I have met what seems like one of the most wonderful men, and he calls me all these endearing words (which I love). He seems to be so attentive, but he's in Afghanistan, and he'll be returning in three months for good. We have never met face to face but have been exchanging emails for months now, and he's so handsome built like a brick house.
I have problems with trust and now that I've read so much about Sagittarius men, I'm not sure I'd be able to trust him.
Realizing before anyone writes the trust issue is my problem I realize this ok, it's why I'm seeing a therapist. I am currently in a semi-relationship with someone who's a lot older than I am, and I wanted to get married two years ago when gay marriage was made legal. The person here that I'm in this semi-relationship with promised if the supreme court handed down a ruling allowing gay marriage we could get married. Now, he's like what will people think (he's a cancer) and I don't care what people would think.
Long story short the cancer worries constantly about what people think, and I could care less. I'm not a bad person, and I have great manners etc. but as far as being gay if someone has a problem with it. Well, it's exactly what I wrote " if someone has a problem with it" he/she is the one with the problem not me.
Anyway, I've told the cancer that I was trying to meet someone else, and he says he can't blame me, but we own a lot of investments together + a business.
Realizing it seems like I'm already getting ready to walk down the aisle with the Sagittarius, I'm just nervous. How am I going to handle meeting him and what if he does care for me like he writes in his emails.
I read Sagittarius men don't give up easily, and neither do cancers so here I sit in a Delima of my own doing.
However, I really am interested in the Sagittarius man because he talks to me like I love for a man to talk to me, and he always makes a point to ask how I am in every email.
He says when he returns from Afghanistan I'll have no worries of anyone looking after me because he'll protect me. Well, I am a man and don't really need someone to fight my battles, but it sure feels good to hear someone say they'd help.
The cancer has 'NEVER' taken my side on any issue in the fifteen years we've been together...he'll always ask "are you sure it's exactly the way you see it." People need to feel loved not liked, and a partner/husband/wife are supposed to take your side. It's something I grew up with my dad always took the side of my mom and me. It didn't matter to him how wrong I might be about something he'd still stand up for me. Dad is a Leo though, and they do tend to be quite protective of people they love.
I'm just wondering if a relationship between a Scorpio and Sagittarius will work in the first place, and how will we deal with our differences. Scorpios are very private and Sagittarius men are very open.
I guess I'm asking several questions or at least someone's opinion. Thanks