How would you feel if....sleeping w/ 2 woman

Ok...started dating a Virgo guy about 3 months ago...due to my trveling, we have only gone our 9 times or so. No committment, no talk of anything like that. My issue is the few calls in between as I always intiate the call, but he always answers or calls right back and we end up making plans.

We are intimate and have been for while.

I asked last night if he was intimate w/ others as well, he said YES, with one other woman. I said I needed to know because if we are going to be intimate and then the disappearing act occurs, it makes me feel disrespected. I was taken back a bit....his reponse is "I told you from the beginning I am not good at relationships and not good at calling"

I said I was not asking about a realtionship but rather respect.

What are your thoughts on this?

Think he has fully respected you by being honest! Do you want more from him??

I see why you feel the way you do. I kinda in that position at the moment but I'm sleeping with him. That my advice PLEASE and leave him alone. Try to have a serious a conversation with him first ... lay everything out on the line! Then start keeping your distance.

DB is right.. and so is Aprilbaby...u can neva change a guy and we dont want u 2 end up in heartache or STDzzzz... but i have 2 admit da guy'z been honest in tellin ya hes been sleepin wid another woman.... and from ur comment it seems like he already told ya he aint gud at relationshipz.. so i guess it waz gonna happen 1 time or another..

i waz once datin this guy who said da same thing that he wasnt gud at relationshipz and might continue havin intimate relationshipz wid otherz.... well since im not da kindda person who likes changin people coz u can neva do that.... we jus broke it off...

i mean if itz fyne wid u to jus have sex wid no stringz than itz fyne but if itz hurtin then u gotta do sumthin fast....

agreed with db and april baby.

Sophie...who really cares about how WE feel (I know you are just gathering info.) but...what about YOU? How do YOU feel knowing he is sleeping with another woman and you are not his first priority? This is what truly is most important here....make your decision on YOUR feelings - I promise, they will never NEVER steer you wrong lovely one.

I must honestly share with you that this situation is bringing up a self esteem issue for you...please don't settle for being second best - YOU deserve to be THE BEST - treasured and honored in a wonderful relationship!

I say walk! I'm about about to ask the guy I'm dating the same question and bracing myself for the answer. If it is that he is seeing other people, I will see other people as well or just leave him alone completely. I think I will do the latter since I am a 1 man woman.🙂 It will hurt like hell, because he is everything that I have been looking for but he is older and I don't think we are on the same page.

He HAS issued you SOME disrespect. The very fact that you had to ASK HIM and he did not TELL YOU from the start of the relationship that he was sleeping with someone else is disrespectful. TMO. If he respected you he would have given to insight from jump.

It's good that he was truthful when asked, but would you have ask him the truth throughout the relationship— Would be avoid voluteering the truth throughout? Is it worth it? Chasing the truth that is?