My friend who has a girlfriend kissed me again. why?

We are friends (not so close) but always flirted and stared each other.. he kissed me even once, but right away I learned that he made a relationship.

One day, we were together and talked about all night.. then he kissed me but I stopped him. I asked him, why he is doing this, what happens between us, but he was really skeptical... he told me that he has good time with his girlfriend but doesn't know what happens between us... he confess he likes me but tried not to showing after he got a girlfriend.. as for me i told him that i like him too but don;t like this situation and except from that I don't like hooking up right after my break up...

After 2 weeks we met again and we were embarrassed (no eye contact while talking etc). He even upload a pic with his girlfriend and they seem happy.

My question is... is it possible to feel something for me? or he is in love with his gf? but then again how can a man be in love and cheat? and from the other hand why he got a girlfriend if he liked me from the begining? (surely he used to hang up with her before me but didn't have a relationship). He is a relationship type guy although, and I'm not so dunno if that's possible reason.

And second question... should I pull away or stay friends?

Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
He's a player and you're a fool.



You know he has a girlfriend and you allowed a second kiss to happen.





Also, if he already kissed you, you didn't "stop him" as you stated.



If you continue this knowing he has a girlfriend you deserve every piece of heartache and disaster coming your way.







You don't need our advice. You know right from wrong.

I stopped it both times.. and first time he wasn't in a relationship.

Secondly. when you feel sth for someone and talk for hours and kisses you out of blue, you kiss him back for a sec, and then you realize it's wrong. you have to controll your mind.

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Posted by maria1995

Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
He's a player and you're a fool.



You know he has a girlfriend and you allowed a second kiss to happen.





Also, if he already kissed you, you didn't "stop him" as you stated.



If you continue this knowing he has a girlfriend you deserve every piece of heartache and disaster coming your way.







You don't need our advice. You know right from wrong.

I stopped it both times.. and first time he wasn't in a relationship.

Secondly. when you feel sth for someone and talk for hours and kisses you out of blue, you kiss him back for a sec, and then you realize it's wrong. you have to controll your mind.

If he managed to kiss you, you did not stop it.



You stopped it AFTER it happened, but it already happened. Therefore, it was not stopped.





Like I said earlier, after the first time there's no excuse for your involvement in this.





That first kiss should have been all you needed to know that you two obviously can't maintain a platonic friendship.





You came back again because you wanted it to happen. You knew what you were getting yourself into.





Stop this charade. You know what you're doing.

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the first one was time ago...then we acted more like friends. we have mental connection. the second one was at least after 1 month. If you can control your actions so well so maybe you didn't ever feel passion in ur life. In love you can't control yourself and be perfect. otherwise all ppl would be happy !

Posted by xyinsaturn
I would stop hanging out with him.

If he liked you or the gf, is he that dependent that he can't be single while he sort out his feelings?

Please. He doesn't like you more because he "confides" in you. Far from it. He makes you a fool while he deceives his gf.

Don't confuse lust for an actual emotional connection.

Call him out on his bs and how he needs to sort out his feelings, see if he still likes you then. I bet you he won't.

i bet you are right... yes i think that he is a bit depedent. He is a bit timid and rarely is single. When I asked him why he made a relationship he told me it's better than being alone. Ugh, then I told him that maybe he has some issues with himself, first of all you have to be good by your own.. and then he told me ok we have a good time and I know her from the past and my friend suggested me to make her my gf... I bet that he this has to do with inner insecurities he has. All the time he seems skeptical, can't say no to anyone etc, doesn't talk so much, a bit sad or deadpan...

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Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
He's a player and you're a fool.



You know he has a girlfriend and you allowed a second kiss to happen.





Also, if he already kissed you, you didn't "stop him" as you stated.



If you continue this knowing he has a girlfriend you deserve every piece of heartache and disaster coming your way.





You don't need our advice. You know right from wrong.

Took the words right out of my mouth

I can't stand girls who do hoe shit and then try to play innocent.

