Libra Pisces Gemini.. Love Triangle Issue
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by kubo10 on Thursday, March 12, 2020 and has 21 replies.
Hi.. just wanna share some experience from my side.. maybe someone can give me some advice (pisces woman maybe?)
So I am a Libra (male).. just recently broke up with my pisces gf after 1.5 years (we had 3 break up within that time).. and suddenly this gemini man appears in our relationship (my ex office mate introduce him to her lol).. doing all the sweet, caring, and romantic things in which i believe it is to exaggerating if I can say..
Well, I have to admit that I made a mistake by letting her go and not coming back as soon as possible.. I am so selfish and too cold for her at that time during our relationship.. but then I realized I love her so much (yes.. i know.. it was STUPID and SILLY things since I just realized it when I lost her).. therefore, I'm doing what I can to redeem myself..
but considering all the things that this Gemini guy done to her.. she felt being loved.. and sometime she compared all the things from our previous relationship.. well.. I cant blame her though after what happened between us.. but I believe she still has feelings for me since sometimes she still send me some memorable picture/photo when we were still together.. and saying some things like she missed all the moment spent together..
The problem is.. we both know already the background of this gemini guy.. he used to be a player, cheater but still she fell in love with him and believe it was in the past, and he might changed (maybe this is one of the weakness from pisces woman? easily falling in love and always see good in bad people
)
I believe people do change.. and I am not an angel either.. we make sins.. so I can't really judge him personally..
but I just dont want to see her get hurt anymore.. I really want to redeem all of my mistakes and make her the happiest woman on earth.. I am so worry about her especially during our relationship we never had sex because we want to keep it that way until we get married.. but now.. I don't know.. considering the background of this gemini guy (slept with some women already in his previous relationship).. and I know I am worrying too much either..
I just recently read articles regarding zodiac (especially Libra, Gemini, and Pisces) and I kinda believe some of the traits or characters are true though lol.. and I am just afraid this gemini guy just faking his love to her (i never believe any perfection in every relationship.. but I see him is just to 'perfect' lol) but somehow her hearts are running towards him
So in the end, we finally able to speak heart to heart.. and I confess all of my feelings and regrets to her.. but she said she can't accept me anymore since she can't betray this gemini guy who has done so much for her..
I told her that I will try to let her go.. but deep in my heart I know that I'm still going to wait for her.. She was so special for me considering I never been into a relationship for 33 years.. this was my first time and no joke.. I thought she was the one.. haha.. maybe that was one of my mistakes.. I never had this kind of experience before how to handle a woman.. especially a pisces one
So I am a Libra (male).. just recently broke up with my pisces gf after 1.5 years (we had 3 break up within that time).. and suddenly this gemini man appears in our relationship (my ex office mate introduce him to her lol).. doing all the sweet, caring, and romantic things in which i believe it is to exaggerating if I can say..
Well, I have to admit that I made a mistake by letting her go and not coming back as soon as possible.. I am so selfish and too cold for her at that time during our relationship.. but then I realized I love her so much (yes.. i know.. it was STUPID and SILLY things since I just realized it when I lost her).. therefore, I'm doing what I can to redeem myself..
but considering all the things that this Gemini guy done to her.. she felt being loved.. and sometime she compared all the things from our previous relationship.. well.. I cant blame her though after what happened between us.. but I believe she still has feelings for me since sometimes she still send me some memorable picture/photo when we were still together.. and saying some things like she missed all the moment spent together..
The problem is.. we both know already the background of this gemini guy.. he used to be a player, cheater but still she fell in love with him and believe it was in the past, and he might changed (maybe this is one of the weakness from pisces woman? easily falling in love and always see good in bad people
) I believe people do change.. and I am not an angel either.. we make sins.. so I can't really judge him personally..
but I just dont want to see her get hurt anymore.. I really want to redeem all of my mistakes and make her the happiest woman on earth.. I am so worry about her especially during our relationship we never had sex because we want to keep it that way until we get married.. but now.. I don't know.. considering the background of this gemini guy (slept with some women already in his previous relationship).. and I know I am worrying too much either..
