Saying I love you...

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during sex...

Thoughts?

and what is wrong with me that I find it creepy/corny/goofy ?

It can't be an intimacy thing because we are more intimate than most will ever dream of being.

I literally cringe when he does this
Scorp
And it kills mine lol
Posted by brianafay
during sex...

Thoughts?

and what is wrong with me that I find it creepy/corny/goofy ?

It can't be an intimacy thing because we are more intimate than most will ever dream of being.

LOL don't be so quick to rank yourselves until you see what the competition is like.

And yeah something's wrong with you. Intimacy intensifies those feelings so it's supposed to be a good thing. Unless you've hooked up with a compulsive liar who just wants to wrap you around his little finger with lovey-dovey talk, assuming that's what every chick wants to hear.

So maybe it feels wrong to you because you don't believe him, especially if he never says it outside of zug-zug.
Posted by DeadInside
during cuming must we weird.

during teasing part can be hot

during the hug part after cuming can be hot or cute.



but he does that during cuming i guess


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No lol not while cumming that would be seriously awful

He doesn't say it every time just every once in a while like but I find it to be a turn off idk why

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Posted by brianafay
during sex...

Thoughts?

and what is wrong with me that I find it creepy/corny/goofy ?

It can't be an intimacy thing because we are more intimate than most will ever dream of being.

LOL don't be so quick to rank yourselves until you see what the competition is like.

And yeah something's wrong with you. Intimacy intensifies those feelings so it's supposed to be a good thing. Unless you've hooked up with a compulsive liar who just wants to wrap you around his little finger with lovey-dovey talk, assuming that's what every chick wants to hear.

So maybe it feels wrong to you because you don't believe him, especially if he never says it outside of zug-zug.
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Very far off but thanks for your contribution

Posted by oxSunQueenxo
I've never felt comfortable saying it... And saying that during sex would be so cheesy and ruin it. It's felt, not said.
That's how I feel too!

I mean I have no problem saying it, we say it all the time - I just think sex is not the time lol

Posted by DeadInside
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Posted by DeadInside
during cuming must we weird.

during teasing part can be hot

during the hug part after cuming can be hot or cute.



but he does that during cuming i guess


BriaaAAnaaAaaFaYyYy I LoOvEVe YOuUuuu SPLLLLLLLLLLARRRRRFFF!!💦💦💦💦💦💦💦💦💦💦💦💦💦


OMG😂😂😂😂😂😂😂


No lol not while cumming that would be seriously awful

He doesn't say it every time just every once in a while like but I find it to be a turn off idk why



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yea yea i know i can leave

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Bye

Posted by brianafay
during sex...

Thoughts?

and what is wrong with me that I find it creepy/corny/goofy ?

It can't be an intimacy thing because we are more intimate than most will ever dream of being.

The real question is do you love him back? Honest question because if you truly did, there's be no problem with him saying it especially during the most intimate of moments.

It sounds like part of you is terrified of being all in. Yes, you and he can exchange it during a pass in the kitchen but what about when it counts the most? When the bond is further cemented during sex? That is one of the times when word and deed are linked...joined. I think it's something you have to seriously look at.

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Posted by brianafay
during sex...

Thoughts?

and what is wrong with me that I find it creepy/corny/goofy ?

It can't be an intimacy thing because we are more intimate than most will ever dream of being.

LOL don't be so quick to rank yourselves until you see what the competition is like.

And yeah something's wrong with you. Intimacy intensifies those feelings so it's supposed to be a good thing. Unless you've hooked up with a compulsive liar who just wants to wrap you around his little finger with lovey-dovey talk, assuming that's what every chick wants to hear.

So maybe it feels wrong to you because you don't believe him, especially if he never says it outside of zug-zug.


Very far off but thanks for your contribution

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Either he's the problem or you're the problem. I'm never off.

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Posted by oxSunQueenxo
I've never felt comfortable saying it... And saying that during sex would be so cheesy and ruin it. It's felt, not said.
That's how I feel too!

I mean I have no problem saying it, we say it all the time - I just think sex is not the time lol



With sex being the most intense form of expressing intimacy, between a couple, don't you think your viewpoint is somewhat strange?

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🤷🏼‍♀️ I guess I just don't see the connection between the two

I'm not a "make love" type

I find it corny

@brianafay

giggle @ make love type...

Now I picture him screaming "I FUCKING love you".... while he bangs you solid.
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Posted by brianafay
during sex...

Thoughts?

and what is wrong with me that I find it creepy/corny/goofy ?

It can't be an intimacy thing because we are more intimate than most will ever dream of being.

The real question is do you love him back? Honest question because if you truly did, there's be no problem with him saying it especially during the most intimate of moments.

