I'm ignoring current Girlfriend... any advice?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Mark-23 on Sunday, January 29, 2017 and has 143 replies.
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She can't commit to me and make us the monogamous relationship she claims she wants.

She keeps her supposed ex boyfriend around but I don't think she truly broke up with him, since he fought me. (Follow up on my other topic I posted, he's a sagg)

Talk is cheap, and actions speak louder than words.

She's seen me go from an Alpha male she once listened and followed like a trooper, to a joke and a laughing stock. I begged her and cried to her like a little bitch and thus now the ball is in her hands.

3 days ago I did something I've never done before, put her ass on check for her lies that she claimed she wanted us to move forward, and for the past 3 days I haven't called her or texted her.

I'm planning on ignoring her for some time to make her feel how it is without me because she doesn't value nor respect me. It took me a long time to realize that but by the time I did it was too late...

She's the lioness, my so-called princess....
Posted by Anarchi
what is your sign? I'm too lazy to go digging.. and good.

make her feel your hurt.. maybe i say that cause I am a taurus but revenge is sooo sweet.

she clearly doesn't sound like she deserves your love and if she is keeping her ex around then there is obviously still feelings there, I can stay friends with a few of my ex's only because they literally make me gag to think that I even would date them back then but we don't talk maybe a fb like here and there @mark-23


She's a Leo with a Capricorn moon.

The thing is I was a little bitch when I felt I was losing control of our relationship. I started begging her not to leave me and cried hell I even stalked her.

Which I shouldn't have done. I should've given her the cold shoulder and make her felt what it is like without me. Because I wanted to finish my education and marry her and get us a house and have children.

Right now it's been 3 days I haven't spoken to her, or called or texted her like a crazy puppy....

I wonder what she's thinking?

You think she's testing me at this point?

P.S. Every time I spoke of the future, she'd be in tears because she claimed she wanted the house and have my children. But lemme tell ya this, her lies and actions spoke the complete opposite!

Posted by SweetLily89
Cut her loose if you're not happy. Life's too short for that mess. No need to play mind games. Yes, ignoring may get under her skin, maybe it won't. Drop her like a hot potato and keep it moving, maybe then it will hit her, when you're no longer looking back.


I told her in our previous conversations that once I leave, I'm gone forever. I asked her kindly but firmly to help make the necessary changes to move forward. Because she wanted to forget the past and start moving forward...


Now I'm doing something I've never done, before and that is I'm completely ignoring her, where as a week ago I was blowing up her phone.

I'm gonna be ignoring her and you updated.
Posted by tiziani
I don't really have any advice other than to say I can relate. I've lost respect for myself in some relationships.

And, in all honesty.... begging = no coming back from that. Ignoring her or not ignoring her makes no difference.

It's like putting a plaster on the great abyss that is your self-respect and then expecting it will support the weight of your ego as if you're making it walk the plank.


The thing is I've never ignored her instead when things were going sour instead of ignoring her, I started to chase her like a mad puppy dog.

Does she know my worth? No she doesn't cause she thinks I'm always gonna be there for her, chasing her up and down till she says "peekaboo!"

Ofcourse I don't disagree with anything you've said, begging is definitely a big no come back. But i am still optimistic about this if I play it right.

Posted by NotSoInstant
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Anarchi
what is your sign? I'm too lazy to go digging.. and good.

make her feel your hurt.. maybe i say that cause I am a taurus but revenge is sooo sweet.

she clearly doesn't sound like she deserves your love and if she is keeping her ex around then there is obviously still feelings there, I can stay friends with a few of my ex's only because they literally make me gag to think that I even would date them back then but we don't talk maybe a fb like here and there @mark-23


She's a Leo with a Capricorn moon.

The thing is I was a little bitch when I felt I was losing control of our relationship. I started begging her not to leave me and cried hell I even stalked her.

Which I shouldn't have done. I should've given her the cold shoulder and make her felt what it is like without me. Because I wanted to finish my education and marry her and get us a house and have children.

Right now it's been 3 days I haven't spoken to her, or called or texted her like a crazy puppy....