I just recently read articles regarding zodiac (especially Libra, Gemini, and Pisces) and I kinda believe some of the traits or characters are true though lol.. and I am just afraid this gemini guy just faking his love to her (i never believe any perfection in every relationship.. but I see him is just to 'perfect' lol) but somehow her hearts are running towards him
So in the end, we finally able to speak heart to heart.. and I confess all of my feelings and regrets to her.. but she said she can't accept me anymore since she can't betray this gemini guy who has done so much for her..
I told her that I will try to let her go.. but deep in my heart I know that I'm still going to wait for her.. She was so special for me considering I never been into a relationship for 33 years.. this was my first time and no joke.. I thought she was the one.. haha.. maybe that was one of my mistakes.. I never had this kind of experience before how to handle a woman.. especially a pisces one
Posted by 7thHouseThanks.. sometimes I hope so too... but the way he treat her during christmas (trip together with my ex gf' family), valentine (trip together with his family), my ex gf's birthday on march (making his own cake for my ex gf).. I feel scared and hopeless hahaha.. --> jealousy indeed.. especially I know my gf like a romantic things
Oh don't worry! Pisces and Gemini rs don't last. If you think you're cold and detached, you haven't been with a gemini yet. So don't fret. Just give her some time.
They just been in a relationship from this Mid January 2020 btw
Haha no need to argue guys.. Thanks for the advices though.. I am trying to move on too.. but I can't lie that I'm still expecting her to come back later
Posted by Phantum
You fucked up and took your girlfriend for granted, so she left. Now you want to find fault with the new guy who is treating her well. lol
Well your comment is quite harsh but its true.. I admit it that I took her for granted.. that is why I regret it and want another chances.. we human make mistakes right
Now I have to take the responsibility and bear with the facts that she is with someone else
“maybe this is one of the weakness from pisces woman? easily falling in love and always see good in bad people”
Maybe. And if that’s the case you just called yourself ‘bad people’.
Food for thought: you shouldn’t need to lose your girl to someone who treats her with love and care to realize you were cold to her during the relationship. Treat the next girl better and let this relationship be a reminder to you that nothing lasts forever and you should live each day so that you don’t look back and have regrets.
Maybe. And if that’s the case you just called yourself ‘bad people’.
Food for thought: you shouldn’t need to lose your girl to someone who treats her with love and care to realize you were cold to her during the relationship. Treat the next girl better and let this relationship be a reminder to you that nothing lasts forever and you should live each day so that you don’t look back and have regrets.
Oh I’m getting the impression Libra males in general are oblivious to how good they have something until it’s gone. But that could also be immature men in general.
Posted by LadyNeptuneYes, you were right... it is just easy for me to just move on and find another girl.. but somehow I just want to keep waiting for her.. because all I know that she made me a better person.. and I still wish that this better me is for her.. not the other girl
“maybe this is one of the weakness from pisces woman? easily falling in love and always see good in bad people”
Maybe. And if that’s the case you just called yourself ‘bad people’.
Food for thought: you shouldn’t need to lose your girl to someone who treats her with love and care to realize you were cold to her during the relationship. Treat the next girl better and let this relationship be a reminder to you that nothing lasts forever and you should live each day so that you don’t look back and have regrets.
Posted by PhantumYes, I want her back.. of course there are reasons why we broke up.. and mainly because our lack of communication.. and since I am the man.. I should be the one who took the iniative.. but hard to say.. I dont know whether this is because of my lack of experience in relationship or it is just me for being immature.. I take the blame and hoping there will be another chance with herPosted by kubo10Posted by Phantum
You fucked up and took your girlfriend for granted, so she left. Now you want to find fault with the new guy who is treating her well. lol
Well your comment is quite harsh but its true.. I admit it that I took her for granted.. that is why I regret it and want another chances.. we human make mistakes right
Now I have to take the responsibility and bear with the facts that she is with someone else
Yeah, you live, you learn. If you get another chance with her, don't screw it up. Are you sure you really want her back anyway? There must have been some reason you weren't doing the things she wanted.click to expand
Posted by SassyKiwi
Oh I’m getting the impression Libra males in general are oblivious to how good they have something until it’s gone. But that could also be immature men in general.
