Men who text you first then never text back
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by thecrazyariestaurus on Saturday, November 26, 2016 and has 16 replies.
Why? Why text me first and then when I respond you never text back? Wtf is the point of this? I just don't understand lol is this some kind of mind game?
Posted by CanbullriusI've gotten this so much throughout the years, but I just don't really understand it lol it's a waste of both of our time really ? Very annoying lol
I get this with my Aries female, except i have to initiate it every time.
Gamesssss
A) Immature
B) Daddy/Mommy issues
C) Attention seeking
D) Bored because s/o is out of town/had a fight/dumped them and they need validation
E) Insidious - getting off on toying with your emotions
B) Daddy/Mommy issues
C) Attention seeking
D) Bored because s/o is out of town/had a fight/dumped them and they need validation
E) Insidious - getting off on toying with your emotions
Because in theory you shoudn't care...he texted you first right?
So let's say you mention it and act needy...he will know you care, wish makes his insecure self feel good.
If he acts like this often...i would say with 99% certitude it's intentional.
Now if you say something that doesnt require an answer, it's ok. Make sure to ask a question next time you text...and see if he responds
So let's say you mention it and act needy...he will know you care, wish makes his insecure self feel good.
If he acts like this often...i would say with 99% certitude it's intentional.
Now if you say something that doesnt require an answer, it's ok. Make sure to ask a question next time you text...and see if he responds
Posted by EspressoThat's what I was assuming also. Maybe he's just trying to get a rise out of me or expects me to act needy and he wants that attention. Too bad he doesn't get that out of me lol I'll try that - I'll ask him a question next time and see what happens
Because in theory you shoudn't care...he texted you first right?
So let's say you mention it and act needy...he will know you care, wish makes his insecure self feel good.
If he acts like this often...i would say with 99% certitude it's intentional.
Now if you say something that doesnt require an answer, it's ok. Make sure to ask a question next time you text...and see if he responds
Posted by CanbullriusYeah same. I don't like games. Makes me lose interest quick. We don't deserve this! Lol
Well i'm on the verge of completely giving up with this Aries, i can move on, i have other people who would actually appreciate what i am.
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Posted by thecrazyariestaurusDo you text back something that requires a reply and they never reply at all?
Why? Why text me first and then when I respond you never text back? Wtf is the point of this? I just don't understand lol is this some kind of mind game?
Have you tried texting first as well? Sometimes if the person who always initiates the text might think it's only a one way thing?
How about I text today and then after you respond I'll answer a week later ?
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Posted by Stinger408scorpI have sag friends who are slow to respond but it's normally within the same day. Lol a week is very long
How about I text today and then after you respond I'll answer a week later ?
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairieslol I'm guilty of doing it also guilty of showing up late on dates atleast a few hrs late lol used to.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have sag friends who are slow to respond but it's normally within the same day. Lol a week is very long
How about I text today and then after you respond I'll answer a week later ?click to expand
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Posted by Stinger408scorpIf it's friends I don't see very often I can be guilty of a delayed reply. But it normally when I get the text during a busy time. Read... think oh I'll reply later and then forget ?Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairieslol I'm guilty of doing it also guilty of showing up late on dates atleast a few hrs late lol used to.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have sag friends who are slow to respond but it's normally within the same day. Lol a week is very long
How about I text today and then after you respond I'll answer a week later ?click to expand
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairieslol ? We kinda think alike ???Posted by Stinger408scorpIf it's friends I don't see very often I can be guilty of a delayed reply. But it normally when I get the text during a busy time. Read... think oh I'll reply later and then forget ?Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairieslol I'm guilty of doing it also guilty of showing up late on dates atleast a few hrs late lol used to.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have sag friends who are slow to respond but it's normally within the same day. Lol a week is very long
How about I text today and then after you respond I'll answer a week later ?click to expand
Some people, once you've given them the attention that they need, they have no need to interact with you further.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusOh there are so many people like that ...not just men . Unfortunately coz of such people i have also become like that
Why? Why text me first and then when I respond you never text back? Wtf is the point of this? I just don't understand lol is this some kind of mind game?
..although my natural habit is to always reply to calls , messages etc . Posted by CanbullriusFunny thing..an aries female in family is ditto this . She will msg and then never reply or reply after 3 days. If you miss her call and call her back she wont answer and neither call back . Beyond my level of comprehension
I get this with my Aries female, except i have to initiate it every time.
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