Need help with Taurus man

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This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😒" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.
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I think you should not contact him. That will make him miss you.. and if he likes you a lot.. he will come to you.
I tried not contacting him for 2 weeks and all it did was make him mad and try to get me jealous to grab my attention but he was still too stubborn to contact me 😒


Damn girl.. why are you making a sad face..

You're just 15... you need to calm down πŸ˜†

It's cool that you talked with him.. take this as an introductory lesson to boys. Think about what happened and what were the nice things you liked about him. And what things you did not like about him.

After making a list... if you say you like him cos he is sweet. Ask yourself why is he sweet.. maybe he send you good morning texts. So do that for all those points.

Also do the same thing with the "what things you don't like about him". Ask yourself why you don't like that about him.

Do that and come back

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Why I liked him

-sweet (sent me good mornings, goodnights)

-treated me like a princess, he was a gentle men

-always asked about everything happening in my life

-never made me do anything that I did not want to do(asked to hold my hand, asked if I was comfortable in this situation)

-the way he treated the people around him such as his friends were amazing, he cared for them so much

-he was really protective

-he looked at me like I was the only girl in the world

-he gave me advice on things but never forced his opinion on me

-the way his moms opinion of him affected him was so amazing

-I loved the way he was so affectionate with me( holding me, kissing me everywhere, whispering in my ear)

- he made me feel really calm and protected

-his vibe was so different from the people that I usually hang out with it felt fresh and it was there kind of vibe that I wanted in my life

- talked about future plans with me like 2 months ahead making me think that he thought we had a future

-would not let me get away with complaining, I liked that

What I don't like about him

-when we weren't together it was like we did it know each other

-really confusing

-hot and cold

-always expects me to make he first move

-when he walks by me in the hallway he makes sure I see him but doesn't say hi to me or look me in the eyes

-started of with really good texting but then it turned into me only initiating texting contact

I know we're only teenagers and this could seem like puppy love and you wonder why I would be chasing this guy but when hes cold I am really upset but when hes hot it's so good and the way he treats me is amazing, and the good outways the bad by so much that I would be willing to do anything just to feel that way again.





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I think you should not contact him. That will make him miss you.. and if he likes you a lot.. he will come to you.
I tried not contacting him for 2 weeks and all it did was make him mad and try to get me jealous to grab my attention but he was still too stubborn to contact me 😒


Damn girl.. why are you making a sad face..

You're just 15... you need to calm down πŸ˜†

It's cool that you talked with him.. take this as an introductory lesson to boys. Think about what happened and what were the nice things you liked about him. And what things you did not like about him.

After making a list... if you say you like him cos he is sweet. Ask yourself why is he sweet.. maybe he send you good morning texts. So do that for all those points.

Also do the same thing with the "what things you don't like about him". Ask yourself why you don't like that about him.

Do that and come back


Why I liked him

-sweet (sent me good mornings, goodnights)

-treated me like a princess, he was a gentle men

-always asked about everything happening in my life

-never made me do anything that I did not want to do(asked to hold my hand, asked if I was comfortable in this situation)

-the way he treated the people around him such as his friends were amazing, he cared for them so much

-he was really protective

-he looked at me like I was the only girl in the world

-he gave me advice on things but never forced his opinion on me

-the way his moms opinion of him affected him was so amazing

-I loved the way he was so affectionate with me( holding me, kissing me everywhere, whispering in my ear)

- he made me feel really calm and protected

-his vibe was so different from the people that I usually hang out with it felt fresh and it was there kind of vibe that I wanted in my life

- talked about future plans with me like 2 months ahead making me think that he thought we had a future

-would not let me get away with complaining, I liked that

What I don't like about him

-when we weren't together it was like we did it know each other

-really confusing

-hot and cold

-always expects me to make he first move

-when he walks by me in the hallway he makes sure I see him but doesn't say hi to me or look me in the eyes

-started of with really good texting but then it turned into me only initiating texting contact

I know we're only teenagers and this could seem like puppy love and you wonder why I would be chasing this guy but when hes cold I am really upset but when hes hot it's so good and the way he treats me is amazing, and the good outways the bad by so much that I would be willing to do anything just to feel that way again.






