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Dec 08, 2013Comments: 40 · Posts: 2507 · Topics: 212
No SIM card though. Why would he hide this?
Don't mention it to him, but keep an eye on it. Trust your instinct!
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Aug 24, 2011Comments: 17 · Posts: 5119 · Topics: 78
Are you sure it's his and not someone else's phone?
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Sep 03, 2016Comments: 36034 · Posts: 40656 · Topics: 321
Just ask him straight out and see how he reacts
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Dec 08, 2013Comments: 40 · Posts: 2507 · Topics: 212
Yes it's his old phone with a password on it now he didn't have before
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Dec 08, 2013Comments: 40 · Posts: 2507 · Topics: 212
I also found condoms in his drawer that weren't there before and he daid they were old but I've dug through that drawer for a year and never seen them
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Apr 26, 2013Comments: 4917 · Posts: 19264 · Topics: 148
he's not necessarily cheating on you, maybe he's a spy
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Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
You need to gather more evidence before you ask him questions and alert him to the fact that your onto him.
Create a pof account and search his email. My sister just did this and found her bf on that site 😭
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Sep 10, 2017Comments: 23 · Posts: 918 · Topics: 20
I remember I broke up with my ex and drove a 2 hour drive in 45 mins to get a phone I gave him... he left it in the mailbox...cause I wasn gonna whoop his ass. I had a hunch and I acted on it and he knew. he put a passcode on it... it's an iPhone so no sim issue BUT... I was determine to get in that bitch.... I was sooo angry I couldn't... it kept going off and I could only answer calls (which by them he told his females to stop calling so what I did?)
For a few days I turned it off pulled myself together and got to thinking and collected my thoughts.. I found the damn password and braced myself! I can't believe to this day I knew the code by just thinking and collecting myself! What I found broke me so badly I almost tried to kill myself... the first time I ever got cheated on and opened my eyes for the rest of my life. I say this to say...
Collect yourself... come up with a plan... the one above who said to remove the condoms I agree... look for that damn sim!! (It may be in the new phone).
And collect and brace yourself for what you'll find... when you find it... collect yourself again before uttering a word... do this from a place of calm and everything will come to the surface...
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Dec 08, 2013Comments: 40 · Posts: 2507 · Topics: 212
So I called him out on everything. I don't have patience lol and he got extremely angry. And is breaking stuff and calling me crazy