Jesse James May Be...

The new white Tiger Woods, but I ain't feeling too sorry for Sandra.

First off, Sandra started dating Jesse while he was still married to Janine. I know people have their own opinions on Pornstars but let's be fair here. Janine gave up doing porn when she got serious with Jesse. So it was a conventional monogamous relationship.

Why do women/men think the person in question wont cheat when they already did with them being a 3rd party in the first place?

2ndly, Sandra owns/runs two restaurants in Austin, plus is always away doing back to filming for flicks. He's out of line, but what did she honestly think would happen being gone for a month at a time? If Men or women dont pay attention to their spouses, eyes will start wandering.

The question is what kind of person are you going to be when this happens? Are you going to be an adult and address the issue/ just split up? Or are you going to be an A-Hole and cheat like Jesse and Tiger?

There's two things to take from all this. One, if you're wanting to find a good man/husband then dont go around being a homewrecker.


Two, if you're someone that can't balance your career and personal life, then dont get in a relationship or marry.

tiger woods is the "white" tiger woods.

ROFLOL ^^

I really don't know what possesses people. "What says class and I'm a serious woman with an agenda? EUREKA! A big tattoo on my forehead!"

I think you're right satori, I've seen some beautiful ink. And I HAVE ink. There's no need to look like a circus freak.

It takes huge cojones to do that to your face and body. He was probably attracted to that.


FlyingBurritos, if only relationships were that black and white..

i don't think it was for publicity. the way she talked about him before the oscars, she sounded as if she was genuinely happy and genuinely happy to be with him.

Posted by seavixen2
love is blind...

Yep!
The heart wants what the heart wants.

Posted by MsPisces.
It takes huge cojones to do that to your face and body. He was probably attracted to that.


FlyingBurritos, if only relationships were that black and white..

Agreed...it's just not that simple. If your relationship is strong, it can last through the months of not seeing each other. No one deserves or should expect their spouse to cheat because of this. Something was obviously very fractured for this to happen...more than just distance. I feel sorry for her.

Hey Eden!!

I just heard this morning that TWO more women came out saying they've been having affairs with him. That makes 4 total...so far. I don't know how people have the time! I guess they have texts to prove it.
It really makes me sad this happens so much.

"janine was so high she could hardly keep her eyes upon in any position that actually required her to lay down (not that many did) it was her habit that killed her career (if that is what u call it, eeekkk)"

I dont care if she was doing coke off the end of a broken bottle. It has nothing to do with the fact she was in a monogamous relationship period. Look are there a buttload of pornstars with emotional and substance abuse problems? Yes. But they are just as many like for example Sasha Grey who is mentally sound, not a junkie and wasnt diddled by her father.

"but no one deserves to be publicly humiliated ontop of having your heart ripped out
and put on display for the world to see...
I feel bad for Sandra,
I think Jesse was her first marriage too
and she seems to really love and care for his daughter"

How do you think Janine felt when jesse cheated on her with Sandra? You dont think she was publicly humiliated? Just because she was in porn doesnt make her any less of a human being than Sandra.

And so nobody's confused, I actually like Sandra Bullock. I'm just not throwing her a pity party given all the red flags at the beginning. Did you know a majority of her friends warned her about Jesse? Hell, even one of Jesse's friends/clients cautioned her which to me says it all. Yeah you could use the argument that Sandra's friends warmed to jesse once they met him. But there was also some that were just being nice to Jesse for her sake, knowing he's still a douche.

Think about it, does anyone here have friends whose boyfriend/girlfriends seemed very scummy at the beginning? And you warned them but they wouldnt listen, so you sucked it up and pretended to like them? Only to be proven right later on?

Bottom line, Sandra thought with her crotch instead of her head. It never ceases to amaze me with these celebrity women that date athletes/rockstar badboy types who are shocked to be cheated on. Its literally the equivalent of a guy having unprotected sex with Paris Hilton and stunned to find out weeks later he has herpes. Well, duh!

"
"so u honestly believe its ok for spouses to cheat if the other is taken away on business & cant provide sex at that time...that ur promise & commitment means nothing...that the woman u supposedly love & cherish deserves to be treated lk another of the whores u fuck?! "

Please dont put words in my mouth reread what I said originally. I SAID he was WRONG for doing

it. And that being an adult he should have communicated his problem to Sandra. But he decided to take the non-confrontational D-bag route and cheat.

But Sandra should've been a little less naive to think her consistantly being gone for months at a time, that ole Jess aint gonna start looking around. Again not right, but that's the facts of life.


For the record, I hate Tiger Woods. That guy is a total douchebag. He had no excuse at all to cheat on Elin. If she sucked at sex, or had low sex drive, homeboy had the opportunity to take that car for a test drive before buying it.

He is the one who chased Elin, she was babysitting for one of their mutual firends. He had to wear her down just to get a date. So, my heart goes out to her. Because she comes from a foreign country and is justifiably naive in thinking in only major athletes (NFL, NBA) are players/cheaters. She probably thought him being in golf that he was a nice guy.

Tiger is scum to me.

Hopefully Sandra and other women will start catching onto the fact that you f--k the bad boy. Dont marry and have kids with the idiot. And if you cant jettison your bad-boy fetish for the domestic life, better get a head start on scheduling those swinger parties.

"r u f'n serious hahahahahahaha! um no she doesnt even know what humiliation is apparently."

Glad we're not judgemental about people eden. Just because someone does something that doesnt share your same values doesnt make you any better than they are. It's case of different life style s. But you feel the way you feel. I'm not going to beat a dead horse to death on something you wont change your mind on.

BTW apparently once again you werent reading what I was saying. I never said it was Sandra's first marriage. I was QUOTING from someone on here that said it was.

What seems to not be coming across is I dont like Jesse James. I dont understand why a guy who has looks and money gets married if he wants to screw everything that walks.

Some people will laugh when I say looks but a lot of women I know are suckers for the bad boy biker type. This guy can be single and coast on looks and status without having personality. While even if a average guy to quote Zoolander is really, really good looking, most women wont approach him unless he has some type of social status.

So he's a bigger dick for leading women on into marriage. When he has an easier time of being single unlike a lot of men. Plus I heard he's a huge racist too. If Sandra knew that and still stayed with him, I've lost all respect for her.

Which goes back to the old question - Why do good things happen to bad people? See, this is partly why I'm completely cynical on christianity all together.

Seriously, amazing people like Dana Reeve get their life cut short while this dumb racist prick can walk the earth doing whatever he wants.

Jesse has a history of cheating even before Sandra came along, he admitted cheating on his reality show about 2 years ago and because of it one of his relationships ended with his kids mother and he cheated on his wife with Sandra, she was warned but she took a risk and unfortunately the relationship ended as all his relationships end with him cheating, I'm thinking Sandra's hormones was ready to nest and Jesse just turned that ass out with the freakness and Sandra was gone after that LOL, he must got some good...ahem

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Some good what tiki? 😄

LOL

Guess he used some of those porn star moves on Sandra, it was a wrap after that.