Ok that was really fast.

But that wasn't what I was talking about... I was talking about his characteristics.

But anyways... you should wait for 2 more weeks and see how he acts.

If he doesn't contact you... it means he does not like you... and you can't change whether a person likes you or not... you will have to accept that and move on.

If he likes you, he will come back.. just give him time.. and until then just be normal with your friends. Don't think about him too much.
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Characteristics

-kind, sweet

-gentlemen

-determined

-opinionated

-affectionate

-protective

-understanding

-mature

-calm,collected

-successful

-weird,funny

-entertaining

-tease

Thanks for your advice I will try not contacting him for 2 more weeks but I heard that for some tauruses if you don't contact them you will lose them forever and I am afraid that that's going to happen. What if he continues to make me jealous? And are there things in the 2 weeks that I can do to improve my chances such as dressing nicer and walking by him? Smiling at him? Saying hi In the hallways? Posting on social media with my friends? Talking to other boys in front of him? Acting like him rejecting me doesn't effect me? Asking around about him?
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I think you should not contact him. That will make him miss you.. and if he likes you a lot.. he will come to you.
I tried not contacting him for 2 weeks and all it did was make him mad and try to get me jealous to grab my attention but he was still too stubborn to contact me 😒


Damn girl.. why are you making a sad face..

You're just 15... you need to calm down πŸ˜†

It's cool that you talked with him.. take this as an introductory lesson to boys. Think about what happened and what were the nice things you liked about him. And what things you did not like about him.

After making a list... if you say you like him cos he is sweet. Ask yourself why is he sweet.. maybe he send you good morning texts. So do that for all those points.

Also do the same thing with the "what things you don't like about him". Ask yourself why you don't like that about him.

Do that and come back


Why I liked him

-sweet (sent me good mornings, goodnights)

-treated me like a princess, he was a gentle men

-always asked about everything happening in my life

-never made me do anything that I did not want to do(asked to hold my hand, asked if I was comfortable in this situation)

-the way he treated the people around him such as his friends were amazing, he cared for them so much

-he was really protective

-he looked at me like I was the only girl in the world

-he gave me advice on things but never forced his opinion on me

-the way his moms opinion of him affected him was so amazing

-I loved the way he was so affectionate with me( holding me, kissing me everywhere, whispering in my ear)

- he made me feel really calm and protected

-his vibe was so different from the people that I usually hang out with it felt fresh and it was there kind of vibe that I wanted in my life

- talked about future plans with me like 2 months ahead making me think that he thought we had a future

-would not let me get away with complaining, I liked that

What I don't like about him

-when we weren't together it was like we did it know each other

-really confusing

-hot and cold

-always expects me to make he first move

-when he walks by me in the hallway he makes sure I see him but doesn't say hi to me or look me in the eyes

-started of with really good texting but then it turned into me only initiating texting contact

I know we're only teenagers and this could seem like puppy love and you wonder why I would be chasing this guy but when hes cold I am really upset but when hes hot it's so good and the way he treats me is amazing, and the good outways the bad by so much that I would be willing to do anything just to feel that way again.






Ok that was really fast.

But that wasn't what I was talking about... I was talking about his characteristics.

But anyways... you should wait for 2 more weeks and see how he acts.

If he doesn't contact you... it means he does not like you... and you can't change whether a person likes you or not... you will have to accept that and move on.

If he likes you, he will come back.. just give him time.. and until then just be normal with your friends. Don't think about him too much.
Characteristics

-kind, sweet

-gentlemen

-determined

-opinionated

-affectionate

-protective

-understanding

-mature

-calm,collected

-successful

-weird,funny

-entertaining

-tease

Thanks for your advice I will try not contacting him for 2 more weeks but I heard that for some tauruses if you don't contact them you will lose them forever and I am afraid that that's going to happen. What if he continues to make me jealous? And are there things in the 2 weeks that I can do to improve my chances such as dressing nicer and walking by him? Smiling at him? Saying hi In the hallways? Posting on social media with my friends? Talking to other boys in front of him? Acting like him rejecting me doesn't effect me? Asking around about him?

