Scorpio ex watching me..
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by beautifulmountain on Wednesday, November 20, 2013 and has 12 replies.
Hi All,
My ex disappeared almost 2 months ago without actually ending us and has now posted a profile on a dating site so I assume he's looking for a new relationship. I have posted about it on here before. I stopped all attempts to contact and moved on with my life.
My question is this... He watches my facebook profile more than anyone else. Any idea what this means? I'm guessing it's an ownership thing and means nothing, but would love the opinion of anyone who is familiar with scorpio male behaviour.
Thanks so much!
My ex disappeared almost 2 months ago without actually ending us and has now posted a profile on a dating site so I assume he's looking for a new relationship. I have posted about it on here before. I stopped all attempts to contact and moved on with my life.
My question is this... He watches my facebook profile more than anyone else. Any idea what this means? I'm guessing it's an ownership thing and means nothing, but would love the opinion of anyone who is familiar with scorpio male behaviour.
Thanks so much!
He is snooping and investigate.
Thanks M143.. any idea what the purpose is? Is it just to see what I'm doing and means nothing, do you think? I know that nobody would know for certain of course, but I do appreciate your opinion.
Being an Aries/Pisces cusp and tend to think once it's over, it's over so I'm not used to this sort of behaviour.
Being an Aries/Pisces cusp and tend to think once it's over, it's over so I'm not used to this sort of behaviour.
How can you tell he is watching your fb profile?
Through a friend of his. Let's just say he watches me a lot. I just don't understand what the point to that would be.
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Because they're crazy as fuck and need to spy/snoop on you.
LOL
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I've seen the same behavior with my Lib/Scorp cusper ex with Scorp Venus.
Not gonna lie, all the behavior is just fucking strange. I just pawn it off on internal issues and say to hell with it. They're the ones that have to suffer with such tendencies, not you.
I know it's mind boggling though. I'm also a Pisces/Aries cusper and we're just far too curious as to WHY people do the shit that they do. It's easy to think it's residual interest of sorts, but it all boils down to that fixed crap that makes these people crazy and then the fact that they tend to be emotionally retarded and possessive.
Not gonna lie, all the behavior is just fucking strange. I just pawn it off on internal issues and say to hell with it. They're the ones that have to suffer with such tendencies, not you.
I know it's mind boggling though. I'm also a Pisces/Aries cusper and we're just far too curious as to WHY people do the shit that they do. It's easy to think it's residual interest of sorts, but it all boils down to that fixed crap that makes these people crazy and then the fact that they tend to be emotionally retarded and possessive.
The kind of person who'd be scumbag enough to end a relationship improperly would also be the kind of person who'd be likely to snoop passive-aggressively behind closed doors.
He doesn't wanna be with you anymore, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either. He's checking your page to see if you've moved on. And if he starts seeing signs that you have moved on, he'll swoop back in with the wind & try to reclaim you.
He's wanting to make sure that you can still be his Plan B in the event that all other new relationships he starts don't work out. He wants to see if you're at home sobbing over him. He wants to know what your mindstate is (b/c a lot of people use Facebook as a diary lol) so that if he does come back to you, he'll already know what he's working with.
If you don't want him having the satisfaction of knowing what you're up to then change your privacy settings toward that specific friend (who he's watching you through) so that while they're still technically friends with you on Facebook, they won't be able to see anything new that you post. i.e. give them the "limited profile" status through your settings.
After a while, your ex will be like wait a minute, why hasn't she posted a status in 10 years? lol
He doesn't wanna be with you anymore, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either. He's checking your page to see if you've moved on. And if he starts seeing signs that you have moved on, he'll swoop back in with the wind & try to reclaim you.
He's wanting to make sure that you can still be his Plan B in the event that all other new relationships he starts don't work out. He wants to see if you're at home sobbing over him. He wants to know what your mindstate is (b/c a lot of people use Facebook as a diary lol) so that if he does come back to you, he'll already know what he's working with.
If you don't want him having the satisfaction of knowing what you're up to then change your privacy settings toward that specific friend (who he's watching you through) so that while they're still technically friends with you on Facebook, they won't be able to see anything new that you post. i.e. give them the "limited profile" status through your settings.
After a while, your ex will be like wait a minute, why hasn't she posted a status in 10 years? lol
Posted by beautifulmountain
Hi All,
My ex disappeared almost 2 months ago without actually ending us and has now posted a profile on a dating site so I assume he's looking for a new relationship. I have posted about it on here before. I stopped all attempts to contact and moved on with my life.
My question is this... He watches my facebook profile more than anyone else. Any idea what this means? I'm guessing it's an ownership thing and means nothing, but would love the opinion of anyone who is familiar with scorpio male behaviour.
Thanks so much!
Oh c'mon now...if you stopped all attempts to contact and moved on you'd have him blocked and not wondering why the hell he's gawking at your sheepbook.
Newsflash..(just in case you missed it from him) If he disappeared two months ago..it's OVER. Walk the talk and MOVE ON!
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Posted by krysrenee7
The kind of person who'd be scumbag enough to end a relationship improperly would also be the kind of person who'd be likely to snoop passive-aggressively behind closed doors.
He doesn't wanna be with you anymore, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either. He's checking your page to see if you've moved on. And if he starts seeing signs that you have moved on, he'll swoop back in with the wind & try to reclaim you.
He's wanting to make sure that you can still be his Plan B in the event that all other new relationships he starts don't work out. He wants to see if you're at home sobbing over him. He wants to know what your mindstate is (b/c a lot of people use Facebook as a diary lol) so that if he does come back to you, he'll already know what he's working with.
If you don't want him having the satisfaction of knowing what you're up to then change your privacy settings toward that specific friend (who he's watching you through) so that while they're still technically friends with you on Facebook, they won't be able to see anything new that you post. i.e. give them the "limited profile" status through your settings.
After a while, your ex will be like wait a minute, why hasn't she posted a status in 10 years? lol
This.
LetitB, I have stopped all contact and moved on and I think that's why he's suddenly so interested to be honest. There's no rule that says I have to block him. He's not actually added to my friends list. We were together a long time and of course I still I miss him now and then. But I've heard about how scorps like him can come back and I guess I wanted to be prepared for it (and not fall for his tricks again). I'm just curious about his motivation. I agree with krysrenee7, this does sound like something he would do. There was a lot of him pulling me back in during the relationship when I looked like I was tired of his distancing.
As usual, you guys are fantastic. Thanks for your insight and your time.
Hugs xx
As usual, you guys are fantastic. Thanks for your insight and your time.
Hugs xx
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