Posted by Anarchi
what is your sign? I'm too lazy to go digging.. and good.
make her feel your hurt.. maybe i say that cause I am a taurus but revenge is sooo sweet.
she clearly doesn't sound like she deserves your love and if she is keeping her ex around then there is obviously still feelings there, I can stay friends with a few of my ex's only because they literally make me gag to think that I even would date them back then but we don't talk maybe a fb like here and there @mark-23
Posted by SweetLily89
Cut her loose if you're not happy. Life's too short for that mess. No need to play mind games. Yes, ignoring may get under her skin, maybe it won't. Drop her like a hot potato and keep it moving, maybe then it will hit her, when you're no longer looking back.
Posted by tiziani
I don't really have any advice other than to say I can relate. I've lost respect for myself in some relationships.
And, in all honesty.... begging = no coming back from that. Ignoring her or not ignoring her makes no difference.
It's like putting a plaster on the great abyss that is your self-respect and then expecting it will support the weight of your ego as if you're making it walk the plank.
Posted by NotSoInstantPosted by Mark-23Posted by Anarchi
what is your sign? I'm too lazy to go digging.. and good.
make her feel your hurt.. maybe i say that cause I am a taurus but revenge is sooo sweet.
she clearly doesn't sound like she deserves your love and if she is keeping her ex around then there is obviously still feelings there, I can stay friends with a few of my ex's only because they literally make me gag to think that I even would date them back then but we don't talk maybe a fb like here and there @mark-23
She's a Leo with a Capricorn moon.
The thing is I was a little bitch when I felt I was losing control of our relationship. I started begging her not to leave me and cried hell I even stalked her.
Which I shouldn't have done. I should've given her the cold shoulder and make her felt what it is like without me. Because I wanted to finish my education and marry her and get us a house and have children.
Right now it's been 3 days I haven't spoken to her, or called or texted her like a crazy puppy....
I wonder what she's thinking?
You think she's testing me at this point?
P.S. Every time I spoke of the future, she'd be in tears because she claimed she wanted the house and have my children. But lemme tell ya this, her lies and actions spoke the complete opposite!
Walk away forever, from all this.click to expand
Posted by Anarchi
If she doesn't contact you then you have your answer. Most cap girls I know are crazy and stalker like and will push you into the corner and question you until you tell them what they want to hear... probably not something you want to deal with.
I would say cut your loss and run like hell, it's easier said then done but liars never change, actions speak louder then words like you said babe and honestly.. she doesn't seem that great if shes doing all of these shady things.
it's going to hurt but you're going to find someone who suits you better.
We all crave love but sometimes.. it's not with the right person.
@mark-23
Posted by tizianiCrying/begging is only the kiss of death if your with the wrong person.
I don't really have any advice other than to say I can relate. I've lost respect for myself in some relationships.
And, in all honesty.... begging = no coming back from that. Ignoring her or not ignoring her makes no difference.
It's like putting a plaster on the great abyss that is your self-respect and then expecting it will support the weight of your ego as if you're making it walk the plank.
Posted by NotSoInstantYes you did and I was left a bit confused. But it did state some facts and she did have a huge profound affect on me and my life and I did on her too she even stated it a few times...Posted by Mark-23Posted by NotSoInstantPosted by Mark-23Posted by Anarchi
what is your sign? I'm too lazy to go digging.. and good.
make her feel your hurt.. maybe i say that cause I am a taurus but revenge is sooo sweet.
she clearly doesn't sound like she deserves your love and if she is keeping her ex around then there is obviously still feelings there, I can stay friends with a few of my ex's only because they literally make me gag to think that I even would date them back then but we don't talk maybe a fb like here and there @mark-23
She's a Leo with a Capricorn moon.
The thing is I was a little bitch when I felt I was losing control of our relationship. I started begging her not to leave me and cried hell I even stalked her.
Which I shouldn't have done. I should've given her the cold shoulder and make her felt what it is like without me. Because I wanted to finish my education and marry her and get us a house and have children.
Right now it's been 3 days I haven't spoken to her, or called or texted her like a crazy puppy....
I wonder what she's thinking?
You think she's testing me at this point?
P.S. Every time I spoke of the future, she'd be in tears because she claimed she wanted the house and have my children. But lemme tell ya this, her lies and actions spoke the complete opposite!
Walk away forever, from all this.
This is my last run for it before is truly walk away. If this doesn't workout then it never will... and she will realize when I'm finally gone what she missed out on.
