Posted by MyStarsShineWhy do that?
Venus in Scorpio stalking?
Surely not
😃🥴🤡
Posted by crixusgemPluto ruled Scorpio finds it very hard to let go....Posted by MyStarsShine
Venus in Scorpio stalking?
Surely not
😃🥴🤡
Why do that?
Doors is open for the future? Otherwise you just keep the wounds open and don't walk towards the future... 🙄
Any advice?click to expand
Posted by WeedsWhy ?
I'm jealous.
Posted by crixusgemIf she broke it off and is checking for signs that you miss her THAT is a rare occasion.Posted by Weeds
I'm jealous.
Why ?click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Yes, pride. Both.
Why not just contact her? 🙄
I check in on anyone that I have loved.
The fact that she didn’t watch your stories and only checked them when she thought you wouldn’t know makes it seem like she misses you but for whatever reason doesn’t want to bother you with it. -Probably her pride.
If you miss her then hit her up and start talking to her again.
It’s pretty easy to fix. Instead of this trap game that no one wins.
Posted by KrabssWhen I fall in love I am obsessed, true. But every time I say bye to a girl, even with doubts or the door half open, I very rarely look or watch their social media for curiosity or care or whatever... And if I do, it's once in a blue moon
You actually sound stalkerish. She is just watching what is public.
Posted by crixusgemJust contact her and tell her you miss her and love her- How is that not trusting?Posted by saggurl88
Why not just contact her? 🙄
I check in on anyone that I have loved.
The fact that she didn’t watch your stories and only checked them when she thought you wouldn’t know makes it seem like she misses you but for whatever reason doesn’t want to bother you with it. -Probably her pride.
If you miss her then hit her up and start talking to her again.
It’s pretty easy to fix. Instead of this trap game that no one wins.
Yes, pride. Both.
Checking close to every day? 5 months?
Yes, I miss her so much.
How can you fix that she doesn't trust you? She has a problem with men (big old wounds). I'm very social but I am in love with her and love her as I have never loved anyone. I always been loyal and faithful with all my gfs but she has trust issues. I always was honest with her and no secrets but I'm Scorpio Mars too and have my wounds and it's not always easy for me to open up. 🤔🤷♂️
Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate it! 💯click to expand
Posted by crixusgemWell that doesn’t seem like you care if you can just turn that off, in a black & white way.Posted by Krabss
You actually sound stalkerish. She is just watching what is public.
When I fall in love I am obsessed, true. But every time I say bye to a girl, even with doubts or the door half open, I very rarely look or watch their social media for curiosity or care or whatever... And if I do, it's once in a blue moonclick to expand
Posted by ImperfectStormThanks for the insight. And I agree with VULNERABILITY.Posted by crixusgemPosted by saggurl88
Why not just contact her? 🙄
I check in on anyone that I have loved.
The fact that she didn’t watch your stories and only checked them when she thought you wouldn’t know makes it seem like she misses you but for whatever reason doesn’t want to bother you with it. -Probably her pride.
If you miss her then hit her up and start talking to her again.
It’s pretty easy to fix. Instead of this trap game that no one wins.
Yes, pride. Both.
Checking close to every day? 5 months?
Yes, I miss her so much.
How can you fix that she doesn't trust you? She has a problem with men (big old wounds). I'm very social but I am in love with her and love her as I have never loved anyone. I always been loyal and faithful with all my gfs but she has trust issues. I always was honest with her and no secrets but I'm Scorpio Mars too and have my wounds and it's not always easy for me to open up. 🤔🤷♂️
Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate it! 💯
Vulnerability, NOT game playing is how to win her back. Swallow your pride and be vulnerable. She will never trust you as long as you keep these power struggles going, and you won’t win.click to expand
Posted by crixusgemNo need to worry. She still obsessed and checking up on you is like reading the newspaper. It’s routine.Posted by MyStarsShine
Venus in Scorpio stalking?
Surely not
😃🥴🤡
Why do that?
Doors is open for the future? Otherwise you just keep the wounds open and don't walk towards the future... 🙄
Any advice?click to expand
Posted by ImperfectStormFrom what I gathered from the other Sagittarius/Gemini posts,Posted by crixusgemPosted by saggurl88
Why not just contact her? 🙄
I check in on anyone that I have loved.
The fact that she didn’t watch your stories and only checked them when she thought you wouldn’t know makes it seem like she misses you but for whatever reason doesn’t want to bother you with it. -Probably her pride.
If you miss her then hit her up and start talking to her again.
