Posted by Aqua-MarineI have Venus square Pluto too and no it's not always a good one in relationships. Just give it a try. If you don't like it you can always get out the relationship. Like gobby said don't be too clingy.Posted by GobbyPosted by Aqua-MarinePosted by Dreamy88
We rarely fight. Everything is usually peaceful +90% of the time. I don’t have many nuisances that bother her and there’s almost nothing of her that bothers me. I’m a Pisces, she’s a Cancer. I don’t think couples can get along 100% of the time. That sounds impossible to me. If anything, it sounds like someone is just hiding resentment.
Wow I need that type of relationship.. well I want it, but unfortunately the stars say I can't. Having a mars in the 7th house(aggressive spouse) and venus square Pluto(Abusive jealous dark relationships) ... life sucks
Venus square Pluto indicates that the native invites unnecessary drama into relatively stable relationships, in addition to getting involved in dysfunctional or abusive relationships.
No natal chart is set in stone, so it's something you have to work on and remain extremely aware of.
Oh, also try not to be too clingy...
That's what really scares me too. Im scared to get into a relationship because that aspect I read up on makes it seem like some sort of demon comes out in the chart owner in relationships. I for sure don't want to be the inflictor 🙁 Id rather be single lol. It sounds like a complicated aspect like I will have to really overcome it why whyyy must I have been cursed with this 😩 I try to stay positive with this aspect but it always scares me. Plus I have Chiron in Scorpio in the 8th house so I really don't like Scorpio themes. Well wish me luck😬click to expand
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWait... Wut!!!!!!!.
Couples that NEVER fight or bring up something that needs to be discussed got SERIOUS resentment issues.
We're not much of anything now - his fault, but when we disagreed, we just talked calmly and laid things out on the table. No name-calling and definitely no yelling or making a scene. Most of the time. When he didn't sulk and pin me to the wall and practically rape me the next day lol.
Me: Virgo mooner Fish
Him: Cap mooner Leo
but now I got a lil sumthin sumthin going with a Gem mooner Scorp.
Posted by Aqua-MarineYeah I too can imagine lots of girls falling for the dude you liked with Venus as his chart ruler in scorpio and conjunct Pluto. Those placements ooze sexiness and attractiveness. I don't like to sound like I'm boasting because there are too many on here who already thinks I be boasting when I say I'm magnetic and attractive but I truly am and I too have the same placements as that guy you said you liked with the exception I don't have any scorpio. And you welcome. Only too glad to be of help.Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Aqua-MarinePosted by GobbyPosted by Aqua-MarinePosted by Dreamy88
We rarely fight. Everything is usually peaceful +90% of the time. I don’t have many nuisances that bother her and there’s almost nothing of her that bothers me. I’m a Pisces, she’s a Cancer. I don’t think couples can get along 100% of the time. That sounds impossible to me. If anything, it sounds like someone is just hiding resentment.
Wow I need that type of relationship.. well I want it, but unfortunately the stars say I can't. Having a mars in the 7th house(aggressive spouse) and venus square Pluto(Abusive jealous dark relationships) ... life sucks
Venus square Pluto indicates that the native invites unnecessary drama into relatively stable relationships, in addition to getting involved in dysfunctional or abusive relationships.
No natal chart is set in stone, so it's something you have to work on and remain extremely aware of.
Oh, also try not to be too clingy...
That's what really scares me too. Im scared to get into a relationship because that aspect I read up on makes it seem like some sort of demon comes out in the chart owner in relationships. I for sure don't want to be the inflictor 🙁 Id rather be single lol. It sounds like a complicated aspect like I will have to really overcome it why whyyy must I have been cursed with this 😩 I try to stay positive with this aspect but it always scares me. Plus I have Chiron in Scorpio in the 8th house so I really don't like Scorpio themes. Well wish me luck😬
I have Venus square Pluto too and no it's not always a good one in relationships. Just give it a try. If you don't like it you can always get out the relationship. Like gobby said don't be too clingy.
And don't be like me. I rushed into relationships. Sometimes I regret it and rather and wished to stay single. With Venus being my chart ruler and loads of Venus aspects, it's hard not to draw woman's attention with my presence.
Oh I can imagine ! I liked this one guy who also had venus as his chart ruler in Scorpio and conjunct pluto! Lots of aspects to his venus. He definitely is magnetic and attractive. So many girls fall for him.