Idk, I don't believe in retaliation or doing anything just to teach someone a lesson... If you are walking away, let it be because this isn't right. I have looked at your sysnastry, I believe?click to expand
Posted by NotSoInstantCan you teach me how can I look in my synastry?Posted by Mark-23Posted by NotSoInstantPosted by Mark-23Posted by Anarchi
what is your sign? I'm too lazy to go digging.. and good.
make her feel your hurt.. maybe i say that cause I am a taurus but revenge is sooo sweet.
she clearly doesn't sound like she deserves your love and if she is keeping her ex around then there is obviously still feelings there, I can stay friends with a few of my ex's only because they literally make me gag to think that I even would date them back then but we don't talk maybe a fb like here and there @mark-23
She's a Leo with a Capricorn moon.
The thing is I was a little bitch when I felt I was losing control of our relationship. I started begging her not to leave me and cried hell I even stalked her.
Which I shouldn't have done. I should've given her the cold shoulder and make her felt what it is like without me. Because I wanted to finish my education and marry her and get us a house and have children.
Right now it's been 3 days I haven't spoken to her, or called or texted her like a crazy puppy....
I wonder what she's thinking?
You think she's testing me at this point?
P.S. Every time I spoke of the future, she'd be in tears because she claimed she wanted the house and have my children. But lemme tell ya this, her lies and actions spoke the complete opposite!
Walk away forever, from all this.
This is my last run for it before is truly walk away. If this doesn't workout then it never will... and she will realize when I'm finally gone what she missed out on.
Idk, I don't believe in retaliation or doing anything just to teach someone a lesson... If you are walking away, let it be because this isn't right. I have looked at your sysnastry, I believe?click to expand
Posted by tizianiI've missed the story.Posted by LadyNeptuneI've never seen any sexual attraction survive one person begging another. But I'm happy to hear stories that prove me wrong.Posted by tizianiCrying/begging is only the kiss of death if your with the wrong person.
I don't really have any advice other than to say I can relate. I've lost respect for myself in some relationships.
And, in all honesty.... begging = no coming back from that. Ignoring her or not ignoring her makes no difference.
It's like putting a plaster on the great abyss that is your self-respect and then expecting it will support the weight of your ego as if you're making it walk the plank.
And in this case ignoring her and getting a result from it, has everything to with her ego as opposed to any tender feelings on her part.click to expand
Posted by Gemitati
Mark
Can you please describe what is this about her that made you lose yourself to this condition?
Please write it down. What does she have that you love so much about her?
Posted by SweetLily89Posted by Mark-23Some people will never see your worth or appreciate you, but that's not what's important...Posted by SweetLily89
Cut her loose if you're not happy. Life's too short for that mess. No need to play mind games. Yes, ignoring may get under her skin, maybe it won't. Drop her like a hot potato and keep it moving, maybe then it will hit her, when you're no longer looking back.
I told her in our previous conversations that once I leave, I'm gone forever. I asked her kindly but firmly to help make the necessary changes to move forward. Because she wanted to forget the past and start moving forward...
Now I'm doing something I've never done, before and that is I'm completely ignoring her, where as a week ago I was blowing up her phone.
I'm gonna be ignoring her and you updated.
Do YOU see your own worth?
From what I'm reading, I'm not convinced you do. Don't allow anyone else to dictate your value. If she isn't appreciating you for who you are now, then how is ignoring her going to achieve your desired goal? It won't make a difference.
You are prolonging the inevitable from what I can see, you've already expressed your concerns and needs and as you had put it yourself, actions speak louder than words. The longer you stay, the longer you're keeping yourself from finding someone who will truly value you.click to expand
Posted by NotSoInstantPosted by Mark-23Okie... I couldn't reply to your PMs then, my bad... I remember the synastry and it did look wildly passionate but didn't look "safe"Posted by NotSoInstantYes you did and I was left a bit confused. But it did state some facts and she did have a huge profound affect on me and my life and I did on her too she even stated it a few times...Posted by Mark-23Posted by NotSoInstantPosted by Mark-23Posted by Anarchi
what is your sign? I'm too lazy to go digging.. and good.
make her feel your hurt.. maybe i say that cause I am a taurus but revenge is sooo sweet.
she clearly doesn't sound like she deserves your love and if she is keeping her ex around then there is obviously still feelings there, I can stay friends with a few of my ex's only because they literally make me gag to think that I even would date them back then but we don't talk maybe a fb like here and there @mark-23
She's a Leo with a Capricorn moon.
The thing is I was a little bitch when I felt I was losing control of our relationship. I started begging her not to leave me and cried hell I even stalked her.
Which I shouldn't have done. I should've given her the cold shoulder and make her felt what it is like without me. Because I wanted to finish my education and marry her and get us a house and have children.
Right now it's been 3 days I haven't spoken to her, or called or texted her like a crazy puppy....
