Ladies, why don’t you just admit you want a relationship?!

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Moonbutter on Sunday, January 28, 2018 and has 38 replies.
Ok, that’s it, it frustrates me soo many girls out there are to chicken shit to admit they want a relationship with a guy when they really do. Time to put your big panties on ladies and just fucking admit it, to your love interest, to your friends and most importantly to to your selves.

This has been a PSA now please return to your scheduled program. Thanks 🤗
Makes life a helluva lot easier for all involved. But it would require the women to be strong enough to walk away. So many wanna stick around and try to change the guy’s mind with their pussy.

But that’s just one scenario. I hear ya tho. A little honesty goes a long way.
Posted by hippiecrite
Makes life a helluva lot easier for all involved. But it would require the women to be strong enough to walk away. So many wanna stick around and try to change the guy’s mind with their pussy.

But that’s just one scenario. I hear ya tho. A little honesty goes a long way.
Absolutely! I just want us ladies to be in good, loving relationships is that too much to ask for 😭
Posted by clownloyal
my big panties huh? reminds me of room raiders I would literally get rid of ugly ones in my youth just in case they dragged me
Oops I meant big girl panties 😣
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Posted by clownloyal
my big panties huh? reminds me of room raiders I would literally get rid of ugly ones in my youth just in case they dragged me
Oops I meant big girl panties 😣
too late I changed into some big ass panties
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Posted by UnicornSag
those that think they'll get a guy to change his mind over the time are not very smart

all I can say about the topic lol
Yes, not smart when it comes to men and relationships.
You're asking too much lol
Posted by sierra_
i have libra mars

there's no denial here
Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
Posted by AerialView
You're asking too much lol
I know, but damn it I gotta try
Vulnerability and intimacy is difficult business.

How are we to know we are not delusional or fooling ourselves, after all emotions could be fickle. The heart wants what it wants, but it may not be most rational. Would it not be silly, if we threw ourselves at everyone who we felt a connection to.

It would be embarrassing to forgo our mental capacity to rationalise and do so at times. Who knows what the other is thinking or feeling, perhaps we misinterpreted everything, it was merely all overthinking on our part. The fear of coming across as desperate, or the feelings were not returned.

... and that is why.
Posted by Ellygant
Cause sometimes it’s nice to rent instead of buy..?

Best case scenario you fall into a lease-to-own option.
That’s cool too, as long as everyone’s on the same page.
Posted by sierra_
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Posted by sierra_
i have libra mars

there's no denial here
Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
yeah i have that disclaimer beforehand
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Exactly! You know what, I have a hat that says it perfectly. I’ll have to upload it
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Vulnerability and intimacy is difficult business.

How are we to know we are not delusional or fooling ourselves, after all emotions could be fickle. The heart wants what it wants, but it may not be most rational. Would it not be silly, if we threw ourselves at everyone who we felt a connection to.

It would be embarrassing to forgo our mental capacity to rationalise and do so at times. Who knows what the other is thinking or feeling, perhaps we misinterpreted everything, it was merely all overthinking on our part. The fear of coming across as desperate, or the feelings were not returned.

... and that is why.
I get that, but at least let’s be honest with ourselves. It just irks me when a girl is soo nonchalant about a guy not wanting to be with her when truth is she’s really not owning up to her own wants and needs. Why lie? You are just fooling yourself we all know the truth 😝
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Posted by Moonbutter
Ok, that’s it, it frustrates me soo many girls out there are to chicken shit to admit they want a relationship with a guy when they really do. Time to put your big panties on ladies and just fucking admit it, to your love interest, to your friends and most importantly to to your selves.

