REVENGE
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by dogsbody on Tuesday, January 20, 2009 and has 13 replies.
This is quite a serious matter:
Im one of those "Nobody Does Me Wrong And Gets Away With It" kinda dude's!
I have been told by "One Or Two" people that i need to curb it and sometimes just
walk away.
But i cant help it, something just triggers in my brain and all thought's are of
"Getting Them Back For It"
Ive tried and tried to remain calm, but it just "Happens"
Am I the only person who acts like this ?
Im one of those "Nobody Does Me Wrong And Gets Away With It" kinda dude's!
I have been told by "One Or Two" people that i need to curb it and sometimes just
walk away.
But i cant help it, something just triggers in my brain and all thought's are of
"Getting Them Back For It"
Ive tried and tried to remain calm, but it just "Happens"
Am I the only person who acts like this ?
No one thing in particular - its just if someone really pisses me off - watch out!!!
I know its easier to forget about it and walk away sometimes but i cant explain it
my thoughts turn to Revenge - hit them 10times harder than they hit you!!
I think i need Anger Managment classes
I know its easier to forget about it and walk away sometimes but i cant explain it
my thoughts turn to Revenge - hit them 10times harder than they hit you!!
I think i need Anger Managment classes
I'm too lazy for revenge. It's also childish. But I will make sure to not bother with that person or protect myself from him/her from than on. < And I see that as just common logic.
I dont think i have an "Angelic Side" 
Wow this is a tough one to answer DB!! In a fashion that actually makes sense, I mean. Lol
I personally don't get involved in games of revenge. I see that kind of behaviour as being below my own personal standards for myself - I think it's pathetic and childish. And it also prolongs one's own suffering.
But that said, I believe in teaching (people & animals - have worked with animals for years) effectively. And that means not tolerating any shit. I don't go out of my way to get people back though, and if someone is trying to toy with me and piss me off, I won't fire up - on purpose - because i'm so damn stubborn that i'm determined not to give them what they want hahaha!!! Plus, I like to take the moral high ground. And I can't do that if I stoop to their level
I personally don't get involved in games of revenge. I see that kind of behaviour as being below my own personal standards for myself - I think it's pathetic and childish. And it also prolongs one's own suffering.
But that said, I believe in teaching (people & animals - have worked with animals for years) effectively. And that means not tolerating any shit. I don't go out of my way to get people back though, and if someone is trying to toy with me and piss me off, I won't fire up - on purpose - because i'm so damn stubborn that i'm determined not to give them what they want hahaha!!! Plus, I like to take the moral high ground. And I can't do that if I stoop to their level
i would suggest you knock it off, dog.
what is it that makes you so vindictive?
whatever you attempt will be done to you but much worse!
you will end up in jail. dont think you can get away with it...and even if you
do...you cant escape real justice of God.
i will pray to God that you are dealt with appropriately.
what is it that makes you so vindictive?
whatever you attempt will be done to you but much worse!
you will end up in jail. dont think you can get away with it...and even if you
do...you cant escape real justice of God.
i will pray to God that you are dealt with appropriately.
you better get one(angelic side)
or you will continue to feed negativity and your life will suffer. if you like to live that way, then dont be looking for anything good to come
of it because it wont.
i thought you were a good dog?
or you will continue to feed negativity and your life will suffer. if you like to live that way, then dont be looking for anything good to come
of it because it wont.
i thought you were a good dog?
Dogs, this only seems apparant in people who don't actually deal with their life issues, rather gloss them over, for them to later rear thier ugly heads, for the person to explode.
People want to be happy and not let things bother them, they want to stay positive .. thing is, these negative feelings have to be acknowledged.
I preach this all the time in here .. people refuse to accept their negative feelings, and just go about life as if they don't exist.
And then fucking explode .. have begrudging/vengeful thoughts when something happens in which brings these negative feelings back to the surface.
Which is better? To accept the negative to deal with it as it arises while it's still not intense, nor a issue, to quickly balance it? Or, to ignore them because they are negative ones, and then wait until they are so intense that you have no choice except to blow a gasket?
People want to be happy and not let things bother them, they want to stay positive .. thing is, these negative feelings have to be acknowledged.
I preach this all the time in here .. people refuse to accept their negative feelings, and just go about life as if they don't exist.
And then fucking explode .. have begrudging/vengeful thoughts when something happens in which brings these negative feelings back to the surface.
Which is better? To accept the negative to deal with it as it arises while it's still not intense, nor a issue, to quickly balance it? Or, to ignore them because they are negative ones, and then wait until they are so intense that you have no choice except to blow a gasket?
If you realy try hard you can just about cut the nuts off everyone who pisses you off. its not easy and takes a little time but you can get them.
Revenge is a waste of time. Those people stop existing and that's that as far as I'm concerned.
"Success is the best revenge."
Just go on doing what you gotta do, make something of yourself and let them see they fucked up.
"Success is the best revenge."
Just go on doing what you gotta do, make something of yourself and let them see they fucked up.
Well, we are in a new year, ill try to contain it
I AM the warmest, friendliest person, its just that there is this "Other" side of me that I need to work on.
Thanks for all the bits of advice
I AM the warmest, friendliest person, its just that there is this "Other" side of me that I need to work on.
Thanks for all the bits of advice
revenge is never solution for anything. I reckon I would feel bad after having revenge on someone so its a definite no no in life
I like the GB's ice cream analogy...
I'm too lazy for revenge
lol - same here... If I seek revenge, I'll forget the details of what the person did the next time I see them... I'll usually just start playing with them, then they start acting strange, then I remember - oh yea, they offended me last time ...
Dogs, if you don't address it soon, it'll fester... by the time you get to carrying it out, it becomes a wasted energy... plus you're cappy, the pride makes you act dignified when you should be mudslinging
I'm too lazy for revenge
lol - same here... If I seek revenge, I'll forget the details of what the person did the next time I see them... I'll usually just start playing with them, then they start acting strange, then I remember - oh yea, they offended me last time ...
Dogs, if you don't address it soon, it'll fester... by the time you get to carrying it out, it becomes a wasted energy... plus you're cappy, the pride makes you act dignified when you should be mudslinging
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