relationships

is a extra ordinary sexual roust about when or where ever worth the romp?

I'm not sure what you mean?

lol

i have a serious issue people and i want to know what to do,so here goes. i have been messing around with this guy for 4yrs and everything seem fine. this minute i think we're together and the next minute we're not. he is a vigo and i am a cancer and i have been trying to see how compatible we are. Also we taled about getting married and right after all that he told me that he got his x pregnant. i was so hurt and i am still hurting. he told me that he still want to marry me and that he don't want us to break up. i don't what to do i love him and all but when we talked and stuff he had told me that he loved her along time ago and i am guessing that she may love him too. he's really not a bad guy but i can't take this. my mind is telling me to stay i can work it out cause people make mistakes abut my heart is saying let it go because i think he still loves and i think she loves him too and as much i want him, she needs him more than i do and his priority lies to her and their unborn child and i don't want to start nagging him and start thinking alot of things. it hurts to let him go and all. i haven't told him yet and thats what i want to know if i shoul stay or i should just let it go. he said he doesn't love her anymore but i find that hard to believe seeing that she is having his child. But my fear is that i will tell him and he just say yea i thats cool as if i never meant anything to him and thats when i woud really be crushed.

My woman and I had words but I didn't get to use mine!

sofabulous, you know yourself better and how much your love is worth than anybody else here in dxp .. not even your man .. don't overanalyze things and just do what will make you happy .. as long as you are doing the right thing .. without stepping on someone else's shoe .. if you think staying in this relationship will make you happy and is making you whole .. and that you love yourself more with him around .. then go stay in that relationship .. but if this relationship is not doing any good in your whole being .. that you are clouded with deception, doubts and fear .. why lose yourself, your soul and your future with someone and let other people hold your happiness in their hands ..

if he wanted to marry you, you would have had no doubt that the two of you were together, especially after 4 years.

he had sex with his ex and got her pregnant - there's no love for you in that picture.

drop him like a hot potato and move onto a man who treats you with the respect you deserve!