It sounds like part of you is terrified of being all in. Yes, you and he can exchange it during a pass in the kitchen but what about when it counts the most? When the bond is further cemented during sex? That is one of the times when word and deed are linked...joined. I think it's something you have to seriously look at.

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I just don't relate to any of that

We've been dating for 14 years

He was my first love and first everything

There is basically nothing we don't know about each other or haven't done together or in front of each other

I'm as all in as it gets

I just do not like to be told I love you while I'm getting banged out 😂
What is wrong with you lot 😱

Saying I love you during sex sounds so nice and sweet and it reinforces the fact that the giver/receiver is being loved wholly.
Posted by Sodapop
Why don’t you tell him? He probably thinks you love it! There’s nothing wrong about debriefing after sex, just make it sound like you’re encouraging him to say other things (if that’s what you like). I’ll leave it at that and hope you catch my drift.
I don't want him to feel bad about expressing himself (though half the replies here seem to insinuate I have told him not to do it or something )

I just wondered if I was alone feeling that way


I bet yo ass desperate to be told I love you during sex 😂😂 👌🏻
Posted by MiZLeo
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Posted by MiZLeo
The question is, why does this bother you so much to the point of turning you off? That isn't "normal" in a loving relationship. The only time I would feel weird about it is if I didn't love him back or I was terrified of that kind of intimacy with him. Which, makes it a "you" problem and not a "him" problem.

Fucking millenials.
It's definitely a me problem

Re-read the first post where I ask what's wrong with ME that I find it corny

Also I'd chill with the judgy "millennial" comments coming from your messy mid life crisis dick chasing ass
Laughingok I'm not the one with the intimate problems. Grow up

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You got plenty of problems chick

I don't have enough time in the day to go in on them but I could just simply bump a few of your most pathetic posts if you prefer
Posted by tiziani
It is normal and common. Some people just get turned on more from detached/erotic sex, they just want to fuck. That doesn't stop because you get into a committed relationship.

It's not all about holding hands and smelling the farts insisting "we are one".
I'm fire dominant

But I'll still spoon after 😂
Posted by MiZLeo
For the record I'm not middle aged stupid cunt
Coulda fooled me 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm just going off your profile pic and posts

I don't have your birthdate
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Posted by brianafay
Posted by tiziani
It is normal and common. Some people just get turned on more from detached/erotic sex, they just want to fuck. That doesn't stop because you get into a committed relationship.

It's not all about holding hands and smelling the farts insisting "we are one".
I'm fire dominant

But I'll still spoon after 😂
And even then, you're the big spoon, amirite

j/k
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Lmao we take turns

Libra balance and shit

I love petty Bri. It makes me happy.
😂 "💅🏻"
It is lovely

❤️
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Posted by brianafay
I literally cringe when he does this
ayy bri is about to throw him out at 3 AM with his romper
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Lmao

He's also asked if "I missed him?"

I was like omg please I don't need this stress 😂

I didn't say that out loud but I physically could not bring myself to respond

God he'd kill me if he knew I posted this

I think I have to delete this thread
Posted by nightowl
I remember saying it and it changed our dynamic, like made our relationship better
It's the closest and most intimate you are ever going to be with someone so seems natural to say this
@brianafay - Baby look into my eyes, don't turn away. I SAID DON'T TURN AWAY. I LOVE YOU. lolol
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Posted by ChrisxKodak
Posted by brianafay
I literally cringe when he does this
ayy bri is about to throw him out at 3 AM with his romper
Lmao

He's also asked if "I missed him?"

I was like omg please I don't need this stress 😂

I didn't say that out loud but I physically could not bring myself to respond

God he'd kill me if he knew I posted this

I think I have to delete this thread
If my girl told me I don't need this stress when I said I love you, i'd probably fall on the ground as dramatically as I possibly can. lmao
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Chocolate milk would potentially be involved in this as well.
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Posted by brianafay
Posted by ChrisxKodak
Posted by brianafay
I literally cringe when he does this
ayy bri is about to throw him out at 3 AM with his romper
Lmao

He's also asked if "I missed him?"

I was like omg please I don't need this stress 😂

I didn't say that out loud but I physically could not bring myself to respond

God he'd kill me if he knew I posted this

I think I have to delete this thread
If my girl told me I don't need this stress when I said I love you, i'd probably fall on the ground as dramatically as I possibly can. lmao
Chocolate milk would potentially be involved in this as well.
I'd make sure to let the choco milk land everywhere as I fall to the ground to really express my emotions spilling out to the ground.

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But, that would be a double whammy that you couldn't survive. All that precious choco milk that is wasted...
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Posted by ChrisxKodak
Posted by brianafay
Posted by ChrisxKodak
Posted by brianafay
I literally cringe when he does this
ayy bri is about to throw him out at 3 AM with his romper
Lmao

He's also asked if "I missed him?"

