No clue what to do with this girl

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Ownard on Friday, September 14, 2018 and has 44 replies.
Hey guys,

I'm going to start this off by saying that its really bad to have a crush on a girl thats taken. Its really bad form. I don't intend on doing anything, even if she becomes single. We get along like a house on fire and I would say she is my type but I don't want to ruin such a good, if short, friendship.

Right, to the story:

I met this girl at my college party and while we were both very drunk, we got really close. I was flirty with her at the start of the night but I stopped immediately when I found out ahe was taken. However she wasn't done with me yet, and was practically falling over me all night. I'm a cuddly drunk so I was more than happy to keep hugging her. Before I left, I went into the corridor because my whiskey was having a bad effect on me and she followed me and straddled me. I think the only reason it didn't go further was that her roommate came out to check on me, because we became the best of friends.

The next morning, she snapchatted me and asked me to help her get some shopping. I went along, not remembering most of what happened the night before and we went to and got some food. Her roommate caught wind of this and tagged along, knowing what we were like night prior. She told us about how her boyfriend is shitty and we had a lot of fun.

I had another party that night and while she didn't come, she texted me in the morning and offered to cook me breakfast, which I accepted and it was delicious. She has offered to teach me how to cook. I find it odd because my roommates said that I told them I had a crush on her and they most likely told her. And I find it odd that if she heard thisand still cooked for me and offered to spend more time with me.

Anyway, the point of this is that I want some insight into this situation. I have no clue what is happening. I think she is interested in me, despite being taken but I don't know her enough to tell. I definitely don't want to be that guy that ruins a relationship so I'm doing nothing to pursue her, it wouldn't be right. I am also not going to just ditch her over this, as I find her one of the best people I have met.

So what do you guys think I should do? How should I handle it?
Posted by tiziani

I think getting her to cook your breakfast is deeper than had you both fucked. So it's already too far gone from my pov.
Really? We're both really houseproud but we're better at different things. I'm a good cleaner and she's a good cook. I helped her clean up her friends sick as thanks. Is it that bad that we've hugged every time we've seen each other since we've met?

What do you suggest I do now?
Posted by nakedgirlavalanche

I'm thinking shes digging you especially if she has a shitty bf
Not gonna lie, but he is very shitty. He's borderline emotionally abusive and controlling. I think she might be so used to him that a genuinely good guy like me must be a shock to her system.
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Posted by tiziani

I think getting her to cook your breakfast is deeper than had you both fucked. So it's already too far gone from my pov.
Really? We're both really houseproud but we're better at different things. I'm a good cleaner and she's a good cook. I helped her clean up her friends sick as thanks.

What do you suggest I do now?
If it were me? Hell in university I was that guy with inappropriate boundaries so I'm the worst person to advise. I'd say confront what you want and be 100 percent upfront with it in front of everyone. Don't worry about right and wrong just don't beat around the bush. Because you don't know whether she genuinely is into you or just using you, and you'll never find out by leaving things the way they are.
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I normally don't beat around the bush either way. I'm going to try and be her friend right now because I really like her. So you think I should talk to her about it?
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Posted by tiziani

I think getting her to cook your breakfast is deeper than had you both fucked. So it's already too far gone from my pov.
Really? We're both really houseproud but we're better at different things. I'm a good cleaner and she's a good cook. I helped her clean up her friends sick as thanks.

What do you suggest I do now?
If it were me? Hell in university I was that guy with inappropriate boundaries so I'm the worst person to advise. I'd say confront what you want and be 100 percent upfront with it in front of everyone. Don't worry about right and wrong just don't beat around the bush. Because you don't know whether she genuinely is into you or just using you, and you'll never find out by leaving things the way they are.
I normally don't beat around the bush either way. I'm going to try and be her friend right now because I really like her. So you think I should talk to her about it?
Do you really want to be her friend? Let's be real otherwise this would be a dead end conversation no matter what I said.
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I'd like to be more than friends but I'm not wanting to push the boundaries too much right now. Her roomate and I think she's gonna ditch her bf soon though
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Posted by tiziani

I think getting her to cook your breakfast is deeper than had you both fucked. So it's already too far gone from my pov.
Really? We're both really houseproud but we're better at different things. I'm a good cleaner and she's a good cook. I helped her clean up her friends sick as thanks.

