My honest opinion
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Libra4rmTX on Tuesday, November 9, 2021 and has 38 replies.
Ok. This go round my Dxp experience has been great and even spiritual. But I honestly think women cheat more than men. They just hide it longer and better. What yall think?
I think women hide it better, and I think all sexes cheat equally.
When *some* people are unhappy with their current situation they cheat, but are too selfish to give up the comfort of what they're used to in their current relationship. Neglect in the relationship can cause a partner to cheat, whether emotionally or physically.
Women hiding it better could have to do with men not having good intuition and men not being nosy- both of these areas are known to be more common with females.
When *some* people are unhappy with their current situation they cheat, but are too selfish to give up the comfort of what they're used to in their current relationship. Neglect in the relationship can cause a partner to cheat, whether emotionally or physically.
Women hiding it better could have to do with men not having good intuition and men not being nosy- both of these areas are known to be more common with females.
Posted by WarAngelYou aint lying about that fam. Its almost become a trend to cheat and post about itPosted by Libra4rmTX
Ok. This go round my Dxp experience has been great and even spiritual. But I honestly think women cheat more than men. They just hide it longer and better. What yall think?
Everybody cheats given enough opportunity. The internet makes it really easy to figure out who's doing it. Sometimes they announce it to the world themselves without pity or remorse for the other party. 😔click to expand
Posted by saggurl88I think as a man emotional control is important to us. We definitely sense it but we choose not to snoop out of fear of what we may find. I agree with ya tho.
I think women hide it better, and I think all sexes cheat equally.
When *some* people are unhappy with their current situation they cheat, but are too selfish to give up the comfort of what they're used to in their current relationship. Neglect in the relationship can cause a partner to cheat, whether emotionally or physically.
Women hiding it better could have to do with men not having good intuition and men not being nosy- both of these areas are known to be more common with females.
Posted by Parilicium
Women dont hide better men cope harder
Fair statement. I felt that last part the hardest tho
Posted by Libra4rmTXI get it. I don't snoop either lolPosted by saggurl88
I think women hide it better, and I think all sexes cheat equally.
When *some* people are unhappy with their current situation they cheat, but are too selfish to give up the comfort of what they're used to in their current relationship. Neglect in the relationship can cause a partner to cheat, whether emotionally or physically.
Women hiding it better could have to do with men not having good intuition and men not being nosy- both of these areas are known to be more common with females.
I think as a man emotional control is important to us. We definitely sense it but we choose not to snoop out of fear of what we may find. I agree with ya tho.click to expand
I agree. Women have men lining up waiting for a chance and have way more options.
Posted by saggurl88😂😂😂😂Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88
I think women hide it better, and I think all sexes cheat equally.
When *some* people are unhappy with their current situation they cheat, but are too selfish to give up the comfort of what they're used to in their current relationship. Neglect in the relationship can cause a partner to cheat, whether emotionally or physically.
Women hiding it better could have to do with men not having good intuition and men not being nosy- both of these areas are known to be more common with females.
I think as a man emotional control is important to us. We definitely sense it but we choose not to snoop out of fear of what we may find. I agree with ya tho.
I get it. I don't snoop either lolclick to expand
Posted by MtnboyExactly. A man has to actively go out and seek opportunities. Women not so much.
I agree. Women have men lining up waiting for a chance and have way more options.
Posted by Libra4rmTXIt all goes back to human anatomy.Posted by Mtnboy
I agree. Women have men lining up waiting for a chance and have way more options.
Exactly. A man has to actively go out and seek opportunities. Women not so much.click to expand
We have the vaginas and are receivers, and the men line up with their dicks in their hands, ready to provide a plug into the hole.
Blame it on anatomy for the reason that women aren't lined up and DMing men.
I think both cheat equally BUT women are oddly more blatant when they cheat, operating on: "meh he don't make me happy."
casual blatancy
casual blatancy
Oh boy on everyone cheats. That’s not true, I think we are more than our animalistic instinct. At least some of us.
Posted by stardustmopeww i hope you know you've dodged a bullet.
lol I have such a good story.
My ex and I broke up once for about 2 months. During this time I went on 2 dates with 2 different men. When we got back together he asked for full disclosure of what I’d done while we were broken up. He claimed he didn’t go on any dates. He was actually very, very upset that I’d “moved on”. He gave me a huge guilt trip. 5 months later, he let me use his phone while we were on the beach. A gut feeling told me to check his messages. There were messages from multiple women from BEFORE our breakup! This is the funny part 🤣 they were all cam girls. He had matched with them on dating apps and they wanted him to pay to chat with them.
