It Really Sucks WHen...

You're starting a new relationship with a really nice guy, but you're still in love with someone else. :/

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Don't do it then.

Exactly.

Posted by ellessque

Posted by RealTalk
You're starting a new relationship with a really nice guy, but you're still in love with someone else. :/

WOW. we finally have something in common :/

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Don't do it then.

I know, I've thought about that but I need to at least try to move on but it's a bit challenging.

If Guy A was the shizzle for you and Guy B isn't doing it for you, perhaps he is not the one?

As Yoda says, "Do or do not - there is no try"

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
If Guy A was the shizzle for you and Guy B isn't doing it for you, perhaps he is not the one?

As Yoda says, "Do or do not - there is no try"

The guy I am seeing now did NOT do it for me until the 3rd date because I was just getting over someone else and was trying to move on. After the 2nd date I left early because suddenly I remembered the guy I was sad over and just had to go home. But, I guess there was enough there for me too talk to/see him again and by the 3rd and 4th date I was starting to really like him. He pursued me a lot and impressed me too, so that helped!

Posted by dietdrpepper

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
If Guy A was the shizzle for you and Guy B isn't doing it for you, perhaps he is not the one?

As Yoda says, "Do or do not - there is no try"

The guy I am seeing now did NOT do it for me until the 3rd date because I was just getting over someone else and was trying to move on. After the 2nd date I left early because suddenly I remembered the guy I was sad over and just had to go home. But, I guess there was enough there for me too talk to/see him again and by the 3rd and 4th date I was starting to really like him. He pursued me a lot and impressed me too, so that helped!

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Right, this guy persues me alot as well and I've been on 5 freaken dates with him but I just don't feel that connection with him even though he's really cute & he has alot going for him, the qualities I am currently seeking, but I can't stop thinking about the other guy...SMH.

*pursues

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Posted by dietdrpepper

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
If Guy A was the shizzle for you and Guy B isn't doing it for you, perhaps he is not the one?

As Yoda says, "Do or do not - there is no try"

The guy I am seeing now did NOT do it for me until the 3rd date because I was just getting over someone else and was trying to move on. After the 2nd date I left early because suddenly I remembered the guy I was sad over and just had to go home. But, I guess there was enough there for me too talk to/see him again and by the 3rd and 4th date I was starting to really like him. He pursued me a lot and impressed me too, so that helped!

Hey - whatever works! Hope things are going awesomely well.

Right, this guy persues me alot as well and I've been on 5 freaken dates with him but I just don't feel that connection with him even though he's really cute & he has alot going for him, the qualities I am currently seeking, but I can't stop thinking about the other guy...SMH.

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Oh well you didn't mention the "really cute" factor!!
Does staring at a really cute guy help take your mind off things?

We shouldn't get sad about guys, I am pretty sure they don't get sad over us.
*I could be wrong, but have no supporting evidence.

Lol...sad? No I wouldn't say that. Yeah he's cute but that's so superficial & it takes much more than just a handsome face. You've never experienced a guy express sadness over you? You poor thing...

Well they do say..... the best way to get over one is to get under another one. 😉

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Well they do say..... the best way to get over one is to get under another one. 😉

I think that is what Geminis say!


No RT, not poor me - silly me for getting involved with a lying predator and then a sociopath. I don't think they are capable of thinking of anyone except themselves. Learnt my lesson.

Hope Really Cute Guy turns into Sensationally Sexy Guy for you1

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Well they do say..... the best way to get over one is to get under another one. 😉

I think that is what Geminis say!


No RT, not poor me - silly me for getting involved with a lying predator and then a sociopath. I don't think they are capable of thinking of anyone except themselves. Learnt my lesson.

Hope Really Cute Guy turns into Sensationally Sexy Guy for you1

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Yeah me too. No! You shouldn't generalize guys like that just because you've had a bad experience. Men ARE very much so capable of vulnerabilities & they get their heart broken too. If you believe men don't have the capacity to love just like us, then you'll always attract someone that reflects that. Maybe you should change your overall perspective because maybe it's you not them.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Well they do say..... the best way to get over one is to get under another one. 😉

Yeah...that's called rebounding.

Posted by RealTalk

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Well they do say..... the best way to get over one is to get under another one. 😉

I think that is what Geminis say!


No RT, not poor me - silly me for getting involved with a lying predator and then a sociopath. I don't think they are capable of thinking of anyone except themselves. Learnt my lesson.