I wonder what she's thinking?

You think she's testing me at this point?

P.S. Every time I spoke of the future, she'd be in tears because she claimed she wanted the house and have my children. But lemme tell ya this, her lies and actions spoke the complete opposite!



Walk away forever, from all this.

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This is my last run for it before is truly walk away. If this doesn't workout then it never will... and she will realize when I'm finally gone what she missed out on.
Mark

Can you please describe what is this about her that made you lose yourself to this condition?

Please write it down. What does she have that you love so much about her?
Posted by Anarchi
If she doesn't contact you then you have your answer. Most cap girls I know are crazy and stalker like and will push you into the corner and question you until you tell them what they want to hear... probably not something you want to deal with.

I would say cut your loss and run like hell, it's easier said then done but liars never change, actions speak louder then words like you said babe and honestly.. she doesn't seem that great if shes doing all of these shady things.

it's going to hurt but you're going to find someone who suits you better.

We all crave love but sometimes.. it's not with the right person.

@mark-23


She's a Leo sun, but a cap moon. Yes I will run, I'm just doing something I've never done before which is completely ignore her. If this doesn't bring any positive affects to the table then I'm cutting her off forever because I warned her that she is on the tip of the iceberg.

Hell liars don't ever change and she lied to me about so much shit it's not even a joke. I wish I could turn off my emotions because for a long time I thinked with my emotions not my logic. And my biggest warning to those who are young and passionate in a relationship who want to get married and have children is first off never think with your emotions, think with your heads, questioning and reasoning can get you farther than ever.

I'll keep you updated.

Posted by tiziani
I don't really have any advice other than to say I can relate. I've lost respect for myself in some relationships.

And, in all honesty.... begging = no coming back from that. Ignoring her or not ignoring her makes no difference.

It's like putting a plaster on the great abyss that is your self-respect and then expecting it will support the weight of your ego as if you're making it walk the plank.
Crying/begging is only the kiss of death if your with the wrong person.

And in this case ignoring her and getting a result from it, has everything to with her ego as opposed to any tender feelings on her part.

Posted by NotSoInstant
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by NotSoInstant
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Anarchi
what is your sign? I'm too lazy to go digging.. and good.

make her feel your hurt.. maybe i say that cause I am a taurus but revenge is sooo sweet.

she clearly doesn't sound like she deserves your love and if she is keeping her ex around then there is obviously still feelings there, I can stay friends with a few of my ex's only because they literally make me gag to think that I even would date them back then but we don't talk maybe a fb like here and there @mark-23


She's a Leo with a Capricorn moon.

The thing is I was a little bitch when I felt I was losing control of our relationship. I started begging her not to leave me and cried hell I even stalked her.

Which I shouldn't have done. I should've given her the cold shoulder and make her felt what it is like without me. Because I wanted to finish my education and marry her and get us a house and have children.

Right now it's been 3 days I haven't spoken to her, or called or texted her like a crazy puppy....

I wonder what she's thinking?

You think she's testing me at this point?

P.S. Every time I spoke of the future, she'd be in tears because she claimed she wanted the house and have my children. But lemme tell ya this, her lies and actions spoke the complete opposite!



Walk away forever, from all this.



This is my last run for it before is truly walk away. If this doesn't workout then it never will... and she will realize when I'm finally gone what she missed out on.


Idk, I don't believe in retaliation or doing anything just to teach someone a lesson... If you are walking away, let it be because this isn't right. I have looked at your sysnastry, I believe?

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Yes you did and I was left a bit confused. But it did state some facts and she did have a huge profound affect on me and my life and I did on her too she even stated it a few times...

Posted by NotSoInstant
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by NotSoInstant
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Anarchi
what is your sign? I'm too lazy to go digging.. and good.

make her feel your hurt.. maybe i say that cause I am a taurus but revenge is sooo sweet.

she clearly doesn't sound like she deserves your love and if she is keeping her ex around then there is obviously still feelings there, I can stay friends with a few of my ex's only because they literally make me gag to think that I even would date them back then but we don't talk maybe a fb like here and there @mark-23


She's a Leo with a Capricorn moon.