I confronted him about it. Why would you make me feel guilty for going on dates with men when you were actively trying to cheat on me during our relationship? His answer was “it’s not fair that women have more options.” That’s all he said.
So if you follow man logic, the desire to cheat is there, but because they lack options, we cheat more?
the more i hear these stories, the more i just wanna be single hopefully forever.
Posted by virgoOPPPYea women can be pretty cold with it lol
I think both cheat equally BUT women are oddly more blatant when they cheat, operating on: "meh he don't make me happy."
casual blatancy
Posted by stardustmop
lol I have such a good story.
My ex and I broke up once for about 2 months. During this time I went on 2 dates with 2 different men. When we got back together he asked for full disclosure of what I’d done while we were broken up. He claimed he didn’t go on any dates. He was actually very, very upset that I’d “moved on”. He gave me a huge guilt trip. 5 months later, he let me use his phone while we were on the beach. A gut feeling told me to check his messages. There were messages from multiple women from BEFORE our breakup! This is the funny part 🤣 they were all cam girls. He had matched with them on dating apps and they wanted him to pay to chat with them.
I confronted him about it. Why would you make me feel guilty for going on dates with men when you were actively trying to cheat on me during our relationship? His answer was “it’s not fair that women have more options.” That’s all he said.
So if you follow man logic, the desire to cheat is there, but because they lack options, we cheat more?
Yep lol naw I think its easier for women. A man would have to go on the hunt. A woman just has to open her phone. Maybe some men dont have to hunt. I know I do lol
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by virgoOPPP
I think both cheat equally BUT women are oddly more blatant when they cheat, operating on: "meh he don't make me happy."
casual blatancy
Yea women can be pretty cold with it lolclick to expand
yeah like i figured if i ever cheat, i've probably got enough reason and resentment to do so. all out jada pinkett style . even its possible exposure can only really SERVE my hatred.
Posted by stardustmopAnd I agree. I didnt call yall witches 😂Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by stardustmop
lol I have such a good story.
My ex and I broke up once for about 2 months. During this time I went on 2 dates with 2 different men. When we got back together he asked for full disclosure of what I’d done while we were broken up. He claimed he didn’t go on any dates. He was actually very, very upset that I’d “moved on”. He gave me a huge guilt trip. 5 months later, he let me use his phone while we were on the beach. A gut feeling told me to check his messages. There were messages from multiple women from BEFORE our breakup! This is the funny part 🤣 they were all cam girls. He had matched with them on dating apps and they wanted him to pay to chat with them.
I confronted him about it. Why would you make me feel guilty for going on dates with men when you were actively trying to cheat on me during our relationship? His answer was “it’s not fair that women have more options.” That’s all he said.
So if you follow man logic, the desire to cheat is there, but because they lack options, we cheat more?
Yep lol naw I think its easier for women. A man would have to go on the hunt. A woman just has to open her phone. Maybe some men dont have to hunt. I know I do lol
My point exactly. We may very well cheat more but it’s not for a mans lack of desire to or any moral superiority. It’s simply a lack of options to do so.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPSee lol this some virgo shit here lol hopefully that sife never comes out😳Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by virgoOPPP
I think both cheat equally BUT women are oddly more blatant when they cheat, operating on: "meh he don't make me happy."
casual blatancy
Yea women can be pretty cold with it lol
yeah like i figured if i ever cheat, i've probably got enough reason and resenment to do so. all out jada pinkett style . even its possible exposure can only really SERVE my hatred.click to expand
Posted by Libra4rmTX
... I honestly think women cheat more than men. They just hide it longer and better. What yall think?
Nah.
Posted by PhoenixRisingTo each its own ma'am.Posted by Libra4rmTX
... I honestly think women cheat more than men. They just hide it longer and better. What yall think?
Nah.click to expand
We are more detailed oriented too so sure, maybe.
Posted by LadyNeptuneWell that didnt scare me at all lol
We are more detailed oriented too so sure, maybe.
Posted by Libra4rmTXI don't know, I'm not convinced that cheating is gender-dominant in any particular way. Selfish assholes abound in either so.
Ok. This go round my Dxp experience has been great and even spiritual. But I honestly think women cheat more than men. They just hide it longer and better. What yall think?
Posted by SeajattAgreed!!Posted by Libra4rmTX
Ok. This go round my Dxp experience has been great and even spiritual. But I honestly think women cheat more than men. They just hide it longer and better. What yall think?
I don't know, I'm not convinced that cheating is gender-dominant in any particular way. Selfish assholes abound in either so.click to expand
I don’t know about everyone cheating because I’ve never and don’t plan to. I do however feel that if I ever cheat, it would just to play the same game and give the person their own medicine.
