krysrenee7
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People could care less about your relationship
Being jaded happens.
Believe it or not, there are some of us who are not jaded or immature.
I have wonderful friends and we use the same technology in ways I guess immature people you are annoyed by wouldn't understand.
IF one of my beloved friends were to announce something great like the gal/guy they are seeing is now who they are in a relationship I would be glad to know they moved to that level, especially if I met them and thought they were great for each other.
OF COURSE relationships are not forever in the starkest reality but believe it or not it is a great feeling to have that in your life and by all means they should be assholes about it and share their joy with the world.
Those trifling rude people and we all have them in our life can be easily written out of our lives or told to calm down with all their drama.
Keep that a little in mind, that there are a few if not a lot of people who do have and do seek out good people to be around, not just random people they keep around for the sake of not wanting to be absolutely alone.
Believe it or not, there are some of us who are not jaded or immature.
I have wonderful friends and we use the same technology in ways I guess immature people you are annoyed by wouldn't understand.
IF one of my beloved friends were to announce something great like the gal/guy they are seeing is now who they are in a relationship I would be glad to know they moved to that level, especially if I met them and thought they were great for each other.
OF COURSE relationships are not forever in the starkest reality but believe it or not it is a great feeling to have that in your life and by all means they should be assholes about it and share their joy with the world.
Those trifling rude people and we all have them in our life can be easily written out of our lives or told to calm down with all their drama.
Keep that a little in mind, that there are a few if not a lot of people who do have and do seek out good people to be around, not just random people they keep around for the sake of not wanting to be absolutely alone.
Posted by krysrenee7
Alot of you, when you 1st get in a relationship, go around bragging about your new partner.
You're thinking that the more often you hint to others that you're man/woman is YOURS, that the more likely others will consider he/she to be off limits.
FALSE!
You can post your relationship status all over facebook for the world to see...that doesn't mean that people watching/listening will respect that.
I heard 1 girl say, "She's dead wrong for trying to talk to my man. She knows he's taken & that he's with me."
My response? "Honey get real! I'm not saying that you should be insecure or assume that your man will fall for every temptation, BUT don't be naive. Understand that to some women/men they could give a F less about the fact that you're in a relationship! In fact, most of the people who are ok with being "the other woman/man" aren't intimidated at all by the fact that the person they're crushing on is taken already.
I can't believe that in this day & age, people are assuming that simply repping your relationship/marking your territory will keep the predators away!
You can tell the whole world that your man/woman is taken, but that doesn't mean that others will care, take your relationship seriously or even respect that fact. Sucks, but it's true.
If anything, the more you brag about how wonderful your partner is, the more someone who is lacking those things will want your partner!
What you said is very true.
I still try to bag females on fb when they're obviously cuffed. I can give a fucc..
Well some people brag b/c they're doing so to mark their territory out of insecurity. Others brag simply b/c they don't see anything wrong with sharing with the world that they're happy.
But I'm talking about the people who don't understand why everyone isn't so quick to back off or consider their partners to be "off limits" just b/c they say it 100 times!
If anything, the more you broadcast your relationship, the more unwanted attention you bring to it. And unfortunately, while there's 500 girls watching saying "Awww, I'm so happy for her & now I know her man is off limits" there are another 1,000 girls watching who are saying, "So what!" & whom wouldn't hesitate to continue chasing him
But I'm talking about the people who don't understand why everyone isn't so quick to back off or consider their partners to be "off limits" just b/c they say it 100 times!
If anything, the more you broadcast your relationship, the more unwanted attention you bring to it. And unfortunately, while there's 500 girls watching saying "Awww, I'm so happy for her & now I know her man is off limits" there are another 1,000 girls watching who are saying, "So what!" & whom wouldn't hesitate to continue chasing him
Who cares?
status or titles mean nothing when 2 people are in a room together and theres something in the air...
Posted by Pandybear
Krys, how do you not have your own channel like Oprah right now lol 😛
she wouldn't make it .. she's extremely one sided
I never tell anyone I am seeing someone. I don't put it on facebook either. Pissed my last boyfriend off like crazy.
Whatever It's my business.
Whatever It's my business.
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FALSE!
You can post your relationship status all over facebook for the world to see...that doesn't mean that people watching/listening will respect that.
I heard 1 girl say, "She's dead wrong for trying to talk to my man. She knows he's taken & that he's with me."
My response? "Honey get real! I'm not saying that you should be insecure or assume that your man will fall for every temptation, BUT don't be naive. Understand that to some women/men they could give a F less about the fact that you're in a relationship! In fact, most of the people who are ok with being "the other woman/man" aren't intimidated at all by the fact that the person they're crushing on is taken already.
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