Hope Really Cute Guy turns into Sensationally Sexy Guy for you1

Yeah me too. No! You shouldn't generalize guys like that just because you've had a bad experience. Men ARE very much so capable of vulnerabilities & they get their heart broken too. If you believe men don't have the capacity to love just like us, then you'll always attract someone that reflects that. Maybe you should change your overall perspective because maybe it's you not them.

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Thanks RT.
Sorry if I made it sound bad - my overall perspective is that I think guys on the whole are awesome, I have just had a couple of bad apples....and maybe they ARE sad because they realised after I cleansed my life of them that they fucked up what could have been a great future with a really caring person, but I seriously doubt it.
When I said not capable of thinking of anyone except themselves it was these 2 bad guys - not all guys.

Maybe I just haven't met anyone who cares that much about me? And if I did, I certainly wouldn't do anything to break their heart. That would break my heart too. Ok I am getting soppy now.

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Well they do say..... the best way to get over one is to get under another one. 😉

I think that is what Geminis say!

Gems with Aries moons do say that sometimes. 🙂

Posted by RealTalk

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Well they do say..... the best way to get over one is to get under another one. 😉

Yeah...that's called rebounding.

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It's also called a joke... 😄

P.S. Men are clearly unable to feel emotion. All men. They do however respond quite nicely to pain.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Well they do say..... the best way to get over one is to get under another one. 😉

I think that is what Geminis say!

Gems with Aries moons do say that sometimes. 🙂

Posted by RealTalk

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Well they do say..... the best way to get over one is to get under another one. 😉

Yeah...that's called rebounding.

It's also called a joke... 😄

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Are you Mooning me GemsR—?

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Well they do say..... the best way to get over one is to get under another one. 😉

I think that is what Geminis say!

Gems with Aries moons do say that sometimes. 🙂

Posted by RealTalk

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Well they do say..... the best way to get over one is to get under another one. 😉

Yeah...that's called rebounding.

It's also called a joke... 😄

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Doesn't matter. It still applies.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
P.S. Men are clearly unable to feel emotion. All men. They do however respond quite nicely to pain.

Hahaha, maybe the guys YOU deal with. 😉

Sure! I'll show you my moons.... RT you will also enjoy the pleasure as this is clearly your thread and I'm feeling awfully awnry from all those emotionless guys I just got done screwinng..... but I'm a Gem and so clearly it don't bother me none. 😛




Nice arse I got no?

I think it's Arsesome

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Sure! I'll show you my moons.... RT you will also enjoy the pleasure as this is clearly your thread and I'm feeling awfully awnry from all those emotionless guys I just got done screwinng..... but I'm a Gem and so clearly it don't bother me none. 😛




Nice arse I got no?

Whatever you saaaaayyyyyyy!!! Tehehehehe

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
I think it's Arsesome

GemsRaandwhateverthehelltherestofmystupidassscreennameis likes this. A lot.

BTW, what ass?

Posted by RealTalk
BTW, what ass?

HEY!!!! I'll have you know. My butt is one of my best features. Along with my hair, my eyes, my nose, my boobs, my cuticles, and my poops.... you know, when they're still a part of me. Once they vacate, they're on their own.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal

Posted by RealTalk
BTW, what ass?

HEY!!!! I'll have you know. My butt is one of my best features. Along with my hair, my eyes, my nose, my boobs, my cuticles, and my poops.... you know, when they're still a part of me. Once they vacate, they're on their own.

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Fantastic...my ENTIRE body is my best feature...😉 what is a gym? 😛

Giiiiiiiirl. Yeah you right!





























Ok, truth be told. I need to know. And find one immediately. I hear the guys are hot and all the women have body issues and low self esteem. In such, it's gotta be a mecca for pick ups, but this is just what I am guessing of course as I clearly have never had to go to one. Ever. Like never ever.

Find what immediately? A guy named gym? That would be the only logical thing to me...hahaha, not everyone is born with washboard abs...oh................except for me that is. Tehehehe...priceless 😉

Oh ok...you'd rather have plastic surgery, no? Gotcha!

Do you really have that body type? Lucky ass hooker!!!!!!!!!!! Can I ask how old you are?

I'm totally experiencing the metabolic short bus slow down. El sucko. I wish I had the figure of a supermodel with the body type that maintains it while I munch on cheeseburgers and pork cracklins. Not to mention I am always going through Lousiana and eating rocking cajun food..... and it's super healthy of course.