Maybe it just me being like that hehe.. and yes I was being immature and take it for granted
Is there any advice from you guys? Should I stay friends with her and sometimes texting her maybe? Or i should give her time with her new relationship? I just want her to know that I will always be there whenever she needs me..
Posted by PhantumMine has lasted 2 years with a Gem, but 20 yrs with a LibraPosted by 7thHouse
Oh don't worry! Pisces and Gemini rs don't last. If you think you're cold and detached, you haven't been with a gemini yet. So don't fret. Just give her some time.
Mine has lasted 20 years.click to expand
I wish it was the other way around, though....
Posted by 7thHouseYes, he dumped me! Apparently, because he didn't get to see me enough though...Posted by Undine
I wish it was the other way around, though....
I wonder why they pair gem and pisces in reality TV dating. I've seen a Gem man and a Pisces woman twice now. One was Adam and Cartier of Love Island and Jonethen and Connie of MAFS. In both cases, the gem was the one who got cold and wanted to move on.
In Love island, basically, Cartier (pisces) wanted to be around Adam (gem) all the time and he got bored. In MAFS Connie (pisces) confiscated Jonethen's (gem) mobile phone because she wanted full attention on her.
I know both are highly edited, highly scripted reality TV. But I'm curious if that's how it is IRL between the two signs. Tbh, I'm not too exposed with the combo. Most of my pisces friends ended up with an Earth sign. And most my Gem friends are with Aquas. Lolclick to expand
Anyway...I'm in love with an Earth sign now, and Gem ex has been with an Aqua for 2 yrs or longer. Happy ending. That's the way it should be
Posted by SassyKiwi
Oh I’m getting the impression Libra males in general are oblivious to how good they have something until it’s gone. But that could also be immature men in general.
You may have a point to some degree. Libs tend to be overly confident and that can make us prone to look outward instead of maintaining what we already have cultivated. Do you have any more insight I'm actually interested.
Posted by 7thHouseUnderrated...?! It shouldn't be! Gem ex was with Aquas before and after me. He probably got confused by my Aqua Venus/Mercury, lol.Posted by UndinePosted by 7thHousePosted by Undine
I wish it was the other way around, though....
I wonder why they pair gem and pisces in reality TV dating. I've seen a Gem man and a Pisces woman twice now. One was Adam and Cartier of Love Island and Jonethen and Connie of MAFS. In both cases, the gem was the one who got cold and wanted to move on.
In Love island, basically, Cartier (pisces) wanted to be around Adam (gem) all the time and he got bored. In MAFS Connie (pisces) confiscated Jonethen's (gem) mobile phone because she wanted full attention on her.
I know both are highly edited, highly scripted reality TV. But I'm curious if that's how it is IRL between the two signs. Tbh, I'm not too exposed with the combo. Most of my pisces friends ended up with an Earth sign. And most my Gem friends are with Aquas. Lol
Yes, he dumped me! Apparently, because he didn't get to see me enough though...
Anyway...I'm in love with an Earth sign now, and Gem ex has been with an Aqua for 2 yrs or longer. Happy ending. That's the way it should be
Awwww earth signs are adorbs haha! The gem is with an aqua. Geezus. I dunno why that pairing is underrated yet I see and hear so many of them 😂click to expand
To add to your TV drama: our prime minister is a Gem living with a Pisces who just got pregnant by him!
Posted by PhantumYou sound like a Pisces! Aren't you one in Pullen?Posted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by 7thHouse
Oh don't worry! Pisces and Gemini rs don't last. If you think you're cold and detached, you haven't been with a gemini yet. So don't fret. Just give her some time.
Mine has lasted 20 years.
Yeah I remember that! Are you earth or water dominant gem?
Pullen used to say water, but not anymore. Grab bag.
Fire: 139.4 / 20.9%
Earth: 165.8 / 24.9%
Air: 189.7 / 28.5%
Water: 170.6 / 25.6%
Wow. That looks like a pretty well-balanced one. And is your pisces by any chance, air or fire dom? I'm curious about this combo because of the reality TV crap I'm watching 😂
Well, I'll be damned, his changed too and it's even more balanced than mine.
Fire: 149.3 / 21.9%
Earth: 162.2 / 23.8%
Air: 185.2 / 27.2%
Water: 184.4 / 27.1%
We're very similar, and sometimes it would be nice if one of us was less...us-like. lol I'm not saying every Gemini should go find a Pisces or vice versa just that it _can_ last.