The thing is I was a little bitch when I felt I was losing control of our relationship. I started begging her not to leave me and cried hell I even stalked her.

Which I shouldn't have done. I should've given her the cold shoulder and make her felt what it is like without me. Because I wanted to finish my education and marry her and get us a house and have children.

Right now it's been 3 days I haven't spoken to her, or called or texted her like a crazy puppy....

I wonder what she's thinking?

You think she's testing me at this point?

P.S. Every time I spoke of the future, she'd be in tears because she claimed she wanted the house and have my children. But lemme tell ya this, her lies and actions spoke the complete opposite!



Walk away forever, from all this.



This is my last run for it before is truly walk away. If this doesn't workout then it never will... and she will realize when I'm finally gone what she missed out on.


Idk, I don't believe in retaliation or doing anything just to teach someone a lesson... If you are walking away, let it be because this isn't right. I have looked at your sysnastry, I believe?

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Can you teach me how can I look in my synastry?
A glimpse into the mind of a libra
Posted by tiziani
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Posted by tiziani
I don't really have any advice other than to say I can relate. I've lost respect for myself in some relationships.

And, in all honesty.... begging = no coming back from that. Ignoring her or not ignoring her makes no difference.

It's like putting a plaster on the great abyss that is your self-respect and then expecting it will support the weight of your ego as if you're making it walk the plank.
Crying/begging is only the kiss of death if your with the wrong person.

And in this case ignoring her and getting a result from it, has everything to with her ego as opposed to any tender feelings on her part.

I've never seen any sexual attraction survive one person begging another. But I'm happy to hear stories that prove me wrong.
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I've missed the story.

I am with you - you can't beg for love if it's not there...
Posted by Gemitati
Mark

Can you please describe what is this about her that made you lose yourself to this condition?

Please write it down. What does she have that you love so much about her?


This is a very good question. I love her motherly and feminine attitude towards life and family and home. But with me when I act like a 10 year old boy at times she too would go from being an adult woman to a little 10 year old girl. I mean I've pushed her on swings and all that.

She loves going on adventures whether it's the mountains or the beaches, or where ever it maybe. And I love to travel as well.

I really love the fact that she appreciates my intelligence because I've got so much to talk about no one actually has the time to hear whether it's science or history. She values brains over brawn that I know.

Physically she is very busty with a thin waist but wide wide hips, big bottoms and I love the fact she is so very fertile. I told her I want her to be the mother of my kids and I've dreamed of her being that for almost 2 years now. I love how she treats children, her innocence comes out.

(I had an abusive childhood and never wanted to have kids but she made me want to be a father)

She's a home body and loves to cook and loves a clean home. It's something I wanted in a wife. I remember in the beginning when things were good between us, she'd cook for me 3 times a day. At night we'd hit the gym and finish with making love, to which when I'd finish we cuddle and talk about how much we wanted a family together ect.

She actually gets my jokes and laughs at em, she said I was the only one that ever touched her true self she never showed anyone. Because she treated me so much the way I've always wanted to be treated which is loved and cared for; I gave up talking to other women and all that. And that's why I'm here in today's place.

P.S. She bought me a car when I lost mine in an accident. Brand new suburban 4x4. I told her I wanted an SUV so we can put all of our children in it. To which she definitely agreed to.


Today I'm living in the former shadow of that beautiful relationship. She now takes me for granted and unappreciated. And it turned me from a man to a little bitch. Which is why I'm gonna be gonna be ignoring her for a while so she can realize my value ect.

I know by tomorrow she's gonna be worried about me and texting if I'm okay, but I wanna get to the point she actually realizes that she's hurt me a lot and that the future I wanted us to have is worth it.


She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall
Posted by SweetLily89
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by SweetLily89
Cut her loose if you're not happy. Life's too short for that mess. No need to play mind games. Yes, ignoring may get under her skin, maybe it won't. Drop her like a hot potato and keep it moving, maybe then it will hit her, when you're no longer looking back.


