Literally why are girls like this?...
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Cancerwoman17 on Saturday, March 10, 2018 and has 10 replies.
Insecurity. They want to size you up to see if you are better than they are, to validate their subconcious lack of self worth.
Because they are girls duh.
Problem might not be the girls. It might be that your ex has not fully moved past the relationship with you, and constantly brings you up. If this is the case, I actually understand why an exes new bae will cyberstalk his old flame.
It's things like this why I stay off of social media.
It's things like this why I stay off of social media.
In most societies women are raised to compete with one another on a shallow level. An undeveloped woman who has not found her worth and camaraderie with other women yet, will always look to compare. It's just the way it goes. We have all done it, or had it done to us. I've experienced both sides at certain stages of my growth as a woman.
Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by CrabraAhhh this make sense. I agree. I hate social media too. Been staying away from that shit.
Problem might not be the girls. It might be that your ex has not fully moved past the relationship with you, and constantly brings you up. If this is the case, I actually understand why an exes new bae will cyberstalk his old flame.
It's things like this why I stay off of social media.
People don't have to know about me, my life and I. My life is much more happier without social media.click to expand
I used to be really active on social media, and while never really involved in the drama myself, that crap would blow up my phone with notifications, and I'm the type that gets annoyed very easily by them. Like you, life is happier without it, and a lot quitter as well *cyber fist bump*
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Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by CrabraYeah, it's draining and I am not keen to know what other people are doing.Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by CrabraAhhh this make sense. I agree. I hate social media too. Been staying away from that shit.
Problem might not be the girls. It might be that your ex has not fully moved past the relationship with you, and constantly brings you up. If this is the case, I actually understand why an exes new bae will cyberstalk his old flame.
It's things like this why I stay off of social media.
People don't have to know about me, my life and I. My life is much more happier without social media.
I used to be really active on social media, and while never really involved in the drama myself, that crap would blow up my phone with notifications, and I'm the type that gets annoyed very easily by them. Like you, life is happier without it, and a lot quitter as well *cyber fist bump*
And besides, it made me feel crazy when I was there. Like I wanna stalk on my exes. So, without that shit, my life is going the exact way I want it to be.
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I think all of us get stalk-my-ex syndrome to some degree, so I can definitely see how social media can make the temptation to do so even worse. Actually, it just seems to make everything worse, no matter what it is haha!
Yeah, if I want to know what someone is up to, I'll ask. That is far more interactive than sending messages.
Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by CrabraRight??? Just ask, why even bother to go through that route. Meh...Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by CrabraYeah, it's draining and I am not keen to know what other people are doing.Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by CrabraAhhh this make sense. I agree. I hate social media too. Been staying away from that shit.
Problem might not be the girls. It might be that your ex has not fully moved past the relationship with you, and constantly brings you up. If this is the case, I actually understand why an exes new bae will cyberstalk his old flame.
It's things like this why I stay off of social media.
People don't have to know about me, my life and I. My life is much more happier without social media.
I used to be really active on social media, and while never really involved in the drama myself, that crap would blow up my phone with notifications, and I'm the type that gets annoyed very easily by them. Like you, life is happier without it, and a lot quitter as well *cyber fist bump*
And besides, it made me feel crazy when I was there. Like I wanna stalk on my exes. So, without that shit, my life is going the exact way I want it to be.
I think all of us get stalk-my-ex syndrome to some degree, so I can definitely see how social media can make the temptation to do so even worse. Actually, it just seems to make everything worse, no matter what it is haha!
Yeah, if I want to know what someone is up to, I'll ask. That is far more interactive than sending messages.click to expand
Convenience, maybe? I don't know. I just know that I'm old school, and prefer to see the person's eyes I'm interacting with register the things I'm saying. Especially if it pertains to something dramatic.
Posted by CrabraHmm interesting actually..yeah because when I met this guy he was like my bestfriend and when his ex girlfriend broke up with him he always either bad mouthed her or just brought her up in some way shape or form. I ended up dating him obviously and it was actually all he talked about to me too but then soon got over it. She too his ex flame followed me on my Instagram and tried adding me on Facebook when it should’ve been the other way around like me doing it😂 I might have had my snoop but I certainly didn’t get so involved like I didn’t care about her she was the past and he was now mine. Lol good luck to the future one!
Problem might not be the girls. It might be that your ex has not fully moved past the relationship with you, and constantly brings you up. If this is the case, I actually understand why an exes new bae will cyberstalk his old flame.
It's things like this why I stay off of social media.
Posted by Cancerwoman17Posted by CrabraHmm interesting actually..yeah because when I met this guy he was like my bestfriend and when his ex girlfriend broke up with him he always either bad mouthed her or just brought her up in some way shape or form. I ended up dating him obviously and it was actually all he talked about to me too but then soon got over it. She too his ex flame followed me on my Instagram and tried adding me on Facebook when it should’ve been the other way around like me doing it😂 I might have had my snoop but I certainly didn’t get so involved like I didn’t care about her she was the past and he was now mine. Lol good luck to the future one!
Problem might not be the girls. It might be that your ex has not fully moved past the relationship with you, and constantly brings you up. If this is the case, I actually understand why an exes new bae will cyberstalk his old flame.
It's things like this why I stay off of social media.click to expand
Ahh, but you did have a little snoopity-snoop!
It's just natural to be curious. It doesn't even have to be the new partner that does it. Someone who knows him or related to him that you meet can bring up an ex of his, and that will be enough to play the curiosity strings. But yes, a more secure woman really isn't going to care all that much more than a passing whim. Leave Your Feedback
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