no effing!

so how long would you stay in a relationship where there was no effing taking place? it's not like it's never going to happen but it's been say, 3 months, and you're official. when i say no effing i mean that in the Lewinsky sense because it's not like there isnt any action taking place. do you lose your patience or do you take longer to open up?

lol

well i dont mean no effing ever lol!!

Well I waited four months before I lost my virginity,but I don't I'd want to wait very long again.

i say skip and collide with another object of attraction!! 😄

Can't wait for more than a week.

What's the reason behind the NO EFFING? Is it a religious or chosen thing? Or are they just making sure, once the effing starts things get more complicated, so if they are looking at a long term thing then maybe patience is a virtue..

Posted by OFA
Dang, I have never had effed a guy I've officially dated with us having titles of boyfriend and girlfriend except my Aries, but like I said, we waited a few months. I like it that way though.

Same here

God damn well I once went 2 years without sex LOL. I didn't think about it and didn't even want it. I was so sick of men but then I met my daughter's father. We waited about 3 months and it was very intense. But I don't think it's a bad thing to take your time. Some people are just not as sexual as others.

People with no passion suck.

Depends

it all depends with us

I like effing. I think that if you eff a guy early he might just want to eff some more and stick around for more effing. He might not want to eff or do anything else. He may just want to eff and f*ck all the rest...lol. I personally don't believe it makes a bit of difference how long you wait or don't wait. The right guy will be the right guy.

It is important not to confuse effing with intimacy though.

If there is no effing 3-4 months in, there had better be PLENTY of intimacy or I'd be out OUT out.

Yeah I agree, kissing is cheating. Always put yourself in the other persons shoes. If it would hurt you that they kissed someone else and you felt chested then HELLO!!!

yeah i got over this very soon after i posted it lol. i asked my gemini how long he would have waited without getting any and he said 6 months