I told her in our previous conversations that once I leave, I'm gone forever. I asked her kindly but firmly to help make the necessary changes to move forward. Because she wanted to forget the past and start moving forward...


Now I'm doing something I've never done, before and that is I'm completely ignoring her, where as a week ago I was blowing up her phone.

I'm gonna be ignoring her and you updated.


Some people will never see your worth or appreciate you, but that's not what's important...

Do YOU see your own worth?

From what I'm reading, I'm not convinced you do. Don't allow anyone else to dictate your value. If she isn't appreciating you for who you are now, then how is ignoring her going to achieve your desired goal? It won't make a difference.



You are prolonging the inevitable from what I can see, you've already expressed your concerns and needs and as you had put it yourself, actions speak louder than words. The longer you stay, the longer you're keeping yourself from finding someone who will truly value you.

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Hahaha your totally right. Right now I'm just concentrating on myself, my world and school and education. That's how I know my worth.

Today is Sunday. Last I spoke to her was Thursday morning which ended in an argument. This is what I texted her to which she then blew up my phone the entire day calling 18 times worried for me.


" Your always gonna lie and you'll never stop

Your narcissistic and a compulsive liar

You need to go see a psychiatrist

Your a pathological liar and I cannot help fix that

Only a professional can help

You mock my intelligence and you think you can lie to me and they will make us go forward

It's all lies until you prove I can trust you

You actively work against my efforts to move forward with your lies and dishonesty"



- that was all sent Thursday morning and by Thursday night she called me 18 times
Posted by NotSoInstant
Posted by Mark-23
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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by NotSoInstant
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Anarchi
what is your sign? I'm too lazy to go digging.. and good.

make her feel your hurt.. maybe i say that cause I am a taurus but revenge is sooo sweet.

she clearly doesn't sound like she deserves your love and if she is keeping her ex around then there is obviously still feelings there, I can stay friends with a few of my ex's only because they literally make me gag to think that I even would date them back then but we don't talk maybe a fb like here and there @mark-23


She's a Leo with a Capricorn moon.

The thing is I was a little bitch when I felt I was losing control of our relationship. I started begging her not to leave me and cried hell I even stalked her.

Which I shouldn't have done. I should've given her the cold shoulder and make her felt what it is like without me. Because I wanted to finish my education and marry her and get us a house and have children.

Right now it's been 3 days I haven't spoken to her, or called or texted her like a crazy puppy....

I wonder what she's thinking?

You think she's testing me at this point?

P.S. Every time I spoke of the future, she'd be in tears because she claimed she wanted the house and have my children. But lemme tell ya this, her lies and actions spoke the complete opposite!



Walk away forever, from all this.



This is my last run for it before is truly walk away. If this doesn't workout then it never will... and she will realize when I'm finally gone what she missed out on.


Idk, I don't believe in retaliation or doing anything just to teach someone a lesson... If you are walking away, let it be because this isn't right. I have looked at your sysnastry, I believe?

Yes you did and I was left a bit confused. But it did state some facts and she did have a huge profound affect on me and my life and I did on her too she even stated it a few times...

Okie... I couldn't reply to your PMs then, my bad... I remember the synastry and it did look wildly passionate but didn't look "safe"

All the best to you
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OMG! Yes it's been the most passionate relationship ive ever been in....
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
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Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

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I'm the most passionate and devoted Aries your ever gonna meet. Not to sound cocky just making a point.

Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

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My entire chart is listed on my profile page. I'm Aries sun, moon, rising and a another part of me is also an Aries. And I'm in love deeply with this frigging lioness

Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

I'm the most passionate and devoted Aries your ever gonna meet. Not to sound cocky just making a point.

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I believe you....but I sensed you were with her for the wrong reasons initially....just my gut feeling.

Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?



My entire chart is listed on my profile page. I'm Aries sun, moon, rising and a another part of me is also an Aries. And I'm in love deeply with this frigging lioness

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Thanks....I am very aware of the Aries energy smile

I hope she doesn't hurt you too much Sad

Beautifull!

