I can’t figure this Taurus man out

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by LibraCancer05 on Tuesday, June 23, 2020 and has 7 replies.
I met this Taurus guy summer, he spent around4/5 talking before we kissed. We were dating for

Around 3 months before we broke things off. I was moving away for 5 months and he seemed really distant. I got nervous and broke it off. We had conversations after and everything was oney from his side but I still haven’t received an explanation why it didn’t work out. He seemed to be in love with me, he adored everything about me and his friend told me I was the first one he took to his parents house in two years. And suddenly he told me he felt apathy towards like and nothing was exciting...

I was sooooooo hurt I let him know, whenever I’d tell him I was hurt he would stop replying (during quarantine)

I texted him last week and I told him I felt there were some things I did wrong and I wanted to explain myself, he was really sweet told me everything was okey and it if wanted to meet up he was down, I said yes! Whenever you can and he left me on red.

I don’t understand him. If I was so so very special to him and I did him so much good why is he so distant and rude to me?

Any advice on what to do???
He seemed distant the last two weeks before I was going abroad again and I, was too quick to cut it off, but we talked about it and he told me his distance was because he felt apathy towards life and nothing was making him excited anymore... I’d say I broke it off but ever since the first moment he was telling me he was feeling responsable for it...

and during quarantine (he also texted me) but at some point I texted first and ended up telling him I didn’t feel he was fair to me and that I was hurt. Every time I’d say so he’d stop replying.
wish I could help.. but I don't get taurus men either
Posted by LibraCancer05

He seemed distant the last two weeks before I was going abroad again and I, was too quick to cut it off, but we talked about it and he told me his distance was because he felt apathy towards life and nothing was making him excited anymore... I’d say I broke it off but ever since the first moment he was telling me he was feeling responsable for it...

and during quarantine (he also texted me) but at some point I texted first and ended up telling him I didn’t feel he was fair to me and that I was hurt. Every time I’d say so he’d stop replying.
you have to make your mind up with what you want.

want to meet to get back together? arrange a day. don't leave it with a vague "whenever you're free." talk about putting things behind you. don't rehash things over and over again. it sounds like you've done that enough.

want to talk about what happened and tell him how hurt you are? stop. stop it now. it's finished. over. let it go.
Posted by LibraCancer05

I met this Taurus guy summer, he spent around4/5 talking before we kissed. We were dating for

Around 3 months before we broke things off. I was moving away for 5 months and he seemed really distant. I got nervous and broke it off. We had conversations after and everything was oney from his side but I still haven’t received an explanation why it didn’t work out. He seemed to be in love with me, he adored everything about me and his friend told me I was the first one he took to his parents house in two years. And suddenly he told me he felt apathy towards like and nothing was exciting...

I was sooooooo hurt I let him know, whenever I’d tell him I was hurt he would stop replying (during quarantine)

I texted him last week and I told him I felt there were some things I did wrong and I wanted to explain myself, he was really sweet told me everything was okey and it if wanted to meet up he was down, I said yes! Whenever you can and he left me on red.

I don’t understand him. If I was so so very special to him and I did him so much good why is he so distant and rude to me?

Any advice on what to do???

That sounds like depression.
At this point, I would be into him from afar and check in every now and then. It might hurt yes, but seeing that he lacked to address your hurt, maybe he's got something going on too that hes just not telling you. Let him know that you're there for him but.. do keep your guard if he's not fully invested. It sounds like he is, but I'd keep it more superficial. Less pressure on both of y'all.
That’s to you all...

yea I literally asked him to meet up and he left me on read

I’m gonna let gooo

Not interested in having someone in my life who can’t even be straight forward with me or even acknowledge my hurt and apologize.

I’ll never understand why it didn’t work but that it... I’m out for good