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If I learned one thing in life is to not criticize anyone. Always we say I wouldn never do this, never and them we give in. Always talk bad about other ppl without looking ourselves in the mirror and confess that we are not perfect. If I was slut why I stopped him? I mean come on he is man, if I wanted to I could even sleep with him....

First time he kissed me I just broke up and felt really confuse, that's why I stopped him, he didn't have a relationshipthen. The second one happened after we came really close after almost 5-6 hours talking in the dark. I don't say it's right or wrong. I say that we are ppl and people aren't perfect. look around you. ppl have weaknesses. love is a weakness! and feelings have not rules. yes maybe if wouldn't stop him or worse had sex, it would make me unjustified, but then again not a bad person just a victim of myself. You call someone a ''hoe'' when you do something consciously. but then again I wasn't the one who cheat, and I was the one who told him that he has to respect his gf.

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Posted by maria1995

Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX

Posted by queenaries_

Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
He's a player and you're a fool.



You know he has a girlfriend and you allowed a second kiss to happen.





Also, if he already kissed you, you didn't "stop him" as you stated.



If you continue this knowing he has a girlfriend you deserve every piece of heartache and disaster coming your way.





You don't need our advice. You know right from wrong.

Took the words right out of my mouth

I can't stand girls who do hoe shit and then try to play innocent.

If I learned one thing in life is to not criticize anyone. Always we say I wouldn never do this, never and them we give in. Always talk bad about other ppl without looking ourselves in the mirror and confess that we are not perfect. If I was slut why I stopped him? I mean come on he is man, if I wanted to I could even sleep with him....

First time he kissed me I just broke up and felt really confuse, that's why I stopped him, he didn't have a relationshipthen. The second one happened after we came really close after almost 5-6 hours talking in the dark. I don't say it's right or wrong. I say that we are ppl and people aren't perfect. look around you. ppl have weaknesses. love is a weakness! and feelings have not rules. yes maybe if wouldn't stop him or worse had sex, it would make me unjustified, but then again not a bad person just a victim of myself. You call someone a ''hoe'' when you do something consciously. but then again I wasn't the one who cheat, and I was the one who told him that he has to respect his gf.

You’re a slag 👌

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and you are? 😄 an insecure person who thinks that if you offend ppl would make you feel better about yourself.

Posted by tiziani
Doesn't have to be an either/or situation. Two separate relationships, one with you one with her. He probably finds himself behaving differently in both. Only he has answers, if he even has that much.

You said you don't like the situation so you will know what to do.

can someone have feelings for more than 1 person? As a woman, if I really like someone, couldn't imagine myself doing sth with another man... dunno

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Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
He's a player and you're a fool.



You know he has a girlfriend and you allowed a second kiss to happen.





Also, if he already kissed you, you didn't "stop him" as you stated.



If you continue this knowing he has a girlfriend you deserve every piece of heartache and disaster coming your way.





You don't need our advice. You know right from wrong.

Took the words right out of my mouth

I can't stand girls who do hoe shit and then try to play innocent.

If I learned one thing in life is to not criticize anyone. Always we say I wouldn never do this, never and them we give in. Always talk bad about other ppl without looking ourselves in the mirror and confess that we are not perfect. If I was slut why I stopped him? I mean come on he is man, if I wanted to I could even sleep with him....

First time he kissed me I just broke up and felt really confuse, that's why I stopped him, he didn't have a relationshipthen. The second one happened after we came really close after almost 5-6 hours talking in the dark. I don't say it's right or wrong. I say that we are ppl and people aren't perfect. look around you. ppl have weaknesses. love is a weakness! and feelings have not rules. yes maybe if wouldn't stop him or worse had sex, it would make me unjustified, but then again not a bad person just a victim of myself. You call someone a ''hoe'' when you do something consciously. but then again I wasn't the one who cheat, and I was the one who told him that he has to respect his gf.

You’re a slag 👌

and you are? 😄 an insecure person who thinks that if you offend ppl would make you feel better about yourself.

Not insecure. But you ARE a slag. Thems the facts.

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i like your explanation. scientific!

you know better than anyone deep inside your issues. don't try to prove anything in a forum by being a bitch.