Now I can't even imagine how is this goddess of love turned into a liar!

Please write down her faults but honestly starting when did you 2 messed it up.

Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

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How did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.

I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.

Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.

Posted by Gemitati
Beautifull!

Now I can't even imagine how is this goddess of love turned into a liar!

Please write down her faults but honestly starting when did you 2 messed it up.

I messed up 8 months ago. I wrote what I did that made her be the way she is. But after I apologized and promised to changed, she saw how weak I was and she had us both wrapped around her fingers.

Thus I became the puppy dog who chased her left and right.
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

How did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.

I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.

Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.

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Physically abusive?

It sounds like you are better off apart Mark...I am seeing it from both sides now


Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

How did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.

I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.

Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.



Physically abusive?

It sounds like you are better off apart Mark...I am seeing it from both sides now


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Please don't take it the wrong way. That was 8 months ago... this is 8 months after I apologized and became a puppy dog.

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Beautifull!

Now I can't even imagine how is this goddess of love turned into a liar!

Please write down her faults but honestly starting when did you 2 messed it up.

I messed up 8 months ago. I wrote what I did that made her be the way she is. But after I apologized and promised to changed, she saw how weak I was and she had us both wrapped around her fingers.

Thus I became the puppy dog who chased her left and right.
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You blame all on yourself?

Her being a liar is your fault as well?

You don't want to ruin that fairy tale by writing down what SHE had done?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

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Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
You guys aren't going to work .. Your relationship is tainted . There will always be problems & constant going back & forth .. If you're a masochist , by all means continue to try & wait it out.. Cuz in the end u will be the one way more hurt than she is
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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

How did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.

I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.

Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.

I can see why she ran more to her ex when you started abusing her. just let her go now

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Well I am her go if she doesn't change. Like i said that was 8 months ago and I'm not the same anymore and I've lost all value and respect in her eyes...

But I'm an doing this one last thing which is to disappear to see what can be salvaged. And id like all of your support before fingers start being pointed.

Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall
Well you are asking for advice Mark



Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

How did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.

I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.

Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.



Physically abusive?

It sounds like you are better off apart Mark...I am seeing it from both sides now


Please don't take it the wrong way. That was 8 months ago... this is 8 months after I apologized and became a puppy dog.

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Is there a right way to look at abuse though? 8 months, 8 years....I would not trust a man that did this to me. Like I said before, the message may be that you let her go
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I don't really have any advice other than to say I can relate. I've lost respect for myself in some relationships.

And, in all honesty.... begging = no coming back from that. Ignoring her or not ignoring her makes no difference.

It's like putting a plaster on the great abyss that is your self-respect and then expecting it will support the weight of your ego as if you're making it walk the plank.
Crying/begging is only the kiss of death if your with the wrong person.

And in this case ignoring her and getting a result from it, has everything to with her ego as opposed to any tender feelings on her part.

I've never seen any sexual attraction survive one person begging another. But I'm happy to hear stories that prove me wrong.
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I'm gonna pm you.

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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
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I'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.

I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks

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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall
Well you are asking for advice Mark



Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

How did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.

I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.

Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.



Physically abusive?

It sounds like you are better off apart Mark...I am seeing it from both sides now


Please don't take it the wrong way. That was 8 months ago... this is 8 months after I apologized and became a puppy dog.



Is there a right way to look at abuse though? 8 months, 8 years....I would not trust a man that did this to me. Like I said before, the message may be that you let her go
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I offered for us to go to therapy and she agreed when she found the time. But apparently she's too busy, and I was busy chasing her.

Her ex was with her for 4 year and never put a ring on her hand. When she met me she was cheating on him with me and I asked her to simply break it off so we can be officially so I can make the future we both want to become reality.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.

I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks

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See? You are very protective of her!

It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?

I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?

What do YOU think?
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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.

I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks

See? You are very protective of her!

It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?

I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?

What do YOU think?
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I think she's testing my waters wondering why I'm not blowing up her phone and texting her to call me ect.

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.

I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks

See? You are very protective of her!

It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?

