Leo

but now I got a lil sumthin sumthin going with a Gem mooner Scorp.


Wait... Wut!!!!!!!.

P.s. Told you so. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤤😏
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What wut?? Well it's not like we were destined to have a happy ending, when he's not even capable of loving me romantically. But this one CAN.

It's better it happened this way anyway, his "playing both sides" made it easy for me to emotionally distance myself. I did to my own mother, I can certainly do it to him. But he didn't think I could, still doesn't think I can. He's like "give it some time, don't move out. I can't imagine my life without you".

And I'm like

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"well you should've thought of that before you did A LOT of things"

Anyway, me and the Scorp have a far better understanding of each other. Similar life experiences, and I don't have to keep explaining myself to him. He's not a sheltered fuckboi with a perfect life. He's had a rough time and I understand his way of doing things. It's the same way I do things 😉

I also can't get enough of when he gets carried away in the heat of the moment and blurts out what he's really thinking but wasn't ready to do so. His face changes 100 shades of red and just freezes open-mouthed.

Reminds me of the Liz Phair lyric

Isn't this the best part of breaking up

Finding someone else you can't get enough of

Someone who wants to be with you, too

Here we go, we're at the beginning

We haven't fucked yet, but my head's spinning


🤣🤣🤣 indeed we haven't fucked yet, but we've already seen every bit of each other. He bared it all for me first so I had to show my appreciation by doing the same later on.

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and it's offensive how a guy who is my phone wallpaper

is always starting petty fights with me

now i have to change it, so annoying
No really fighting. More like arguing about stupid stuff. Aquarius love to push buttons 😅But we are both good at talking about things and never staying mad for long.

I believe arguments clear the water and make the relationship to grow, if you are both able to open your heart, forgive and see the other one point of view without resentment.

Pisces & Aquarius ❤️
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Couples that NEVER fight or bring up something that needs to be discussed got SERIOUS resentment issues.

We're not much of anything now - his fault, but when we disagreed, we just talked calmly and laid things out on the table. No name-calling and definitely no yelling or making a scene. Most of the time. When he didn't sulk and pin me to the wall and practically rape me the next day lol.

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Me: Virgo mooner Fish

Him: Cap mooner Leo

but now I got a lil sumthin sumthin going with a Gem mooner Scorp.


Wait... Wut!!!!!!!.

P.s. Told you so. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤤😏


What wut?? Well it's not like we were destined to have a happy ending, when he's not even capable of loving me romantically. But this one CAN.

It's better it happened this way anyway, his "playing both sides" made it easy for me to emotionally distance myself. I did to my own mother, I can certainly do it to him. But he didn't think I could, still doesn't think I can. He's like "give it some time, don't move out. I can't imagine my life without you".

And I'm like

https://i.imgur.com/Hg5bedw.gif"well you should've thought of that before you did A LOT of things"

Anyway, me and the Scorp have a far better understanding of each other. Similar life experiences, and I don't have to keep explaining myself to him. He's not a sheltered fuckboi with a perfect life. He's had a rough time and I understand his way of doing things. It's the same way I do things 😉

I also can't get enough of when he gets carried away in the heat of the moment and blurts out what he's really thinking but wasn't ready to do so. His face changes 100 shades of red and just freezes open-mouthed.

Reminds me of the Liz Phair lyricIsn't this the best part of breaking up

Finding someone else you can't get enough of

Someone who wants to be with you, too

Here we go, we're at the beginning

We haven't fucked yet, but my head's spinning


🤣🤣🤣 indeed we haven't fucked yet, but we've already seen every bit of each other. He bared it all for me first so I had to show my appreciation by doing the same later on.

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I have attempted to re write my response four times. Stupid retrograde!!!. Did you even get my last quote?. Arghhhhhhhh!!!.

All I'll say before I attempt another response is this. You made reference to the Scorp/gem mooner that, his conduct and character has been erm questionable at best. Because I am one I suggest a short leash and, wish nothing but the best for you.

Tbc..... 🤤😔 😁
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Couples that NEVER fight or bring up something that needs to be discussed got SERIOUS resentment issues.

We're not much of anything now - his fault, but when we disagreed, we just talked calmly and laid things out on the table. No name-calling and definitely no yelling or making a scene. Most of the time. When he didn't sulk and pin me to the wall and practically rape me the next day lol.

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Me: Virgo mooner Fish

Him: Cap mooner Leo

but now I got a lil sumthin sumthin going with a Gem mooner Scorp.


Wait... Wut!!!!!!!.

P.s. Told you so. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤤😏


What wut?? Well it's not like we were destined to have a happy ending, when he's not even capable of loving me romantically. But this one CAN.

It's better it happened this way anyway, his "playing both sides" made it easy for me to emotionally distance myself. I did to my own mother, I can certainly do it to him. But he didn't think I could, still doesn't think I can. He's like "give it some time, don't move out. I can't imagine my life without you".

And I'm like

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"well you should've thought of that before you did A LOT of things"

Anyway, me and the Scorp have a far better understanding of each other. Similar life experiences, and I don't have to keep explaining myself to him. He's not a sheltered fuckboi with a perfect life. He's had a rough time and I understand his way of doing things. It's the same way I do things 😉

I also can't get enough of when he gets carried away in the heat of the moment and blurts out what he's really thinking but wasn't ready to do so. His face changes 100 shades of red and just freezes open-mouthed.

Reminds me of the Liz Phair lyricIsn't this the best part of breaking up

Finding someone else you can't get enough of

Someone who wants to be with you, too

Here we go, we're at the beginning

We haven't fucked yet, but my head's spinning


🤣🤣🤣 indeed we haven't fucked yet, but we've already seen every bit of each other. He bared it all for me first so I had to show my appreciation by doing the same later on.