It’s pretty easy to fix. Instead of this trap game that no one wins.
Yes, pride. Both.
Checking close to every day? 5 months?
Yes, I miss her so much.
How can you fix that she doesn't trust you? She has a problem with men (big old wounds). I'm very social but I am in love with her and love her as I have never loved anyone. I always been loyal and faithful with all my gfs but she has trust issues. I always was honest with her and no secrets but I'm Scorpio Mars too and have my wounds and it's not always easy for me to open up. 🤔🤷♂️
Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate it! 💯
Vulnerability, NOT game playing is how to win her back. Swallow your pride and be vulnerable. She will never trust you as long as you keep these power struggles going, and you won’t win.click to expand
Posted by PuzzlePiecesWatching photos is caring? Sorry, I don't usually do that with ex lovers. I had to stop because otherwise I can't move on. But don't get me wrong. The things that count, If she had any real problem I would do anything to helpPosted by crixusgemPosted by Krabss
You actually sound stalkerish. She is just watching what is public.
When I fall in love I am obsessed, true. But every time I say bye to a girl, even with doubts or the door half open, I very rarely look or watch their social media for curiosity or care or whatever... And if I do, it's once in a blue moon
Well that doesn’t seem like you care if you can just turn that off, in a black & white way.
If someone doesn’t trust, then you have to earn it. I’m wondering what happened in the relationship.. it’s not always about their past but perhaps the present triggering the past. That's a big on/off switch when you’ve actually cared about/loved someone. That behavior does not seem like you cared. She seems like she cared, she’s paying attention.click to expand
Posted by crixusgemSeems like something else is interfering. You guys have broken up twice already? What is she doubting if you are being as loyal as you say? People don't have break ups for no reason.Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by crixusgemPosted by saggurl88
Why not just contact her? 🙄
I check in on anyone that I have loved.
The fact that she didn’t watch your stories and only checked them when she thought you wouldn’t know makes it seem like she misses you but for whatever reason doesn’t want to bother you with it. -Probably her pride.
If you miss her then hit her up and start talking to her again.
It’s pretty easy to fix. Instead of this trap game that no one wins.
Yes, pride. Both.
Checking close to every day? 5 months?
Yes, I miss her so much.
How can you fix that she doesn't trust you? She has a problem with men (big old wounds). I'm very social but I am in love with her and love her as I have never loved anyone. I always been loyal and faithful with all my gfs but she has trust issues. I always was honest with her and no secrets but I'm Scorpio Mars too and have my wounds and it's not always easy for me to open up. 🤔🤷♂️
Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate it! 💯
Vulnerability, NOT game playing is how to win her back. Swallow your pride and be vulnerable. She will never trust you as long as you keep these power struggles going, and you won’t win.
Thanks for the insight. And I agree with VULNERABILITY.
I just did as she asked me for, when she broke up. She said to cut all contact. It hurt a lot. But I did.
Prior to this, I already spent 5-6 months (previous breakup) texting, trying to meet up, etc and she was avoiding me. Finally we came back for 2 months. She said she had met people but never found a connection like ours. Anyways, after reuniting, some days she was super happy, other days doubting. Until this breakup happened. Then I just stopped trying and tried to move on but I can'tclick to expand
Posted by crixusgemDistance is a defense mechanism. And breaking up goes one of 2 ways.. you don’t care and you never talk again, pay attention etc. you move on. Or you have trouble letting go fully and you pay attention to what they are doing. If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t do that.Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by Krabss
You actually sound stalkerish. She is just watching what is public.
When I fall in love I am obsessed, true. But every time I say bye to a girl, even with doubts or the door half open, I very rarely look or watch their social media for curiosity or care or whatever... And if I do, it's once in a blue moon
Well that doesn’t seem like you care if you can just turn that off, in a black & white way.
If someone doesn’t trust, then you have to earn it. I’m wondering what happened in the relationship.. it’s not always about their past but perhaps the present triggering the past. That's a big on/off switch when you’ve actually cared about/loved someone. That behavior does not seem like you cared. She seems like she cared, she’s paying attention.
Watching photos is caring? Sorry, I don't usually do that with ex lovers. I had to stop because otherwise I can't move on. But don't get me wrong. The things that count, If she had any real problem I would do anything to help
The day she left me she said she had recently realized how her old wound (many years before meeting me) had affected her so much, a lot more than what she thought.
She is so distant with men, even her dad (almost non existant relationship)click to expand
Posted by DMVMost Gemini men have to be taught to be direct, otherwise they will do this and you will get no where with them.Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by crixusgemPosted by saggurl88
Why not just contact her? 🙄
I check in on anyone that I have loved.