If I wanna maintain I'm likely going to have to *gasp, gasp, fucking shock, scream, final single salty tear* go to the gym.

You know, I have had plastic surgery. It ain't so bad. Painful as having dental work done up through your bum into your mouth though. I did my Jewishesque crooked deviated septum and my witch hook. One slice deal. I can't understand after having done it once how people go back and do it again.

Slightly related, but more me rambling..... my doc promised it would help with my allergies and snoring. I take an allergy pill daily and sometimes snore so loudly that I shake the pictures right off my bedroom walls...... still. Lying jerk. Then he tried to convince me I needed a chin implant.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
There needs to be some sort of finishing school for you girls to brush up on looking out for psycho cheesehead creepers tbh lol.

You can has teaches me? I is so so luking fer one!!!!!

I bet it does?

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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
If Guy A was the shizzle for you and Guy B isn't doing it for you, perhaps he is not the one?

As Yoda says, "Do or do not - there is no try"

The guy I am seeing now did NOT do it for me until the 3rd date because I was just getting over someone else and was trying to move on. After the 2nd date I left early because suddenly I remembered the guy I was sad over and just had to go home. But, I guess there was enough there for me too talk to/see him again and by the 3rd and 4th date I was starting to really like him. He pursued me a lot and impressed me too, so that helped!

Right, this guy persues me alot as well and I've been on 5 freaken dates with him but I just don't feel that connection with him even though he's really cute & he has alot going for him, the qualities I am currently seeking, but I can't stop thinking about the other guy...SMH.

5 dates...you should stop beating an already dead horse!

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Ya think? But hell, I figured maybe I shouldn't write him off so quickly and at least get to know him better. I don't believe that's beating a dead horse though because 5 dates to me is really nothing. I have an attraction to him, but he has yet to give me that "feel it" factor.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Do you really have that body type? Lucky ass hooker!!!!!!!!!!! Can I ask how old you are?

I'm totally experiencing the metabolic short bus slow down. El sucko. I wish I had the figure of a supermodel with the body type that maintains it while I munch on cheeseburgers and pork cracklins. Not to mention I am always going through Lousiana and eating rocking cajun food..... and it's super healthy of course.

If I wanna maintain I'm likely going to have to *gasp, gasp, fucking shock, scream, final single salty tear* go to the gym.

Yes! I do! Believe or not I don't work out ever. I have great genes. I can eat the most fattening foods & won't gain shit but muscle. 🙂 my weight fluctuates though, it's either up a few pounds or down a few, then for a long period it stays consistent. 😉

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
You know, I have had plastic surgery. It ain't so bad. Painful as having dental work done up through your bum into your mouth though. I did my Jewishesque crooked deviated septum and my witch hook. One slice deal. I can't understand after having done it once how people go back and do it again.

Slightly related, but more me rambling..... my doc promised it would help with my allergies and snoring. I take an allergy pill daily and sometimes snore so loudly that I shake the pictures right off my bedroom walls...... still. Lying jerk. Then he tried to convince me I needed a chin implant.

Plastic surgery? Hell 2 da no!!!! NOT FOR ME. I think people get hung up on trying to achieve perfection, so therefore they become addicts. Any little thing on their bodies that isn't up to par, they're going to get a tune up. My body is not modely 😛 alot more curvy than those anorexic broads. 😉

Posted by oldskoolflavor
gemragalsbestpal makes those spoiled ass suburban chicks look wise

🙂

So I am sure you got alot of gray hair! Tehehehe 😛

Posted by RealTalk
You're starting a new relationship with a really nice guy, but you're still in love with someone else. :/

Uh-oh

Posted by oldskoolflavor
grey hair ?

I'd rather have it blonde like Sisqo

LMAO...don't you mean platinum?

Posted by Gemini78

Posted by RealTalk
You're starting a new relationship with a really nice guy, but you're still in love with someone else. :/

Uh-oh

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Yeah I know G78, it's some bullshit...smh :/

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Posted by Gemini78

Posted by RealTalk
You're starting a new relationship with a really nice guy, but you're still in love with someone else. :/

Uh-oh

Yeah I know G78, it's some bullshit...smh :/

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If you've already broke it off with the guy you're in love with
U should B able 2 shake it off soon...But it will take
some time though.