I was like omg please I don't need this stress 😂

I didn't say that out loud but I physically could not bring myself to respond

God he'd kill me if he knew I posted this

I think I have to delete this thread
If my girl told me I don't need this stress when I said I love you, i'd probably fall on the ground as dramatically as I possibly can. lmao
Chocolate milk would potentially be involved in this as well.
I'd make sure to let the choco milk land everywhere as I fall to the ground to really express my emotions spilling out to the ground.

But, that would be a double whammy that you couldn't survive. All that precious choco milk that is wasted...
Good bye world, all is lost.

You can always get another girlfriend, but you can never get the same glass of choco milk back Crying
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So dramatic. lol
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Posted by nikkistar
Posted by ChrisxKodak
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by ChrisxKodak
Posted by brianafay
Posted by ChrisxKodak
Posted by brianafay
I literally cringe when he does this
ayy bri is about to throw him out at 3 AM with his romper
Lmao

He's also asked if "I missed him?"

I was like omg please I don't need this stress 😂

I didn't say that out loud but I physically could not bring myself to respond

God he'd kill me if he knew I posted this

I think I have to delete this thread
If my girl told me I don't need this stress when I said I love you, i'd probably fall on the ground as dramatically as I possibly can. lmao
Chocolate milk would potentially be involved in this as well.
I'd make sure to let the choco milk land everywhere as I fall to the ground to really express my emotions spilling out to the ground.

But, that would be a double whammy that you couldn't survive. All that precious choco milk that is wasted...
Good bye world, all is lost.

You can always get another girlfriend, but you can never get the same glass of choco milk back Crying
So dramatic. lol
Leo Rising and Venus yo.

Weird emotional outbursts are the name of the game LMAO
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There's no crying over spilled milk....

SEE WHAT I DID THERE?!
Posted by ChrisxKodak
LOL @brianafay

Is this how you leave your mans after you are done using him?

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lolololol it even kinda looks like him


Hahaha

He has joked "I feel used" before


Posted by brianafay
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Posted by brianafay
I literally cringe when he does this
ayy bri is about to throw him out at 3 AM with his romper
Lmao

He's also asked if "I missed him?"

I was like omg please I don't need this stress 😂

I didn't say that out loud but I physically could not bring myself to respond

God he'd kill me if he knew I posted this

I think I have to delete this thread
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Do you not have deep feelings for the guy?
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Posted by brianafay
Posted by ChrisxKodak
Posted by brianafay
I literally cringe when he does this
ayy bri is about to throw him out at 3 AM with his romper
Lmao

He's also asked if "I missed him?"

I was like omg please I don't need this stress 😂

I didn't say that out loud but I physically could not bring myself to respond

God he'd kill me if he knew I posted this

I think I have to delete this thread
Do you not have deep feelings for the guy?
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No not at all 🙄

Haven't been devoted to him for the past 14 years!

He is 100% the love of my life. Couldn't imagine my life without him. But I just don't connect sex with those feelings. 🤷🏼‍♀️

If he asks me if I missed him any other time I will tell him "yes all I thought about was you and how I wanted to come home and be with you" and I will baby talk him and cuddle him too

I just think there's a time and place for that and for me it's not sex
At the same time I can't get off if I'm not 100% comfortable and in love with that person

And we don't have that issue soooo

there's a contradiction for you
Posted by tiziani
14 years is a long time to be going without no Spice girls on the surround sound.
I just can't with you right now
It's not wrong...either way. It's personal preference.

My Sag says I love you... a lot. But he did say he never acted like he does during sex as he does with me. I don't mind it. But I wouldn't mind going at it without saying it either...😂
Posted by Piscox
No way. I'm in that for pleasure, not to focus on how I'm making you feel emotionally. You can have an "I love you" after you help me clean the house.
🙏🏻
Posted by Gob_Shite
Time for a short intermission...



Interesting ........

I want his horse leg things
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Posted by Gob_Shite
Time for a short intermission...



Interesting ........

I want his horse leg things


So you can reach the top shelves, I take it... Laughing

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👈🏻

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
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Posted by Sodapop
Why don’t you tell him? He probably thinks you love it! There’s nothing wrong about debriefing after sex, just make it sound like you’re encouraging him to say other things (if that’s what you like). I’ll leave it at that and hope you catch my drift.
I don't want him to feel bad about expressing himself (though half the replies here seem to insinuate I have told him not to do it or something )

I just wondered if I was alone feeling that way


you want the raw feel of sex, the animalistic feel, he wants the civilized love making feel

two different types of wanting sex

nothing wrong with it
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Nope definitely something wrong with it

Must be an underlying cause

Like maybe I don't love him

Or feel he really loves me

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

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Posted by nikkistar
I love petty Bri. It makes me happy.
i do too, but it comes out of nowhere, it's kind of bipolarish, like damn i didn't see that coming, why is it coming, you on your period.