But our synastry was intense. I almost pursued him but I was chicken, too afraid of the aspects. Tons of hard aspects to eachothers Pluto and tons of hard saturn aspects. I was like no I don’t have a death wish 😂 and also us both having venus-pluto? Yikes
Thanks for the advice! Luckily I don’t like to rush into relationships. Id rather them be meaningful so Im a bit picky. Im not ready for a relationship right now Im trying to give myself room to heal and grow and hopefully when the time comes I’ll be mature enough to handle it!click to expand
Posted by F0RTUNA
Not that often.
Our tropical signs are...
Mine:
Cap sun, moon, and merc 12th House
Aqua Venus and Mars 1st house
Merc and Venus conjunct Ascendant
His:
Libra sun 5th house
Cancer moon 1st house
Libra merc 5th house
Sag Venus 7th house
Leo mars 3rd house
We both have North Nodes in Cancer.
Posted by KityyyyyyyWhat wut?? Well it's not like we were destined to have a happy ending, when he's not even capable of loving me romantically. But this one CAN.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Couples that NEVER fight or bring up something that needs to be discussed got SERIOUS resentment issues.
We're not much of anything now - his fault, but when we disagreed, we just talked calmly and laid things out on the table. No name-calling and definitely no yelling or making a scene. Most of the time. When he didn't sulk and pin me to the wall and practically rape me the next day lol.
Me: Virgo mooner Fish
Him: Cap mooner Leo
but now I got a lil sumthin sumthin going with a Gem mooner Scorp.
Wait... Wut!!!!!!!.
P.s. Told you so. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤤😏click to expand
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by KityyyyyyyPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Couples that NEVER fight or bring up something that needs to be discussed got SERIOUS resentment issues.
We're not much of anything now - his fault, but when we disagreed, we just talked calmly and laid things out on the table. No name-calling and definitely no yelling or making a scene. Most of the time. When he didn't sulk and pin me to the wall and practically rape me the next day lol.
Me: Virgo mooner Fish
Him: Cap mooner Leo
but now I got a lil sumthin sumthin going with a Gem mooner Scorp.
Wait... Wut!!!!!!!.
P.s. Told you so. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤤😏
What wut?? Well it's not like we were destined to have a happy ending, when he's not even capable of loving me romantically. But this one CAN.
It's better it happened this way anyway, his "playing both sides" made it easy for me to emotionally distance myself. I did to my own mother, I can certainly do it to him. But he didn't think I could, still doesn't think I can. He's like "give it some time, don't move out. I can't imagine my life without you".
And I'm like
https://i.imgur.com/Hg5bedw.gif"well you should've thought of that before you did A LOT of things"
Anyway, me and the Scorp have a far better understanding of each other. Similar life experiences, and I don't have to keep explaining myself to him. He's not a sheltered fuckboi with a perfect life. He's had a rough time and I understand his way of doing things. It's the same way I do things 😉
I also can't get enough of when he gets carried away in the heat of the moment and blurts out what he's really thinking but wasn't ready to do so. His face changes 100 shades of red and just freezes open-mouthed.
Reminds me of the Liz Phair lyricIsn't this the best part of breaking up
Finding someone else you can't get enough of
Someone who wants to be with you, too
Here we go, we're at the beginning
We haven't fucked yet, but my head's spinning
🤣🤣🤣 indeed we haven't fucked yet, but we've already seen every bit of each other. He bared it all for me first so I had to show my appreciation by doing the same later on.click to expand
Posted by KityyyyyyyWell he's in his mid 20s and he's for all intents and purposes single, or rather "not exclusive to one person". So of course he's gonna fuck around all he can. I'd be more worried about him if he DIDN'T, considering all the fucked up DXP spinsters I can use as an example.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by KityyyyyyyPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Couples that NEVER fight or bring up something that needs to be discussed got SERIOUS resentment issues.
We're not much of anything now - his fault, but when we disagreed, we just talked calmly and laid things out on the table. No name-calling and definitely no yelling or making a scene. Most of the time. When he didn't sulk and pin me to the wall and practically rape me the next day lol.
Me: Virgo mooner Fish
Him: Cap mooner Leo
but now I got a lil sumthin sumthin going with a Gem mooner Scorp.
Wait... Wut!!!!!!!.
P.s. Told you so. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤤😏
What wut?? Well it's not like we were destined to have a happy ending, when he's not even capable of loving me romantically. But this one CAN.
It's better it happened this way anyway, his "playing both sides" made it easy for me to emotionally distance myself. I did to my own mother, I can certainly do it to him. But he didn't think I could, still doesn't think I can. He's like "give it some time, don't move out. I can't imagine my life without you".
