How would this be possessive in terms of an abusive relationship? *NOT A TROLL*

Hi everyone! I honestly don't know why this would be possessive since I'm not too sure how relationships work because I've never been in one and I'm not too sure how guys work either. So basically there's this guy I used to like and we have never been in a relationship but I recently told my co-workers about the situation and basically they told me the guy I like is emotionally abusive. In high school, this guy would always call me names like weird creepy and annoying and then he would also scream at me. But then he would stare at me and go to the bathroom and j***k off and say my name. I am just curious as to how it's possessive that he would j***k off and say my name? Please if you could give me some insight as to what it means? Thank you!

Well, possessive in the terms that he essentially bullied you, and probably scared anyone off from dating you by doing so. Thus keeping them from dating you and keeping you alone.

Posted by aquarius_beauty
This dude sounds like he's got issues. He's being possessive over someone who doesn't even belong to him.

On another note you're pretty af

Posted by justmex3
Hi everyone! I honestly don't know why this would be possessive since I'm not too sure how relationships work because I've never been in one and I'm not too sure how guys work either. So basically there's this guy I used to like and we have never been in a relationship but I recently told my co-workers about the situation and basically they told me the guy I like is emotionally abusive. In high school, this guy would always call me names like weird creepy and annoying and then he would also scream at me. But then he would stare at me and go to the bathroom and j***k off and say my name. I am just curious as to how it's possessive that he would j***k off and say my name? Please if you could give me some insight as to what it means? Thank you!

Read through your story (or rather stories) about this guy. You seem to be a bit obsessed about reading into his actions. Out of curiosity, is this the first guy to pay attention to you in this manner? The first to make your heart skip a beat? There are far too many guys out there to get all wrapped up over a guy who bullies you. Bullying and being mean to girls stops after elementary when girls have cooties, etc. Sounds like this guy may be emotionally stuck in 3rd grade. Pleasuring himself and saying your name also sounds like he's got some emotional, possibly psychological issues to work out.

Even still, you are curious about him, wanting to see the deeper meaning behind his actions. Possibly hoping this is a potential Beauty and the Beast scenario? Sounds like in this scenario you're the good girl, to his bad boy. Maybe someone can offer some insight regarding the fact that he's an Aquarius, but I think you should steer clear of this particular guy. Whatever his issues are, they are deeper than you.

this is no posessiveness. this is bully.

here is an article for you that talks about this kind of behavior and why it should not be encouraged.

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/lovejoyfeminism/2013/03/that-just-means-he-likes-you.html

@nikkistar he did do that. all of the guys wouldn't date me. he makes me feel really lonely...

Posted by Hare
How do you know he would jerk off and say your name?

Did you follow him into the restroom?

In our school the boys restrooms don't have stall doors and there's a mirror in front of one of the stalls so the boys have to keep the back of their pants up and they only just have the front down and basically he had just screamed at me and i was in the lunchroom still and then he was like long gone and so i was on my way to class and i was walking by the boys bathroom and i heard him saying my name. and how i know its him is because you can see the back of him and plus i know the sound of his voice.

Posted by justmex3

he would stare at me and go to the bathroom and j***k off and say my name.