Omg. So he's basically air and water dom much like you 😂😂😂😂😂 that's pretty good. It's really not in the sun sign isn't it? Lol
It makes sense. I have Pisces moon; he has Libra moon. We both have fire Mars.
How's that sun-moon connection working for you by the way? I wanted to ask coz my sun is actually my husband's moon. We both have water Mars!
We grew very close very quickly and are very emotionally compatible. We share the same values, and we both trust that the other is a good, solid, reliable person on a fundamental level. I intuitively understand what he needs most of the time. He can often read my mind. The downside is a tendency toward codependency. It's something we have to keep being mindful about. It doesn't help that we're both introverted homebodies.click to expand
Posted by PhantumYeah it was something like that...they either removed it and replaced it with something else or just added something else. I can't remember exactly.Posted by LittleStarPosted by PhantumPosted by LittleStarPosted by PhantumPosted by UndinePosted by PhantumPosted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by 7thHouse
Oh don't worry! Pisces and Gemini rs don't last. If you think you're cold and detached, you haven't been with a gemini yet. So don't fret. Just give her some time.
Mine has lasted 20 years.
Yeah I remember that! Are you earth or water dominant gem?
Pullen used to say water, but not anymore. Grab bag.
Fire: 139.4 / 20.9%
Earth: 165.8 / 24.9%
Air: 189.7 / 28.5%
Water: 170.6 / 25.6%
Wow. That looks like a pretty well-balanced one. And is your pisces by any chance, air or fire dom? I'm curious about this combo because of the reality TV crap I'm watching 😂
Well, I'll be damned, his changed too and it's even more balanced than mine.
Fire: 149.3 / 21.9%
Earth: 162.2 / 23.8%
Air: 185.2 / 27.2%
Water: 184.4 / 27.1%
We're very similar, and sometimes it would be nice if one of us was less...us-like. lol I'm not saying every Gemini should go find a Pisces or vice versa just that it _can_ last.
Omg. So he's basically air and water dom much like you 😂😂😂😂😂 that's pretty good. It's really not in the sun sign isn't it? Lol
It makes sense. I have Pisces moon; he has Libra moon. We both have fire Mars.
How's that sun-moon connection working for you by the way? I wanted to ask coz my sun is actually my husband's moon. We both have water Mars!
We grew very close very quickly and are very emotionally compatible. We share the same values, and we both trust that the other is a good, solid, reliable person on a fundamental level. I intuitively understand what he needs most of the time. He can often read my mind. The downside is a tendency toward codependency. It's something we have to keep being mindful about. It doesn't help that we're both introverted homebodies.
You sound like a Pisces! Aren't you one in Pullen?
I used to be. But now it says Taurus is #1 and Pisces is #2.
Yeah I looked the other day and suddenly Aries was in my top 3 and I stopped believing in Astrology.
I'm cardinal dominant now. LOL No way. I am the definition of mutable.
Weird. I wonder what changed with their calculation?
Did your birth time change at all or is it the same?
It's the same. Someone figured this out in another thread...was it you, @LostinmyMind11? I'm thinking someone figured out they were counting Chiron in the figures now, or something like that.click to expand
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Oh don't worry! Pisces and Gemini rs don't last. If you think you're cold and detached, you haven't been with a gemini yet. So don't fret. Just give her some time.
Mine has lasted 20 years.
Yeah I remember that! Are you earth or water dominant gem?
Pullen used to say water, but not anymore. Grab bag.
Fire: 139.4 / 20.9%
Earth: 165.8 / 24.9%
Air: 189.7 / 28.5%
Water: 170.6 / 25.6%
Wow. That looks like a pretty well-balanced one. And is your pisces by any chance, air or fire dom? I'm curious about this combo because of the reality TV crap I'm watching 😂
Well, I'll be damned, his changed too and it's even more balanced than mine.
Fire: 149.3 / 21.9%
Earth: 162.2 / 23.8%
Air: 185.2 / 27.2%
Water: 184.4 / 27.1%
We're very similar, and sometimes it would be nice if one of us was less...us-like. lol I'm not saying every Gemini should go find a Pisces or vice versa just that it _can_ last.