The fact that she didn’t watch your stories and only checked them when she thought you wouldn’t know makes it seem like she misses you but for whatever reason doesn’t want to bother you with it. -Probably her pride.
If you miss her then hit her up and start talking to her again.
It’s pretty easy to fix. Instead of this trap game that no one wins.
Yes, pride. Both.
Checking close to every day? 5 months?
Yes, I miss her so much.
How can you fix that she doesn't trust you? She has a problem with men (big old wounds). I'm very social but I am in love with her and love her as I have never loved anyone. I always been loyal and faithful with all my gfs but she has trust issues. I always was honest with her and no secrets but I'm Scorpio Mars too and have my wounds and it's not always easy for me to open up. 🤔🤷♂️
Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate it! 💯
Vulnerability, NOT game playing is how to win her back. Swallow your pride and be vulnerable. She will never trust you as long as you keep these power struggles going, and you won’t win.
From what I gathered from the other Sagittarius/Gemini posts,
Gemini don’t like the direct approach.
They like to play with their food.click to expand
Posted by PuzzlePiecesLol when people say it's over, it's over. If she has problem letting go its easy: COMMUNICATION. Say "hey I miss you, how are you? can we talk things?"Posted by crixusgemPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by Krabss
You actually sound stalkerish. She is just watching what is public.
When I fall in love I am obsessed, true. But every time I say bye to a girl, even with doubts or the door half open, I very rarely look or watch their social media for curiosity or care or whatever... And if I do, it's once in a blue moon
Well that doesn’t seem like you care if you can just turn that off, in a black & white way.
If someone doesn’t trust, then you have to earn it. I’m wondering what happened in the relationship.. it’s not always about their past but perhaps the present triggering the past. That's a big on/off switch when you’ve actually cared about/loved someone. That behavior does not seem like you cared. She seems like she cared, she’s paying attention.
Watching photos is caring? Sorry, I don't usually do that with ex lovers. I had to stop because otherwise I can't move on. But don't get me wrong. The things that count, If she had any real problem I would do anything to help
The day she left me she said she had recently realized how her old wound (many years before meeting me) had affected her so much, a lot more than what she thought.
She is so distant with men, even her dad (almost non existant relationship)
Distance is a defense mechanism. And breaking up goes one of 2 ways.. you don’t care and you never talk again, pay attention etc. you move on. Or you have trouble letting go fully and you pay attention to what they are doing. If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t do that.
I’m sorry that way of breaking up almost seems a cry for help. You never talked to her again, so seems she was right.click to expand
Posted by PuzzlePiecesIn fact, a few days ago I ate my pride and wished her a Happy Birthday and said hope everything is going wellPosted by crixusgemPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by Krabss
You actually sound stalkerish. She is just watching what is public.
When I fall in love I am obsessed, true. But every time I say bye to a girl, even with doubts or the door half open, I very rarely look or watch their social media for curiosity or care or whatever... And if I do, it's once in a blue moon
Well that doesn’t seem like you care if you can just turn that off, in a black & white way.
If someone doesn’t trust, then you have to earn it. I’m wondering what happened in the relationship.. it’s not always about their past but perhaps the present triggering the past. That's a big on/off switch when you’ve actually cared about/loved someone. That behavior does not seem like you cared. She seems like she cared, she’s paying attention.
Watching photos is caring? Sorry, I don't usually do that with ex lovers. I had to stop because otherwise I can't move on. But don't get me wrong. The things that count, If she had any real problem I would do anything to help
The day she left me she said she had recently realized how her old wound (many years before meeting me) had affected her so much, a lot more than what she thought.
She is so distant with men, even her dad (almost non existant relationship)
Distance is a defense mechanism. And breaking up goes one of 2 ways.. you don’t care and you never talk again, pay attention etc. you move on. Or you have trouble letting go fully and you pay attention to what they are doing. If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t do that.
I’m sorry that way of breaking up almost seems a cry for help. You never talked to her again, so seems she was right.click to expand
Posted by crixusgemDid she message back?Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by Krabss
You actually sound stalkerish. She is just watching what is public.
When I fall in love I am obsessed, true. But every time I say bye to a girl, even with doubts or the door half open, I very rarely look or watch their social media for curiosity or care or whatever... And if I do, it's once in a blue moon
Well that doesn’t seem like you care if you can just turn that off, in a black & white way.
