Posted by hippiecriteAbsolutely! I just want us ladies to be in good, loving relationships is that too much to ask for 😭
Makes life a helluva lot easier for all involved. But it would require the women to be strong enough to walk away. So many wanna stick around and try to change the guy’s mind with their pussy.
But that’s just one scenario. I hear ya tho. A little honesty goes a long way.
Posted by clownloyalOops I meant big girl panties 😣
my big panties huh? reminds me of room raiders I would literally get rid of ugly ones in my youth just in case they dragged me
Posted by clownloyal😂😂😂Posted by Moonbuttertoo late I changed into some big ass pantiesPosted by clownloyalOops I meant big girl panties 😣
my big panties huh? reminds me of room raiders I would literally get rid of ugly ones in my youth just in case they dragged meclick to expand
Posted by UnicornSagYes, not smart when it comes to men and relationships.
those that think they'll get a guy to change his mind over the time are not very smart
all I can say about the topic lol
Posted by sierra_Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
i have libra mars
there's no denial here
Posted by AerialViewI know, but damn it I gotta try
You're asking too much lol
Posted by EllygantThat’s cool too, as long as everyone’s on the same page.
Cause sometimes it’s nice to rent instead of buy..?
Best case scenario you fall into a lease-to-own option.
Posted by sierra_Exactly! You know what, I have a hat that says it perfectly. I’ll have to upload itPosted by Moonbutteryeah i have that disclaimer beforehandPosted by sierra_Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
i have libra mars
there's no denial hereclick to expand
Posted by TheLadyScorpioI get that, but at least let’s be honest with ourselves. It just irks me when a girl is soo nonchalant about a guy not wanting to be with her when truth is she’s really not owning up to her own wants and needs. Why lie? You are just fooling yourself we all know the truth 😝
Vulnerability and intimacy is difficult business.
How are we to know we are not delusional or fooling ourselves, after all emotions could be fickle. The heart wants what it wants, but it may not be most rational. Would it not be silly, if we threw ourselves at everyone who we felt a connection to.
It would be embarrassing to forgo our mental capacity to rationalise and do so at times. Who knows what the other is thinking or feeling, perhaps we misinterpreted everything, it was merely all overthinking on our part. The fear of coming across as desperate, or the feelings were not returned.
... and that is why.
Posted by _ggYou know what, I knew from the get go I could never settle for a FWB or fuckbuddy relationship. I didn’t lie to others or myself. I’ll leave it at that 😉Posted by MoonbutterThings must be going great with the Gemini.
Ok, that’s it, it frustrates me soo many girls out there are to chicken shit to admit they want a relationship with a guy when they really do. Time to put your big panties on ladies and just fucking admit it, to your love interest, to your friends and most importantly to to your selves.
This has been a PSA now please return to your scheduled program. Thanks 🤗click to expand
Posted by sierra_Ok, I decided to make it my profile, might as well 😆BTW my boyfriend hates this hat but I get a lot of 👍from the ladiesPosted by Moonbutterlemme see!Posted by sierra_Exactly! You know what, I have a hat that says it perfectly. I’ll have to upload itPosted by Moonbutteryeah i have that disclaimer beforehandPosted by sierra_Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
i have libra mars
there's no denial hereclick to expand
Posted by RaakacI get that, but these ladies are not honest with themselves and that’s the first step.
If you dont take the leap of faith you dont deserve to get whats on the other end of it, thats what i think. People these days get 2comfy, have rules like yeaah he texted me now i need to ignore him and so on, fuck these rules, be yourself and someone will take you as you are, sure if there is somth wrong you communicate and solve that shit, but overall , don't lose yourself for another person, i mean not that be protective, you can become one, just don't lose yourself, who you are because of it.. Thats the truth.. many times in your life it will not work , and you shouldnt get desperate or lower your standards because of that. Many times to be who you want to be pushed away the people you want to be with.. and thats ok... if they cant accept you, they are not for you...Each person is different and they have their own standards and there is no right or wrong......at the end of the day each person has his own heart and head on the shoulders and the decisions he makes is his own, everyone has a chance to do, chose or change something, if a person doesnt chose relationship he might have a reason and you might not even know it, just because you love something doesnt make it good relationship, some people are just toxic, bring your energy down, they have really bad habits and so on, sure you might want to help them, then do, but dont expect anything from it, help because you want 2, at the end of the day you'll fix that person and he will he different, he might not like you anymore or vice versa.
Posted by sierra_I created this hat like several years ago before tinder and all the other BS. This subject has been brewing in me for quite sometime having experienced it myself and my friends. It’s very frustrating to see those you love get hurt and used again and again because they are in denial.Posted by Moonbutteroh yeah i see itPosted by sierra_Ok, I decided to make it my profile, might as well 😆BTW my boyfriend hates this hat but I get a lot of 👍from the ladiesPosted by Moonbutterlemme see!Posted by sierra_Exactly! You know what, I have a hat that says it perfectly. I’ll have to upload itPosted by Moonbutteryeah i have that disclaimer beforehandPosted by sierra_Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
i have libra mars
there's no denial hereclick to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoTrue, know yourself and don’t settle ladies! You want love and respect. Don’t settle for shit.
if you dont ask for what you want you'll never know... and men cant read minds...
Posted by _ggI’m pretty sure I answered you in a roundabout fashion...Gem Mars... 😐Posted by MoonbutterPosted by _ggYou know what, I knew from the get go I could never settle for a FWB or fuckbuddy relationship. I didn’t lie to others or myself. I’ll leave it at that 😉Posted by MoonbutterThings must be going great with the Gemini.