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Also I don't know if this has anything to do with anything but during he first 2 weeks when I did not contact him he began posting more on his snapchat story showing him out with friends and stuff and teenagers also do this thing called streaks ons snapchat where u send atleast one picture to each other every day and we still do that so that's like a constant contact thing but he once tried to end it then decided against it and we are still streaming now
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Posted by Astrology101
Posted by Leogirl1238
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I think you should not contact him. That will make him miss you.. and if he likes you a lot.. he will come to you.
I tried not contacting him for 2 weeks and all it did was make him mad and try to get me jealous to grab my attention but he was still too stubborn to contact me 😒


Damn girl.. why are you making a sad face..

You're just 15... you need to calm down πŸ˜†

It's cool that you talked with him.. take this as an introductory lesson to boys. Think about what happened and what were the nice things you liked about him. And what things you did not like about him.

After making a list... if you say you like him cos he is sweet. Ask yourself why is he sweet.. maybe he send you good morning texts. So do that for all those points.

Also do the same thing with the "what things you don't like about him". Ask yourself why you don't like that about him.

Do that and come back


Why I liked him

-sweet (sent me good mornings, goodnights)

-treated me like a princess, he was a gentle men

-always asked about everything happening in my life

-never made me do anything that I did not want to do(asked to hold my hand, asked if I was comfortable in this situation)

-the way he treated the people around him such as his friends were amazing, he cared for them so much

-he was really protective

-he looked at me like I was the only girl in the world

-he gave me advice on things but never forced his opinion on me

-the way his moms opinion of him affected him was so amazing

-I loved the way he was so affectionate with me( holding me, kissing me everywhere, whispering in my ear)

- he made me feel really calm and protected

-his vibe was so different from the people that I usually hang out with it felt fresh and it was there kind of vibe that I wanted in my life

- talked about future plans with me like 2 months ahead making me think that he thought we had a future

-would not let me get away with complaining, I liked that

What I don't like about him

-when we weren't together it was like we did it know each other

-really confusing

-hot and cold

-always expects me to make he first move

-when he walks by me in the hallway he makes sure I see him but doesn't say hi to me or look me in the eyes

-started of with really good texting but then it turned into me only initiating texting contact

I know we're only teenagers and this could seem like puppy love and you wonder why I would be chasing this guy but when hes cold I am really upset but when hes hot it's so good and the way he treats me is amazing, and the good outways the bad by so much that I would be willing to do anything just to feel that way again.






Ok that was really fast.

But that wasn't what I was talking about... I was talking about his characteristics.

But anyways... you should wait for 2 more weeks and see how he acts.

If he doesn't contact you... it means he does not like you... and you can't change whether a person likes you or not... you will have to accept that and move on.

If he likes you, he will come back.. just give him time.. and until then just be normal with your friends. Don't think about him too much.
Characteristics

-kind, sweet

-gentlemen

-determined

-opinionated

-affectionate

-protective

-understanding

-mature

-calm,collected

-successful

-weird,funny

-entertaining

-tease

Thanks for your advice I will try not contacting him for 2 more weeks but I heard that for some tauruses if you don't contact them you will lose them forever and I am afraid that that's going to happen. What if he continues to make me jealous? And are there things in the 2 weeks that I can do to improve my chances such as dressing nicer and walking by him? Smiling at him? Saying hi In the hallways? Posting on social media with my friends? Talking to other boys in front of him? Acting like him rejecting me doesn't effect me? Asking around about him?


Talk with whoever you used to talk to... just be normal. No need to comment/ like his posts. Just do what you used to do before you met him. You can dress just the way you used to dress. No need to ask around him. Just do your own thing. If he comes to talk to you... then talk to him.. otherwise don't. But don't be sad.. just be happy and cheerful.

