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Mar 30, 2012Comments: 1243 · Posts: 16617 · Topics: 170
You're an asshole, OP.
Learn to not be so self absorbed and see beyond your "me" bubble next time. Reading this entire post was depressing as eff to read because of how gross your thought process was.
Btw, what do YOU do for a living and do YOU have anything to contribute besides eyeing his income?
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
The title says you've never felt so horrible in your life.
What do you feel horrible about?
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Jan 07, 2009Comments: 305 · Posts: 14219 · Topics: 239
"He said it was supposed to have been for me and him for a house..............."
well, his mother should have kept it to herself.
I don't know if they are trying to get a reaction from you. Only if she is a person who has all her things together, this could be an effort to bring you both back together. Maybe he value you but in his manly pride he cannot make the first step. IDK IJS.
Aside from that I see you have Moon in Cap. And I see you mention $ a lot in your OP.
Now you have Cap and Scorpio placements. That's normal that you feel miserable. Four years and plans of a 28 years old girl got floating. That's sad.
Give it time. Or give it a kick.
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Dec 07, 2011Comments: 33 · Posts: 13769 · Topics: 154
it's bad enough he still lived at home
but you went to live there too?
WHYYY
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Jan 07, 2009Comments: 305 · Posts: 14219 · Topics: 239
OP,
if-and-would-have is not the right mind frame. Nobody knows what really happened. You are enjoying building a story of things which can be wrong, misunderstood or changing.
A man can work for your shared dreams, he can win money in jackpot, he can become broke, or he can die from cancer within two years. The point is still if a good woman is to comfort her man or to put effort into changing his perspectives.
None of the both alternatives are always good. Sometimes the demanding woman wins. Sometimes the one who lets him walk in his own pace. Sometimes ladys are damaging the man. Sometimes the dragons.
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Dec 01, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 3848 · Topics: 46
Bottom line, if he wanted to make it work, he would've tried harder to communicate his plans for your future together. He didn't, so here you are. He obviously wasn't into it as much as you were. Move on.
Also, take what mom said with a grain of salt, he's her son...they can be momsters and said that to make you feel guilty. Who knows..
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Oct 17, 2013Comments: 375 · Posts: 8645 · Topics: 308
There is a lot of "I" and "me" in your OP.
The way you stated things at first blush is not very flattering--you broke it off because he said he wasn't ready to do a joint bank account? That was it?
There has to be more to this you're not telling, otherwise the OP of yours looks superficial.
He didn't buy in to the business until after you broke things off with him (as relayed by his mother). I highly doubt he was trying to make you feel miserable.
Him making bank and living with his mom is really a red herring (although if it were a cheap ass Virgo or mommas boy Crab I might see why). Doesn't matter why. It was the way things were for his own reasons.
As others have pointed out, you kept looking outside yourself for happiness. If things were great 90% of the time......I'm missing something here.
Did you have any real in depth discussions about where the relationship was going beyond buying a house to move into together?
In the end, dwelling on regrets isn't going to help you. It is what it is.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
You fucking to be fucking kidding .. you come back to state it's not about money and then write two full posts about his money and how you want to spend it for him?
You have no thoughts past his money, judging from your words here.
he hasn't come to you, he isn't anywhere around ... but now that you've found out how much more money there is now .. it's like you're zeroing in on it like a target.
wow .....
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Sep 28, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 1596 · Topics: 40
Man you guys are harsh. Nowhere in that post did I take away that the OP is a gold digger or sore over the fact that she doesn't have a meal ticket/rich partner.
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Dec 03, 2014Comments: 16 · Posts: 2377 · Topics: 189
She works in marketing... she's set... that's a great career.. for all your retards now, she could be making more money than him hahahah
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Dec 03, 2014Comments: 16 · Posts: 2377 · Topics: 189
I really can't stand some people here... always bringing other down... who raised you??? Animals obviously. Go back to the wild.
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Dec 03, 2014Comments: 16 · Posts: 2377 · Topics: 189
God forbid someone mentions money, they're automatically a gold digger. Logic...
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Dec 03, 2014Comments: 16 · Posts: 2377 · Topics: 189
If that's all that you took away from her post maybe YOU'RE the gold digger because you only focused on money 😂
What I took away from the post is that she's confused as to why he doesn't want to be on his own with her if he can afford it. He obviously wasn't communicating about the future well enough to feel secure and stable. I would be confused and upset too.
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May 04, 2012Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
the rest of the family will LOOK DOWN on her too, cause she's nothing but a free Kitty to him.
he doesn't give a damn about her request and wants.
see, OP???
leave now, for your dignity because this man is shit.
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May 04, 2012Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
and alot of men get comfortable too. He don't want to go chasing tail anywhere else. Too lazy.
and already, he won't budge, and dont care what she wants. Who wants that kind of man??? gross.
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May 04, 2012Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
and if you notice, her man doesn't give her respect....so her family wont either...and so will the rest of the folks she goes to.
you see how this topic blew up?
She doesn't respect herself as a woman to be treated like this, and if she is so focused on the MONEY, then serves her right.
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Dec 03, 2014Comments: 16 · Posts: 2377 · Topics: 189
No one is queen right now.
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Feb 14, 2013Comments: 552 · Posts: 18848 · Topics: 149
I call bullshit.
He wasn't saving that for the two of you... if he was, why would he lie
about it to you?
Oh, I'm NOT READY.... however, I AM putting thousands and thousands
of dollars away for our home, one day.
I'm not buying it-- you're being punked.
He knows his mom would tell you that, so... it's working, isn't it?
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Oct 02, 2012Comments: 2 · Posts: 2726 · Topics: 31
Why would anyone still hang out with their ex's family? It sounds like you can't let go.
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30788 · Topics: 649
Damn OP. This leo sounds like hes never going to leave his mama house. Hes still sucking on the tit.
he shoulda been moved out if he were making that much money.
I swear I dont get men. They hardly ever live alone. Either at home with they mama or have roommates.
Patty on the Millionaire Matchmaker threw a guy out cause he had roommates.
its super tacky
is he italian?
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30788 · Topics: 649
As a venus in capricorn I totally relate to you.
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30788 · Topics: 649
I dont think he was lying about the money. My dad is a leo and I know a few other leos who are secretive about doing nice things. They have secret goals 2.