And I'm like
"well you should've thought of that before you did A LOT of things"
Anyway, me and the Scorp have a far better understanding of each other. Similar life experiences, and I don't have to keep explaining myself to him. He's not a sheltered fuckboi with a perfect life. He's had a rough time and I understand his way of doing things. It's the same way I do things 😉
I also can't get enough of when he gets carried away in the heat of the moment and blurts out what he's really thinking but wasn't ready to do so. His face changes 100 shades of red and just freezes open-mouthed.
Reminds me of the Liz Phair lyricIsn't this the best part of breaking up
Finding someone else you can't get enough of
Someone who wants to be with you, too
Here we go, we're at the beginning
We haven't fucked yet, but my head's spinning
🤣🤣🤣 indeed we haven't fucked yet, but we've already seen every bit of each other. He bared it all for me first so I had to show my appreciation by doing the same later on.
I have attempted to re write my response four times. Stupid retrograde!!!. Did you even get my last quote?. Arghhhhhhhh!!!.
All I'll say before I attempt another response is this. You made reference to the Scorp/gem mooner that, his conduct and character has been erm questionable at best. Because I am one I suggest a short leash and, wish nothing but the best for you.
Tbc..... 🤤😔 😁click to expand
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣That GIF!!!. 😁Posted by KityyyyyyyPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by KityyyyyyyPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Couples that NEVER fight or bring up something that needs to be discussed got SERIOUS resentment issues.
We're not much of anything now - his fault, but when we disagreed, we just talked calmly and laid things out on the table. No name-calling and definitely no yelling or making a scene. Most of the time. When he didn't sulk and pin me to the wall and practically rape me the next day lol.
Me: Virgo mooner Fish
Him: Cap mooner Leo
but now I got a lil sumthin sumthin going with a Gem mooner Scorp.
Wait... Wut!!!!!!!.
P.s. Told you so. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤤😏
What wut?? Well it's not like we were destined to have a happy ending, when he's not even capable of loving me romantically. But this one CAN.
It's better it happened this way anyway, his "playing both sides" made it easy for me to emotionally distance myself. I did to my own mother, I can certainly do it to him. But he didn't think I could, still doesn't think I can. He's like "give it some time, don't move out. I can't imagine my life without you".
And I'm like
https://i.imgur.com/Hg5bedw.gif"well you should've thought of that before you did A LOT of things"
Anyway, me and the Scorp have a far better understanding of each other. Similar life experiences, and I don't have to keep explaining myself to him. He's not a sheltered fuckboi with a perfect life. He's had a rough time and I understand his way of doing things. It's the same way I do things 😉
I also can't get enough of when he gets carried away in the heat of the moment and blurts out what he's really thinking but wasn't ready to do so. His face changes 100 shades of red and just freezes open-mouthed.
Reminds me of the Liz Phair lyricIsn't this the best part of breaking up
Finding someone else you can't get enough of
Someone who wants to be with you, too
Here we go, we're at the beginning
We haven't fucked yet, but my head's spinning
🤣🤣🤣 indeed we haven't fucked yet, but we've already seen every bit of each other. He bared it all for me first so I had to show my appreciation by doing the same later on.
I have attempted to re write my response four times. Stupid retrograde!!!. Did you even get my last quote?. Arghhhhhhhh!!!.
All I'll say before I attempt another response is this. You made reference to the Scorp/gem mooner that, his conduct and character has been erm questionable at best. Because I am one I suggest a short leash and, wish nothing but the best for you.
Tbc..... 🤤😔 😁
Well he's in his mid 20s and he's for all intents and purposes single, or rather "not exclusive to one person". So of course he's gonna fuck around all he can. I'd be more worried about him if he DIDN'T, considering all the fucked up DXP spinsters I can use as an example.
That was also weeks ago. We've had some moments of glaring clarity since. And I may have overreacted to his promiscuity at first. I may have gone about it all wrong as well. Maybe the last thing I need right now is another intense relationship, and being fixated on wanting to have one is keeping me from having fun and just taking it easy. It's been a very exhausting 3 years. I'd rather lean back and enjoy the ride wherever it takes me, instead of being fixated on the finish line.
He was also worried that he's not a very good person and that things get rough around him. And I'm like "oh sweetie, I was getting my hands dirty while you were still waiting for your balls to drop." For some reason he really gets off on penis/ball jokes. Probably comes with being a Scorp.
And notifications are still focked. If someone likes & quotes, most of the time I'll only get the like notification.click to expand