Loyalty isn’t gender specific. It’s a rare admirable personality trait. If you have it, then be cognizant of this rare trait and don’t waste it by getting with a cheater.
Loyalty isn’t gender specific. It’s a rare admirable personality trait. If you have it, then be cognizant of this rare trait and don’t waste it by getting with a cheater.
Posted by peachy06Lol naw thats a lie there. Tbh Ive seen water signs do it the most
It depends if they are air signs it's normal. 👍🏼
If you are guy, women cheat more. If you are a woman, men cheat more.. so it depends on which way you're coming from.
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Libra4rmTX
... I honestly think women cheat more than men. They just hide it longer and better. What yall think?
Nah.
To each its own ma'am.click to expand
Lol. Didn't mean to come off curt. I just wasn't in the mood to elaborate (moody moon). Most did a pretty good job explaining why it's pretty balanced. Anyway, your original statement was women cheat more, however the only thing that was really argued/presented was why it's possibly easier for women to cheat. Just because something is easier doesn't mean one has to take that route. Therefore I'm not fully convinced they cheat more.
As for another comment you made, putting bias aside, I don't know if water signs cheat the most. They simply make a whole drama series about it when they do. Long elaborate confessions (in order to hurt oppose to clearing their conscious---although that is usually the claim), passive aggressive posts on social media, turning the side dick/chick into bae when they really should have just stayed on the side, so it usually doesn't work out. I find the more detached the person (which can be attributed to astro sign) the less drama.
Air: I cheated. The end. Onto to the next....
Fire: Wait, wut? I cheated? I wasn't even in a relationship....*scratch head*
Earth: If I cheated, I am sure there was is a reasonable explanation as to why it's your fault. I do regret not ending it sooner though....*silently broods---after all work/home responsibilities are completed of course*
Water: *after posting a meme about broken hearts* writes a long a** book on social media about following your heart and finding the "one". Cheated partner post on page telling them to burn in hell...Cheater ignores, but pms new bae that old flame is "clearly devastated" activating new bae to check out social media page, new bae post something on page about stealing the best thing in the world from a simp/basic bitch and how happy they make the cheating partner.
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Mtnboy
I agree. Women have men lining up waiting for a chance and have way more options.
Exactly. A man has to actively go out and seek opportunities. Women not so much.click to expand
well I don't do shit and women seem to slip and fall on my dick all the time lol.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Libra4rmTX
... I honestly think women cheat more than men. They just hide it longer and better. What yall think?
Nah.
To each its own ma'am.
Lol. Didn't mean to come off curt. I just wasn't in the mood to elaborate (moody moon). Most did a pretty good job explaining why it's pretty balanced. Anyway, your original statement was women cheat more, however the only thing that was really argued/presented was why it's possibly easier for women to cheat. Just because something is easier doesn't mean one has to take that route. Therefore I'm not fully convinced they cheat more.
As for another comment you made, putting bias aside, I don't know if water signs cheat the most. They simply make a whole drama series about it when they do. Long elaborate confessions (in order to hurt oppose to clearing their conscious---although that is usually the claim), passive aggressive posts on social media, turning the side dick/chick into bae when they really should have just stayed on the side, so it usually doesn't work out. I find the more detached the person (which can be attributed to astro sign) the less drama.
Air: I cheated. The end. Onto to the next....
Fire: Wait, wut? I cheated? I wasn't even in a relationship....*scratch head*
Earth: If I cheated, I am sure there was is a reasonable explanation as to why it's your fault. I do regret not ending it sooner though....*silently broods---after all work/home responsibilities are completed of course*
Water: *after posting a meme about broken hearts* writes a long a** book on social media about following your heart and finding the "one". Cheated partner post on page telling them to burn in hell...Cheater ignores, but pms new bae that old flame is "clearly devastated" activating new bae to check out social media page, new bae post something on page about stealing the best thing in the world from a simp/basic bitch and how happy they make the cheating partner.click to expand
Oh I didnt take ya orignal post that way I responded like that hoping you would elaborate lol I definitely agree with the drawn out water confessions. Its more of a deflection than anything. Jesus the way you described it further down was spot on too lol
I guess I should have said easier. But I kinda went the baiting route I cant lie lol
Posted by Librasetting777Well lucky you cuz I gotta put in work lolPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Mtnboy
I agree. Women have men lining up waiting for a chance and have way more options.
Exactly. A man has to actively go out and seek opportunities. Women not so much.
well I don't do shit and women seem to slip and fall on my dick all the time lol.click to expand
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Librasetting777Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Mtnboy
I agree. Women have men lining up waiting for a chance and have way more options.