I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?

What do YOU think?
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Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.

I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks

See? You are very protective of her!

It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?

I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?

What do YOU think?


Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
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You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.

So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.

Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?

But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.

I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!
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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall
Well you are asking for advice Mark



Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

How did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.

I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.

Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.



Physically abusive?

It sounds like you are better off apart Mark...I am seeing it from both sides now


Please don't take it the wrong way. That was 8 months ago... this is 8 months after I apologized and became a puppy dog.



Is there a right way to look at abuse though? 8 months, 8 years....I would not trust a man that did this to me. Like I said before, the message may be that you let her go


I offered for us to go to therapy and she agreed when she found the time. But apparently she's too busy, and I was busy chasing her.

Her ex was with her for 4 year and never put a ring on her hand. When she met me she was cheating on him with me and I asked her to simply break it off so we can be officially so I can make the future we both want to become reality.




I mean that tells you everything

She'll cheat n probably is still cheating on you with him

You did nothing wrong but call her on her bad behavior

U weren't required to have patience to see when she'd dump the ex for good. It should have been over when u both agreed to be together.

She is what I call a player

You are being played n strung along if ex ever cuts her off first

Dump her

I don't know why guy like these types of women

I mean the red flag was when she cheated with you

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In the beginning I didn't see it as cheating, he had 4 years to put a ring on her and he didn't. But after a while I called her out on it cause even though she wasn't seeing him she was still talking to him and after that much time with me I considered it cheating.

I am still on the last string and gonna ignore her and if she doesn't change her behavior then I'm gone for good!
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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.

I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks

See? You are very protective of her!

It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?

I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?

What do YOU think?


Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.

So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.

Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?

But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.

I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!
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I'm gonna come to peace after ignoring her,

A.) she will change cause I randomly disappeared and she will beg me to come back and if she changes I'll stick around


B.) I'll bounce after a week or so of no conf
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Posted by Mark-23
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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall
Well you are asking for advice Mark



Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

How did I mess up? Well while she was a sweetheart to me, she was gonna get rid of her ex. Like forever...... and my ass had no patience.

I went from being the man she fell in love with to an impatience insecure jerk-off who was very controlling. And then I went another step further becoming very emotionally and physically abusive.

Thus plunging her right back into her exes arms... and we are here today.



Physically abusive?

It sounds like you are better off apart Mark...I am seeing it from both sides now


Please don't take it the wrong way. That was 8 months ago... this is 8 months after I apologized and became a puppy dog.



Is there a right way to look at abuse though? 8 months, 8 years....I would not trust a man that did this to me. Like I said before, the message may be that you let her go


I offered for us to go to therapy and she agreed when she found the time. But apparently she's too busy, and I was busy chasing her.

Her ex was with her for 4 year and never put a ring on her hand. When she met me she was cheating on him with me and I asked her to simply break it off so we can be officially so I can make the future we both want to become reality.




I mean that tells you everything

She'll cheat n probably is still cheating on you with him

You did nothing wrong but call her on her bad behavior

U weren't required to have patience to see when she'd dump the ex for good. It should have been over when u both agreed to be together.

She is what I call a player

You are being played n strung along if ex ever cuts her off first

Dump her

I don't know why guy like these types of women

I mean the red flag was when she cheated with you

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He physically abused her.....I take that means he hit her? Sorry if I am wrong. If I am right, he did something very wrong

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.

I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks

See? You are very protective of her!

It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?

I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?

What do YOU think?


Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.

So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.

Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?

But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.

I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!


I'm gonna come to peace after ignoring her,

A.) she will change cause I randomly disappeared and she will beg me to come back and if she changes I'll stick around


B.) I'll bounce after a week or so of no conf
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I wish you strength from the bottom of my heart! Best of luck and lots of love.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.

I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks

See? You are very protective of her!

It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?

I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?

What do YOU think?


Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.

So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.

Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?

But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.

I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!