I wonder what she's thinking?
You think she's testing me at this point?
P.S. Every time I spoke of the future, she'd be in tears because she claimed she wanted the house and have my children. But lemme tell ya this, her lies and actions spoke the complete opposite!
Walk away forever, from all this.
This is my last run for it before is truly walk away. If this doesn't workout then it never will... and she will realize when I'm finally gone what she missed out on.
Idk, I don't believe in retaliation or doing anything just to teach someone a lesson... If you are walking away, let it be because this isn't right. I have looked at your sysnastry, I believe?
All the best to youclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineI'm the most passionate and devoted Aries your ever gonna meet. Not to sound cocky just making a point.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?click to expand
Posted by Mark-23I believe you....but I sensed you were with her for the wrong reasons initially....just my gut feeling.Posted by MyStarsShineI'm the most passionate and devoted Aries your ever gonna meet. Not to sound cocky just making a point.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?click to expand
Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
My entire chart is listed on my profile page. I'm Aries sun, moon, rising and a another part of me is also an Aries. And I'm in love deeply with this frigging lionessclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineHow did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?click to expand
Posted by GemitatiI messed up 8 months ago. I wrote what I did that made her be the way she is. But after I apologized and promised to changed, she saw how weak I was and she had us both wrapped around her fingers.
Beautifull!
Now I can't even imagine how is this goddess of love turned into a liar!
Please write down her faults but honestly starting when did you 2 messed it up.
Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineHow did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.
Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePlease don't take it the wrong way. That was 8 months ago... this is 8 months after I apologized and became a puppy dog.Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineHow did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.
Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.
Physically abusive?
It sounds like you are better off apart Mark...I am seeing it from both sides nowclick to expand
Posted by Mark-23You blame all on yourself?Posted by GemitatiI messed up 8 months ago. I wrote what I did that made her be the way she is. But after I apologized and promised to changed, she saw how weak I was and she had us both wrapped around her fingers.
Beautifull!
Now I can't even imagine how is this goddess of love turned into a liar!
Please write down her faults but honestly starting when did you 2 messed it up.
Thus I became the puppy dog who chased her left and right.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?click to expand
Posted by sumooPosted by Mark-23I can see why she ran more to her ex when you started abusing her. just let her go nowPosted by MyStarsShineHow did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.
Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.click to expand
Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShinePlease don't take it the wrong way. That was 8 months ago... this is 8 months after I apologized and became a puppy dog.Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineHow did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShineWell you are asking for advice Mark
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.
Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.
Physically abusive?
It sounds like you are better off apart Mark...I am seeing it from both sides nowclick to expand
Posted by tizianiI'm gonna pm you.Posted by LadyNeptuneI've never seen any sexual attraction survive one person begging another. But I'm happy to hear stories that prove me wrong.Posted by tizianiCrying/begging is only the kiss of death if your with the wrong person.
I don't really have any advice other than to say I can relate. I've lost respect for myself in some relationships.
And, in all honesty.... begging = no coming back from that. Ignoring her or not ignoring her makes no difference.
It's like putting a plaster on the great abyss that is your self-respect and then expecting it will support the weight of your ego as if you're making it walk the plank.
And in this case ignoring her and getting a result from it, has everything to with her ego as opposed to any tender feelings on her part.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiI'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShinePlease don't take it the wrong way. That was 8 months ago... this is 8 months after I apologized and became a puppy dog.Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineHow did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShineWell you are asking for advice Mark
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.
Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.
Physically abusive?
It sounds like you are better off apart Mark...I am seeing it from both sides now
Is there a right way to look at abuse though? 8 months, 8 years....I would not trust a man that did this to me. Like I said before, the message may be that you let her goclick to expand
Posted by Mark-23See? You are very protective of her!Posted by GemitatiI'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeksclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23See? You are very protective of her!Posted by GemitatiI'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks
It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?
I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?
What do YOU think?click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23See? You are very protective of her!Posted by GemitatiI'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks
It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?
I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?
What do YOU think?click to expand
Posted by Mark-23You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23See? You are very protective of her!Posted by GemitatiI'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks
It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?
I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?
What do YOU think?
Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShinePlease don't take it the wrong way. That was 8 months ago... this is 8 months after I apologized and became a puppy dog.Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineHow did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShineWell you are asking for advice Mark
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.
Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.
Physically abusive?
It sounds like you are better off apart Mark...I am seeing it from both sides now
Is there a right way to look at abuse though? 8 months, 8 years....I would not trust a man that did this to me. Like I said before, the message may be that you let her go
I offered for us to go to therapy and she agreed when she found the time. But apparently she's too busy, and I was busy chasing her.