Exactly. A man has to actively go out and seek opportunities. Women not so much.
well I don't do shit and women seem to slip and fall on my dick all the time lol.
Well lucky you cuz I gotta put in work lolclick to expand
well that's why i avoid Martin women lol bro cuz they gonna make you work 😂
Posted by Libra4rmTX
I guess I should have said easier. But I kinda went the baiting route I cant lie lol
#LeebCharm
Posted by Hypnotoad
"I just wasn't in the mood to elaborate" 0 to 100 real quick
Lol, eh...my mood switches a lot in a span of 24 hours. Hell, my mood can switch every hour or so...use to drive my mother crazy.
Eh, that's what happens when you place a fickle moon in an overly saturated black and white chart. Going between the two extremes is to be expected.
Not all people cheat given the opportunity.. I’m very happy my ex & I were loyal. Not that the marriage was always good, just not something either of us ever considered. Honestly, even when I left it was not for someone else. It was for myself.
My view on life is, you’re not happy, leave. Too many of those who don’t leave, cheat.
My view on life is, you’re not happy, leave. Too many of those who don’t leave, cheat.
Posted by PhoenixRisingCtfu @ “my moody moon” 😂Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Libra4rmTX
... I honestly think women cheat more than men. They just hide it longer and better. What yall think?
Nah.
To each its own ma'am.
Lol. Didn't mean to come off curt. I just wasn't in the mood to elaborate (moody moon). Most did a pretty good job explaining why it's pretty balanced. Anyway, your original statement was women cheat more, however the only thing that was really argued/presented was why it's possibly easier for women to cheat. Just because something is easier doesn't mean one has to take that route. Therefore I'm not fully convinced they cheat more.
As for another comment you made, putting bias aside, I don't know if water signs cheat the most. They simply make a whole drama series about it when they do. Long elaborate confessions (in order to hurt oppose to clearing their conscious---although that is usually the claim), passive aggressive posts on social media, turning the side dick/chick into bae when they really should have just stayed on the side, so it usually doesn't work out. I find the more detached the person (which can be attributed to astro sign) the less drama.
Air: I cheated. The end. Onto to the next....
Fire: Wait, wut? I cheated? I wasn't even in a relationship....*scratch head*
Earth: If I cheated, I am sure there was is a reasonable explanation as to why it's your fault. I do regret not ending it sooner though....*silently broods---after all work/home responsibilities are completed of course*
Water: *after posting a meme about broken hearts* writes a long a** book on social media about following your heart and finding the "one". Cheated partner post on page telling them to burn in hell...Cheater ignores, but pms new bae that old flame is "clearly devastated" activating new bae to check out social media page, new bae post something on page about stealing the best thing in the world from a simp/basic bitch and how happy they make the cheating partner.click to expand
Have you ever noticed that people with certain moon signs are better equipped to deal with your moody moon, over others 🤔? If so, Which ones?
I know 3 Gem ♊️ moons and they are all moody af 😂🤦🏽♀️
Posted by Sleepyquantro1
Ctfu @ “my moody moon” 😂
Have you ever noticed that people with certain moon signs are better equipped to deal with your moody moon, over others 🤔? If so, Which ones?
I know 3 Gem ♊️ moons and they are all moody af 😂🤦🏽♀️
Yeah, we can be very moody. I am often told that my mood shift can change the whole feel in a room, and others can feel it easily. I often just get deathly quiet and retreat to focus on one of the million projects I have going on. You can't engage me in any way when I'm in that state. My partner will joke and tell me he's going to get a winter coat and just leave me alone until I snap out of it. You can only imagine how I was when I was a kid/teenager lol. Similarly I would get quiet and just write. The process of focusing on something else helps me shift my mood back and it's like nothing happened.
I would say, Leeb Moon ONLY if they are paired with a Mutable Sun. Gem, Virgo and Sag Suns overall have the easiest time, and adapt well when my mood shifts even when it is sudden and without warning. Leo Moons can also adapt to my mood shift well enough, ONLY if paired with a Gem or Virgo Sun---although I am sure they don't like it.
If I had to guess, I think it's more about the pairing between the Sun and the Moon vs the Moon alone. I say this because I know a Fish Sun/Gem Moon and Crab Sun/Gem Moon and oddly enough they tend to personalize my mood shift. Same with an Aqua Sun/Leeb Moon. When they personalize that sh*t, they hold onto that longer than my mood shift lol.
Posted by Libra4rmTXThat's not what I see on TV, its only men who are baddies. Bad bad bad baddies
Ok. This go round my Dxp experience has been great and even spiritual. But I honestly think women cheat more than men. They just hide it longer and better. What yall think?
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