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It doesn't come out of nowhere you just don't pay attention

Dis bitch stays on my nuts posting overly aggressive shit on my threads

She needs to be put in her place

Posted by ItsMeRoman
Also my Scorpio moon Virgo ex would randomly say he loved me while riding my ass hard. I'm talking about a deep doggy style dicking. The kind where you have to be fully relaxed in full prayer stance in order for your cervix not to get tapped.

He'd be back there chasing the sunset grabbing all sorts of bits....maybe grabbing some hair and holding my arm back and in those moments while showing some aggression he'd say it.

Or after he'd cum and he'd lay there laughing from the high he'd mumble it.

It had more to do with the high of the emotions from sex and loving the moment than I think him feeling this insane desire to tell me he loved me. So if it makes you feel better he probably doesn't love you so much that he needs to say it during sex...he's prolly just enjoying pounding your kitty.

🐱 🥊


Yeah I guess I'd rather hear "I love fucking you" in that moment

Idk can't explain it

Other people are better at that than me

I just know it has nothing to do with my love for him or our intimacy because those two are not related to sex for me

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Posted by nikkistar
I love petty Bri. It makes me happy.
i do too, but it comes out of nowhere, it's kind of bipolarish, like damn i didn't see that coming, why is it coming, you on your period.



It doesn't come out of nowhere you just don't pay attention

Dis bitch stays on my nuts posting overly aggressive shit on my threads

She needs to be put in her place

lol okay im just glad you're still talking to me, i overstepped my bounds.

my bad
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We have no boundaries

Our friendship is unconditional
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Posted by Sodapop
Why don’t you tell him? He probably thinks you love it! There’s nothing wrong about debriefing after sex, just make it sound like you’re encouraging him to say other things (if that’s what you like). I’ll leave it at that and hope you catch my drift.
I don't want him to feel bad about expressing himself (though half the replies here seem to insinuate I have told him not to do it or something )

I just wondered if I was alone feeling that way


you want the raw feel of sex, the animalistic feel, he wants the civilized love making feel

two different types of wanting sex

nothing wrong with it


Nope definitely something wrong with it

Must be an underlying cause

Like maybe I don't love him

Or feel he really loves me

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

aren't you guys engaged, you don't feel he's being sincere?

why
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Again lol

That's not the problem at all

It's just not

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Posted by brianafay
Posted by Sodapop
Why don’t you tell him? He probably thinks you love it! There’s nothing wrong about debriefing after sex, just make it sound like you’re encouraging him to say other things (if that’s what you like). I’ll leave it at that and hope you catch my drift.
I don't want him to feel bad about expressing himself (though half the replies here seem to insinuate I have told him not to do it or something )

I just wondered if I was alone feeling that way


you want the raw feel of sex, the animalistic feel, he wants the civilized love making feel

two different types of wanting sex

nothing wrong with it


Nope definitely something wrong with it

Must be an underlying cause

Like maybe I don't love him

Or feel he really loves me

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

are those laughing emoji's i can't see it

so if you're being sarcastic my bad for asking those previous questions

but if you're not being Sarcastic, explain this comment:


Like maybe I don't love him

Or feel he really loves me

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They're eye roll emojis

Ya cause love and attraction are the same thing
Look Bri just wants to be rode hard and not have the sappy emo I love you's whilst he's slamming that hard dick in her is all. It takes away from that moment when she's about to bust off, aka it brings her back to reality.

That help put it into words @branafay ?

Laughing
Posted by justagirl
Look Bri just wants to be rode hard and not have the sappy emo I love you's whilst he's slamming that hard dick in her is all. It takes away from that moment when she's about to bust off, aka it brings her back to reality.

That help put it into words @branafay ?

Laughing
Yeah pretty much. Primal

There's a time and place for that mushy shit

After, fine

Before, fine

During...if you could talk as little as possible that would be great 👍🏻



Posted by GC02
I actually really like that ishh come to think of it. I keep score and count like a young boy with marks on his bed post.

I’ve had a Leo, aqua, libra, and Taurus tell me I love you during sex. The best one was the Leo because we were both super drunk and we weren’t supposed to be seeing each other(he had someone). I know he didn’t mean it but in the moment and the next day I was like fuck yeahhh, I was doing it right!

When the aqua told me he loved me and wanted to have baby’s during sex I was on cloud nine like damn I feel like I just won an award!

And don’t even get me started on the things libra and Taurus have told me when they are about to cum.
I think the hottest thing was when the crab told me I felt like home to him.

TMI but felt like sharing lol
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