What do you suggest I do now?
If it were me? Hell in university I was that guy with inappropriate boundaries so I'm the worst person to advise. I'd say confront what you want and be 100 percent upfront with it in front of everyone. Don't worry about right and wrong just don't beat around the bush. Because you don't know whether she genuinely is into you or just using you, and you'll never find out by leaving things the way they are.
I normally don't beat around the bush either way. I'm going to try and be her friend right now because I really like her. So you think I should talk to her about it?
Do you really want to be her friend? Let's be real otherwise this would be a dead end conversation no matter what I said.
I'd like to be more than friends but I'm not wanting to push the boundaries too much right now. Her roomate and I think she's gonna ditch her bf soon though
Ok, so you're waiting for your opportunity to move in. That might be wrong to say but it's better than trying to deny it.

My advice is be all the way upfront.
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I've denied myself too much in the past, I'm not going to do it this time. I know that probably makes me a really bad person but I've done worse than covet another man's woman.
She's just looking for her next come up. Securing the next one, before ditching that old one.
And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
Posted by -sierra-

you have the same placements as my boyfriend

so can't really blame her lol

you know her sun sign?
She's a Leo. I seem to have a thing for Leo gals
Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
I know that I'm doing something really bad. And I am also aware this is a very common routine.

I take it you don't approve?
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Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
I know that I'm doing something really bad. And I am also aware this is a very common routine.

I take it you don't approve?
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It's your cross to bare, not mine. I just realistically know, you're going to be in the same position the current bf is in now, months or years from now.

That is your lesson to learn.
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Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
yep

she doesn't seem like much of a catch tbh
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I wouldn't say that, but I'm way too biased to say right now.
Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Ownard

Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
I know that I'm doing something really bad. And I am also aware this is a very common routine.

I take it you don't approve?
It's your cross to bare, not mine. I just realistically know, you're going to be in the same position the current bf is in now, months or years from now.

That is your lesson to learn.
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I'm at the age where all I want is to have fun. If I make mistakes then I'm at the stage when I should make mistakes
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Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
Crab Rising till I die
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lol ass
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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Ownard

Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
I know that I'm doing something really bad. And I am also aware this is a very common routine.

I take it you don't approve?
It's your cross to bare, not mine. I just realistically know, you're going to be in the same position the current bf is in now, months or years from now.

That is your lesson to learn.
I'm at the age where all I want is to have fun. If I make mistakes then I'm at the stage when I should make mistakes
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Well then, why you asking us for? Go make an ass ton of mistakes, if that's the shit you wanna do.

But if you are dumb enough to actually fall in love with this chick, and you lose her like you got her, just remember I told you so.Laughing
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Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
yep

she doesn't seem like much of a catch tbh
I wouldn't say that, but I'm way too biased to say right now.
depends on how much you like the idea of your possible gf straddling some other guy in the future while talking smack about you behind your back but you know... why not?
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Well I'm honestly not a huge fan of that idea to be honest. I've never been in a relationship so I am here just to test the waters and say what you guys think.

Should I continue to be friends with her?
I say go for it and I tell her what you want but let her know that you only want it if she doesn’t have a boyfriend.

I do the same thing in relationships , only leave when the other is secured. But I do it because I love companionship. I hardly ever get bored with people. Boring is stable for me so I don’t see much of a problem as long as they go with my flow 😝

If she’s in such a crappy relationship , then there’s no reason not to end it.
Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Ownard

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Ownard

Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
I know that I'm doing something really bad. And I am also aware this is a very common routine.

I take it you don't approve?
It's your cross to bare, not mine. I just realistically know, you're going to be in the same position the current bf is in now, months or years from now.

That is your lesson to learn.
I'm at the age where all I want is to have fun. If I make mistakes then I'm at the stage when I should make mistakes
Well then, why you asking us for? Go make an ass ton of mistakes, if that the shit you wanna do.

But if you are dumb enough to actually fall in love with this chick, and you lose her like you got her, just remember I told you so.Laughing
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Well, thanks for your opinion. I'm just asking because I've never been in a relationship so I just wanted to see what you guys thought about this, to test the waters.
Posted by saggurl88

I say go for it and I tell her what you want but let her know that you only want it if she doesn’t have a boyfriend.