This has been a PSA now please return to your scheduled program. Thanks 🤗
Things must be going great with the Gemini.
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You know what, I knew from the get go I could never settle for a FWB or fuckbuddy relationship. I didn’t lie to others or myself. I’ll leave it at that 😉
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Posted by sierra_
i have libra mars

there's no denial here
Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
yeah i have that disclaimer beforehand
Exactly! You know what, I have a hat that says it perfectly. I’ll have to upload it
lemme see! smile
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Ok, I decided to make it my profile, might as well 😆BTW my boyfriend hates this hat but I get a lot of 👍from the ladies
Posted by Raakac
If you dont take the leap of faith you dont deserve to get whats on the other end of it, thats what i think. People these days get 2comfy, have rules like yeaah he texted me now i need to ignore him and so on, fuck these rules, be yourself and someone will take you as you are, sure if there is somth wrong you communicate and solve that shit, but overall , don't lose yourself for another person, i mean not that be protective, you can become one, just don't lose yourself, who you are because of it.. Thats the truth.. many times in your life it will not work , and you shouldnt get desperate or lower your standards because of that. Many times to be who you want to be pushed away the people you want to be with.. and thats ok... if they cant accept you, they are not for you...Each person is different and they have their own standards and there is no right or wrong......at the end of the day each person has his own heart and head on the shoulders and the decisions he makes is his own, everyone has a chance to do, chose or change something, if a person doesnt chose relationship he might have a reason and you might not even know it, just because you love something doesnt make it good relationship, some people are just toxic, bring your energy down, they have really bad habits and so on, sure you might want to help them, then do, but dont expect anything from it, help because you want 2, at the end of the day you'll fix that person and he will he different, he might not like you anymore or vice versa.
I get that, but these ladies are not honest with themselves and that’s the first step.
if you dont ask for what you want you'll never know... and men cant read minds...
Posted by sierra_
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Posted by sierra_
i have libra mars

there's no denial here
Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
yeah i have that disclaimer beforehand
Exactly! You know what, I have a hat that says it perfectly. I’ll have to upload it
lemme see! smile
Ok, I decided to make it my profile, might as well 😆BTW my boyfriend hates this hat but I get a lot of 👍from the ladies
oh yeah i see it smile
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I created this hat like several years ago before tinder and all the other BS. This subject has been brewing in me for quite sometime having experienced it myself and my friends. It’s very frustrating to see those you love get hurt and used again and again because they are in denial.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
if you dont ask for what you want you'll never know... and men cant read minds...
True, know yourself and don’t settle ladies! You want love and respect. Don’t settle for shit.
Posted by _gg
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Ok, that’s it, it frustrates me soo many girls out there are to chicken shit to admit they want a relationship with a guy when they really do. Time to put your big panties on ladies and just fucking admit it, to your love interest, to your friends and most importantly to to your selves.

This has been a PSA now please return to your scheduled program. Thanks 🤗
Things must be going great with the Gemini.
You know what, I knew from the get go I could never settle for a FWB or fuckbuddy relationship. I didn’t lie to others or myself. I’ll leave it at that 😉


I don't know what any of that means.

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I’m pretty sure I answered you in a roundabout fashion...Gem Mars... 😐
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It's a good thing this no longer applies to me. Sorted out the issue ages ago...





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Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Vulnerability and intimacy is difficult business.

How are we to know we are not delusional or fooling ourselves, after all emotions could be fickle. The heart wants what it wants, but it may not be most rational. Would it not be silly, if we threw ourselves at everyone who we felt a connection to.

It would be embarrassing to forgo our mental capacity to rationalise and do so at times. Who knows what the other is thinking or feeling, perhaps we misinterpreted everything, it was merely all overthinking on our part. The fear of coming across as desperate, or the feelings were not returned.

... and that is why.
I get that, but at least let’s be honest with ourselves. It just irks me when a girl is soo nonchalant about a guy not wanting to be with her when truth is she’s really not owning up to her own wants and needs. Why lie? You are just fooling yourself we all know the truth 😝
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Admitting to oneself was never an issue for me. It was always admitting to the other person, that I need them, want them, and dare I say love them. The other person may not necessarily need or want a relationship, or perhaps they are going through other issues in life and is yet to settle. From my past experiences, those were all thoughts that always crossed my mind.

Why ?

That is because you are opening the floodgates of vulnerability, once that dam is lost, you could never regain that part of yourself again. Your heart is in their hands, and you have to trust that they will not crush it. Simply because one person wants something, the other might not. Even if they do, and everybody sees it for what it is, they might not be ready for a relationship. There are far more factors in play.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by sierra_
i have libra mars

there's no denial here
Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
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Hell no.

I have always wanted relationships. If you are clear that it’s what you get.