If someone doesn’t trust, then you have to earn it. I’m wondering what happened in the relationship.. it’s not always about their past but perhaps the present triggering the past. That's a big on/off switch when you’ve actually cared about/loved someone. That behavior does not seem like you cared. She seems like she cared, she’s paying attention.
Watching photos is caring? Sorry, I don't usually do that with ex lovers. I had to stop because otherwise I can't move on. But don't get me wrong. The things that count, If she had any real problem I would do anything to help
The day she left me she said she had recently realized how her old wound (many years before meeting me) had affected her so much, a lot more than what she thought.
She is so distant with men, even her dad (almost non existant relationship)
Distance is a defense mechanism. And breaking up goes one of 2 ways.. you don’t care and you never talk again, pay attention etc. you move on. Or you have trouble letting go fully and you pay attention to what they are doing. If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t do that.
I’m sorry that way of breaking up almost seems a cry for help. You never talked to her again, so seems she was right.
In fact, a few days ago I ate my pride and wished her a Happy Birthday and said hope everything is going wellclick to expand
Posted by crixusgemJust saying that it seems like you were done. Not sure about her. But, look that got more information from you about the situation lolPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by Krabss
You actually sound stalkerish. She is just watching what is public.
When I fall in love I am obsessed, true. But every time I say bye to a girl, even with doubts or the door half open, I very rarely look or watch their social media for curiosity or care or whatever... And if I do, it's once in a blue moon
Well that doesn’t seem like you care if you can just turn that off, in a black & white way.
If someone doesn’t trust, then you have to earn it. I’m wondering what happened in the relationship.. it’s not always about their past but perhaps the present triggering the past. That's a big on/off switch when you’ve actually cared about/loved someone. That behavior does not seem like you cared. She seems like she cared, she’s paying attention.
Watching photos is caring? Sorry, I don't usually do that with ex lovers. I had to stop because otherwise I can't move on. But don't get me wrong. The things that count, If she had any real problem I would do anything to help
The day she left me she said she had recently realized how her old wound (many years before meeting me) had affected her so much, a lot more than what she thought.
She is so distant with men, even her dad (almost non existant relationship)
Distance is a defense mechanism. And breaking up goes one of 2 ways.. you don’t care and you never talk again, pay attention etc. you move on. Or you have trouble letting go fully and you pay attention to what they are doing. If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t do that.
I’m sorry that way of breaking up almost seems a cry for help. You never talked to her again, so seems she was right.
In fact, a few days ago I ate my pride and wished her a Happy Birthday and said hope everything is going wellclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88Yes, she said: Thank you very much, Crixus, what a surprise! All great yeees, I hope you are also happy! KissPosted by crixusgemPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by Krabss
You actually sound stalkerish. She is just watching what is public.
When I fall in love I am obsessed, true. But every time I say bye to a girl, even with doubts or the door half open, I very rarely look or watch their social media for curiosity or care or whatever... And if I do, it's once in a blue moon
Well that doesn’t seem like you care if you can just turn that off, in a black & white way.
If someone doesn’t trust, then you have to earn it. I’m wondering what happened in the relationship.. it’s not always about their past but perhaps the present triggering the past. That's a big on/off switch when you’ve actually cared about/loved someone. That behavior does not seem like you cared. She seems like she cared, she’s paying attention.
Watching photos is caring? Sorry, I don't usually do that with ex lovers. I had to stop because otherwise I can't move on. But don't get me wrong. The things that count, If she had any real problem I would do anything to help
The day she left me she said she had recently realized how her old wound (many years before meeting me) had affected her so much, a lot more than what she thought.
She is so distant with men, even her dad (almost non existant relationship)
Distance is a defense mechanism. And breaking up goes one of 2 ways.. you don’t care and you never talk again, pay attention etc. you move on. Or you have trouble letting go fully and you pay attention to what they are doing. If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t do that.
I’m sorry that way of breaking up almost seems a cry for help. You never talked to her again, so seems she was right.
In fact, a few days ago I ate my pride and wished her a Happy Birthday and said hope everything is going well
Did she message back?click to expand
Posted by peachy06I was being sarcastic 😃Posted by MyStarsShine
Venus in Scorpio stalking?
Surely not
😃🥴🤡
Don't lie.click to expand
Posted by Weeds
Don't listen to these sag women they give bad advice to Gemini men just look at their post history.
Send the sag a dick pick and tell that ho when she grows some ovaries that dick will be their for her.
Posted by Hypnotoad
Not even following you in her car or keying yours. Shit story 3/10.
