My husband called me a slut and a sex addict. I need opinions
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Sidney0304 on Tuesday, August 7, 2018 and has 13 replies.
So my husband and I barely have sex. Like twice a month because of his very low sex drive.
He's never shown interest in sex. Even when I mention it he ignores me or changes the subject. I got fed up because it's been going on for 2 years. I've tried things and I don't find him attractive anymore because he doesn't make an effort in pleasing me or making me feel attractive.
I had a serious talk and told him we should separate because I don't want to cheat on him in the future. I'd rather leave him. The result was that he said I wasn't allowed to cheat on him otherwise there would be consequences. Then he called me a sex addict and said: "you're a slut. If you want sex so badly then go out and have it slut".
I've never felt so offended. I do everything for him. I cook every night after coming from work and wash his dirty dishes.
I don't know what to do because he doesn't want to get separated. Do you think it's worth for me to stay with him after this? He even told me that I just need to stay quiet.
I should have the right to walk away but he's causing too much drama.
He's never shown interest in sex. Even when I mention it he ignores me or changes the subject. I got fed up because it's been going on for 2 years. I've tried things and I don't find him attractive anymore because he doesn't make an effort in pleasing me or making me feel attractive.
I had a serious talk and told him we should separate because I don't want to cheat on him in the future. I'd rather leave him. The result was that he said I wasn't allowed to cheat on him otherwise there would be consequences. Then he called me a sex addict and said: "you're a slut. If you want sex so badly then go out and have it slut".
I've never felt so offended. I do everything for him. I cook every night after coming from work and wash his dirty dishes.
I don't know what to do because he doesn't want to get separated. Do you think it's worth for me to stay with him after this? He even told me that I just need to stay quiet.
I should have the right to walk away but he's causing too much drama.
What does he do for you?
Why stay? You don’t think you can find someone who will have sex with you and maybe help with some of the House work or will allow you if you wanted to to stay home and work on things you want to do? Or whatever it is you want? Someone who will love you and not degrade and demean you?
Why stay? You don’t think you can find someone who will have sex with you and maybe help with some of the House work or will allow you if you wanted to to stay home and work on things you want to do? Or whatever it is you want? Someone who will love you and not degrade and demean you?
What’s sign for research purposes?
Is his junk broken, he could not wanna let U know that?
For me- sex is a big part of a relationship.... that intimacy, that bond, the oneness. I couldn’t go completely without it.
But I don’t think u should be getting opinions on breaking up ur marriage. A marriage is precious, and if ur gonna have to end it’s connect- I think it should be totally up to u to think about. Ur gonna have to figure it out alone.........don’t search for validation from outside ur marriage.
Your husband should be giving you all the answers you need. And even if he isn’t talking- that’s still an answer
* cyber hugs*🤗🤗
I’m sorry ur going thro this
And good luck
For me- sex is a big part of a relationship.... that intimacy, that bond, the oneness. I couldn’t go completely without it.
But I don’t think u should be getting opinions on breaking up ur marriage. A marriage is precious, and if ur gonna have to end it’s connect- I think it should be totally up to u to think about. Ur gonna have to figure it out alone.........don’t search for validation from outside ur marriage.
Your husband should be giving you all the answers you need. And even if he isn’t talking- that’s still an answer
* cyber hugs*🤗🤗
I’m sorry ur going thro this
And good luck
Are you a Pisces? I've been reading up on them. I hear pray-tell that they love sex. But then doesn't everybody? Obviously not. Hehe.
Posted by -sierra-Are they Christians? 🤣😂😅
how'd you guys even get married in the first place? are you christians? what are your signs?
Posted by -sierra-Mormons, maybe.Posted by Dough_Boydon't act like you didn't think itPosted by -sierra-Are they Christians? 🤣😂😅
how'd you guys even get married in the first place? are you christians? what are your signs?click to expand
How was his sex drive before you got married? Is there anything good he does for you?
Posted by LaMadrina😅😅😅😅
You want me to beat him with my chancla?
Posted by JayquellinOh happy face! A lot of men don’t want sex. You are lucky you haven’t experienced that nonsense!
I know it’s a big decision, but I would leave him and go out and find someone who will love you and want to have sex with you. Him calling you names like that is totally abusive. Is there a chance he’s gay or possibly an alien? Just never heard of a man not wanting to have sex. He could be very depressed.... still doesn’t excuse him calling you names for wanting to be sexual.
I would make your mind up about what you’re going to do and tell him very matter of factly that you’re leaving. Do you have children or anything?
Lazy asses find their ‘high’ in other places where ass is on a couch and TV showing them movies and they don’t have to DO anything...
And what do you mean ‘children or anyrhing’? I am lmao...like what? Reptiles or exotic animals? Lol
Posted by KoniNooooo! He will press charges and she will be screwed...sorry...not the way she wanted...but other way! Lol
You should punch him in the face then leave
@Sidney0304
Baby, honey, love...I had not had any for...sit down...14 years...
I had not paid any attention to it because I thought it’s ok and I was busy...
THEN I wake up by someone who woke me up and now I am beating my brain thinking...what an idiot I was!
Get out! Start anew. Get a life. Don’t die before your time. It’s all in your hands.
Baby, honey, love...I had not had any for...sit down...14 years...
I had not paid any attention to it because I thought it’s ok and I was busy...
THEN I wake up by someone who woke me up and now I am beating my brain thinking...what an idiot I was!
Get out! Start anew. Get a life. Don’t die before your time. It’s all in your hands.
Posted by JayquellinPosted by Gemitati“Children or anything” as in:Posted by JayquellinOh happy face! A lot of men don’t want sex. You are lucky you haven’t experienced that nonsense!
I know it’s a big decision, but I would leave him and go out and find someone who will love you and want to have sex with you. Him calling you names like that is totally abusive. Is there a chance he’s gay or possibly an alien? Just never heard of a man not wanting to have sex. He could be very depressed.... still doesn’t excuse him calling you names for wanting to be sexual.
I would make your mind up about what you’re going to do and tell him very matter of factly that you’re leaving. Do you have children or anything?
Lazy asses find their ‘high’ in other places where ass is on a couch and TV showing them movies and they don’t have to DO anything...
And what do you mean ‘children or anyrhing’? I am lmao...like what? Reptiles or exotic animals? Lol
-children
-his kid from another relationship/ her kid from another relationship that they parent together
-a dog
-a cat
-a gold fish
-a blender they both really love and therefore could make the split harder.
-anything that would make it harder for her to simply grab her shit and go.click to expand
Sorry...I am not that deep! I mean I am more shallow...lmao...🤣💦
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