Posted by Gemini78

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Posted by Gemini78

Posted by RealTalk
You're starting a new relationship with a really nice guy, but you're still in love with someone else. :/

Uh-oh

Yeah I know G78, it's some bullshit...smh :/

If you've already broke it off with the guy you're in love with
U should B able 2 shake it off soon...But it will take
some time though.

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Yeah, I know it will. But I also believe in order to successfully move on, I would have to want to & I don't know it I want to because a part of me still longs for him & I just have a feeling he's going to contact me again. It's just not so easy to get over someone when you've mutually both felt an intense connection to each other from the moment you've met. I guess I'll always have fond memories of him 😢 & just see where it can go with the new guy. *shrugs shoulders*

*if

You're right RT and U will move on when-ever U feel it's

the right time 2 do so 🙂

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Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
You know, I have had plastic surgery. It ain't so bad. Painful as having dental work done up through your bum into your mouth though. I did my Jewishesque crooked deviated septum and my witch hook. One slice deal. I can't understand after having done it once how people go back and do it again.

Slightly related, but more me rambling..... my doc promised it would help with my allergies and snoring. I take an allergy pill daily and sometimes snore so loudly that I shake the pictures right off my bedroom walls...... still. Lying jerk. Then he tried to convince me I needed a chin implant.

Plastic surgery? Hell 2 da no!!!! NOT FOR ME. I think people get hung up on trying to achieve perfection, so therefore they become addicts. Any little thing on their bodies that isn't up to par, they're going to get a tune up. My body is not modely 😛 alot more curvy than those anorexic broads. 😉

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I agree and don't agree. I've had my nose done, laser hair removal for everything that would require routine maintenance, preventative injections in a couple areas and get facials and massages, but that's about it. I'm the type that enjoys all that stuff, but you'd never know by looking at me. And hey, I work hard and have no one else to treat.... so spa days for me it is! I relish in my girly ways. There are pictures of me aroud here, clearly I do not look like the "suburban girls who are so full of wisdom". So, in my case I feel like I fixed something that bothered me (which was done 9 years ago and I didn't fall into the addiction) that was that! Now if my boobies ever went away.... I'd be in the doc's office faster than Anna Nicole could swallow pills.

🙂

Posted by Gemini78
You're right RT and U will move on when-ever U feel it's

the right time 2 do so 🙂

🙂 Thanks babe.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal

Posted by RealTalk

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
You know, I have had plastic surgery. It ain't so bad. Painful as having dental work done up through your bum into your mouth though. I did my Jewishesque crooked deviated septum and my witch hook. One slice deal. I can't understand after having done it once how people go back and do it again.

Slightly related, but more me rambling..... my doc promised it would help with my allergies and snoring. I take an allergy pill daily and sometimes snore so loudly that I shake the pictures right off my bedroom walls...... still. Lying jerk. Then he tried to convince me I needed a chin implant.

Plastic surgery? Hell 2 da no!!!! NOT FOR ME. I think people get hung up on trying to achieve perfection, so therefore they become addicts. Any little thing on their bodies that isn't up to par, they're going to get a tune up. My body is not modely 😛 alot more curvy than those anorexic broads. 😉

I agree and don't agree. I've had my nose done, laser hair removal for everything that would require routine maintenance, preventative injections in a couple areas and get facials and massages, but that's about it. I'm the type that enjoys all that stuff, but you'd never know by looking at me. And hey, I work hard and have no one else to treat.... so spa days for me it is! I relish in my girly ways. There are pictures of me aroud here, clearly I do not look like the "suburban girls who are so full of wisdom". So, in my case I feel like I fixed something that bothered me (which was done 9 years ago and I didn't fall into the addiction) that was that! Now if my boobies ever went away.... I'd be in the doc's office faster than Anna Nicole could swallow pills.

🙂

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LOL...🙂

There's no use in getting into a new relationship unless you're fully over the last one. None.

Posted by krysrenee7
There's no use in getting into a new relationship unless you're fully over the last one. None.

Yeah & it sucks because I'm totally not over him, and I would hate for the new guy to be the rebound guy. I really don't like starting new relationships on those merrits. But who doesn't have baggage? Most people get together after they have broken up with someone previous & they just want to move on. Even if they are single sometimes the heart can be taken, & you may never get over them. So you'd suggest staying single until further notice? I don't agree because you have to at least try to date to evaluate whether that person could possibly be the one for you. I guess it all balls down to timing?