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Oct 12, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 565 · Topics: 25
maybe I'm generalizing
but
why are women going for the fat guys?
are they a safe bet, or is that the norm.
is it a promise of comfort and wealth?
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Oct 12, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 565 · Topics: 25
or is it
bigger is better so the men keep eating to get bigger?
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Jun 08, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 4581 · Topics: 75
Because fat people cook better?
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Jun 08, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 4581 · Topics: 75
There's lots of reasons to love fat people...
You don't have to worry about them 'sneaking' out.
I already mentioned the culinary skills.
Plus when they get mad they won't throw shit, we go bake cookies.
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 3 · Posts: 15387 · Topics: 830
it lets the woman drop the prusuit of being a thin big tited sex image. If she has a fat man she can plant her ass on the sofa and watch it fill the sofa as she dumps in the bon bons.
being a body builder it isn't easy to maintain your body as you get older.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
This concept is something I've thought about many times.
Men are the same with women .... it's nice to fantasize about a hot, sought after woman ... but, she isn't keepable. The risk of her cheating is high due to constant opportunity. While the ugly, fat woman will stand faithfully by your side because you're the best she can get.
And this holds true for female frienships .... women tend to befriend women who are uglier than them. Just like the whole concept of bridemaids wearing those ugly ass dresses is in place so that the bride is prettier.
And women are the same way with men ... if he's average, or fat (as you say) .. then this woman is the best he'll ever get in his mind, so he will remain faithful to eternity.
most people want the others around them to be uglier, so that they feel better .....
All fucking ego .... that is all.
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Oct 12, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 565 · Topics: 25
hope I haven't offended anyone
that is not my intention
I myself am attracted to plump women
however, I can't figure it out the other way around.
So, I have to give James Tate and P-Angel some credence.
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Oct 12, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 565 · Topics: 25
however one could very easily fall for a Buddha
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Mar 19, 2012Comments: 273 · Posts: 5457 · Topics: 33
I generally like my guys a little heavier set. Perhaps it makes me feel more protected? Albeit, the heaviest I dated was at 275. But, I don't genuinely like people because of what they look like, heavy set or not. I like people because of their personality, and my only serious relationships happened to have been with people who were a little heavier, but who had intriguing personalities. And no, if they were skinnier, their personalities would not be much different. It's not like they're going after 'whatever they can get' because they're heavier, nor do I think they're easier to get with, myself, as I know both of them had/have many people who were jealous of me or would have liked to have been in my shoes (nor am I trying to get 'whatever I can get'). Maybe those concepts hold true for other people, though they would have to have low self confidence and other personality issues to act in line with those reasons.
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Oct 12, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 565 · Topics: 25
one looks for some definition
in the torso
it's angularity and shapeliness
that's body language
and the poetics of the mind
expressed in the form
its our best seller!
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Oct 12, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 565 · Topics: 25
there is nothing superficial about a beautiful body
that would be a contradiction
don't forget
beauty is in the eye of the beholder
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I think people should starve themselves
at least once a month for a day or two.
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Jun 08, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 4581 · Topics: 75
Different stokes for different folks. Everyone has things they look for in a potential bf/gf, looks are more important to some people than to others. Some people like cats but can't stand dogs. Some people swear off alcohol, some can't get enough. The idea that one half of the partnership could "do better" based soley on body shape/size is the superficial part. I have dated women who are physically out of my league since I started dating. Personality matters, be fun, sweet, make her laugh, be consistant, and passionate about life, you'll find someone even if you are 'pleasantly plump'. Size is a deal breaker for a lot of people and many will not even entertain romantic thoughts, for others it doesn't matter.
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I think if a man is less attractive than his female partner he is still just as likely to cheat... if he is insecure because he knows his girl is a hottie he may seek out other women to boost his ego or prove to himself this isnt a one off etc...
re both genders there are other reasons a person will stray regardless of appearance.
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Oct 12, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 565 · Topics: 25
I will not walk the planet
a fat man
nor cast a pregnant shadow.
The registry of complacency
will find me aMiss.
For I'll be sailing my
deodorant can
with sails made from my marquee shirt
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Like Odysseus I was tied to the mast
navigating my way in my deodorant can .
I didn't hit the rocks
and steered myself through temptation.
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NINJ
DO NOT GIVE THE RAT CREDIT FOR ANYTHING DON'T LET IT GET TO YOU WE ALL KNOW IT EXSCAPED FROM SOME LAB SOMEWHERE.
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Oct 12, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 565 · Topics: 25
Things are taken so much for granted
that some people aren't aware that they're
on planet earth.
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Oct 12, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 565 · Topics: 25
hence: "one size fits all"
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any way
women don't mind if the man has no self respect.
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Oct 12, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 565 · Topics: 25
lol
on second thoughts, that hadn't crossed my mind
but I couldnt have said it better myself.
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Lol, what!? I for one am turned off by fat guys...never dated one. I'm into the scare-crow look, very tall and very lean. I dont think being a chubby chaser has anything to do with comfort or whatever, maybe they just love the feeling of being with someone bigger. There's a little girl in every woman and she feels protected around people bigger than her, but how each woman expresses her "little girl" differs. I like tall men because that to me means manly, and im short...i ONLY feel attracted to larger than life men. A tiny little elf of a man just wont do. Thats just my take and lol again @ fat guys being a symbol of whatever. Hahaha
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mans size is measured in spirit
not girth
when you can't see your shoes
you might think they're not dirty
and the hands don't work
cause they never meet.
"there's an incessant drone in one's ear!"
well that's life
my dear.