Is it true that the most beautiful women get asked out the least?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by thesimpleman on Sunday, April 1, 2018 and has 23 replies.
And how does it differ based on age group. Like in high school versus a work setting? Is it due to them being too intimidating due to their planets or something 🤔

thoughts?
Posted by thesimpleman
And how does it differ based on age group. Like in high school versus a work setting? Is it due to them being too intimidating due to their planets or something 🤔

thoughts?
In my opinion I believe it's the way the women carries herself and depending on the setting.

If I am (for an example) alone shopping with a nonchalant happy vibe I'll get approached. If I have that same happy vibe but with a group of friends then I won't get approached 9 out of 10.

If I'm alone with a F off look on my face then it depends.. some will say "hi beautiful" then watch what i do next before they approach. They'll keep it moving tho 9 out of 10 lol because my response is usually a head nod with a 🤨 look.

In high school I was ugly asf so idk lol


Posted by OneKnight
Yes. Most men, not all, are afraid to talk to them. What they don't know is those type of women are the easiest to talk to. And women always look for a man that is worse looking than her. Also, pretty women know men are afraid, so when one comes over she assumes he is good already. That's the trick.

Once I realized that in my late 20's I was able to approach only pretty chicks. I was build in such a way that I get insane power and confidence next to a woman like that. But I get anxieties next to an average looking girl. It's super funny.

Last week I met a model at Bloomingdale. Everyone was so "afraid", because everyone is "looking up" to those type of people. I simply view them as normal, and treat them as every other girl, and it works.

The Libra Gucci model I met at the bar was the exact same story. Hot men were afraid to talk to her.



That it’s because pretty girls are used to intimidate guys with out wanting. When a guy approach them you already see him above the others because he shows he is secure enough on him self to pursue.

Posted by Yodi
Lol @thesimpleman you have to be quicker than that.. I seen it before you hid it 😅😉

Im not confirming nor denying but you are a smart one.

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LOL I was trying to guess his, one of my buds from college fit that description to a tee and he's from there. He's too goofy to be intimidated by a girl.

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Posted by thesimpleman
And how does it differ based on age group. Like in high school versus a work setting? Is it due to them being too intimidating due to their planets or something 🤔

thoughts?
That's WHY I kept asking those closest to me, "Why am I still single?" Answer: "Because you intimidate men, Eva" Huh?! Confused

"But they don't know who I am!" I WANT a man who has high self esteem, comes towards me to talk to me! All it fucking takes is a "Hi!" Big Grin

Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
It's easy to talk to women in general. Atleast for me it is. One thing I have noticed pretty women are more self conscious than average women... I have to reassure pretty women all the time.

I've also come to realize while I like looking at the "pretty" women among other things lol, they don't try as hard as their counterparts in pleasing and compromising...

some of the worse sex partners I've had were the really hot ones. One told me, "oh, guys don't normally have a problem with how I give blow jobs"... I was like "yeah, they are probably just excited you are giving them one, they don't care how good it is"
Yes I don't know why men are intimidated by me or even women for that matter. Never thought this over bite would be a problem. Can't eat a nut in public without judgemental stares.
yes , it's a mix of being intimidating to manlets, fear of competition from other men, fear of issues, and most men who want to have fun prefer to go with an average or ugly woman and keep the pretty ones for when they want to settle.
Posted by halalbae
People with bottom barrel standards get approached the most. Men specifically can smell desperation and the only ones that want desperate women are the bad ones. Just my theory. And by the scumpeoples luck, the bottom barrel standard people greatly outnumber the opposite

The state of dating for heterosexual women is disheartening. Women are impressed by the most mediocre of actions such as a man being clear about his intentions, sweet nothings and having a job 💀

A lot of (beautiful) women with any sort of standards above the bare minimum, gets comfortable with being single for a long time, possibly forever... or settling to an extreme degree. Its the reality 😁
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Posted by Leowwwww
I don't believe that.

I have some very good looking friends, beautiful really. They've been asked out.. Left & right. Easily. smile

I think when you don't smile easily and you look serious all the time ( moi) it's harder for men to approach you.


I was waiting for someone to say it lol. Almost got to the end of page 2.

Anywho, a lot of gorgeous women I see are inapproachable because they make themselves look extremely busy when out and about. Whether it is using their phones, walking really fast, or just overall vibe of a disinterest in interactions with people she don't know.

A woman is much more approachable if she somehow shows some kind of interest for a person to do so. Looking, smiling, keeping yourself in the vicinity of said person. Things like that. Sadly, I don't witness it much, but it does happen occasionally. The guy just has to snatch up this opportunity when it happens.

Posted by halalbae
People with bottom barrel standards get approached the most. Men specifically can smell desperation and the only ones that want desperate women are the bad ones. Just my theory. And by the scumpeoples luck, the bottom barrel standard people greatly outnumber the opposite

The state of dating for heterosexual women is disheartening. Women are impressed by the most mediocre of actions such as a man being clear about his intentions, sweet nothings and having a job 💀

A lot of (beautiful) women with any sort of standards above the bare minimum, gets comfortable with being single for a long time, possibly forever... or settling to an extreme degree. Its the reality 😁
Ain’t that the truth, although I don’t understand the statement about “people with bottom barrel standards get approached the most?”

I think it depends a lot on the cultural background.

In brazil or other southern cultures pretty women get asked out a lot, but less in western europe or north america where average girls have more success
Men approach the ones who look approachable

There are beautiful women who get approached all the time

Then there are beautiful women who rarely get approached

It’s probably about the energy they project
It‘s all about the vibe you give in person.