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Posted by maria1995

Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX

Posted by queenaries_

Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
He's a player and you're a fool.



You know he has a girlfriend and you allowed a second kiss to happen.





Also, if he already kissed you, you didn't "stop him" as you stated.



If you continue this knowing he has a girlfriend you deserve every piece of heartache and disaster coming your way.





You don't need our advice. You know right from wrong.

Took the words right out of my mouth

I can't stand girls who do hoe shit and then try to play innocent.

If I learned one thing in life is to not criticize anyone. Always we say I wouldn never do this, never and them we give in. Always talk bad about other ppl without looking ourselves in the mirror and confess that we are not perfect. If I was slut why I stopped him? I mean come on he is man, if I wanted to I could even sleep with him....

First time he kissed me I just broke up and felt really confuse, that's why I stopped him, he didn't have a relationshipthen. The second one happened after we came really close after almost 5-6 hours talking in the dark. I don't say it's right or wrong. I say that we are ppl and people aren't perfect. look around you. ppl have weaknesses. love is a weakness! and feelings have not rules. yes maybe if wouldn't stop him or worse had sex, it would make me unjustified, but then again not a bad person just a victim of myself. You call someone a ''hoe'' when you do something consciously. but then again I wasn't the one who cheat, and I was the one who told him that he has to respect his gf.

The sob story is unnecessary, princess.



I didn't call you a bad person.

I called you out on the fact that you know what you're doing is wrong and you're pretending to be innocent, lost, and confused.



Also, I never called you a hoe. I said you're doing hoe shit, because you are and you know it.





Hoes don't respect boundaries. You came back to him knowing that he was in a relationship and knowing that he wanted more from you than friendship.





That's hoe shit.



I never said it's innocent

I said it was weakness....clearly not the same.

Posted by maria1995
If I learned one thing in life is to not criticize anyone.

That's not a good lesson for life.

Constructive criticism is an absolute must imho especially to be "used" on the people around you that are close to you.

Noone gets everything 100% right, everyone needs some guidance here and there, a helping hand on occasion...

DXP court adjourned. 😆

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Posted by maria1995
If I learned one thing in life is to not criticize anyone.

That's not a good lesson for life.

Constructive criticism is an absolute must imho especially to be "used" on the people around you that are close to you.

Noone gets everything 100% right, everyone needs some guidance here and there, a helping hand on occasion...

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yes you are right.

i believe in constructive criticism, but you do it when you are open minded and you want to help. it's all about they way you do it. but not bitching around just for your self esteem. but then again i believe that it's difficult to see through right and wrong, everyone has their own perspective!

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yes you are right.

i believe in constructive criticism, but you do it when you are open minded and you want to help. it's all about they way you do it. but not bitching around just for your self esteem. but then again i believe that it's difficult to see through right and wrong, everyone has their own perspective!

Well they are bitching at you because they don't believe your story (the part around the resistance to the two kisses).

Cut contact with the guy. Tell his gf she has a cheater (optional).

Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
He's a player and you're a fool.



You know he has a girlfriend and you allowed a second kiss to happen.





Also, if he already kissed you, you didn't "stop him" as you stated.



If you continue this knowing he has a girlfriend you deserve every piece of heartache and disaster coming your way.





You don't need our advice. You know right from wrong.

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Posted by maria1995
We are friends (not so close) but always flirted and stared each other.. he kissed me even once, but right away I learned that he made a relationship.

One day, we were together and talked about all night.. then he kissed me but I stopped him. I asked him, why he is doing this, what happens between us, but he was really skeptical... he told me that he has good time with his girlfriend but doesn't know what happens between us... he confess he likes me but tried not to showing after he got a girlfriend.. as for me i told him that i like him too but don;t like this situation and except from that I don't like hooking up right after my break up...

After 2 weeks we met again and we were embarrassed (no eye contact while talking etc). He even upload a pic with his girlfriend and they seem happy.

My question is... is it possible to feel something for me? or he is in love with his gf? but then again how can a man be in love and cheat? and from the other hand why he got a girlfriend if he liked me from the begining? (surely he used to hang up with her before me but didn't have a relationship). He is a relationship type guy although, and I'm not so dunno if that's possible reason.