Her ex was with her for 4 year and never put a ring on her hand. When she met me she was cheating on him with me and I asked her to simply break it off so we can be officially so I can make the future we both want to become reality.
I mean that tells you everything
She'll cheat n probably is still cheating on you with him
You did nothing wrong but call her on her bad behavior
U weren't required to have patience to see when she'd dump the ex for good. It should have been over when u both agreed to be together.
She is what I call a player
You are being played n strung along if ex ever cuts her off first
Dump her
I don't know why guy like these types of women
I mean the red flag was when she cheated with youclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23See? You are very protective of her!Posted by GemitatiI'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks
It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?
I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?
What do YOU think?
Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.
Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?
But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.
I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShinePlease don't take it the wrong way. That was 8 months ago... this is 8 months after I apologized and became a puppy dog.Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineHow did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShineWell you are asking for advice Mark
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.
Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.
Physically abusive?
It sounds like you are better off apart Mark...I am seeing it from both sides now
Is there a right way to look at abuse though? 8 months, 8 years....I would not trust a man that did this to me. Like I said before, the message may be that you let her go
I offered for us to go to therapy and she agreed when she found the time. But apparently she's too busy, and I was busy chasing her.
Her ex was with her for 4 year and never put a ring on her hand. When she met me she was cheating on him with me and I asked her to simply break it off so we can be officially so I can make the future we both want to become reality.
I mean that tells you everything
She'll cheat n probably is still cheating on you with him
You did nothing wrong but call her on her bad behavior
U weren't required to have patience to see when she'd dump the ex for good. It should have been over when u both agreed to be together.
She is what I call a player
You are being played n strung along if ex ever cuts her off first
Dump her
I don't know why guy like these types of women
I mean the red flag was when she cheated with youclick to expand
Posted by Mark-23I wish you strength from the bottom of my heart! Best of luck and lots of love.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23See? You are very protective of her!Posted by GemitatiI'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks
It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?
I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?
What do YOU think?
Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.
Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?
But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.
I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!
I'm gonna come to peace after ignoring her,
A.) she will change cause I randomly disappeared and she will beg me to come back and if she changes I'll stick around
B.) I'll bounce after a week or so of no confclick to expand
Posted by Mark-23Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23See? You are very protective of her!Posted by GemitatiI'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks
It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?
I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?
What do YOU think?
Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.
Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?
But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.
I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!
I'm gonna come to peace after ignoring her,
A.) she will change cause I randomly disappeared and she will beg me to come back and if she changes I'll stick around
B.) I'll bounce after a week or so of no confclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Mark-23Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23See? You are very protective of her!Posted by GemitatiI'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks
It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?
I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?
What do YOU think?
Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.
Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?
But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.
I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!
I'm gonna come to peace after ignoring her,
A.) she will change cause I randomly disappeared and she will beg me to come back and if she changes I'll stick around
B.) I'll bounce after a week or so of no conf
Mark, you keep mentioning her changing......are you going to take this opportunity to look at your behavior and try to work out why you let yourself abuse the woman you love ?click to expand
Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Mark-23Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23See? You are very protective of her!Posted by GemitatiI'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks
It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?
I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?
What do YOU think?
Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.
Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?
But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.
I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!
I'm gonna come to peace after ignoring her,
A.) she will change cause I randomly disappeared and she will beg me to come back and if she changes I'll stick around
B.) I'll bounce after a week or so of no conf
Mark, you keep mentioning her changing......are you going to take this opportunity to look at your behavior and try to work out why you let yourself abuse the woman you love ?
I already did when I became the puppy dog begging her crying to her and texting her and calling her every single day blowing up her phone.
The thing is the relationship is a 2 Way street and I want us both to change not just myself.
My behavior the past eight months was very weak. To prove that I'm always going to be chasing her that I'm never going to give up and then I simply became an annoyance and something that you have to report to every single time she spoke to me.
Every since I started blowing up her phone texting her calling her back and her getting to her my value has dropped her respect for me has completely been obliterated and she doesn't know my worth anymore.
She takes me for granted and it hurts a lot....click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23I wish you strength from the bottom of my heart! Best of luck and lots of love.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Mark-23See? You are very protective of her!Posted by GemitatiI'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.Posted by MyStarsShineWondering the same.Posted by Mark-23Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat
Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life
I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful
The lioness may be in for a fall
Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
You are a Libra?
He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks
It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?
I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?
What do YOU think?
Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.
Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?
But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.
I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!
I'm gonna come to peace after ignoring her,
A.) she will change cause I randomly disappeared and she will beg me to come back and if she changes I'll stick around
B.) I'll bounce after a week or so of no confclick to expand