Posted by WeedsHe hasn’t got the balls to send a stock dick pic, let alone his own
Don't listen to these sag women they give bad advice to Gemini men just look at their post history.
Send the sag a dick pick and tell that ho when she grows some ovaries that dick will be their for her.
Posted by crixusgemYou should’ve said no I’m not happy, I’m miserable with out you. Bring that ass over here and stop playing with me 😏😄🤪Posted by saggurl88Posted by crixusgemPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by Krabss
You actually sound stalkerish. She is just watching what is public.
When I fall in love I am obsessed, true. But every time I say bye to a girl, even with doubts or the door half open, I very rarely look or watch their social media for curiosity or care or whatever... And if I do, it's once in a blue moon
Well that doesn’t seem like you care if you can just turn that off, in a black & white way.
If someone doesn’t trust, then you have to earn it. I’m wondering what happened in the relationship.. it’s not always about their past but perhaps the present triggering the past. That's a big on/off switch when you’ve actually cared about/loved someone. That behavior does not seem like you cared. She seems like she cared, she’s paying attention.
Watching photos is caring? Sorry, I don't usually do that with ex lovers. I had to stop because otherwise I can't move on. But don't get me wrong. The things that count, If she had any real problem I would do anything to help
The day she left me she said she had recently realized how her old wound (many years before meeting me) had affected her so much, a lot more than what she thought.
She is so distant with men, even her dad (almost non existant relationship)
Distance is a defense mechanism. And breaking up goes one of 2 ways.. you don’t care and you never talk again, pay attention etc. you move on. Or you have trouble letting go fully and you pay attention to what they are doing. If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t do that.
I’m sorry that way of breaking up almost seems a cry for help. You never talked to her again, so seems she was right.
In fact, a few days ago I ate my pride and wished her a Happy Birthday and said hope everything is going well
Did she message back?
Yes, she said: Thank you very much, Crixus, what a surprise! All great yeees, I hope you are also happy! Kissclick to expand
Posted by crixusgemWhoa! Did it hurt?Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by crixusgemPosted by Krabss
You actually sound stalkerish. She is just watching what is public.
When I fall in love I am obsessed, true. But every time I say bye to a girl, even with doubts or the door half open, I very rarely look or watch their social media for curiosity or care or whatever... And if I do, it's once in a blue moon
Well that doesn’t seem like you care if you can just turn that off, in a black & white way.
If someone doesn’t trust, then you have to earn it. I’m wondering what happened in the relationship.. it’s not always about their past but perhaps the present triggering the past. That's a big on/off switch when you’ve actually cared about/loved someone. That behavior does not seem like you cared. She seems like she cared, she’s paying attention.
Watching photos is caring? Sorry, I don't usually do that with ex lovers. I had to stop because otherwise I can't move on. But don't get me wrong. The things that count, If she had any real problem I would do anything to help
The day she left me she said she had recently realized how her old wound (many years before meeting me) had affected her so much, a lot more than what she thought.
She is so distant with men, even her dad (almost non existant relationship)
Distance is a defense mechanism. And breaking up goes one of 2 ways.. you don’t care and you never talk again, pay attention etc. you move on. Or you have trouble letting go fully and you pay attention to what they are doing. If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t do that.
I’m sorry that way of breaking up almost seems a cry for help. You never talked to her again, so seems she was right.
In fact, a few days ago I ate my pride and wished her a Happy Birthday and said hope everything is going wellclick to expand
Posted by WeedsThis is why you’re jealous that she’s stalking him and a Sag didn’t stalk you 😂😂😂
Don't listen to these sag women they give bad advice to Gemini men just look at their post history.
Send the sag a dick pick and tell that ho when she grows some ovaries that dick will be their for her.
Posted by saggurl88You underestimate my leo venus need to pat my ego!Posted by Weeds
Don't listen to these sag women they give bad advice to Gemini men just look at their post history.
Send the sag a dick pick and tell that ho when she grows some ovaries that dick will be their for her.
This is why you’re jealous that she’s stalking him and a Sag didn’t stalk you 😂😂😂
You as a virgo wouldn’t even take your own advice 🙄click to expand
Posted by WeedsI'd pat it all day and then your sun will still be dissatisfied that I didn't worship the ground you walk on and take sips of your bath water!Posted by saggurl88Posted by Weeds
Don't listen to these sag women they give bad advice to Gemini men just look at their post history.
Send the sag a dick pick and tell that ho when she grows some ovaries that dick will be their for her.
