Sunshine3303
@Sunshine3303
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Is this normal? My boyfriend is jealous of me and his son.
Get those two losers OUT of your home ASAP. This isn't going to end well for you.
The father has OPENED the door for his son to now DISRESPECT you in your own home. Shame on him for even asking you to allow his grown ass son to move in. Stop cooking for that grown boy. Stop. He should be working, volunteering or in school. That's likely why he didn't want to stay w his mother; so he could be a bum at someone else's expense.
Your man is disrespectful. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Tell your dude that the relationship is over and get him and his seed out of your damn house.
The father has OPENED the door for his son to now DISRESPECT you in your own home. Shame on him for even asking you to allow his grown ass son to move in. Stop cooking for that grown boy. Stop. He should be working, volunteering or in school. That's likely why he didn't want to stay w his mother; so he could be a bum at someone else's expense.
Your man is disrespectful. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Tell your dude that the relationship is over and get him and his seed out of your damn house.
Hmm. I'm curious: Is your man paying the rent and utilities while there w his son?
Posted by peachy06
He's a kid.22yr old is a kid? Really?
His reaction is a huge red flag...even if it happened elsewhere and no son was involved.
In a LTR, there will he hundreds of occasions when one dislikes something about their partner: from dressing, to opinion, to behaviour. The clue to how long your relationship will last, is how well he/she responds: from tolerance, to observation, to argument, to insults and threats.
Your partner went straight to insults and threats. This is how he will react in the future, including to similar situations, when you think you did nothing wrong. Do you really want someone, who belittles you out of the blue, as your SO?
I hope you get the message.
In a LTR, there will he hundreds of occasions when one dislikes something about their partner: from dressing, to opinion, to behaviour. The clue to how long your relationship will last, is how well he/she responds: from tolerance, to observation, to argument, to insults and threats.
Your partner went straight to insults and threats. This is how he will react in the future, including to similar situations, when you think you did nothing wrong. Do you really want someone, who belittles you out of the blue, as your SO?
I hope you get the message.
We split the rent with my boyfriend and both pay bills but his son is not paying for anything. He's basically living for free and my boyfriend still supports him. He doesn't even do his own laundry because his dad does it for him. It seems like he grew up spoiled.
The shorts that I was wearing were loose and not fit. Maybe they were a bit too short but it's not like I was exposing myself right in front of his son and his eyes were on the tv while he was playing his games. I just wanted to go to the kitchen for a moment and even told my boyfriend before I went. If he didn't agree then he should've told me!!! But he blew up afterwards
The shorts that I was wearing were loose and not fit. Maybe they were a bit too short but it's not like I was exposing myself right in front of his son and his eyes were on the tv while he was playing his games. I just wanted to go to the kitchen for a moment and even told my boyfriend before I went. If he didn't agree then he should've told me!!! But he blew up afterwards
Lol. You got yourself a sociopath. Niceeeeee
Lawdz
The title of this thread makes me think the OP's a troll.
I see the link in thinking between the title and supposed offenses:
"...provoke men..."
"...jealous of me and his son..."
Really
I see the link in thinking between the title and supposed offenses:
"...provoke men..."
"...jealous of me and his son..."
Really
Posted by peachy06Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by peachy06
He's a kid.22yr old is a kid? Really?
His attitude sounds like a kid.click to expand
True.
Yeah kick both of them out.. This is your house and you should be able to walk freely, whenever in whatever clothing.
If you have to ask if it’s normal...
Someone who accuses you of cheating when the circumstances are this ridiculous is prolly cheating themselves and projecting their guilty conscious on you. Js.
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