I do the same thing in relationships , only leave when the other is secured. But I do it because I love companionship. I hardly ever get bored with people. Boring is stable for me so I don’t see much of a problem as long as they go with my flow 😝

If she’s in such a crappy relationship , then there’s no reason not to end it.
It is a crappy relationship. He doesn't want her to talk to any guys, not even her roomates or lecturers. I get a feeling from her that we are on the same wavelength
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Posted by nikkistar

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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Ownard

Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
I know that I'm doing something really bad. And I am also aware this is a very common routine.

I take it you don't approve?
It's your cross to bare, not mine. I just realistically know, you're going to be in the same position the current bf is in now, months or years from now.

That is your lesson to learn.
I'm at the age where all I want is to have fun. If I make mistakes then I'm at the stage when I should make mistakes
Well then, why you asking us for? Go make an ass ton of mistakes, if that the shit you wanna do.

But if you are dumb enough to actually fall in love with this chick, and you lose her like you got her, just remember I told you so.Laughing
Well, thanks for your opinion. I'm just asking because I've never been in a relationship so I just wanted to see what you guys thought about this, to test the waters.
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I mean, bruh, you're gonna do it regardless of what any of us says. You are just on here, looking for the one person to say its okay, so you don't feel so guilty about it.

Being young, and dumb is a rite of passage almost all of us do. If you were old, married, and had kids. You'd probably get a whole different response.

Now go off into the wild yonder, go get drunk, bang chicks you don't remember their name the next day, fall in love with an asshole and get their name tattooed on you somewhere!
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Posted by -sierra-

Posted by Ownard

Posted by -sierra-

Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
yep

she doesn't seem like much of a catch tbh
I wouldn't say that, but I'm way too biased to say right now.
depends on how much you like the idea of your possible gf straddling some other guy in the future while talking smack about you behind your back but you know... why not?
Well I'm honestly not a huge fan of that idea to be honest. I've never been in a relationship so I am here just to test the waters and say what you guys think.

Should I continue to be friends with her?
maybe if you just wanna sleep with her

but a relationship is just lolz
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Honesty, not really interested in relationships at this stage of my life
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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Ownard

Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
I know that I'm doing something really bad. And I am also aware this is a very common routine.

I take it you don't approve?
It's your cross to bare, not mine. I just realistically know, you're going to be in the same position the current bf is in now, months or years from now.

That is your lesson to learn.
I'm at the age where all I want is to have fun. If I make mistakes then I'm at the stage when I should make mistakes
Well then, why you asking us for? Go make an ass ton of mistakes, if that the shit you wanna do.

But if you are dumb enough to actually fall in love with this chick, and you lose her like you got her, just remember I told you so.Laughing
Well, thanks for your opinion. I'm just asking because I've never been in a relationship so I just wanted to see what you guys thought about this, to test the waters.
I mean, bruh, you're gonna do it regardless of what any of us says. You are just on here, looking for the one person to say its okay, so you don't feel so guilty about it.

Being young, and dumb is a rite of passage almost all of us do. If you were old, married, and had kids. You'd probably get a whole different response.

Now go off into the wild yonder, go get drunk, bang chicks you don't remember their name the next day, fall in love with an asshole and get their name tattooed on you somewhere!
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That's graphic but that was the plan tbh 😂
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Posted by saggurl88

I say go for it and I tell her what you want but let her know that you only want it if she doesn’t have a boyfriend.

I do the same thing in relationships , only leave when the other is secured. But I do it because I love companionship. I hardly ever get bored with people. Boring is stable for me so I don’t see much of a problem as long as they go with my flow 😝

If she’s in such a crappy relationship , then there’s no reason not to end it.
It is a crappy relationship. He doesn't want her to talk to any guys, not even her roomates or lecturers. I get a feeling from her that we are on the same wavelength
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LOL, damn. You guys always fall for this stuff. I bet ANYTHING all this information you got from him is all from her side. LMAO

Next thing you know, she's going to ask you to go on a friend vacation with her. Then invite you up to her room, where she is "innocently" in only a towel, cause she just got out of the shower. LOLOLOL

Btw, go do it. LOL
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Posted by Ownard

Posted by saggurl88

I say go for it and I tell her what you want but let her know that you only want it if she doesn’t have a boyfriend.