Omg. So he's basically air and water dom much like you 😂😂😂😂😂 that's pretty good. It's really not in the sun sign isn't it? Lol
It makes sense. I have Pisces moon; he has Libra moon. We both have fire Mars.
How's that sun-moon connection working for you by the way? I wanted to ask coz my sun is actually my husband's moon. We both have water Mars!
We grew very close very quickly and are very emotionally compatible. We share the same values, and we both trust that the other is a good, solid, reliable person on a fundamental level. I intuitively understand what he needs most of the time. He can often read my mind. The downside is a tendency toward codependency. It's something we have to keep being mindful about. It doesn't help that we're both introverted homebodies.
You sound like a Pisces! Aren't you one in Pullen?
I used to be. But now it says Taurus is #1 and Pisces is #2.
Yeah I looked the other day and suddenly Aries was in my top 3 and I stopped believing in Astrology.
I'm cardinal dominant now. LOL No way. I am the definition of mutable.
Weird. I wonder what changed with their calculation?
Did your birth time change at all or is it the same?
It's the same. Someone figured this out in another thread...was it you, @LostinmyMind11? I'm thinking someone figured out they were counting Chiron in the figures now, or something like that.
Yeah it was something like that...they either removed it and replaced it with something else or just added something else. I can't remember exactly.
It’s weird tho I have some planets in the 1st house but I can’t think of any thing else I have in Aries. I could see it helping my Cancer/Cardinal if it’s Chiron.click to expand
Found the thread...they added the midheaven and ASC
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/thats-odd-pullen-chart--13508033/
Posted by kubo10The harsh reality is she will probably end up with someone else, not you or him (Gemini). Y’all were just the growing pains she needed to learn what she wants from a partner.Posted by LadyNeptune
“maybe this is one of the weakness from pisces woman? easily falling in love and always see good in bad people”
Maybe. And if that’s the case you just called yourself ‘bad people’.
Food for thought: you shouldn’t need to lose your girl to someone who treats her with love and care to realize you were cold to her during the relationship. Treat the next girl better and let this relationship be a reminder to you that nothing lasts forever and you should live each day so that you don’t look back and have regrets.
Yes, you were right... it is just easy for me to just move on and find another girl.. but somehow I just want to keep waiting for her.. because all I know that she made me a better person.. and I still wish that this better me is for her.. not the other girlclick to expand
I’d never recommend waiting on someone whose decided they don’t want you. But maybe that’s half the appeal for you, wanting what you can’t have.
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by SassyKiwi
Oh I’m getting the impression Libra males in general are oblivious to how good they have something until it’s gone. But that could also be immature men in general.
You may have a point to some degree. Libs tend to be overly confident and that can make us prone to look outward instead of maintaining what we already have cultivated. Do you have any more insight I'm actually interested.click to expand
Lol my insights come very sporadically. They mostly come when other Libras finally come out of the woodwork and create a thread. I swear they’re one of the most least likely to on here.
Posted by LadyNeptuneWell at this moment I can't really say anything.. but I really want her to be happy.. and it hurts knowing that.. probably.. she is happier with other people.. eventhough when I saw through our collection of videos and photos.. she is so happy being with me.. and now I miss her so much..Posted by kubo10Posted by LadyNeptune
“maybe this is one of the weakness from pisces woman? easily falling in love and always see good in bad people”
Maybe. And if that’s the case you just called yourself ‘bad people’.
Food for thought: you shouldn’t need to lose your girl to someone who treats her with love and care to realize you were cold to her during the relationship. Treat the next girl better and let this relationship be a reminder to you that nothing lasts forever and you should live each day so that you don’t look back and have regrets.
Yes, you were right... it is just easy for me to just move on and find another girl.. but somehow I just want to keep waiting for her.. because all I know that she made me a better person.. and I still wish that this better me is for her.. not the other girl
The harsh reality is she will probably end up with someone else, not you or him (Gemini). Y’all were just the growing pains she needed to learn what she wants from a partner.
I’d never recommend waiting on someone whose decided they don’t want you. But maybe that’s half the appeal for you, wanting what you can’t have.click to expand
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