I ended the relationship even though I still love her. I think she maybe over it now.
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by vanballmoos on Thursday, October 26, 2017 and has 8 replies.
Posted by aquarius_manI’m a guy.
r u a boy or a girl? u sound like a girl?
I believe your this is difficult for me message was weak attempt at trying to get back in. In your mind you probably thought what can I say to show I still want this but without really putting myself out there. You were hoping she’d say more than just me too, just like she was probably hoping you were going to say more too.
Oh, and let’s cut the crap OP even if you’re done and want to vent, no one vents that much for no reason and say you’re struggling on top of that. You broke up with her and immediately bombarded her with messages. The moment you accept that you still want the relationship the better you can handle the situation. You need to be honest with yourself first.
Oh, and let’s cut the crap OP even if you’re done and want to vent, no one vents that much for no reason and say you’re struggling on top of that. You broke up with her and immediately bombarded her with messages. The moment you accept that you still want the relationship the better you can handle the situation. You need to be honest with yourself first.
Posted by LDM90Wouldn’t this be considered breadcrumbs though?
I believe your this is difficult for me message was weak attempt at trying to get back in. In your mind you probably thought what can I say to show I still want this but without really putting myself out there. You were hoping she’d say more than just me too, just like she was probably hoping you were going to say more too.
Oh, and let’s cut the crap OP even if you’re done and want to vent, no one vents that much for no reason and say you’re struggling on top of that. You broke up with her and immediately bombarded her with messages. The moment you accept that you still want the relationship the better you can handle the situation. You need to be honest with yourself first.
Posted by SupesNo. See she had broken up with me (she was tired of the arguing). Almost two weeks later she said she made a mistake and didn’t think we had really given it a go and that’s when she suggested counseling to get tools to help us communicate better. I told her that I had moved on. She said okay and then left.
You ended it.
What else do you want her to do? Just forget like it never happened?
Posted by EnochtheWiseHuh, why?
Honestly, taking some poker lessons would probably be more beneficial for you than therapy. Start here:
http://www.pokerlistings.com/strategy/how-not-to-suck-at-poker-stop-bluffing
Posted by SupesI’m explaining what preceded the events/me closing the door....Posted by vanballmoosThat’s the complete opposite of what you said in the post.Posted by SupesNo. See she had broken up with me (she was tired of the arguing). Almost two weeks later she said she made a mistake and didn’t think we had really given it a go and that’s when she suggested counseling to get tools to help us communicate better. I told her that I had moved on. She said okay and then left.
You ended it.
What else do you want her to do? Just forget like it never happened?
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The Five Stages of Grief?
1.Denial –. The first stage of grief is Denial.
2.Anger –. The second stage of grief is Anger.
3.Bargaining –. The third stage of grief is Bargaining.
4.Depression –. The fourth stage of grief is Depression.
5.Acceptance –. The fifth stage of grief is Acceptance.
Its all down to this. And I believe what the OP is referring to is the 3rd stage of bargaining. This is why they come back but will later fail further on.
1.Denial –. The first stage of grief is Denial.
2.Anger –. The second stage of grief is Anger.
3.Bargaining –. The third stage of grief is Bargaining.
4.Depression –. The fourth stage of grief is Depression.
5.Acceptance –. The fifth stage of grief is Acceptance.
Its all down to this. And I believe what the OP is referring to is the 3rd stage of bargaining. This is why they come back but will later fail further on.
Posted by vanballmoosShe left cause she has dignity. Do you expect a doormat? She was already mature enough and up front with you, even offering a solution not just whining and complaining about it. This is called not being a "passive" person. Move on for real then say you have moved on, player.Posted by SupesNo. See she had broken up with me (she was tired of the arguing). Almost two weeks later she said she made a mistake and didn’t think we had really given it a go and that’s when she suggested counseling to get tools to help us communicate better. I told her that I had moved on. She said okay and then left.
You ended it.
What else do you want her to do? Just forget like it never happened?click to expand
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