Ok, that’s it, it frustrates me soo many girls out there are to chicken shit to admit they want a relationship with a guy when they really do. Time to put your big panties on ladies and just fucking admit it, to your love interest, to your friends and most importantly to to your selves.
This has been a PSA now please return to your scheduled program. Thanks 🤗
I don't know what any of that means.click to expand
Posted by Gob_Shite
It's a good thing this no longer applies to me. Sorted out the issue ages ago...
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Posted by MoonbutterAdmitting to oneself was never an issue for me. It was always admitting to the other person, that I need them, want them, and dare I say love them. The other person may not necessarily need or want a relationship, or perhaps they are going through other issues in life and is yet to settle. From my past experiences, those were all thoughts that always crossed my mind.Posted by TheLadyScorpioI get that, but at least let’s be honest with ourselves. It just irks me when a girl is soo nonchalant about a guy not wanting to be with her when truth is she’s really not owning up to her own wants and needs. Why lie? You are just fooling yourself we all know the truth 😝
Vulnerability and intimacy is difficult business.
How are we to know we are not delusional or fooling ourselves, after all emotions could be fickle. The heart wants what it wants, but it may not be most rational. Would it not be silly, if we threw ourselves at everyone who we felt a connection to.
It would be embarrassing to forgo our mental capacity to rationalise and do so at times. Who knows what the other is thinking or feeling, perhaps we misinterpreted everything, it was merely all overthinking on our part. The fear of coming across as desperate, or the feelings were not returned.
... and that is why.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterHell no.Posted by sierra_Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
i have libra mars
there's no denial hereclick to expand
Posted by Moonbutterwhen has it ever become such a bad thing??
Ok, that’s it, it frustrates me soo many girls out there are to chicken shit to admit they want a relationship with a guy when they really do. Time to put your big panties on ladies and just fucking admit it, to your love interest, to your friends and most importantly to to your selves.
This has been a PSA now please return to your scheduled program. Thanks 🤗
Posted by Moonbutterand...it always comes down to this.Posted by MoonshineLeoTrue, know yourself and don’t settle ladies! You want love and respect. Don’t settle for shit.
if you dont ask for what you want you'll never know... and men cant read minds...click to expand
Posted by crazysiouxNo, not every relationship. Look at this way, if it doesn’t work out then there is someone better for you. Besides, you should always read the reviews before hiring a contractor. Duuuuh 😝
Imagine hiring a contractor to renovate your kitchen. He comes in, moves everything out, strips everything down, takes the money and disappears a quarter of the way through. Holes everywhere. Wires dangling. Supplies sitting around piled up ... And as you survey the damage, you know deep inside that some how -- some way -- you're expected to trust the next contractor. Being vulnerable to a relationship is exactly like this ...
Posted by lisabethur8I thought so too, but then I moved and found lots of good available guys.Posted by Moonbutterand...it always comes down to this.Posted by MoonshineLeoTrue, know yourself and don’t settle ladies! You want love and respect. Don’t settle for shit.
if you dont ask for what you want you'll never know... and men cant read minds...
there's just not enough good men around.
they're always gay or married.
it's a tragedy.
there are single men but no one wants them.click to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123👍Posted by MoonbutterHell no.Posted by sierra_Meaning you know you will not settle for FWB?
i have libra mars
there's no denial here
I have always wanted relationships. If you are clear that it’s what you get.
But it’s true you need to be strong to walk out if that is not what they want.
No problem there for me.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83You want to be a man?
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.
Posted by MoonbutterlolPosted by lisabethur8I thought so too, but then I moved and found lots of good available guys.Posted by Moonbutterand...it always comes down to this.Posted by MoonshineLeoTrue, know yourself and don’t settle ladies! You want love and respect. Don’t settle for shit.
if you dont ask for what you want you'll never know... and men cant read minds...
there's just not enough good men around.
they're always gay or married.
it's a tragedy.
there are single men but no one wants them.click to expand
Posted by TheSagWhich era are you living in ?Posted by Arielle83You want to be a man?
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83*Unconventional Lover*Posted by TheSagEat my Venus square UranusPosted by Arielle83You want to be a man?
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83But I don't even know you..Posted by TheSagEat my Venus square UranusPosted by Arielle83You want to be a man?
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineThe era of no lovePosted by TheSagWhich era are you living in ?Posted by Arielle83You want to be a man?
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Wait what what cap? Do you like him? Does he treat you right? Is he sexy or rich?Posted by MyStarsShineThat cap has a Venus aqua and he's giving me my freedomPosted by Arielle83*Unconventional Lover*Posted by TheSagEat my Venus square UranusPosted by Arielle83You want to be a man?
I want multiple relationships and commiting to no one, at the same time.
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Posted by oxSunQueenxoYes, but at least they should admit to themselves and if they come on here, then to us as well.Posted by MoonbutterIt's hard to admit this to the person of interest. Of course, you can't force or even convince them to want a relationship. That has to come from them. And it's really difficult for some people (not just women) to hear from people they want to date that they don't want that.
Ok, that’s it, it frustrates me soo many girls out there are to chicken shit to admit they want a relationship with a guy when they really do. Time to put your big panties on ladies and just fucking admit it, to your love interest, to your friends and most importantly to to your selves.
This has been a PSA now please return to your scheduled program. Thanks 🤗click to expand