I do the same thing in relationships , only leave when the other is secured. But I do it because I love companionship. I hardly ever get bored with people. Boring is stable for me so I don’t see much of a problem as long as they go with my flow 😝

If she’s in such a crappy relationship , then there’s no reason not to end it.
It is a crappy relationship. He doesn't want her to talk to any guys, not even her roomates or lecturers. I get a feeling from her that we are on the same wavelength
LOL, damn. You guys always fall for this stuff. I bet ANYTHING all this information you got from him is all from her side. LMAO

Next thing you know, she's going to ask you to go on a friend vacation with her. Then invite you up to her room, where she is "innocently" in only a towel, cause she just got out of the shower. LOLOLOL
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That would be great, only thing is I can't afford a holiday
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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Ownard

Posted by saggurl88

I say go for it and I tell her what you want but let her know that you only want it if she doesn’t have a boyfriend.

I do the same thing in relationships , only leave when the other is secured. But I do it because I love companionship. I hardly ever get bored with people. Boring is stable for me so I don’t see much of a problem as long as they go with my flow 😝

If she’s in such a crappy relationship , then there’s no reason not to end it.
It is a crappy relationship. He doesn't want her to talk to any guys, not even her roomates or lecturers. I get a feeling from her that we are on the same wavelength
LOL, damn. You guys always fall for this stuff. I bet ANYTHING all this information you got from him is all from her side. LMAO

Next thing you know, she's going to ask you to go on a friend vacation with her. Then invite you up to her room, where she is "innocently" in only a towel, cause she just got out of the shower. LOLOLOL
That would be great, only thing is I can't afford a holiday
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LOL I was just putting up a random scenario.
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Posted by tiziani

Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
Crab Rising till I die
I offer a shoulder to cry on and a dick to ride on.
OP's real cold with it, got her fixing up breakfast and everything.
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She offered and I was completely fucked from a litre bottle of whisky the night before 😂
I can't really be mad at this dude. LOL

I just hope he doesn't get suckered into falling for her. lol
Posted by nikkistar

I can't really be mad at this dude. LOL

I just hope he doesn't get suckered into falling for her. lol
Believe me, the plan is not to, but life rarely goes to plan
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Posted by tiziani

Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
Crab Rising till I die
I offer a shoulder to cry on and a dick to ride on.
OP's real cold with it, got her fixing up breakfast and everything.
She offered and I was completely fucked from a litre bottle of whisky the night before 😂
Making you breakfast is a metaphor. What did she make you?
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Bacon, scrambled eggs and sausages
I hope you get a fellatio omelette.
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Posted by tiziani

Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
Crab Rising till I die
I offer a shoulder to cry on and a dick to ride on.
OP's real cold with it, got her fixing up breakfast and everything.
She offered and I was completely fucked from a litre bottle of whisky the night before 😂
Making you breakfast is a metaphor. What did she make you?



Bacon, scrambled eggs and sausages
She wants to fuck you and abort your baby.
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Funny thing is, she said she wanted to make a lot more than she did.
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Posted by tiziani

Posted by Arkansassy

Posted by tiziani

Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
Crab Rising till I die
I offer a shoulder to cry on and a dick to ride on.
OP's real cold with it, got her fixing up breakfast and everything.
She offered and I was completely fucked from a litre bottle of whisky the night before 😂
Making you breakfast is a metaphor. What did she make you?



Bacon, scrambled eggs and sausages
She wants to fuck you and abort your baby.
Funny thing is, she said she wanted to make a lot more than she did.
Pure filth.
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Totally
Soooooooo... When can I expect a amateur porn video to appear on pornhub for research purposes?
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Posted by -sierra-

you have the same placements as my boyfriend

so can't really blame her lol

you know her sun sign?
She's a Leo. I seem to have a thing for Leo gals
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Of course. Leo the greedy enegry hahahah
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Posted by saggurl88

I say go for it and I tell her what you want but let her know that you only want it if she doesn’t have a boyfriend.

I do the same thing in relationships , only leave when the other is secured. But I do it because I love companionship. I hardly ever get bored with people. Boring is stable for me so I don’t see much of a problem as long as they go with my flow 😝

If she’s in such a crappy relationship , then there’s no reason not to end it.
It is a crappy relationship. He doesn't want her to talk to any guys, not even her roomates or lecturers. I get a feeling from her that we are on the same wavelength
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Better get to her before you find " dead bitches don't cheat " boyfriend has.

Shit, I'd wanna save her too.

Me thinks realisticly she needs save herself though.
A million years later and I still don't know how to properly quote on this site lol.
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Posted by tiziani

I think getting her to cook your breakfast is deeper than had you both fucked. So it's already too far gone from my pov.
Really? We're both really houseproud but we're better at different things. I'm a good cleaner and she's a good cook. I helped her clean up her friends sick as thanks. Is it that bad that we've hugged every time we've seen each other since we've met?