And second question... should I pull away or stay friends?

You said you've learned that criticizm is not a cool thing. You've came to the worst place to ask for advices then 😄 You're eather gonna be called names and shit, or called names while someone gives to you advice,which seems good to them but is super drastic and awful, or all of that + a lot of empty paragraphs between it.

Anyways, you're asking questions here, first of all he may be feeling something towards you, but to me it seems like the situation you two were into(dark, sitting,talking) leads to something romantic like that 😄 He kissed you this one time before, but now he's got a girlfriend, you think it's all good and you two go out,talk a lot and out of the blue he kisses you. You back off and now you're thinking wtf. It seems like he's not a serious guy tho, telling you he has feelings for you, two weeks later shares a happy pic with his gf... And if a man's in love and happy he wont cheat,especially if its a new relationship,again, from what I've seen.

My advice is to pull away, seems like he may make a move towards you again and that's kinda sad for the poor girl he's with.

All of that said,you're not a h o e, you're not stupid, think about it and make your own decision 🙂

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Posted by imnotvirgo

Posted by maria1995
We are friends (not so close) but always flirted and stared each other.. he kissed me even once, but right away I learned that he made a relationship.

One day, we were together and talked about all night.. then he kissed me but I stopped him. I asked him, why he is doing this, what happens between us, but he was really skeptical... he told me that he has good time with his girlfriend but doesn't know what happens between us... he confess he likes me but tried not to showing after he got a girlfriend.. as for me i told him that i like him too but don;t like this situation and except from that I don't like hooking up right after my break up...

After 2 weeks we met again and we were embarrassed (no eye contact while talking etc). He even upload a pic with his girlfriend and they seem happy.

My question is... is it possible to feel something for me? or he is in love with his gf? but then again how can a man be in love and cheat? and from the other hand why he got a girlfriend if he liked me from the begining? (surely he used to hang up with her before me but didn't have a relationship). He is a relationship type guy although, and I'm not so dunno if that's possible reason.

And second question... should I pull away or stay friends?

You're eather gonna be called names and shit, or called names while someone gives to you advice,which seems good to them but is super drastic and awful, or all of that + a lot of empty paragraphs between it.

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Passive aggressive bitch.

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Lel it's a good thing I'm not writin like you then. Imagine my spelling with at least 10 intervals between every sentence





Realy realy bad

I'm triggered now.



This is exactly the kind of thread the bitch who kissed my Jed last month would make. If she were here, she'd definitely play the sob story card to evoke sympathy and get validation for her slag behavior.

She knew he had a boyfriend, made her intentions clear anyway: that she wants him and to hell with his guy. And then forces herself on him in his guy's presence with clear disregard for anyone's feelings but her own hoe-mones.

Some bitches need a real good slapping. Emhendo should hire herself out as a professional bitch-slapper, stands to make a fortune.

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Posted by imnotvirgo

Posted by maria1995
We are friends (not so close) but always flirted and stared each other.. he kissed me even once, but right away I learned that he made a relationship.

One day, we were together and talked about all night.. then he kissed me but I stopped him. I asked him, why he is doing this, what happens between us, but he was really skeptical... he told me that he has good time with his girlfriend but doesn't know what happens between us... he confess he likes me but tried not to showing after he got a girlfriend.. as for me i told him that i like him too but don;t like this situation and except from that I don't like hooking up right after my break up...

After 2 weeks we met again and we were embarrassed (no eye contact while talking etc). He even upload a pic with his girlfriend and they seem happy.

My question is... is it possible to feel something for me? or he is in love with his gf? but then again how can a man be in love and cheat? and from the other hand why he got a girlfriend if he liked me from the begining? (surely he used to hang up with her before me but didn't have a relationship). He is a relationship type guy although, and I'm not so dunno if that's possible reason.

And second question... should I pull away or stay friends?

You're eather gonna be called names and shit, or called names while someone gives to you advice,which seems good to them but is super drastic and awful, or all of that + a lot of empty paragraphs between it.