This is why you’re jealous that she’s stalking him and a Sag didn’t stalk you 😂😂😂
You as a virgo wouldn’t even take your own advice 🙄
You underestimate my leo venus need to pat my ego!click to expand
Posted by saggurl88My sun has NEVER been that full of myself. I resent that speculative comment!Posted by WeedsPosted by saggurl88Posted by Weeds
Don't listen to these sag women they give bad advice to Gemini men just look at their post history.
Send the sag a dick pick and tell that ho when she grows some ovaries that dick will be their for her.
This is why you’re jealous that she’s stalking him and a Sag didn’t stalk you 😂😂😂
You as a virgo wouldn’t even take your own advice 🙄
You underestimate my leo venus need to pat my ego!
I'd pat it all day and then your sun will still be dissatisfied that I didn't worship the ground you walk on and take sips of your bath water!click to expand
Posted by WeedsThere can only be ONE who is worshipped!!!Posted by saggurl88Posted by WeedsPosted by saggurl88Posted by Weeds
Don't listen to these sag women they give bad advice to Gemini men just look at their post history.
Send the sag a dick pick and tell that ho when she grows some ovaries that dick will be their for her.
This is why you’re jealous that she’s stalking him and a Sag didn’t stalk you 😂😂😂
You as a virgo wouldn’t even take your own advice 🙄
You underestimate my leo venus need to pat my ego!
I'd pat it all day and then your sun will still be dissatisfied that I didn't worship the ground you walk on and take sips of your bath water!
My sun has NEVER been that full of myself. I resent that speculative comment!
Sounds more like your leo mars. Mmhmmclick to expand
Posted by WeedsHahahaha!
@saggurl88 along as whips and chains are included.
Posted by CandymountainWoah. I am sorry to hear that, it must be so painful. You there giving your best and the other party not trusting you due to their past - or someone bad. Something you have nothing to to with. Something you are innocent for. But you pay. Totally not fair. A punishment you don't deserve. Sad.Posted by crixusgem
Sag girl with Scorpio venus. We were like soulmates and had a lot of fun. Then she broke it up 5 months ago. She said she doesn't trust me (she has trust issues with men due to past scars, she has big walls). I never talked with her again.
The next days she viewed the 2 stories I uploaded on Instagram. I was hurting so I removed her from my followers and I stopped following her on IG. A few days later I set my profile public so she and everyone can see.
I started travelling the world and living life to the fullest. And ofc posting amazing pics on IG.
She never again was on the my stories' viewers list. *BUT* then I started to add my stories to Highlights.
Highlights stories older than 24h you can't see who viewed them, BUT if the story is both on HL + regular profile story (the first 24 h), then you can know who views them those 24h.
So I tried this. I uploaded some of the new stories to both my profile + Highlights. Then I watched the viewers... and my ex gf was there!
This happened the first time I tried. 2 months after the breakup. The very first time I did this "trick", she fell for it and she was there on my viewers (probably thinking I won't know - because she clicked HLs instead of my stories. She never has watched regular stories these months)
I tried again 2 weeks later and she again watched my HL story in the first hours I shared it.
This happened 4 times. 4 "traps" I set (one every month), 4 times she is stalking my IG Highlights. 4 out of 4. Probably she does this *every single day*.
I mean Eg: If she only watched my HLs once every 15-30 days, it would be very difficult to exactly watch my story on the first 24 hours, so she would not appear on my viewers list... But she is there falling for it all these months...
The 5th time was 2 weeks ago. I uploaded a story, then HighLighted it, then 2-3h later that same evening, she was there watching it, stalking my IG again... All of this, 5 months after she broke it...
What do you think? Is Venus Scorpio a stalker? Do you have hard time letting go? Is she just curious or could this be obsessed stalking *every-single-day*? Is she having second thoughts but hurt/proud? Will Sagittarius sun/Scorpio venus come back?
What is your experience with this?
My kids dad is a sag with scorpio venus. I would be happy you got away because her obsessive story viewing is just the tip of the toxic ice burg. In a relationship she will probably with hold sex from you for a few years because she is worried your sleeping with someone else...even if you lived together and saw each other every waking moment. I wasted years with My kids dad wondering why he didnt trust me. His answer? "My exes hurt me"
Not my problem. Dude with held sex for 2 mf years.
I have a friend who just divorced his sag sun scorpio venus ex. She did the same thing. Manipulation and abuse in ways like this.
At the end of the day it will.be your fault.click to expand
Posted by TruemaraWell, I bet there are some crazos out there, definitely.
You call this a stalker lol