sending Pics

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by bkbella86 on Wednesday, May 15, 2013 and has 16 replies.
Whats your stance on it? DO you mind sending pics to people you dont know or just met? Whats the point of it if you have already have seen the person? I have always felt a bit weird about it.
ok I just met this dude and in person and he is asking me for pics..I told him I dont send pics to strangers....and that was the end of our convo. I personally feel that if a dude just meets you and is asking for pics he is already putting a sexual connotation on things....what if I just wanted a friend? now if its my man than ill send away because I will trust him...but some random character? I can never feel comfy with that.
I imagine these days that guys have got stacks of pics of their conquests...bet they even show them off to their mates!
Why would you trust a total stranger? Why would you even be that desperate? Those questions aren't directed at you...just the way I think..
naked/naughty or normal... if i dont know a person, lol, im not sure why i'm texting them.
a friend i had yeeeeaaars ago that liked me (perhaps still has a thing for me?) just dug my number up a couple days ago and said hi. i sent a hi back and he blew my phone up that night asking if i was single and where i was living, send pics. lol whatever guy. it didnt work for you back when... it's still not gonna work.
so even if it's someone i know and am not interested in, or even mildly interested in, the whole sending pics thing i think is stupid and sends me a message i dont like... something like you are really bored with your life or you are boring and are trying to find cheap excitement in me. no thanks. get lost.
it is actually kind of a turn off. you want a pic? seduce me successfully and take one yourself.
Posted by sweethearts
I imagine these days that guys have got stacks of pics of their conquests...bet they even show them off to their mates!
Why would you trust a total stranger? Why would you even be that desperate? Those questions aren't directed at you...just the way I think..


thats how I think! its just weird to me....and where i live thses girls are desperate...they dont even need to send pics because they expose themselves so much on instagram.
Posted by xygeneration
Naked/naughty ones?


lol who knows what he meant...but when I called him a stranger all convo seized. Weeding them suckers out!
Posted by sewdope
I think it's very weird. Guys have asked me the same after meeting me in person. I just decline and tell them they can take me out if they want to see me again.


lol def have said this in the past to some dudes
Posted by feby16aqua
Hi Bella. I wouldn't send them to someone you don't know that well / have slight reason, even a small one, to mistrust.




seems like the general consensus here is no pics to strangers....but people do it so casually where im from even my girfriends....I remember years ago I ws with my gf and I was being asked to send a pic and I asked her the same question im asking you guys and she told me i was being uptight.
Posted by CreepyPants
naked/naughty or normal... if i dont know a person, lol, im not sure why i'm texting them.
a friend i had yeeeeaaars ago that liked me (perhaps still has a thing for me?) just dug my number up a couple days ago and said hi. i sent a hi back and he blew my phone up that night asking if i was single and where i was living, send pics. lol whatever guy. it didnt work for you back when... it's still not gonna work.
so even if it's someone i know and am not interested in, or even mildly interested in, the whole sending pics thing i think is stupid and sends me a message i dont like... something like you are really bored with your life or you are boring and are trying to find cheap excitement in me. no thanks. get lost.
it is actually kind of a turn off. you want a pic? seduce me successfully and take one yourself.


exactly!!! makes me feel objectified.
Posted by ninjutsu
Ex did this a while ago... I hadn't heard from him in a year or something, then he just asks that and that's all. I sent him an old pic of us both


lmao good one
Posted by Ligeia
Posted by bkbella86
Whats your stance on it? DO you mind sending pics to people you dont know or just met? Whats the point of it if you have already have seen the person? I have always felt a bit weird about it.


lol answer seems simple to me. Dude wants to beat
his meat to your image. If you're not readily around
or dating a pic will do. Was he asking for unclothed
pics? If I was him I wouldn't ask for a pic I would
just tell you to bring that gorgeous ass around my
way lol Tongue Can't blame the guy though you're a pretty
chica.

I have sent pics in the past. But I was very selective
of who I sent pics to and they would have to give up
the goods first.
click to expand



lmfao...with all this porn on the internet dudes are beating their meat to facepics?

Posted by Ligeia
Posted by bkbella86
Whats your stance on it? DO you mind sending pics to people you dont know or just met? Whats the point of it if you have already have seen the person? I have always felt a bit weird about it.


lol answer seems simple to me. Dude wants to beat
his meat to your image. If you're not readily around
or dating a pic will do. Was he asking for unclothed
pics? If I was him I wouldn't ask for a pic I would
just tell you to bring that gorgeous ass around my
way lol Tongue Can't blame the guy though you're a pretty
chica.

I have sent pics in the past. But I was very selective
of who I sent pics to and they would have to give up
the goods first.
click to expand


thanx chica smile
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Lemme see dat ass woman!


I wasnt gonna tell anyone it was you phv
Posted by s4nd
once i beat it to a hip bone. when the vag came after i beat it i wasn't interested anymore. 5 minutes later i beat it to the vag pic. :p


lmao...i cant w/ u...a hip bone?
Lmao @ stinger baby....it seems really thirsty to me....and so many guys do it now a days.
Posted by Stinger Baby
^ dont they? and it makes no sense. i see where the world's priorities are heading. and they wonder why we're taking over. cos we can at least focus on other things than what's in our pants...


Seriously but I don't blame them too much either because there is a gang of thirsty attention whoring females on the loose, as well. Hope they all find each other.

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