I'm gonna come to peace after ignoring her,

A.) she will change cause I randomly disappeared and she will beg me to come back and if she changes I'll stick around


B.) I'll bounce after a week or so of no conf
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Mark, you keep mentioning her changing......are you going to take this opportunity to look at your behavior and try to work out why you let yourself abuse the woman you love ?

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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.

I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks

See? You are very protective of her!

It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?

I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?

What do YOU think?


Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.

So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.

Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?

But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.

I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!


I'm gonna come to peace after ignoring her,

A.) she will change cause I randomly disappeared and she will beg me to come back and if she changes I'll stick around


B.) I'll bounce after a week or so of no conf


Mark, you keep mentioning her changing......are you going to take this opportunity to look at your behavior and try to work out why you let yourself abuse the woman you love ?

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I already did when I became the puppy dog begging her crying to her and texting her and calling her every single day blowing up her phone.


The thing is the relationship is a 2 Way street and I want us both to change not just myself.

My behavior the past eight months was very weak. To prove that I'm always going to be chasing her that I'm never going to give up and then I simply became an annoyance and something that you have to report to every single time she spoke to me.

Every since I started blowing up her phone texting her calling her back and her getting to her my value has dropped her respect for me has completely been obliterated and she doesn't know my worth anymore.

She takes me for granted and it hurts a lot....
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.

I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks

See? You are very protective of her!

It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?

I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?

What do YOU think?


Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.

So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.

Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?

But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.

I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!


I'm gonna come to peace after ignoring her,

A.) she will change cause I randomly disappeared and she will beg me to come back and if she changes I'll stick around


B.) I'll bounce after a week or so of no conf


Mark, you keep mentioning her changing......are you going to take this opportunity to look at your behavior and try to work out why you let yourself abuse the woman you love ?



I already did when I became the puppy dog begging her crying to her and texting her and calling her every single day blowing up her phone.


The thing is the relationship is a 2 Way street and I want us both to change not just myself.

My behavior the past eight months was very weak. To prove that I'm always going to be chasing her that I'm never going to give up and then I simply became an annoyance and something that you have to report to every single time she spoke to me.

Every since I started blowing up her phone texting her calling her back and her getting to her my value has dropped her respect for me has completely been obliterated and she doesn't know my worth anymore.

She takes me for granted and it hurts a lot....
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.....then let her go

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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Mark-23
Posted by MyStarsShine
She sounds like a brat

Try and ignore her for at least ......................... the rest of your life

I've a feeling the Sag bloke may bring her some well earned karma. Those guys aren't always the most faithful

The lioness may be in for a fall


Now she's a brat... when I messed up half way through. In the beginning she was an angel... you should read the question I answered to why I fell for her.
Where do I read that. How do you think you messed up?

You are a Libra?

Wondering the same.

He doesn't want to get her 'in trouble' by saying it all! I think.
I'm trying to get perspective of what other people think I should do action wise and what might happen in the future ect. Also I wanted to know what effect might occur that now I'm ignoring her since we spoke everyday for the past 2 years.

I'm going from speaking to her every single day, and the last eight months since I turn into a puppy dog I would even blow up her phone begging her to call me -- i'm going from that and I'm doing a complete 180 to out right just ignoring her calls and texts for a few days to maybe a week perhaps even two weeks

See? You are very protective of her!

It's admirable but do you see it yourself - what are you getting yourself into?

I wish I knew what is she doing NOW while being ignored?

What do YOU think?


Yes I am protective of her because regardless of what she or I did, she is the love of my life. And I told her that I forgave her for what she did as long as we moved forward ect.
You go between you screwed up but you forgave her for what she did.

So you are not going to come to peace until you will decide on screw ups and cause of it.

Can you drive up to her place and see if she is crying or having a wild party?

But then you probably going to say that her way of mourning your departure from her life.

I see it as no good at all. Open your eyes!


I'm gonna come to peace after ignoring her,

A.) she will change cause I randomly disappeared and she will beg me to come back and if she changes I'll stick around


B.) I'll bounce after a week or so of no conf
I wish you strength from the bottom of my heart! Best of luck and lots of love.
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Thank you son much friend! I say this that i think your advice was on of the most helpful.

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