Before









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Passive aggressive bitch.

Lel it's a good thing I'm not writin like you then. Imagine my spelling with at least 10 intervals between every sentence





Realy realy bad

You're more concerned about a stranger online who spaces their paragraphs than the fact that you can barely write a sentence without any spelling or grammatical errors.





This is why I ignored you the first time you wrote me.





I can tell a dumb a bitch a mile away.





Log off and pick up a book.

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You can smell a dumb bitch a mile away ahahah oh god

Stop talking to him.

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Posted by maria1995
We are friends (not so close) but always flirted and stared each other.. he kissed me even once, but right away I learned that he made a relationship.

One day, we were together and talked about all night.. then he kissed me but I stopped him. I asked him, why he is doing this, what happens between us, but he was really skeptical... he told me that he has good time with his girlfriend but doesn't know what happens between us... he confess he likes me but tried not to showing after he got a girlfriend.. as for me i told him that i like him too but don;t like this situation and except from that I don't like hooking up right after my break up...

After 2 weeks we met again and we were embarrassed (no eye contact while talking etc). He even upload a pic with his girlfriend and they seem happy.

My question is... is it possible to feel something for me? or he is in love with his gf? but then again how can a man be in love and cheat? and from the other hand why he got a girlfriend if he liked me from the begining? (surely he used to hang up with her before me but didn't have a relationship). He is a relationship type guy although, and I'm not so dunno if that's possible reason.

And second question... should I pull away or stay friends?

You said you've learned that criticizm is not a cool thing. You've came to the worst place to ask for advices then 😄 You're eather gonna be called names and shit, or called names while someone gives to you advice,which seems good to them but is super drastic and awful, or all of that + a lot of empty paragraphs between it.

Anyways, you're asking questions here, first of all he may be feeling something towards you, but to me it seems like the situation you two were into(dark, sitting,talking) leads to something romantic like that 😄 He kissed you this one time before, but now he's got a girlfriend, you think it's all good and you two go out,talk a lot and out of the blue he kisses you. You back off and now you're thinking wtf. It seems like he's not a serious guy tho, telling you he has feelings for you, two weeks later shares a happy pic with his gf... And if a man's in love and happy he wont cheat,especially if its a new relationship,again, from what I've seen.

My advice is to pull away, seems like he may make a move towards you again and that's kinda sad for the poor girl he's with.

All of that said,you're not a h o e, you're not stupid, think about it and make your own decision 🙂

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yes, but fortunately there are a few ppl that can advice constructively. I mean, it's ok it's internet you post anonymously and you try to boost your self esteem. Personally, I wouldn't even deal with subjects in forums that I find silly (except if i don't have a life). Nobody is perfect, and the weaknesses aren't innocent, they just human. I doubt if anyone who is bitching around is perfect, or good to ppl in general. If we would try to make ourselves better than trying to offend others, world will be a perfect place..



anyway thanks for your advice sweety. sometimes you know deep inside what should do or the bad side of the guy, but when you have feelings you try to give excuses. I don't think he is the type of guy who wants to sleep with every woman, even to me most times was embarrassed. i think he is just dependent, and even if he isn't in love he wants secure. i know him 5 years (only this year we came close), and he always was in a relationship.

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Posted by maria1995


yes you are right.

i believe in constructive criticism, but you do it when you are open minded and you want to help. it's all about they way you do it. but not bitching around just for your self esteem. but then again i believe that it's difficult to see through right and wrong, everyone has their own perspective!

Well they are bitching at you because they don't believe your story (the part around the resistance to the two kisses).

Cut contact with the guy. Tell his gf she has a cheater (optional).

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yes that's what should I do. he is my fellow student though so I just try to keep contact in minimal. he and his friends (who i used to go out) already suggested a night out for his bday, but i won't go... without saying anything..It's even the best for me, the only way to forget him.

nahh i can't tell her. the only way i would say that he is a cheater is if she was my friend. even if i try she couldn;t believe me. it happened to me before.who would you believe a stranger or the guy who are you in love, you believe he is amazing and your brain is puree?....