They like girls who do their own thing. Also no one likes a girl who chases guys after they said no... you don't want a bad name for yourself.
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Thank you for you advice πŸ™‚ I will try my best to be as normal as I possibly can be

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I think you should not contact him. That will make him miss you.. and if he likes you a lot.. he will come to you.
I tried not contacting him for 2 weeks and all it did was make him mad and try to get me jealous to grab my attention but he was still too stubborn to contact me 😒


Damn girl.. why are you making a sad face..

You're just 15... you need to calm down πŸ˜†

It's cool that you talked with him.. take this as an introductory lesson to boys. Think about what happened and what were the nice things you liked about him. And what things you did not like about him.

After making a list... if you say you like him cos he is sweet. Ask yourself why is he sweet.. maybe he send you good morning texts. So do that for all those points.

Also do the same thing with the "what things you don't like about him". Ask yourself why you don't like that about him.

Do that and come back


Why I liked him

-sweet (sent me good mornings, goodnights)

-treated me like a princess, he was a gentle men

-always asked about everything happening in my life

-never made me do anything that I did not want to do(asked to hold my hand, asked if I was comfortable in this situation)

-the way he treated the people around him such as his friends were amazing, he cared for them so much

-he was really protective

-he looked at me like I was the only girl in the world

-he gave me advice on things but never forced his opinion on me

-the way his moms opinion of him affected him was so amazing

-I loved the way he was so affectionate with me( holding me, kissing me everywhere, whispering in my ear)

- he made me feel really calm and protected

-his vibe was so different from the people that I usually hang out with it felt fresh and it was there kind of vibe that I wanted in my life

- talked about future plans with me like 2 months ahead making me think that he thought we had a future

-would not let me get away with complaining, I liked that

What I don't like about him

-when we weren't together it was like we did it know each other

-really confusing

-hot and cold

-always expects me to make he first move

-when he walks by me in the hallway he makes sure I see him but doesn't say hi to me or look me in the eyes

-started of with really good texting but then it turned into me only initiating texting contact

I know we're only teenagers and this could seem like puppy love and you wonder why I would be chasing this guy but when hes cold I am really upset but when hes hot it's so good and the way he treats me is amazing, and the good outways the bad by so much that I would be willing to do anything just to feel that way again.






Ok that was really fast.

But that wasn't what I was talking about... I was talking about his characteristics.

But anyways... you should wait for 2 more weeks and see how he acts.

If he doesn't contact you... it means he does not like you... and you can't change whether a person likes you or not... you will have to accept that and move on.

If he likes you, he will come back.. just give him time.. and until then just be normal with your friends. Don't think about him too much.
Characteristics

-kind, sweet

-gentlemen

-determined

-opinionated

-affectionate

-protective

-understanding

-mature

-calm,collected

-successful

-weird,funny

-entertaining

-tease

Thanks for your advice I will try not contacting him for 2 more weeks but I heard that for some tauruses if you don't contact them you will lose them forever and I am afraid that that's going to happen. What if he continues to make me jealous? And are there things in the 2 weeks that I can do to improve my chances such as dressing nicer and walking by him? Smiling at him? Saying hi In the hallways? Posting on social media with my friends? Talking to other boys in front of him? Acting like him rejecting me doesn't effect me? Asking around about him?


Talk with whoever you used to talk to... just be normal. No need to comment/ like his posts. Just do what you used to do before you met him. You can dress just the way you used to dress. No need to ask around him. Just do your own thing. If he comes to talk to you... then talk to him.. otherwise don't. But don't be sad.. just be happy and cheerful.

They like girls who do their own thing. Also no one likes a girl who chases guys after they said no... you don't want a bad name for yourself.
Thank you for you advice πŸ™‚ I will try my best to be as normal as I possibly can be


Also you said you felt like you don't know each other....

you don't really know him... he could be a really bad guy... so be careful.
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Thanks for caring about me πŸ™‚ but what u meant was when we were together it was really nice but when we were are at school we act like we don't know each other like not saying hi and stuff he has talked to me about it asking me why I don't say hi to him but I am just a bit shy with that kind of stuff especially when he is with his friends who are all 17-18 and I am 15. I believe he truly is a nice guy but he has began smoking for some reason