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I have attempted to re write my response four times. Stupid retrograde!!!. Did you even get my last quote?. Arghhhhhhhh!!!.

All I'll say before I attempt another response is this. You made reference to the Scorp/gem mooner that, his conduct and character has been erm questionable at best. Because I am one I suggest a short leash and, wish nothing but the best for you.

Tbc..... 🤤😔 😁
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Well he's in his mid 20s and he's for all intents and purposes single, or rather "not exclusive to one person". So of course he's gonna fuck around all he can. I'd be more worried about him if he DIDN'T, considering all the fucked up DXP spinsters I can use as an example.

That was also weeks ago. We've had some moments of glaring clarity since. And I may have overreacted to his promiscuity at first. I may have gone about it all wrong as well. Maybe the last thing I need right now is another intense relationship, and being fixated on wanting to have one is keeping me from having fun and just taking it easy. It's been a very exhausting 3 years. I'd rather lean back and enjoy the ride wherever it takes me, instead of being fixated on the finish line.

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He was also worried that he's not a very good person and that things get rough around him. And I'm like "oh sweetie, I was getting my hands dirty while you were still waiting for your balls to drop." For some reason he really gets off on penis/ball jokes. Probably comes with being a Scorp.

And notifications are still focked. If someone likes & quotes, most of the time I'll only get the like notification.
We almost never argue. Though, we have often been getting frustrated with each other recently due to stress. He's often upset that I don't like physically showing affection and I'm often upset that he doesn't clean up after himself and doesn't do many of his household chores up to my standards. I think we're both a bit down in the dumps right now due to an ongoing situation, so one day, when our moods are better, these will be less of an issue.

He's a leo.
Single but it made think of my past relationships

With Aries : rarely ... But when we did it was ugly.

With leo : rarely.

With virgo : often, at least once a week towards the end. 😳

With Scorpio: every now and again but I think he liked it. 🙄

With capricorn : rarely
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Couples that NEVER fight or bring up something that needs to be discussed got SERIOUS resentment issues.

We're not much of anything now - his fault, but when we disagreed, we just talked calmly and laid things out on the table. No name-calling and definitely no yelling or making a scene. Most of the time. When he didn't sulk and pin me to the wall and practically rape me the next day lol.

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Me: Virgo mooner Fish

Him: Cap mooner Leo

but now I got a lil sumthin sumthin going with a Gem mooner Scorp.


Wait... Wut!!!!!!!.

P.s. Told you so. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤤😏


What wut?? Well it's not like we were destined to have a happy ending, when he's not even capable of loving me romantically. But this one CAN.

It's better it happened this way anyway, his "playing both sides" made it easy for me to emotionally distance myself. I did to my own mother, I can certainly do it to him. But he didn't think I could, still doesn't think I can. He's like "give it some time, don't move out. I can't imagine my life without you".

And I'm like

https://i.imgur.com/Hg5bedw.gif"well you should've thought of that before you did A LOT of things"

Anyway, me and the Scorp have a far better understanding of each other. Similar life experiences, and I don't have to keep explaining myself to him. He's not a sheltered fuckboi with a perfect life. He's had a rough time and I understand his way of doing things. It's the same way I do things 😉

I also can't get enough of when he gets carried away in the heat of the moment and blurts out what he's really thinking but wasn't ready to do so. His face changes 100 shades of red and just freezes open-mouthed.

Reminds me of the Liz Phair lyricIsn't this the best part of breaking up

Finding someone else you can't get enough of

Someone who wants to be with you, too

Here we go, we're at the beginning

We haven't fucked yet, but my head's spinning


🤣🤣🤣 indeed we haven't fucked yet, but we've already seen every bit of each other. He bared it all for me first so I had to show my appreciation by doing the same later on.

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I have attempted to re write my response four times. Stupid retrograde!!!. Did you even get my last quote?. Arghhhhhhhh!!!.

All I'll say before I attempt another response is this. You made reference to the Scorp/gem mooner that, his conduct and character has been erm questionable at best. Because I am one I suggest a short leash and, wish nothing but the best for you.

Tbc..... 🤤😔 😁


Well he's in his mid 20s and he's for all intents and purposes single, or rather "not exclusive to one person". So of course he's gonna fuck around all he can. I'd be more worried about him if he DIDN'T, considering all the fucked up DXP spinsters I can use as an example.

That was also weeks ago. We've had some moments of glaring clarity since. And I may have overreacted to his promiscuity at first. I may have gone about it all wrong as well. Maybe the last thing I need right now is another intense relationship, and being fixated on wanting to have one is keeping me from having fun and just taking it easy. It's been a very exhausting 3 years. I'd rather lean back and enjoy the ride wherever it takes me, instead of being fixated on the finish line.

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He was also worried that he's not a very good person and that things get rough around him. And I'm like "oh sweetie, I was getting my hands dirty while you were still waiting for your balls to drop." For some reason he really gets off on penis/ball jokes. Probably comes with being a Scorp.

And notifications are still focked. If someone likes & quotes, most of the time I'll only get the like notification.
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣That GIF!!!. 😁

I do agree that, you should go out and enjoy yourself however, it behooves me to think that, it is indeed possible for you to have a no strings attached arrangement since, that little ol heart of you'rs gets engaged but eh, we are but strangers in the night, what would I know Petal. 😏

Again and I preface, tread with caution. People show you who they are no?.

This one's a very unevolved, young Scorp, at this juncture. I'd give it oh, about another thirty years before he's ready to give you what you desire.

P.s. You have been warned.

As always, a pleasure sunshine. Stay safe over them parts, across the miles. 👋👋👋💙🐾🦂