What do you suggest I do now?
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Get her tiger!!!

She isn’t taken until she is married!

Fight for your woman! And good luck!
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Posted by nikkistar

And just to add, LOL @ all the girls that pull this type of come up game always using the "Abusive/shitty boyfriend" routine. I swear, every girl that does this same shit, used the SAME routine. Guys want to be captain save a hoe for the girl, cause they think the guy is bad. Jokes on you, her "soon to be ex" is probably a nice guy, just like yourself, that she got bored with.

Bet you'd be pissed as fuck if your girl was straddling a guy, drunk, and cooking meals for the same "friend".
I know that I'm doing something really bad. And I am also aware this is a very common routine.

I take it you don't approve?
It's your cross to bare, not mine. I just realistically know, you're going to be in the same position the current bf is in now, months or years from now.

That is your lesson to learn.
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Let him learn! This is why he went to college! Lol
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Posted by tiziani

I think getting her to cook your breakfast is deeper than had you both fucked. So it's already too far gone from my pov.
Really? We're both really houseproud but we're better at different things. I'm a good cleaner and she's a good cook. I helped her clean up her friends sick as thanks. Is it that bad that we've hugged every time we've seen each other since we've met?

What do you suggest I do now?
Get her tiger!!!

She isn’t taken until she is married!

Fight for your woman! And good luck!
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That is one way to look at it
Posted by Black-Mamba

4 Leo placements here

I understand your issue we're not only hot but we're so sexy

Real Leo suns tho they don't play. They make a guy breakfast

Trap queens

My cancer sun and Scorpio rising and Virgo mars too paranoid for all of that

But my Leo placements make me unpredictable and spontaneous so i get the energy


So what is your point again?
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Ownard

Posted by tiziani

I think getting her to cook your breakfast is deeper than had you both fucked. So it's already too far gone from my pov.
Really? We're both really houseproud but we're better at different things. I'm a good cleaner and she's a good cook. I helped her clean up her friends sick as thanks. Is it that bad that we've hugged every time we've seen each other since we've met?

What do you suggest I do now?
Get her tiger!!!

She isn’t taken until she is married!

Fight for your woman! And good luck!
That is one way to look at it
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That’s the only way to look at it!

That’s why men should marry women they care about and not date them for 10 years because she might be snatched by someone else...your ass is not the only one, bozo! Ring!!!
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Posted by Ownard

Posted by Black-Mamba

4 Leo placements here

I understand your issue we're not only hot but we're so sexy

Real Leo suns tho they don't play. They make a guy breakfast

Trap queens

My cancer sun and Scorpio rising and Virgo mars too paranoid for all of that

But my Leo placements make me unpredictable and spontaneous so i get the energy


So what is your point again?
That Leo women love attention
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I should actually know that from past experiences.
Posted by Gemitati

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Ownard

Posted by tiziani

I think getting her to cook your breakfast is deeper than had you both fucked. So it's already too far gone from my pov.
Really? We're both really houseproud but we're better at different things. I'm a good cleaner and she's a good cook. I helped her clean up her friends sick as thanks. Is it that bad that we've hugged every time we've seen each other since we've met?

What do you suggest I do now?
Get her tiger!!!

She isn’t taken until she is married!

Fight for your woman! And good luck!
That is one way to look at it
That’s the only way to look at it!

That’s why men should marry women they care about and not date them for 10 years because she might be snatched by someone else...your ass is not the only one, bozo! Ring!!!
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Fair enough point
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Ownard

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Ownard

Posted by tiziani

I think getting her to cook your breakfast is deeper than had you both fucked. So it's already too far gone from my pov.
Really? We're both really houseproud but we're better at different things. I'm a good cleaner and she's a good cook. I helped her clean up her friends sick as thanks. Is it that bad that we've hugged every time we've seen each other since we've met?

What do you suggest I do now?
Get her tiger!!!

She isn’t taken until she is married!

Fight for your woman! And good luck!
That is one way to look at it
That’s the only way to look at it!

That’s why men should marry women they care about and not date them for 10 years because she might be snatched by someone else...your ass is not the only one, bozo! Ring!!!
Fair enough point
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So get her ass...now! Lol