But it’s true you need to be strong to walk out if that is not what they want.

No problem there for me.
Posted by Moonbutter
Ok, that’s it, it frustrates me soo many girls out there are to chicken shit to admit they want a relationship with a guy when they really do. Time to put your big panties on ladies and just fucking admit it, to your love interest, to your friends and most importantly to to your selves.

This has been a PSA now please return to your scheduled program. Thanks 🤗
when has it ever become such a bad thing??

only people will manipulate your mind and your thinking..

if you have a strong will and mind you won't care if you want love or not.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by MoonshineLeo
if you dont ask for what you want you'll never know... and men cant read minds...
True, know yourself and don’t settle ladies! You want love and respect. Don’t settle for shit.
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and...it always comes down to this.


there's just not enough good men around.


they're always gay or married.


it's a tragedy.

there are single men but no one wants them.
@Gobb..

jesus christ!! dude that's GROSS
Posted by crazysioux
Imagine hiring a contractor to renovate your kitchen. He comes in, moves everything out, strips everything down, takes the money and disappears a quarter of the way through. Holes everywhere. Wires dangling. Supplies sitting around piled up ... And as you survey the damage, you know deep inside that some how -- some way -- you're expected to trust the next contractor. Being vulnerable to a relationship is exactly like this ...


No, not every relationship. Look at this way, if it doesn’t work out then there is someone better for you. Besides, you should always read the reviews before hiring a contractor. Duuuuh 😝
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Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by MoonshineLeo
if you dont ask for what you want you'll never know... and men cant read minds...
True, know yourself and don’t settle ladies! You want love and respect. Don’t settle for shit.
and...it always comes down to this.


there's just not enough good men around.


they're always gay or married.


it's a tragedy.

there are single men but no one wants them.
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I thought so too, but then I moved and found lots of good available guys.
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by sierra_
i have libra mars

there's no denial here
Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
Hell no.

I have always wanted relationships. If you are clear that it’s what you get.

But it’s true you need to be strong to walk out if that is not what they want.

No problem there for me.
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Posted by Arielle83
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.
You want to be a man?
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by MoonshineLeo
if you dont ask for what you want you'll never know... and men cant read minds...
True, know yourself and don’t settle ladies! You want love and respect. Don’t settle for shit.
and...it always comes down to this.


there's just not enough good men around.


they're always gay or married.


it's a tragedy.

there are single men but no one wants them.
I thought so too, but then I moved and found lots of good available guys.
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lol

i forgot to write down it's a like 2 sides of a coin.

no one want's them/ they don't want anyone to love them. they repulse everyone...and they are repulsive to people.

so i guess they project that they want to be single. /they don't want anyone/ no one wants them/shadow side.

I am going to admit

I don't want a relationship

Too much hassle, energy and hard work

Been there

Done that

Posted by TheSag
Posted by Arielle83
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.
You want to be a man?
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Which era are you living in ?
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by TheSag
Posted by Arielle83
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.
You want to be a man?
Eat my Venus square Uranus
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*Unconventional Lover*

smile
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by TheSag
Posted by Arielle83
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.
You want to be a man?
Eat my Venus square Uranus
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But I don't even know you.. Sad

Venus yes, but I don't like uranus tbh

Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by TheSag
Posted by Arielle83
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.
You want to be a man?
Which era are you living in ?
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The era of no love Sad
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by TheSag
Posted by Arielle83
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.
You want to be a man?
Eat my Venus square Uranus
*Unconventional Lover*

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That cap has a Venus aqua and he's giving me my freedom
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Wait what what cap? Do you like him? Does he treat you right? Is he sexy or rich?
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by Moonbutter
Ok, that’s it, it frustrates me soo many girls out there are to chicken shit to admit they want a relationship with a guy when they really do. Time to put your big panties on ladies and just fucking admit it, to your love interest, to your friends and most importantly to to your selves.

This has been a PSA now please return to your scheduled program. Thanks 🤗
It's hard to admit this to the person of interest. Of course, you can't force or even convince them to want a relationship. That has to come from them. And it's really difficult for some people (not just women) to hear from people they want to date that they don't want that.
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Yes, but at least they should admit to themselves and if they come on here, then to us as well.