People need to smile more often 🌷

I was told once.. back in the days when I had the leo that I stood out like a shining diamond because I smiled beautifully next to all these girls staring in their damn smartphones pulling lousy faces.
I've been told bya y people they are "intimidated" by me because I'm so beautiful.

I just laugh and say "Ha if you only knew I'm neurotic and riddled with insecurities"

I'm so down to earth too!
Yes, its true.
in my area, the hotter the are the more bs u deal with from dudes and the more sexualized you become. its a shame really.
Posted by halalbae
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Posted by halalbae
People with bottom barrel standards get approached the most. Men specifically can smell desperation and the only ones that want desperate women are the bad ones. Just my theory. And by the scumpeoples luck, the bottom barrel standard people greatly outnumber the opposite

The state of dating for heterosexual women is disheartening. Women are impressed by the most mediocre of actions such as a man being clear about his intentions, sweet nothings and having a job 💀

A lot of (beautiful) women with any sort of standards above the bare minimum, gets comfortable with being single for a long time, possibly forever... or settling to an extreme degree. Its the reality 😁
Ain’t that the truth, although I don’t understand the statement about “people with bottom barrel standards get approached the most?”

People are intimidated by highly conventionally beautiful, intelligent, head to toe pretty women who also appear highly groomed. Its an ego thing. Especially if they dont have money/privilege to throw at her. They dont know how to approach

The odds of straight men approaching them left and right are LOW. Staring? Non-stop. Actual approaching? Not so much

So they go for the bottom barrel types aka people with low/loose/nonexistent standards or for those they deem equally or less physically attractive, intelligent etc then themselves
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100% accurate!!

Posted by thesimpleman
And how does it differ based on age group. Like in high school versus a work setting? Is it due to them being too intimidating due to their planets or something 🤔

thoughts?
i actually had to google this. lol

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2577496/Online-dating-not-working-Youre-probably-GOOD-LOOKING-Ugly-people-MORE-likely-attention-websites.html


Online dating not working out? Maybe you’re too GOOD-LOOKING: Ugly people are MORE likely to get attention on websites

This is because they tend to divide opinion more than a classic beauty

Daters who like someone's unusual features will rate them higher

Researchers also believe online daters are intimidated by people who are widely regarded as beautiful as they may face more competition



i guess you're right. lol

meaning they're too intiimidating.
hey even beautiful women get bitter and lonely and pissed off... from no suitors due to her looks.

https://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110224045736AAnDQt7
Posted by OneKnight
Yes. Most men, not all, are afraid to talk to them. What they don't know is those type of women are the easiest to talk to. And women always look for a man that is worse looking than her. Also, pretty women know men are afraid, so when one comes over she assumes he is good already. That's the trick.

Once I realized that in my late 20's I was able to approach only pretty chicks. I was build in such a way that I get insane power and confidence next to a woman like that. But I get anxieties next to an average looking girl. It's super funny.

Last week I met a model at Bloomingdale. Everyone was so "afraid", because everyone is "looking up" to those type of people. I simply view them as normal, and treat them as every other girl, and it works.

The Libra Gucci model I met at the bar was the exact same story. Hot men were afraid to talk to her.

lots of models are actually really plain / average looking in person.

it's just they are often tall , skinny and know how to photograph well

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Posted by halalbae
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by halalbae
People with bottom barrel standards get approached the most. Men specifically can smell desperation and the only ones that want desperate women are the bad ones. Just my theory. And by the scumpeoples luck, the bottom barrel standard people greatly outnumber the opposite

The state of dating for heterosexual women is disheartening. Women are impressed by the most mediocre of actions such as a man being clear about his intentions, sweet nothings and having a job 💀

A lot of (beautiful) women with any sort of standards above the bare minimum, gets comfortable with being single for a long time, possibly forever... or settling to an extreme degree. Its the reality 😁
Ain’t that the truth, although I don’t understand the statement about “people with bottom barrel standards get approached the most?”

People are intimidated by highly conventionally beautiful, intelligent, head to toe pretty women who also appear highly groomed. Its an ego thing. Especially if they dont have money/privilege to throw at her. They dont know how to approach

The odds of straight men approaching them left and right are LOW. Staring? Non-stop. Actual approaching? Not so much

So they go for the bottom barrel types aka people with low/loose/nonexistent standards or for those they deem equally or less physically attractive, intelligent etc then themselves
OK this seems pretty insightful and I wont argue. But the question wasnt the calibre of people who ask out or go to pursue, etc these "types" of women. Also as has been stated it depends on location. People who think guys dont talk to attractive women Im here to tell you attractive women wouldnt be able to walk 10 feet without someone coming up to her depending on where it is I guess. Because people arent making that up...so I guess it just depends this isnt a definite type of answer thing. Now as far as the choices the women make as far as who to deal with...thats maybe connected but taking it to a further place. So "Is it true that the most beautiful women get asked out the least?" Not necessarily as a definite thing depends on the people involved and I think the location. I'd say short answer "no" they dont get less but would say it depends on things like where we are talking about.

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I agree with what you are saying.

It really depends where and when.

I think like for example in a bar they will get tons of looks but not get approached so much because the average guy wants something quick and see that he wouldn’t have much chance and go for a safer less beautiful girl.

But in reality. Good looking girls get approached by good looking guys or confident guys that have lots to offer when really matters.